Amb1045:
I got this rather weird message to my inbox. This lady wrote in from Abuja. She is in her late 20's, gainfully employed and had been married for 6 months to a Successful Engineer. She noticed an unusual thing about the husband. They would smooch and all, pre-intimacy and all the works, she would be 'ready' if you know what I mean and he would just excuse himself to urinate. He wools be there for like 10mins before rejoining her to make out.

This had been happening for months and she thought that was odd. So on this fateful day, she tiptoed to find out what he always did in the Bathroom and luckily he didn't lock the door like other days and to her shock she caught him masturbaring to a porn video. She was reallt angry, shouting and raving and he refused to say anything to his defence till this day. Infact they haven't been talking since that day and it's been 2 months already.

She wants to know what she has to do?

Who Your Husband Help? Like Husband Like Wife

AJohnnasa:


After reading your epistle, I can safely conclude that most men are the cause of their problem(s). Plus, if you last less than 3 minutes in your first round of sex, that's on you.

....it's abnormal,right

Flier:
As a man There is no way you can last longer in bed if you have not been having sex for a very long time,the guy is just using the style as a short cut,with time he will adapt so I don’t think he need any help

So how exactly have our fathers, grandfathers and great grand fathers been doing it?

There are men who last long in bed without doing this nasty stuff or using anything.

AJohnnasa:


Will you keep kwayet!

The problem is a lot of Men never want to believe they have a problem even when it is obvious they do, rather than ask for help, they try to see it as natural.

See guys in the comment section saying, it’s normal for guys to masturbate to porn before having sex with their wives so they can last longer, really?
Na so una turn yourselves to medical practitioners overnight

May be she is not so sexy physically or he doesn't find her sexy.

brosom:
Marriage dey ooo


Meanwhile, you could have noticed all this while u re still courting, this are one of the reasons why I don't buy no sex till after marriage because u don't know what parkage u you'll unrap after delivery.

To be frank with you, you will not know. Na the one dem wan make you know, na em you go know.

ModelLook:
May be she is not so sexy physically or he doesn't find her sexy.

So why marry her then?

Kelvin30286063:
Weird? It's not weird but it's wrong. Some guys will know why it's not weird. He simply wants to get rid of that first quick ejaculation so he can last longer.

Oga, you sabi wetin dey.

bluebay:
If you can remember very well, First round sex doesn’t last at all. It’s from the second round that does last so maybe he doesn’t want to look lazy to you. He gave the first round to the toilet then wants yiu to enjoy the longer round .

Gbam

Libron:
i think thats the reasons cos i see no reason he had to do that before sex

I think so too, and why he has been silence about it is because she wont understand even if he explains to her


Wahala no dey finish

BRO THIS IS THE REASON FOR HIS MASTURBATION,
HE DOES NOT WANT TO DISAPPOINT HIS WIFE

bluebay:
If you can remember very well, First round sex doesn’t last at all. It’s from the second round that does last so maybe he doesn’t want to look lazy to you. He gave the first round to the toilet then wants yiu to enjoy the longer round .

Simran94:


So why marry her then?

Same question I ask too.

Simran94:


So how exactly have our fathers, grandfathers and great grand fathers been doing it?

There are men who last long in bed without doing this nasty stuff or using anything.

everybody's sexual life is different....the only problem I see here is that, they never discussed their sexual lives while they were dating.......the lady does not know that her guy watches porn talk more or masturbation.....I an sure they were doing the righteous way of dating......there are so many things they dont know about themselves yet, they need to have a serious discussion for them to understand themselves

bluebay:
If you can remember very well, First round sex doesn’t last at all. It’s from the second round that does last so maybe he doesn’t want to look lazy to you. He gave the first round to the toilet then wants yiu to enjoy the longer round .

Why does this half truth have over 200 likes?

Are we promoting a lie or am I different??

True, we last longer at the second round, but that doesn't mean we can't masturbate before time for sex, and we don't consistently need porn for that; or need do it always.

Stop pushing this lie.

That guy has a hideous agenda. It has nothing to do with lasting long in bed!

Simran94:


So how exactly have our fathers, grandfathers and great grand fathers been doing it?

There are men who last long in bed without doing this nasty stuff or using anything.

Our parent don’t have high body count like our generation so most of them don’t even know if there is something like premature ejaculation
They are satisfied even if you take just 2 min,but with time the 2 minutes will increase to 2 hours
It’s just sad that ladies of this days have no endurance in their diction

The problem with the husband is he is so addited to porn to an extent he can't have a feeling to his wife accept he masturbate is a psychology issue nothing more than that and you as the wife always try to look sexy in front of him

UltraSphinx:


This is very true.
What could be done to reverse this though?

Stop watching porn for a very long time and watch everything reversed..

Porn is the problem most times not masturbation

Goldbw122:
He doesn't want you to get pregnant.. may be he has another wife and kids somewhere else and he just want to keep you as a side chick. Sorry.

Seriously?
Trash of the century from your trash mouth,put this trash you just typed in your hand and smell it urself if it's sensible to you?
Brainless and thoughtless comment ozwo

zedman1:
One thing that really baffles me is why overly religous folks become so arrogant and insulting once you choose not to believe in what they believe. With all these your words, will I, a supposed 'lost soul' be encouraged to be or sound like you bro? Is this supposed to be the way? Your way? The right way?

And why is it that stupid people won't mind their business?

jaxxy:


Seems u are the one having serious issues. Sm1 replied u once simply disagreeing with ur unproven and far fetched assumptions and beliefs from Ancient Greek mythology, nothing biblically there and u replied the gentleman with 3 different quotes full of insults like a rabid dog and yet profess to be a Christian?? U must be a psychopath not a Christian.

And you must be a compound complex sentimental fool. Another frustrated mad dog ranting.

shawante:

Mehn you just proved MufasaLion right.. You're really pathetic. He just dropped about two sentences for you and you have been ranting like the rabid dog you claimed he was.
Don't even bother mentioning me cuz I won't even bother replying your pathetic ass

Menh you proved to be another rabid animal.You are really a pathetic sentiment fool for involving in what doesn't concern you.I didn't talk to you and you are already attacking like the rabid,mad animal you're.
You are so pathetic, sounding like a broken record.

AJohnnasa:

Will you keep kwayet!

And will you keep ranting like a madman?

Feggie3:

Look at someone that believes in God how heshe is insulting everybody around. Jesus have mercy!!!

Lo! You can cry from now till next year.

Make yourself attractive like a porn star and all will be well

Amb1045:
I got this rather weird message to my inbox. This lady wrote in from Abuja. She is in her late 20's, gainfully employed and had been married for 6 months to a Successful Engineer. She noticed an unusual thing about the husband. They would smooch and all, pre-intimacy and all the works, she would be 'ready' if you know what I mean and he would just excuse himself to urinate. He wools be there for like 10mins before rejoining her to make out.

This had been happening for months and she thought that was odd. So on this fateful day, she tiptoed to find out what he always did in the Bathroom and luckily he didn't lock the door like other days and to her shock she caught him masturbaring to a porn video. She was reallt angry, shouting and raving and he refused to say anything to his defence till this day. Infact they haven't been talking since that day and it's been 2 months already.

She wants to know what she has to do?

bluebay:
If you can remember very well, First round sex doesn’t last at all. It’s from the second round that does last so maybe he doesn’t want to look lazy to you. He gave the first round to the toilet then wants yiu to enjoy the longer round .

Flesh and blood did not reveal this to you.

Amb1045:
I got this rather weird message to my inbox. This lady wrote in from Abuja. She is in her late 20's, gainfully employed and had been married for 6 months to a Successful Engineer. She noticed an unusual thing about the husband. They would smooch and all, pre-intimacy and all the works, she would be 'ready' if you know what I mean and he would just excuse himself to urinate. He wools be there for like 10mins before rejoining her to make out.

This had been happening for months and she thought that was odd. So on this fateful day, she tiptoed to find out what he always did in the Bathroom and luckily he didn't lock the door like other days and to her shock she caught him masturbaring to a porn video. She was reallt angry, shouting and raving and he refused to say anything to his defence till this day. Infact they haven't been talking since that day and it's been 2 months already.

She wants to know what she has to do?

look more sexy can help and also reduce the sex frequency. make ur man feel like a man and reduce level of nagging it affects the wood

Amb1045:
I got this rather weird message to my inbox. This lady wrote in from Abuja. She is in her late 20's, gainfully employed and had been married for 6 months to a Successful Engineer. She noticed an unusual thing about the husband. They would smooch and all, pre-intimacy and all the works, she would be 'ready' if you know what I mean and he would just excuse himself to urinate. He wools be there for like 10mins before rejoining her to make out.

This had been happening for months and she thought that was odd. So on this fateful day, she tiptoed to find out what he always did in the Bathroom and luckily he didn't lock the door like other days and to her shock she caught him masturbaring to a porn video. She was reallt angry, shouting and raving and he refused to say anything to his defence till this day. Infact they haven't been talking since that day and it's been 2 months already.

She wants to know what she has to do?

Here are the possible reasons :

1) she does not arouse her husband anymore ;
) The husband believes ejaculating via maturation would make him last longer in bed.

It's something they can talk about if they're open to each other.

brosom:
look at who's talking, and u simply don't know a thing about marriage and More the lady didn't talk about any other problem other than her husband sexual behavior which is weird and heartbroken.

Do u think if it was not of concern she would sick for help in an puplic forum? I'm not sure u re married, but when u do, only then you'll understand the impact of sex in marriage.

Just so u don't know, sex life in marriage contributes 70% to 80% of successful marriages u are seeing today because it goes beyond bond.


So shut up and learn.!

Is sex food? Not everybody is crazy about sex in marriage. There are ladies who don’t like sex, won’t they marry??

If sex contributes 70/80% of ur marriage ur are not married ur are in a legal porn institution. Enjoy.

Na only sex u come do for this world.

internationalman:


If that's the case can't him tell his wife to help him cum first with a Mouth Action...

The man probably can't get his dîck up or can't sustain it for long when it's up without porn..

That's what too much of porn consumption does to the brain

Most likely true.

Very possible that, it is one of those ‘no sex till marriage’ stuff and bros has been using porn to take care of himself.

Now comes the wife, that can’t or don’t know how to push the right buttons at the right time and sequence to start his engine, maybe she is the church type that is not too skilled in that department.

So the husband defaults to want he knows work to kick start his engines before going back to the bed to service ready & waiting madam.

Best solution, will be for the wife to suggest they both watch the porn together on the bed and as time goes on, the wife can learn where the husband’s ignition buttons are hidden and start learning how to sequentially push them herself to start his engine….as this continue, the reliance on porn to start his engine will diminish with time.

bluebay:
If you can remember very well, First round sex doesn’t last at all. It’s from the second round that does last so maybe he doesn’t want to look lazy to you. He gave the first round to the toilet then wants yiu to enjoy the longer round .

Exactly �

bigtt76:
Make yourself attractive like a porn star and all will be well

werey