₦airaland Forum

meobizy:
Let me follow this thread for reference. I find this a fool’s errand.

same here , I don't really expect anything tangible

fuckingAyaya:
U no get any family member to push enter singapore?

Wetin he want go do there?

duro4chang:
No bring am at all at all. People go say na winch cat. Some fit kill am chop self. No bring am o.

lol the cat must be brought o. May them talk anything them want

Hey guys, I need to bring my cat from Singapore to nigeria. Can anyone guide me on the procedure and price

Pure rubbish . What if my religion says that anyone that supports the person that blasphems Islam should be killed. Does that mean I can kill now?

What will signing it do?

Please I need ways to get cheap international travel tickets. I need promo codes etc

The girl fucking dog and this girl are 2 different people

Bigcola:
Bro, you are A SIMP!!!, take it or leave it.
Bloody SIMP

at least I am richer the the richest in your linage

Lol so this post hit front page lmao. I suprise to see 107 mentions

ObamaMessi:
If not a fool, a lady dumped u 4 anoda guy.he dumped her b4 she came back 2 u.u didn't respond on tym and she's spinning ur head left and right and u are simping around too.Sir,to be candidly honest, you are a big fool.it's ur type that women cheat on u,collect ur money and give other guys and finally dump u.U are an idiot.i hate stupidity.

This is pure description of what I am doing now. A big fool. All these and even more is what I will say if someone had posted this and I am to respond or give advice. Dude I talk to people about not being simps teach them the redpill shit . Make them know that no girl is worth their time etc but here u am defying all what I teach , some times it is not as easy as it seems. I am one of those guys that have never been in love before, I just Bleep this girls and that's it. But this time everything changed. I can't even imagine is doing this. But somehow I know I am more after revenge that actually having her back. I still want to see how I can get her back, waste a handful of her years and send her out on our wedding day. This might not sound real but that is exactly what I will do if my plot twist works.

Lifeemetu:
It also happened to me.
She was the one who ended the relationship after discovering she was 5months older than me. After 2months of dating another guy she came back. I maintained my stand even tho it took me a month to absurve the heart break when she called the relationship to an end.
I told her that my age hasn't changed that am still 5months younger than her.
So maintain the stand that its over between you both. Don't even think about you would have married her again. Continue reminding yourself the reason why she left you. And try to armend that reason. Mine wasn't what can be armended so I try as much as to know your age first before even talking to you self. So as such stuff not to repeat itself.

Thanks, this is actually my plan. Taking her back will be serious disaster.

Goldbw122:
Tell us what did you do that she want to quite such precious relationship legitimately?

I was a little abusive . But she actually pushed me. You know this thing where someone provokes u, u react and they use it against u? That is how it played.
Manipulation

rickpat:
bro you are letting her mess with your mind...if she really loves you the way you love her...she won't be doing this to you....be careful though so you don't go into much commitment in a relationship where you are always begging and she sees "loving" you is doing you a favour...BEWARE OF MANIPULATIVE PEOPLE

Yup for now I don't think she even loves me again. That is what's causing all this. I don't hope to go back.. I am just depressed from the situation. I bluntly even told her that if she knows whats good for her she should not come back because if she does, she will get the most brutal revenge from me. And I swear I mean it. I might fix marriage and all an on that day bounce her out and marry someone else

davidmoyes:
She knows you still love her and she’s manipulating that fact. This kinda case, there’s not much to do than get rid of anything related to her. Delete her number sef and work on yourself. Leave her and focus on money. By that time, you’d date any girl you want.

Yes I still love her deeply , and yes she is manipulating it and using it to her advantage but the table will turn soon.

Carcholce:


Na small girl wan make you commit suicide so. Shove your balls up your asxx

Where did I talk of suicide ? My life is too sweet to ever think of suicide. This type of Depression is temporal , na brokeness depression dey lead to suicide

MrBrownJay1:
pls ALWAYS remember the reason why you broke up with her, and never look back towards her ever again. she is trying to play games with your head, and by the look of things, she is succeeding. why would you even care jow/what/why she does that?!

I never contacted her, I seriously made up my mind to leave her too. I bleeped 5x hotter girls them her, did every shit to keep her off but non actually worked.

Carcholce:
You should add sniper into the beer and drink it.

Deaths to my papa.

na I am not a simp. I can even say I am one of the meanest redpillers but in real real life the redpill shit is garbage. So shove your simp talk up your ass

Administration1:
Na lie, it's just a mindset, polish yourself

Dude it's far from mindset. she is my first love and we are actually suppose to get married. I trusted her with everything. Though her reasons for leaving is quite legit but I was not expecting it

I broke up with my ex 3 months ago. I have not been able to get her out of my mind.

She moved on got dumped by the guy in less than one month and she contacted me 5 days ago and I responded today. I tried settling it out and she said I responded late. That it can't work now. She even said she was going to see another guy . Like wtf.

What type of useless mind game is this please.
The fact is I love her so much. She is not the type that is after money or material things.
And I don't believe in double dating. We have been moving alone for 5 years now. I don't know how to get her off my mind. I have watch countless YouTube videos on how to get an ex off your mind but non is working. I have tried having sex with different girls just to get her thoughts off but its not working. This thing is affecting my hustle seriously.

Damn, let me drink some beer.
Life has been unfair to me relationship wise

virginprincess:
Get the fv.ck of my mentions.

You need dick.

virginprincess:
Guy pls stop asking me such question here, if you want to know more about me you know what to do.

do you masturbate? Your answer is yes. Madam u no be virgin

Any guy that has ever release semen from his dick is not a virgin and any girl that has ever experienced orgasm is not a virgin. May una stop to decieve una self

Martinez39s:
This one is trying to compel ladies' attention. Your clever trap must have ladies flooding your dm.

there are dating sites everywhere, why will anyone come to a dry place like Nairaland to get attention from women. Women are the least of my troubles. I can easily rent am apartment next to a university and get as much of them as possible. The way some of you think amazes me.

Larryfest:
Good morning all, I have been having sleepless night for a while now and a few days ago confirmed my insomnia would last longer than I thought.

We were comfortable and have been married for 5years now with a daughter but things have been rough for a while due to my business folding up and we have had to manage with the little we see from time to time. Earlier this year I had to sell some of the things in our house including my phone just so we could buy foodstuffs and pay our daughter's school fees, just some weeks ago I even had to shamefully reach out to a popular Nairalander if he has a phone he could spare because the one I'm currently using is a Desktop kind of phone (doesn't work without directly plugging it).

Last month my wife came home with a brand new Samsung phone and when I asked how she got it her response was that she won it from her womanhood help group on Facebook (she is very active there).
Last Sunday while arranging the room I came across a fertility clinic document and the receipt of the phone which the amount written there staggered me a bit because it's way more than our house rent that expired recently which has been the cause of my sleepless nights. When she got back from church I confronted her with my two findings and after plenty talks and argument she confessed a friend from work told her about it and she sold her Eggs at the clinic and it was from it she bought the phone.

My people since Sunday I have been seriously weak and confused, a lot on my mind already but now I have to add this to it Marriage is for the faint hearted abeg!!!

ADDENDUM.....

1. Someone asked how much .... well she said she was paid #150k but the nurse who brought her in collected 15k.

2. Someone also made some points about sex, complications and others and even said it's a made up story to tarnish women or whatever well I don't think they pay for story on Nairaland and even if they do it isn't going to cover what's on my mind right now so you believe whatever you want, it's quite funny to think everyone would exhibit same complications as the third party you heard your gist from...

3. She told me it only took her 3weeks of preparation and she wasn't even going to the more than 3times a week and as for medications and the rest, you think someone who doesn't want you to know what he/she is up to would leave clues flying around the house

4. As for the sex part and her risking getting pregnant, she has been on birth control pills for like 4years now so pregnancy wasn't going to stop her from the procedures....

If you had more pressing issues like rent and she ignored that and rather bought a phone, divorce her. Something similar happened to a girl I was suppose to marry 2 years ago, I pretended to be in deep shit and was looking for assistance everywhere. This girl got a loan to and used it to furnish her room. I found out and separated with her. She later got to find out that it was a test. But trust me this woman will break your heart soon.
But u see this thing u posted here, you have given girls update

4teenblaq:
Does it mean you don't save or what is going on?

What is eating up your money?

Do you party?
You dey womanize?
You dey gamble?

Party yes, womanize? Which young guy of my age will be easily making this amount of money and not womanize a little lol. Gambling no. Most of my money goes into my family. And no I don't save because I am sure of always getting it but I will start saving from this month

Youngboss54:
First of, i suggest you try to make a total overhaul of the company you keep. friends play a substantial role in our lives. though, it may appear abysmal but trust me, it goes deep. a little suggestion, little nudge to do something, a whisper is enough to goad you to do an act.
Second, try to have goals. not just saying it, but working towards it. each month, challenge yourself to meet a certain target. for instance, you may start with saving a particular amount from ur earnings, to be used to either purchase a land or build a house, or just outright saving.
then also try to always be around people of vision. people to challenge themselves to be in a better place than they were yesterday.

This is a nice advice. I actually plan doing this from end if this month once I fix the little issue I got myself into.

advanceDNA:
if you credit anybody there ..i swear for you..
you don't have anything to prove to anybody.
coded beggars should go am make their own 2 million..

Yeah exactly , that is why I told her I don't have anything to prove to her. Her pic just reminded me of someone that assisted me greatly na why I even reply to am

advanceDNA:
..begging for 10k cos he said he makes 2million...

why begging convenient for una like this...this even someone you are not dating ....
if una come dey date nko...how much you go ask from the guy??

I don't really see anything wrong with begging . But the way she put is what I am against. Close to a decade before now I don do coperate begging for streets

galaxy2020:
Elon musk, bill gate, Dangote etc, how many of them get 6pack? Six pack can only give you hustling money.

this mentality is in naija only. Once you are in Europe, 6pack is regarded as healthy and trust me, Elon musk girl friend will still duck a 6pack guy

iLegenddNoReply:
The company you keep.
The addictions you acquired.
And your source of money.

One of the above is the cause. Work on it.

No friends here, yes some little addiction, as for the source, I make it quite easily. So I spend it the same way because I am sure it will surely come in. The only time I come back to my senses is when I go out and see how Nigerians are actually suffering