internationalman:


If that's the case can't him tell his wife to help him cum first with a Mouth Action...

The man probably can't get his dîck up or can't sustain it for long when it's up without porn..

That's what too much of porn consumption does to the brain

Exactly

Onyiiobi7735:
The destruction porn causes in marriages and relationships is terrible. And the spirit behind it is very powerful indeed.
Pornography is a form of worship to Beelzebub and Ashtaroth in this Jet age.In ancient times,these mighty Dark Angels were worshipped through temple prostitution,sex cults.

Comedian

brosom:
look at who's talking, and u simply don't know a thing about marriage and More the lady didn't talk about any other problem other than her husband sexual behavior which is weird and heartbroken.

Do u think if it was not of concern she would sick for help in an puplic forum? I'm not sure u re married, but when u do, only then you'll understand the impact of sex in marriage.

Just so u don't know, sex life in marriage contributes 70% to 80% of successful marriages u are seeing today because it goes beyond bond.


So shut up and learn.!

Sex that probably happens once in a blue moon? You don't know what you're saying

brosom:
Marriage dey ooo


Meanwhile, you could have noticed all this while u re still courting, this are one of the reasons why I don't buy no sex till after marriage because u don't know what parkage u you'll unrap after delivery.

That's the problem bro.

We can learn to help our partner if only we have an open mind and listen to them. Lovingly found out from him reason behind his action, he may be doing that just last longer with you on the bed. Most men last longer in sex after masturbating few hours or a day before sex.
If you are not Ok with this, let him know you both can do it together, after the first round which may not last as required, help him get erection faster for the second. When there is understanding most issues in marriage can be handled without quarrels and letting an outsider know what is going on.

Good luck!

Kelvin30286063:
Weird? It's not weird but it's wrong. Some guys will know why it's not weird. He simply wants to get rid of that first quick ejaculation so he can last longer.

Correct guy

Cool guy....

macanakii:


Smiles... I did not come to NL to argue, and there's no need to explain to you whether I'm married or not. So I will shut up as you've said.

Just one request from you, Can you pls link me to the publication of the research you did that gave you the 70-80% you mentioned ?

The man is tired of her he's doing that to put himself in the mood

Onyiiobi7735:

And you really are affected by what I typed?
Pathetic sentimental fools everywhere. Lol!

Look at someone that believes in God how heshe is insulting everybody around. Jesus have mercy!!!

This is really not a serious problem. Most guys cum so soon every first round of sex. But the second round is always better. The guy is a shy guy who doesn't want his wife to see him as a one minute man that's why he always run to the toilet to discharge the first shot.

Amb1045:
I got this rather weird message to my inbox. This lady wrote in from Abuja. She is in her late 20's, gainfully employed and had been married for 6 months to a Successful Engineer. She noticed an unusual thing about the husband. They would smooch and all, pre-intimacy and all the works, she would be 'ready' if you know what I mean and he would just excuse himself to urinate. He wools be there for like 10mins before rejoining her to make out.

This had been happening for months and she thought that was odd. So on this fateful day, she tiptoed to find out what he always did in the Bathroom and luckily he didn't lock the door like other days and to her shock she caught him masturbaring to a porn video. She was reallt angry, shouting and raving and he refused to say anything to his defence till this day. Infact they haven't been talking since that day and it's been 2 months already.

She wants to know what she has to do?

bluebay:
If you can remember very well, First round sex doesn’t last at all. It’s from the second round that does last so maybe he doesn’t want to look lazy to you. He gave the first round to the toilet then wants yiu to enjoy the longer round .

Exactly. Thats the right answer

I think the man is not emotional attracted to his wife . He has to find a way over the feeling by masturbating first .They both can be open , talk about their sexual expensive to each other . The problem can be from either of them.

bluebay:
If you can remember very well, First round sex doesn’t last at all. It’s from the second round that does last so maybe he doesn’t want to look lazy to you. He gave the first round to the toilet then wants yiu to enjoy the longer round .

U are on point!!!

arantess:

His wife as side chick?

Yeah it is possible

bluebay:
If you can remember very well, First round sex doesn’t last at all. It’s from the second round that does last so maybe he doesn’t want to look lazy to you. He gave the first round to the toilet then wants yiu to enjoy the longer round .

I think this is just the case. If he has reasonable erection while having the plays before the real thing. So, he's just trying to buy time so as to give the wife a longer minutes and not to be selfish. If it was that he does not get enough erection during the plays, then I will say he's trying to come hard using the porn masturbation method.

ityP:



Sex that probably happens once in a blue moon? You don't know what you're saying

neither do u!

MufasaLion:


You really believe in this trash you typed? Pathetic!

What makes you think it's trash? Do you know the depth of porn addiction and its severity? Do you know the damage it does to your masculinity and overall wellbeing?
Because so-called sex experts said there is no problem with porn doesn't make it true. Nobody, I mean, nobody finishes masturbating to porn and feel exhilarated.

Like how you get a good fvck and feel like a king, ready to take on the world, you jack off porn with utter resentment and disgust , deflated egos, withdrawn from the world . and these happen to everyone to different degrees.

The govt allows porn if they want to weaken their population, that's for a reason. The Chinese refuses it military from using porn, that's also for a reason.

Wahala

Amb1045:
I got this rather weird message to my inbox. This lady wrote in from Abuja. She is in her late 20's, gainfully employed and had been married for 6 months to a Successful Engineer. She noticed an unusual thing about the husband. They would smooch and all, pre-intimacy and all the works, she would be 'ready' if you know what I mean and he would just excuse himself to urinate. He wools be there for like 10mins before rejoining her to make out.

This had been happening for months and she thought that was odd. So on this fateful day, she tiptoed to find out what he always did in the Bathroom and luckily he didn't lock the door like other days and to her shock she caught him masturbaring to a porn video. She was reallt angry, shouting and raving and he refused to say anything to his defence till this day. Infact they haven't been talking since that day and it's been 2 months already.

She wants to know what she has to do?

I do this as well but not to a porn video....ask the woman,does her husband take long to ejaculate or not....most guys who practise the above act takes long to ejaculate,some don't even ejaculate.It one of the natural way to inhibit/cure premature ejaculation.Your 1st round with a life female is actually your 2nd round...only guys will get the above explanation sha

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Onyiiobi7735:
The destruction porn causes in marriages and relationships is terrible. And the spirit behind it is very powerful indeed.
Pornography is a form of worship to Beelzebub and Ashtaroth in this Jet age.In ancient times,these mighty Dark Angels were worshipped through temple prostitution,sex cults.

Will you keep kwayet!

bluebay:
If you can remember very well, First round sex doesn’t last at all. It’s from the second round that does last so maybe he doesn’t want to look lazy to you. He gave the first round to the toilet then wants yiu to enjoy the longer round .

What's wrong with doing the first round with her?

Kilotat:
And bringing the Issue here will solve the problem?

IN THE FIRST PLACE YOU DID NOT HAVE TO MAKE A COMMENT AND TWO EVERYONE NEEDS EXTERNAL OPINION EVERY NOW AND THEN.

AJohnnasa:


What's wrong with doing the first round with her?

It will make him feel weak....have you seen the disappoint on a lady's face when you cum when you aren't supposed to before

Kobicove:
The husband no longer finds the lady attractive that's probably why he needs something else to get him started

On point comrade .

Onyiiobi7735:

I used to think you are mentally sound when I read your comments on topics on this forum, but today you proved me wrong.
Only a mentally deranged psycho would start ranting over someone's comment not involving him,just because it doesn't agree with the psycho's belief. And you just proved yourself to be a madman. Until one goes on social media, he or she would never realise so many lunatics in dire need of mental evaluation or better still chain and padlock, abound in thousands in this nation.

I

Mehn you just proved MufasaLion right.. You're really pathetic. He just dropped about two sentences for you and you have been ranting like the rabid dog you claimed he was.
Don't even bother mentioning me cuz I won't even bother replying your pathetic ass

drimzsmoke:


It will make him feel weak....have you seen the disappoint on a lady's face when you cum when you aren't supposed to before

That's not an excuse. It's his wife, why not discuss that with her? Plus, extended pre-intimacy before penetration can help the woman, if he feels he will always fall short during intercourse.

Onyiiobi7735:

I used to think you are mentally sound when I read your comments on topics on this forum, but today you proved me wrong.
Only a mentally deranged psycho would start ranting over someone's comment not involving him,just because it doesn't agree with the psycho's belief. And you just proved yourself to be a madman. Until one goes on social media, he or she would never realise so many lunatics in dire need of mental evaluation or better still chain and padlock, abound in thousands in this nation.

I

Seems u are the one having serious issues. Sm1 replied u once simply disagreeing with ur unproven and far fetched assumptions and beliefs from Ancient Greek mythology, nothing biblically there and u replied the gentleman with 3 different quotes full of insults like a rabid dog and yet profess to be a Christian?? U must be a psychopath not a Christian.

Baba like porn finish no doubt. Let's wait for the elders to conclude.

It may be one of these 2,;

1: She's not attractive to him
2: He's trying to jack off to prevent pregnancy

brosom:
You won't still believe it if I refer u,
But use ur tongue to count ur teeth and tell me the number.

What is this one even saying

Nothing wey I no go read for news