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| 10 Things Women Say When They're Not Into You. by CaroLyner(f): 7:48am On Oct 30, 2015 |
So here are a couple of helpful tips that might show you when a girl is just not so into you. 1.Line:“I’m just not ready for a relationship right now ”What she’s really saying:“I don’t want a relationship with you.”It doesn’t have to be a serious relationship.It’s not like you’re proposing or anything. But if you asked a girl out (or tried to;repeatedly) and she eventually says that she’s not ready for. well.anything right now,that means that she’s just not that into you. When a girl really likes a guy, trust me, she will want to spend every waking moment with that guy. And if it clicks, she will want to spend more and more time with him. 2.Line:“I feel like I should focus on myself more,”or“I feel like I should find myself right now.” What she’s really saying:“I’d rather be single than be with you.”Dont take it personally,it’s just that from her perspective,you’re not compatible. Girls usually know from the second they see you if you’re boyfriend material or not. 15 Likes 9 Shares |
| Re: 10 Things Women Say When They're Not Into You. by CaroLyner(f): 7:50am On Oct 30, 2015 |
3. Line:“I just don’t see you that way.” What she’s really saying: “You’re totally friendzoned.” Ah, the friendzone. A dangerous, mythical place where so many perish, but few come back from wholeheartedly. Truth of the matter is, people that get friendzoned are either A. not attractive to that specific girl or B. not boyfriend material, but mostly A. Don’t get me wrong, you may be a real hunk of a man, but attractiveness is very subjective, and depending on so many factors that change from person to person.If one chick is attracted to bulky guys, another definitely finds skinny nerds to be incredibly HOT and so on. 4.Line:“This is sooo not the time,but maybe…in the future.” What she’s really saying: “Still don’t want to be in a relationship with you right now, but please do continue to boost my ego.” Not only is this girl not into you right now, but she’s also pretty much using you to get the male attention that she wants in order to feel better about herself 10 Likes 7 Shares |
| Re: 10 Things Women Say When They're Not Into You. by ilevic(m): 7:51am On Oct 30, 2015 |
CaroLyner: where are the remaining eight? |
| Re: 10 Things Women Say When They're Not Into You. by ajasbaba(m): 7:52am On Oct 30, 2015 |
him don forget am for house. |
| Re: 10 Things Women Say When They're Not Into You. by CaroLyner(f): 7:53am On Oct 30, 2015 |
5. Line: “I already have someone/am already seeing someone.” (even though you know for a fact, she’s not!) What she’s really saying: “Please don’t talk to me again or my imaginary boyfriend will kick your ass.” Sometimes chicks like to make up fake boyfriends for various and intricate reasons. One would be that they’re tired of cheesy pickup lines and want to cut it short. Another is when they don’t think the guy hitting on them even deserves the chance of a date. Third reason is: when they don’t want to hurt any feelings, and they’re afraid of telling the guy that they’re just not that into him 6. Situation: not answering calls and/or not calling back What she’s really saying: “Please take the hint and leave me alone.” If you’ve called this girl on a Friday and it’s already next Friday and you haven’t heard anything from her, then it’s pretty clear that she’s not interested. Interested people pick up their phones, call back when necessary, and text when they get a chance  17 Likes 7 Shares |
| Re: 10 Things Women Say When They're Not Into You. by CaroLyner(f): 7:53am On Oct 30, 2015 |
ilevic:read on |
| Re: 10 Things Women Say When They're Not Into You. by CaroLyner(f): 7:55am On Oct 30, 2015 |
7. Situation: ‘message seen at …’ What she’s really saying: “I read what you said but I have no interest whatsoever in replying now….or ever.” This is the worst of the worst and I personally hate Facebook for having this feature. If she’s not replying back within a day but has Facebook activity (ie: selfies, check-in, etc) then my man, I am sorry to say that she is just not that into you. 8. Line: “I’m really busy this week.” What she’s really saying: “I really don’t want to hang out with you.” This is the case of the modern busy girl. Which many of us truly are, balancing a full time job, a couple of other projects and a social life (plus family). But if she says she’s busy this week and doesn’t tell you when she IS available (ie: “busy this week, but let’s meetup next Monday“) it’s almost as saying that she will be permanently busy. 14 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: 10 Things Women Say When They're Not Into You. by CaroLyner(f): 8:00am On Oct 30, 2015 |
9. Line: “oh, I wish I could, but I’m sick.” (Then checks-in at a club or public place) What she’s really saying: “This is not how I want to spend my day/night.” Pretty self-explanatory. 10. Situation: when asked to do something, she’s never really sure/ keeps avoiding it. Line: “maybe…I don’t know”, “I’m doing something now, but maybe later” “Idk, I’ll call you later” but never really calls. What she’s really saying: “If I’m really bored and have nothing else better to do, maybe I’ll go out with you. Or maybe not”. When she’s always avoiding getting together with you, and is never really sure when or what to do, it’s just another sign. Again, when a chick digs you she will say yes to pretty much anything that involves spending time with you. When she’s not that into you she will always find ways to avoid seeing you. guys take note! Mynd44 Lalasticlala seun 13 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: 10 Things Women Say When They're Not Into You. by Djicemob: 8:07am On Oct 30, 2015 |
Atleast 80% of girls i've dated have used one,two or most of the lines you stated up there. Op how do you explain that?  25 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: 10 Things Women Say When They're Not Into You. by Michellla(f): 8:09am On Oct 30, 2015 |
irks me when they cant see all this obvious signs and still keep pushing it. 12 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: 10 Things Women Say When They're Not Into You. by Nobody: 8:11am On Oct 30, 2015 |
Jane said all this to me, but when she saw ma dick, she said "I love that nigga" and I told her, "now go down don't be lazy" 33 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: 10 Things Women Say When They're Not Into You. by CaroLyner(f): 8:18am On Oct 30, 2015 |
Demigods:hope you'v solved your girlfriend's thingy 5 Likes |
| Re: 10 Things Women Say When They're Not Into You. by 48noble(m): 8:19am On Oct 30, 2015 |
Topic: how girls form hard to get 18 Likes |
| Re: 10 Things Women Say When They're Not Into You. by CaroLyner(f): 8:19am On Oct 30, 2015 |
Djicemob:well girls like to act up a bit.its in the genes. 3 Likes |
| Re: 10 Things Women Say When They're Not Into You. by Nobody: 8:22am On Oct 30, 2015 |
CaroLyner: still on it thou. 2 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: 10 Things Women Say When They're Not Into You. by CaroLyner(f): 8:43am On Oct 30, 2015 |
Demigods:okay goodluck anyways.with whatever decision you make |
| Re: 10 Things Women Say When They're Not Into You. by Nobody: 8:48am On Oct 30, 2015 |
Hmmmmm. But why do women play hard to get sometimes  4 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: 10 Things Women Say When They're Not Into You. by Nobody: 8:54am On Oct 30, 2015 |
let me add mine. 11)She explicitly tells you she has a boyfriend When a girl you approach or talk to denies your advances due to having a boyfriend, accept it. That’s not some secret sign that she wants you to pursue her.  8 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: 10 Things Women Say When They're Not Into You. by yemstok(m): 8:55am On Oct 30, 2015 |
some girls can over-do 'hard to get' ehn 3 Likes |
| Re: 10 Things Women Say When They're Not Into You. by CaroLyner(f): 9:11am On Oct 30, 2015 |
rexkexmilan:girls love the chase and love the game of cat and mouse.we love to feel wanted so we'll continue to beat around the bush even when we are actually attracted to the pursuer.  11 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: 10 Things Women Say When They're Not Into You. by Mikocake(m): 9:11am On Oct 30, 2015 |
when you ask for her number and her reply is "it's not necessary" chai!! 15 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: 10 Things Women Say When They're Not Into You. by MosquitoLaps(m): 9:19am On Oct 30, 2015 |
All diz na long tori. Flash her the dollars, and "I have a boyfriend" will change to to "I USED TO have a boyfriend" 31 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: 10 Things Women Say When They're Not Into You. by MosquitoLaps(m): 9:21am On Oct 30, 2015 |
All diz na long tori Broda, flash her the dollar, and tune will change from "I have q boyfriend" to "I USED TO" have a boyfriend. 1 Like |
| Re: 10 Things Women Say When They're Not Into You. by misspicy(f): 9:24am On Oct 30, 2015 |
MosquitoLaps: kikikikikikiki  you got ne ROTFL 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: 10 Things Women Say When They're Not Into You. by Nobody: 9:25am On Oct 30, 2015 |
CaroLyner:Okay. Buh I doubt my friend who is 37 now is still finding the whole stuff funny, I mean she might be regretting why she didn't just settle with one of the "pursuers" in the first instance. Not every guy has the patience to keep chasing just one girl for a long time, those who do eventually turn to cheaters and wife beaters. So my point is:While playing hard to get, You might chase your destined soul mate away and end up with an incompatible fellow. EOS.... 53 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: 10 Things Women Say When They're Not Into You. by MosquitoLaps(m): 9:25am On Oct 30, 2015 |
misspicy:Hehehe! Hello Madam Spicy. How u dey? |
| Re: 10 Things Women Say When They're Not Into You. by misspicy(f): 9:28am On Oct 30, 2015 |
MosquitoLaps:am fine and you  2 Likes |
| Re: 10 Things Women Say When They're Not Into You. by CaroLyner(f): 9:32am On Oct 30, 2015 |
rexkexmilan:thats why i said girls..young ladies. i bet a woman in her late twenties wont still be playing hard to get 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: 10 Things Women Say When They're Not Into You. by CaroLyner(f): 9:33am On Oct 30, 2015 |
MosquitoLaps:not every girl will go cowering to your feet at the sight of your money 10 Likes |
| Re: 10 Things Women Say When They're Not Into You. by Nobody: 9:36am On Oct 30, 2015 |
CaroLyner:Okay. I get your point now. 1 Like |
| Re: 10 Things Women Say When They're Not Into You. by MosquitoLaps(m): 10:07am On Oct 30, 2015 |
misspicy:I loyal o. |
| Re: 10 Things Women Say When They're Not Into You. by MosquitoLaps(m): 10:08am On Oct 30, 2015 |
CaroLyner:Story for Mr. President No bi Naija we dey? 10 Likes |
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