There’s this girl I am dating 2-3 months now I asked her a question and her reply really shock me and making me to have second thoughts.
I asked her if you get married what will you contribute on your own if you are working to support your husband/marriage and she said NOTHING that being a wife is a enough for her that even if she’s working is the man responsibilities to take care of the family no that is the man responsibility but as the wife what will you do to help and support your husband she said nothing.
So I am asking the married ladies in the house if ladies do contribute anything in their marriage financially if working?

Smiles. A lot of women feel that being of the gender is a visa to being taken care of. A full grown human being being entitled that another full grown human has to take care of them!

That lazy stereotype isn't what you can bear..trust me. I know them well. It's just like pampering a pest.

How can you ask sb what they can bring to the table and they say nothing. Nothing? You are choosing the spec of husband you want and all you think the spec of wife the husband wants is nothing?? May natural sense fall on her. E go clear.

I advise you to never have anything to do with women who have nothing to offer than the entitled madness.

Most of them has nothing to offer than sex. They only care about their selfish-interest.

YinkaOlusesi16:
Most of them has nothing to offer than sex. They only care about their selfish-interest.

Why do you guys think that when sex is involved, it is the woman offering it? She no dey enjoy am? She is not offering you sex! If checks were put in place, you are the one offering it! She only accepted the offer! It is a mutual agreement between an offerer and offeree!

I know it’s good to discuss these things before marriage...but at the same time...I feel the average Nigerian woman is not ready for it... we have a culture that promotes men has head, a culture that promotes women has home caterers and family organizers...

Most of the time these question makes many of them feel the man is just stingy or broke

remember these our women don’t always have money...the average Nigerian woman is broke..

so imagine you asking a broke Nigerian girl that is expecting miracle what she will bring to the table

But What they don’t know is men sometimes ask just becos men want to know if the woman they want to marry will be caring, kind and loving enough to take responsibility when the chips are down...it’s not thatcthey must share by force

chatinent:


Why do you guys think that when sex is involved, it is the woman offering it? She no dey enjoy am? She is not offering you sex! If checks were put in place, you are the one offering it! She only accepted the offer! It is a mutual contract!

for correcting this impression,may God favor you before the end of today, amen.

Although the question is for the ladies,I will want my girl to contribute a great deal into our relationship for an healthy well-being,from her emotional, spiritual, to financial support and most importantly her loyalty and her A game sexuality.
Anything below these offers, I no do.

SmellySperm:

for correcting this impression,may God favor you before the end of today, amen.

Chief.

Aside sex, Nothing else.

Lol,you self funny,gender that cannot contribute to communication will contribute to your aspect of life...you better stop deceiving yourself!

Op you've started another Narialand battle.

Narialand redpillers and feminist incoming in 3.... 2.... 1

You'd be gutted when you're out searching for a woman marry. It ain't easy lol. That's why you gotta create your values

YinkaOlusesi16:
Most of them has nothing to offer than sex. They only care about their selfish-interest.

Sex is not an "offering" guy ...
It's a mutual beneficial act by two people...

@OP
Sorry to burst your bubble, but you won't be getting the answer you seek, atleast not here ...

OloshoMan:
You'd be gutted when you're out searching for a woman marry. It ain't easy lol. That's why you gotta create your values

Man gat settle down but can’t settled for less or jobless woman who has nothing to contribute in their marriage.

goshikid:
bro if you no get money avoid entitled girls, them no the bring anything to the table except kpeku where na even you dy work on am while she go sleep like wood where don soak water. Avoid broke entitled girl at all course if you want choose wife abeg

E no go easy oh