I have no plans to get married am tired of being heartbrokened getting hurt at the end my plan B is to make money. The only thing better than MONEY is MORE MONEY.

PeaceJoyLove:

It seems we do not know what is in front of Nigeria. I have been trying my best to educate people. If just 50% of females of the Nigerian population have 3 children alone not to talk of this usual 4 children, hell will be loosed on Nigeria in the next 30 years.



Polygamous comes with many disadvantages. The inability to control oneself and slavery to sex is what we are seeing. Those old people are bad influence. Those obas are terrible in this aspect. I dont have regard for any of them.

Let's not see what is beyond covid 19. Na beg a dey beg una.

Coming from someone who criticised me for predicting the same, isn't this bare-faced and blatant hypocrisy?

Dawn91:


Nice. May I send you a DM?

Yes

Gerrard59:


[s]Coming from someone who criticised me for predicting the same, isn't this bare-faced and blatant hypocrisy? [/s]

Your problem is that you mix issues up. The relevance of what you posted and this is what exactly? We are talking about explosive population here, you are talking about travelling out. Where is the correlation? Or you just want to tackle me? So, you have been followijg me around since that time? Guy, me a don leave you behind in that thread oooo. Guy, move on.... you have so much to achieve na. Na me you dey follow around? Chai!!!

Nyascobar1414:


lol... If I wanna raise kids it ain't gonn' exceed 4 children...
So stop expressing your depreciated self...

From your write up.. You were not brought up well...
Maybe singlemotherhood shii...

flavnwokem:
Kids and insults ...just make your points ,must you abuse and insult ....I forgot you saw the 4 walls of a university ......is a shame.

Chai! Peni.s is wow!!!

See how men are showing their stupidity on this thread.

To think I live in the same nation with these sex gluttons is so annoying. Sex na food? Or are you all cursed with sex? Sex sex sex? Dem curse you?

Na fufu go dey the brains of these ones oooo. But to sex....dem be "yompions" (champs).

Wow!!!!

By the way, how many inches long are your things? And what the diameter? A wan know sef? Those things wey no pass 2.5in when erected and the diameter of HB pencil.

Make a knock your heads....see as you come out below after receiving sense reformatting knocks on your heads..lol

PastorMIsBack:
I always wanted to be married. It can be very lonely here in the UK. In Nigeria, there's a sense of belonging where people visit each other unannounced.

People die in their flats here for over a week before anyone notices - and that's because of the stench.

We marry here for companionship, if nothing else.

When I was single, on Christmas day, I would be listening to laughter and singing from the neighbours and used to go to bed by 8p.m, wishing Christmas to be over. Now, I have a household full.

Wow!! My cousin has also opined same position as stressed by you. He said life in UK can be very boring and lonely. And Nigerians, most especially ladies often find it difficult mingling or having relationship that will snowball to marriage.

mrksquare:




Wow!! My cousin has also opined same position as stressed by you. He said life in UK can be very boring and lonely. And Nigerians, most especially ladies often find it difficult mingling or having relationship that will snowball to marriage.

I agree. I travelled to Ghana. Married him and brought him back

handsomeyitayo:
it means people don't visit each other in UK.....or most people there isolate themselves, bit please can you elucidate me on that...

In Nigeria ...we are more of cohabitating .. mingling..neighbours visiting...but why UK is like that

It's just the culture over here.

A friend's mum came over to visit. In the evenings the mama would go for a walk and be saying, "hello, hello" to people. She complained to her daughter that people looked at her weirdly and never said hello back.

The mama said she's returning to Nigeria

Adakintroy:


Oga calm down. With your heaven. Sometimes you de make urself look rediculouse. We know there is heaven as christain. But we also know there is earth here. If you God no want make we live for earth him for no bring us here. Today you don eath sleep and shiit, were clothes. You probably don fuckkk well we'll this months. So let others do same. Stop with the hypocristism. Jesus himself eat shiit and wear clothes. So do ceaser own give am first. reality is part of spirituality. Invisibles were made know by the visibles.
.Teach people first how to love and be their brothers keeper. That's heaven enough. As a matter of fact the heaven is a consequence of such act. Right act. Bring peace, peace brings joy and that's the kingdom. And we're is that? Within you


Note! people make heaven by having children and getting married. Because the right children brings joy and introduce us to meaningfull sacrifice. I don't think you understand the question very much. That's why your answers are questionable.

Please tell him. This Righteousness fellow does not have a single idea as to the purpose God created man. God created the earth and gave man the earth to populate it and tend it as his habitation, from where man can then have communion with God daily as it was with Adam. Sadly, that habitation was lost.

However, Jesus Christ came to die for us so that through his death and resurrection, we can be restored back unto our original status with God. If God meant for all of us to come to heaven and leave the earth to die off, why were we not all raptured immediately we got born again?

Christ is coming back to rule the earth for 1000 years according to the book of revelation, after the 7-year tribulation and the anti-Christ are gone. Who will be on this restored earth during this reign? Is it not the saints?

How can God impact human beings on earth to serve Him? One way is for a man and woman who are both saved to marry, have kids within the context of marriage and train the children in the ways of the Lord so that when they grow, they will impact the world around them with Godly values and not become evil people spreading evil everywhere. The devil knows this and that is why he has scattered this plan with people just having sex anyhow and becoming baby mamas and baby papas everywhere.

Those children who are orphaned and abandoned: who will teach them the ways of the Lord except Christians go in and adopt them and ensure they turn out right and not become street kids?

I maintain it: Christians like this Righteousness guy have ZERO idea about the plan of God for us. He thinks it is all about rapture (which if you read Revelations 12-15, will not occur until well into the tribulation and the mark of the beast has already been rolled out). He lacks wisdom and empathy. I meet Christians like him all the time and they are causing a lot of damage with their arrogance and lack of empathy.

Howz your relationship life like?. With ladies I mean.. I would love to hear your experiences sir

Righteousness2:
Do not let all these things on Earth Confuse you .
Do not worry over them or make anxiety and fears overwhelm you because of them.

Nobody makes Eternal life in Heaven because he/she is married.
Nobody makes Heaven because he/she has children.

All these things are gifts from GOD. You don't need to struggle, worry or kill yourself for a Gift. It is Given.

Pursue what is relevant and what really Matters. What really Matters is the Genuie Salvation of your soul. This alone is what matters. This alone is what you should Do all you can to have. It is only possible through JESUS Christ.

TheABOMINATION:


It is not fornication if I take responsibility for the woman I sleep with. And I am not throwing her out if she fails to get pregnant, instead we go for advanced technological solution.

Why making it a compulsion to get preggy b4 marriage then?

Stargurl20:

Why making it a compulsion to get preggy b4 marriage then?

It's because I am all for marrying more than one wife, and the first woman to give birth to a child for me will be my first wife.

safarigirl:


You can send me an email via Nairaland

My PM is not working , kindly send me your number in a dead thread please

safarigirl:
More and more, I grow wary of the male population. I do not think I will find anyone to marry me, or someone I will even be comfortable enough to marry.

Everytime I meet someone I think I can be comfortable with, the ugly head of genotype rises.

So, yeah, I might just find a sperm donor and give birth to a kid eventually, or adopt if I can. I'm making peace with the fact that marriage may never happen for me.

too early to think like that

Awkabigboy:

My PM is not working , kindly send me your number in a dead thread please

Post your email and I'll send it to you

You can modify the post consequently

Minjim:
I know we all have the fairy tale dream of meeting the love of our life, falling madly in love, getting married and having kids. Some have even visualised the number of kids - two boys and two girls.

However, we must all face the hash reality that not everyone will get married or even have kids.
As such everyone of us must have a backup plan.

My plan has always been to adopt a child even if I get married , because obviously I'll be marrying in my 40's. So whether I have a child later or not I planned to adopt an older child like 8-10 years old.

So what about you, any plan B?

why the need to adopt and it is not cheap and easy this days,why not get a nice guy to load your belly,it will be far better

Twoclans:


Are we not knacking partners already

Are we? Implication!

safarigirl:
More and more, I grow wary of the male population. I do not think I will find anyone to marry me, or someone I will even be comfortable enough to marry.

Everytime I meet someone I think I can be comfortable with, the ugly head of genotype rises.

So, yeah, I might just find a sperm donor and give birth to a kid eventually, or adopt if I can. I'm making peace with the fact that marriage may never happen for me.

Awwwwwwwwww darling. If it's what you want, he will surely come. Amen

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram


Na to FIND 1 ASHAWOO give am BELLE..


LITE UP my WEED in peace

WTF MAN

Indeed guy u be final mad man Lol...

Righteousness2:
Do not let all these things on Earth Confuse you .
Do not worry over them or make anxiety and fears overwhelm you because of them.

Nobody makes Eternal life in Heaven because he/she is married.
Nobody makes Heaven because he/she has children.

All these things are gifts from GOD. You don't need to struggle, worry or kill yourself for a Gift. It is Given.

Pursue what is relevant and what really Matters. What really Matters is the Genuie Salvation of your soul. This alone is what matters. This alone is what you should Do all you can to have. It is only possible through JESUS Christ.

Says a married man with kid.

Why? You people are always out to discourage people from enjoying whatever it is you are.

Was your God lying when he said it is good for a man not to be alone, to cling to his wife? Did he not know that there would still be heaven and Earth while he said so?

Basicend:
If they work or their character and remove all these materialistic and fiary tale ideas from their heads. . Husband will show.

Nigerian girls are too fake.

Nigerian men are the most obsessed people with marriage. They are not complete without a woman and children to carry on their name.

That is why they use it as an insult on a lady who isn't married. Because it's a big deal to them.

Awkabigboy:

Your mother is hurt not me

see frustration.

I will marry Jesus

everythinggirly:
Lol. Not for me tho

Sure am gonna marry you

ImamOfViolence:
na so na. But funny enough some girls go read am and ignore then later then go dey disturb person for shiloh

Girls are the master of mischief...........they snub you and later make regrets in their close doors that they could have just returned your simple gestures.i don't like that creature.

opera1:
If nobody marry me, I will marry someone.

Hahahaha hahaha ������ at the end one person will marry eachother! (Uzordinma 2021).

PeaceJoyLove:

It seems we do not know what is in front of Nigeria. I have been trying my best to educate people. If just 50% of females of the Nigerian population have 3 children alone not to talk of this usual 4 children, hell will be loosed on Nigeria in the next 30 years.

Over population is coming fast. This is why Lagos and PH are dirty. Ha ba. Only in Lagos, we have about 30 million people. Say wetin na?

A beg, dont ever call child adoption in Nigeria plan B. It is the only plan A we need now. Let govt make a law to regulate reproduction. One child per family every 10 years and then adopt. If you want more in the space of 10 years, go and adopt. You cant adopt, wait for 10 years before giving birth to another. You give birth to more than one in space of 10 years, the remaining children apart from the first become persons without nationality. Nigeria will not give the child citizenship. Simple. Everyone will sit right.

So, make we caution ourselves. It is crazy how we take sex in Nigeria. Sex is not food. A beg.

No one cares if you marry or not. And it is time govt stop this rubbish. Govt can implement anything.

Else, world power will depopulate us. If we dont give ourselves brain now, they will depopulate us. And that willl come with a real, big and helpless sorrow. That time, nigerian stubbornness will lead to cremating thousands daily. Those world power know how to do it. So, let us start talking to ourselves now that we can still control it.

Let us start castrating rapists. Also, those useless obas and emirs marrying their daughters should be warned. It is time to get more serious with: one man, one woman. All those men having kids here and then have kids abroad should be checked too. Nigeria should start penalising them.

Polygamous comes with many disadvantages. The inability to control oneself and slavery to sex is what we are seeing. Those old people are bad influence. Those obas are terrible in this aspect. I dont have regard for any of them.

Let's not see what is beyond covid 19. Na beg a dey beg una.

Start from yourself
Please don't give birth
You can assist us by killing yourself to reduce population
Ode oshi!
So as people are giving birth people are not dying?
Just open mouth to spew thrash

Lower your standard, you will all get married

To Join the astronomers In their endless search of the beginning of our planet. Thanks for James Webb Telescope.

Minjim:
I know we all have the fairy tale dream of meeting the love of our life, falling madly in love, getting married and having kids. Some have even visualised the number of kids - two boys and two girls.

However, we must all face the hash reality that not everyone will get married or even have kids.
As such everyone of us must have a backup plan.

My plan has always been to adopt a child even if I get married , because obviously I'll be marrying in my 40's. So whether I have a child later or not I planned to adopt an older child like 8-10 years old.

So what about you, any plan B?

okoroemeka:
why the need to adopt and it is not cheap and easy this days,why not get a nice guy to load your belly,it will be far better

Will you be obliged?

Aroyjunior:

Girls are the master of mischief...........they snub you and later make regrets in their close doors that they could have just returned your simple gestures.i don't like that creature.

especially the ones on naija. Them pretend pass anything