Personally, I've never been on a date before.

I just don't understand why we need to talk over food.

Most times, I get a girls number, we talk on phone, chat and if I invite her over and we do the do, I either call it quit or talk to her about relationship or moving things forward with her.

Most girls don't seem to have any problems with this. I can't even remember any girl having problem with it.

So why do people do all these dates of a thing? Some guys will even be talking about first date, second date and when it'll be alright to hold or kiss the girl.

Seriously, it all looks very strange to me.

Maybe I'll try it one day but I dey too broke now sha.

So, why do you go on a date? I mean the food date

Premiumwriter:
Personally, I've never been on a date before.

I just don't understand why we need to talk over food.

Most times, I get a girls number, we talk on phone, chat and if I invite her over and we do the do, I either call it quit or talk to her about relationship or moving things forward with her.

Most girls don't seem to have any problems with this. I can't even remember any girl having problem with it.

So why do people do all these dates of a thing? Some guys will even be talking about first date, second date and when it'll be alright to hold or kiss the girl.

Seriously, it all looks very strange to me.

Maybe I'll try it one day but I dey too broke now sha.

So, why do you go on a date? I mean the food date

That looks very normal to me though... I like such outings of gisting over a meal coupled with the fact that you don't just invite any Tom, Dick and Harry to your house without knowing much about them.

Also, I really don't consider it proper for a lady you just met to just show up in your house... That's too forward

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dawnomike:
That looks very normal to me though... I like such outings of gisting over a meal coupled with the fact that you don't just invite any Tom, Dick and Harry to your house without knowing much about them.

Also, I really don't consider it proper for a lady you just met to just show up in your house... That's too forward

Exactly!

Maybe he's an introvert or antisocial...

Going out is always fun!

Premiumwriter:
Personally, I've never been on a date before.

I just don't understand why we need to talk over food.

Most times, I get a girls number, we talk on phone, chat and if I invite her over and we do the do, I either call it quit or talk to her about relationship or moving things forward with her.

Most girls don't seem to have any problems with this. I can't even remember any girl having problem with it.

So why do people do all these dates of a thing? Some guys will even be talking about first date, second date and when it'll be alright to hold or kiss the girl.

Seriously, it all looks very strange to me.

Maybe I'll try it one day but I dey too broke now sha.

So, why do you go on a date? I mean the food date

I pity any girl who would go to a Nigerian man's house on the first date...

In most cases, that's suicide... And the risk is too great...

dawnomike:
That looks very normal to me though... I like such outings of gisting over a meal coupled with the fact that you don't just invite any Tom, Dick and Harry to your house without knowing much about them.

Also, I really don't consider it proper for a lady you just met to just show up in your house... That's too forward

I quite agree with your point.

But if a girl agrees to come over, you should know that we've e done enough 'knowing' sha

date is for bonding and it must not be a meal date.
it could be:
a gym date
a movie date
a music/dance date
a reading date for book lovers
an ocean/river/sea date
a gaming date for game lovers
a recreational date
etc.. whatever the two people have in common could be made a date

date is for bonding and it must not be a meal date.
it could be:
a gym date
a movie date
a music/dance date
a reading date for book lovers
an ocean/river/sea date
a gaming date for game lovers
a recreational date
etc.. whatever the two people have in common could be made a date

Datboredberri:
Exactly!

Maybe he's an introvert or antisocial...

Going out is always fun!

I'm an introvert..

But my girl will think you're crazy if you tell her that

Na poor people wey dey reason all this things sha

Op, in all thy doings you better get money, cos money will even make you to stop complaining about nigerian harsh weather, by the time you ride inside a luxury air-conditioned motor to japa sef no go dey hungry you again.

Datboredberri:
I pity any girl who would go to a Nigerian man's house on the first date...

In most cases, that's suicide... And the risk is too great...

you don start..

Other than pretending that they don't wanna do it for like 5-10 minutes, there's nothing that's not of shared interest when they come.

Premiumwriter:
I'm an introvert..

But my girl will think you're crazy if you tell her that

I know you are... I'm antisocial... I don't like people...

Senomii:
Na poor people wey dey reason all this things sha
Op, in all thy doings you better get money, cos money will even make you to stop complaining about nigerian harsh weather, by the time you ride inside a luxury air-conditioned motor to japa sef no go dey hungry you again.

Stop bragging!

Senomii:
Na poor people wey dey reason all this things sha
Op, in all thy doings you better get money, cos money will even make you to stop complaining about nigerian harsh weather, by the time you ride inside a luxury air-conditioned motor to japa sef no go dey hungry you again.

wetin you dey talk self?

If I get money, I no go even dey struggle hustle number talk more of feeding b*tches to sleep with them.

Na money wey I never get dey make me collect numbers or ask for their names self

Premiumwriter:
you don start..

Other than pretending that they don't wanna do it for like 5-10 minutes, there's nothing that's not of shared interest when they come.

Gosh! You like sex too much... That's why I don't trust introverts...

A date should be held at love gardens only....gist,gist and gist...finish.

Chop for ur house before coming out.date is not charity.

Datboredberri:
Gosh! You like sex too much... That's why I don't trust introverts...

Everybody love sex

donbachi:
A date should be held at love gardens only....gist,gist and gist...finish.

Chop for ur house before coming out.date is not charity.

romantic people eh.

Try gist with girl after you don give am better Tatatata na.

Premiumwriter:
Everybody love sex

I don't... It's gross...

dawnomike:
That looks very normal to me though... I like such outings of gisting over a meal coupled with the fact that you don't just invite any Tom, Dick and Harry to your house without knowing much about them.

Also, I really don't consider it proper for a lady you just met to just show up in your house... That's too forward

Simp! If e dey normal to you, then u no deyOK I stand with op....

Datboredberri:
I don't... It's gross...

lolz..

sure say u don f*ck before? Cos una wey be girls like sex pass food.

Premiumwriter:
wetin you dey talk self?

If I get money, I no go even dey struggle hustle number talk more of feeding b*tches to sleep with them.

Na money wey I never get dey make me collect numbers or ask for their names self

Op, you better leave those people matter focus on yourself, go find correct money first and I swear to God na you go dey carry ur prick run

Premiumwriter:
lolz..

sure say u don f*ck before? Cos una wey be girls like sex pass food.

No... I haven't...

Because sex is gross...

Datboredberri:
Exactly!

Maybe he's an introvert or antisocial...

Going out is always fun!

And of course,all the Bills on the guy

Datboredberri:
Gosh! You like sex too much... That's why I don't trust introverts...

Everybody likes sex. Some are just better at hiding it

Datboredberri:
No... I haven't...

Because sex is gross...

Make I hear say u be virgin

bukky1994:
Simp! If e dey normal to you, then u no deyOK I stand with op....

You mustn't pay...

Cause the reason most of you are suffer-heads and expect other men to be is poverty...

So when you see men enjoying themselves... You call them simps so you don't feel like total losers...

Only a prostitute will follow you to your house on a first date. Its possible that's how all the ladies you've been meeting are.
No disciplined and well brought up lady will foolishly follow a man to his house on the first day of meeting him

Datboredberri:
No... I haven't...

Because sex is gross...

So you be even virgin sef

odinson1:


And of course,all the Bills on the guy

Nope...

But I've never been on a date... So...

Senomii:

Op, you better leave those people matter focus on yourself, go find correct money first and I swear to God na you go dey carry ur prick run

we de hustle small small o.

But man still need to knack o

Pauldollars:
Only a prostitute will follow you to your house on a first date. Its possible that's how all the ladies you've been meeting are.
No disciplined and well brought up lady will foolishly follow a man to his house on the first day of meeting him

Not exactly. A woman is Only A PROSTITUTE when and if she expects payments of any kind to be made to her before, during or after Sex.