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Re: The First Relationship Will Never Work! Is This True? by MsPotato(f): 8:45am On Jun 29, 2011
Demdem:

Gab, of cos i am. my profile on facebook speaks volume nah smiley smiley smiley

Ok sorry maybe I no go notice em embarassed
Re: The First Relationship Will Never Work! Is This True? by Djoluwahdicy(m): 8:50am On Jun 29, 2011
[quote author=Ms. Potato link=topic=700777.msg8613081#msg8613081 date=130933


Thats not true. We have not spoken before ooo  shocked shocked shocked And is that you in your profile pic?  cheesy


 angry
[quote][/quote]*embarrased*oh cum on,dt is me 4 real.i dnt fake ma profile coz i knw i myt wnt 2 mt pple sumday.neva mind i wil upload anoda pics of me coz am gud lookin nd am proud of ma looks.so cum off it.
Re: The First Relationship Will Never Work! Is This True? by MsPotato(f): 8:52am On Jun 29, 2011
Djoluwahdicy:

]*embarrased*oh precipitate on,dt is me 4 real.i dnt fake ma profile coz i knw i myt wnt 2 mt pple sumday.neva mind i wil upload anoda pics of me coz am gud lookin nd am proud of ma looks.so precipitate off it.

I know u are my dear thats why I smiled. grin Did you just registered?
Re: The First Relationship Will Never Work! Is This True? by Nobody: 9:03am On Jun 29, 2011
Pls how can i insert quote in my response?as i cant seem to find the exact one when i look 'downwards' on a page amidst all posts.
Re: The First Relationship Will Never Work! Is This True? by earthrealm(m): 9:07am On Jun 29, 2011
most ist relationships fails because of inexperience, of either both parties  or one of them.

note:, i said  most,  not all, a few lucky peeps  out there are lucky  and theirs  worked cry
Re: The First Relationship Will Never Work! Is This True? by Djoluwahdicy(m): 9:10am On Jun 29, 2011
Ms. Potato:

I know u are my dear thats why I smiled. grin Did you just registered?
yes baby,i signd up sum few months ago,am alwayz kinda busy wif ma studies,datz y am nt alwayz online.am sry 4 being harsh,am jst tryna protect ma image.
Re: The First Relationship Will Never Work! Is This True? by Djoluwahdicy(m): 9:10am On Jun 29, 2011
Ms. Potato:

I know u are my dear thats why I smiled. grin Did you just registered?
yes baby,i signd up sum few months ago,am alwayz kinda busy wif ma studies,datz y am nt alwayz online.am sry 4 being harsh,am jst tryna protect ma image.
Re: The First Relationship Will Never Work! Is This True? by MsPotato(f): 9:13am On Jun 29, 2011
valacious:

Pls how can i insert quote in my response?as i cant seem to find the exact one when i look 'downwards' on a page amidst all posts.

1) Click Reply

2) Scroll down to find the post which u wanted to quote

3) Look for insert Quote and click (See the one which I have circled in red)
www.nairaland.com/attachments/473389_111_jpg1167610aa17b0813233fe82d99403e41

4) Once you click insert quote, a message will appear sumthin like this in your reply box
"[q.uote author=valacious link=topic=700777.msg8613255#msg8613255 date=1309334639]
Pls how can i insert quote in my response?as i cant seem to find the exact one when i look 'downwards' on a page amidst all posts.
[/q.uote]"

5) Than just type your replies under it and Voila u have it!
Re: The First Relationship Will Never Work! Is This True? by donsteady(m): 9:14am On Jun 29, 2011
it all depend, i wish i cn go back to my frist love
Re: The First Relationship Will Never Work! Is This True? by MsPotato(f): 9:16am On Jun 29, 2011
earthrealm:

most ist relationships fails because of inexperience, of either both parties  or one of them.

note:, i said  most,  not all, a few lucky peeps  out there are lucky  and theirs  worked cry

Why are u crying? sad


Djoluwahdicy:

yes baby,i signd up sum few months ago,am alwayz kinda busy wif ma studies,datz y am nt alwayz online.am sry 4 being harsh,am jst tryna protect ma image.

IN what way are u harsh? shocked


donsteady:

it all depend, i wish i cn go back to my frist love

How come?
Re: The First Relationship Will Never Work! Is This True? by ogospec(f): 10:44am On Jun 29, 2011
BOY FRIENDS , DATINGS, ALL OF THIS MUST ONE BE PATR OF TJIS BEFORE MARRIAGE, I DONT REALY BELIEVE THAT THEY A YARDSTICKS BUT THEY CAN CONTRIBUTE. NOW ONE TRUE FACT THATNO BODY IS 90% PERFECT, TEMPERAMENT CLASH MUST EXIST BUT ALL THAT IS NEEDEDE HOW MATURED AND TRAINEDC ARE YOU TO CONTROL YOURS TO ALIGN WITH YOUR PARTNERS OWN, PLS I STILL BELIEVE THAT TRUE LOVE HAVE NO LIMIT. (1 CORINTHIANS 13: 1 TO 13 ) PLS READ AND DIGEST THOROUGHLY, THANKS
Re: The First Relationship Will Never Work! Is This True? by Nobody: 11:00am On Jun 29, 2011
@mspotato, thank u. But when d topic comments gets to 3-4 pages of comment, then i dont usually find d exact quote i intend to insert on d 'reply' page. How do i go about that? Sorry for digressing d topic.
Re: The First Relationship Will Never Work! Is This True? by favouredjb(f): 11:01am On Jun 29, 2011
All the best miss potato,i hope u guys sta together
Re: The First Relationship Will Never Work! Is This True? by BeautfulB(f): 11:10am On Jun 29, 2011
the first relationship is an eye opener, it doesn't last. majority of first relationship doesn't end in marriage,
Re: The First Relationship Will Never Work! Is This True? by blank(f): 1:37pm On Jun 29, 2011
I married my first boyfriend after we dated for 6 yrs.
Re: The First Relationship Will Never Work! Is This True? by MsPotato(f): 1:49pm On Jun 29, 2011
ogospec:

BOY FRIENDS , DATINGS, ALL OF THIS MUST ONE BE PATR OF TJIS BEFORE MARRIAGE, I DONT REALY BELIEVE THAT THEY A YARDSTICKS BUT THEY CAN CONTRIBUTE. NOW ONE TRUE FACT THATNO BODY IS 90% PERFECT, TEMPERAMENT CLASH MUST EXIST BUT ALL THAT IS NEEDEDE HOW MATURED AND TRAINEDC ARE YOU TO CONTROL YOURS TO ALIGN WITH YOUR PARTNERS OWN, PLS I STILL BELIEVE THAT TRUE LOVE HAVE NO LIMIT. (1 CORINTHIANS 13: 1 TO 13 ) PLS READ AND DIGEST THOROUGHLY, THANKS

This is wonderful, thank u kiss


valacious:

@mspotato, thank u. But when d topic comments gets to 3-4 pages of comment, then i dont usually find d exact quote i intend to insert on d 'reply' page. How do i go about that? Sorry for digressing d topic.

If its far behind, theres no way u could quote. Sorry. Usually if that happens I would have to copy and paste and highlight and click the quote sign.


favouredjb:

All the best miss potato,i hope u guys sta together

thank you sweetie kiss

blank:

I married my first boyfriend after we dated for 6 yrs.
u never fail to amze me blank. I hope I can follow your good example. kiss
Re: The First Relationship Will Never Work! Is This True? by blank(f): 2:45pm On Jun 29, 2011
Gabry, u know i always wish u d best.
Are u guys back together?
Re: The First Relationship Will Never Work! Is This True? by tunday02(m): 5:39pm On Jun 29, 2011
It does not work often just because the two parties involved will face enormous task getting to know each other better. And thus might find it somehow difficult understanding each other in all aspects. But it is not a curse though,
Re: The First Relationship Will Never Work! Is This True? by tunday02(m): 5:43pm On Jun 29, 2011
It does not work often just because the two parties involved will face enormous task getting to know each other better. And thus might find it somehow difficult understanding each other in all aspects. But it is not a curse though,
Re: The First Relationship Will Never Work! Is This True? by malaria(f): 8:35pm On Jun 29, 2011
@op:i dnt knw y peopl kp on jumpin in and out of r/ship.dat tin dt mad u leav d 1st gy wil kp on makin u leav d odas.go on wit ur gy tel God 2 hlp u gys.if u cnt stay wit 1 guy n a r/shp dn u cnt stay wit 1 man n mariage.am stil wit my 1st bf.& dis is our 11th year.evn though we broke up and came bak.i simply dnt belv u hav 2 go out wit 100 guys b4 walkn 2 altar.1 or 2 r/shps is enof 2 learn from.d longa u stay,d more u can tolerate and endure 4 mariag.gudluck sweetie.
Re: The First Relationship Will Never Work! Is This True? by Poj1(m): 9:04pm On Jun 29, 2011
I married my first after seven years in relationship and eleven years and three kids afterwards it's still like the first day, though with lots of interesting twists and turns. So there are no fast rules, whats works here may fail elsewhere and what fails here might work elsewhere.
Re: The First Relationship Will Never Work! Is This True? by MsPotato(f): 1:48am On Jun 30, 2011
blank:

Gabry, u know i always wish u d best.
Are u guys back together?

Thank you sweetheart. kiss kiss kiss Yes, we are back together. We broke up for almost a day, Thats tough work. embarassed cry

tunday02:

It does not work often just because the[b] two parties involved will face enormous task getting to know each other better. And thus might find it somehow difficult understanding each other in all aspects[/b]. But it is not a curse though,

I think they are just lacking of communication thats all.


malaria:

@op:i dnt knw y peopl kp on jumpin in and out of r/ship.dat tin dt mad u leav d 1st gy wil kp on makin u leav d odas.go on wit your gy tel God 2 hlp u gys.if u cnt stay wit 1 guy n a r/shp dn u cnt stay wit 1 man n mariage.am stil wit my 1st bf.& dis is our 11th year.evn though we broke up and came bak.i simply dnt belv u hav 2 go out wit 100 guys b4 walkn 2 altar.1 or 2 r/shps is enof 2 learn from.d longa u stay,d more u can tolerate and endure 4 mariag.gudluck sweetie.

Thank you sweets kiss kiss kiss


P.oj:

I married my first after seven years in relationship and eleven years and three kids afterwards it's still like the first day, though with lots of interesting twists and turns. So there are no fast rules, whats works here may fail elsewhere and what fails here might work elsewhere.

Awww. . . This is so sweet. I hope I get to have that life soon kiss kiss kiss
Re: The First Relationship Will Never Work! Is This True? by ogospec(f): 9:12am On Jun 30, 2011
DOnsteady if you wish, then work towards it,: if you where the medium behind the break up and she is still single  and now you realized what she meant to you, she may be wishing that you come back aswell who can tell, no body untill you try and observe her reactions. "make a trial, there is no harm in trying"[color=#770077][/color]
donsteady:

it all depend, i wish i cn go back to my frist love
Re: The First Relationship Will Never Work! Is This True? by wazobiang: 10:24am On Jun 30, 2011
What did you expect. We are no doves. We have brains and they said that stolen water is sweet. Once any of you steal a kiss its gonna be soooooo sweeeeeeet! Your brain will go on overdrive and become numb: you become brainless as a result. When you are making love, do you know what is happening around the house as much as when you are just sitting down, awake and doing nothing? That's how brainless stolen water makes you.

You may last; you may not last. That, at last, my dear, will determine if you would stay together or not but should not determine your personal happiness. But if you do not admire another from the corner of you eye, would he do the same?

There is nothing new with another person, but would you believe that? You could stray and come back together if the experience was short and not up to what you experience with your first love. if the door is still open and the love enduring.

I'm sorry, love should not bring you worry or sadness but look around you. C'est la vie.
Re: The First Relationship Will Never Work! Is This True? by MsPotato(f): 1:24am On Jul 01, 2011
shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked sad sad sad
Re: The First Relationship Will Never Work! Is This True? by Ruq: 8:45am On Jul 01, 2011
The Ratio Is 150,000,000 : 1 you must be extremely lucky to be one out of the 150mil relatshps so dats it. every first relationship must break its like a law. but some relationshps go scott free

Except you are the type that never had a krazi teenage life who had to wait until she iz 24 or more before really having a boyfriend. that's it if you started dating at an older age btw 23's your first realatshp might work out in marriage.
Re: The First Relationship Will Never Work! Is This True? by sexylogan(m): 9:18am On Jul 01, 2011
OP, it's not true. My friends (both ex-classmates) met each other in skool and got married

the year after we graduated and they hadnt dated others b4 then. They r stil happily

married.
Re: The First Relationship Will Never Work! Is This True? by blank(f): 10:36am On Jul 01, 2011
@ Ruq, i started dating my husband when i was 18 and 7 yrs down the line, we are still happily married.
Re: The First Relationship Will Never Work! Is This True? by Ruq: 1:32pm On Jul 01, 2011
blank:

@ Ruq, i started dating my husband when i was 18 and 7 yrs down the line, we are still happily married.


So you never dated anyone when you where like 15-17
Re: The First Relationship Will Never Work! Is This True? by MsPotato(f): 1:33pm On Jul 01, 2011
Ruq:

The Ratio Is 150,000,000 : 1 you must be extremely lucky to be one out of the 150mil people so dats it. every first relationship must break its like a law.

Except you are the type that never had a krazi teenage life who had to wait until she iz 24 or more before really having a boyfriend. that's it if you started dating at an older age btw 23's your first realatshp might work out in marriage.

OMG! Are u psychic. yeah! I started dating at age 24 cause all the guys that toasted me before are not genuine to my eyes. All are only interested in sex that I had no interest in them.


sexylogan:

OP, it's not true. My friends (both ex-classmates) met each other in skool and got married

the year after we graduated and they hadnt dated others b4 then. They r stil happily

married.


but are all your classmates mostly married to their first lovers? And how about you?
Re: The First Relationship Will Never Work! Is This True? by Ruq: 1:54pm On Jul 01, 2011
Ms. Potato:

OMG! Are u psychic. yeah! I started dating at age 24 cause all the guys that toasted me before are not genuine to my eyes. All are only interested in sex that I had no interest in them.


That's what am sayin!! you were smart enough to know guys only wanted you for sex a very few number of girls knows that so, you chose to wait till 24 then you had your first realshp which worked.

At least you might have dated some riffraffs? even if its for a week
Re: The First Relationship Will Never Work! Is This True? by MsPotato(f): 2:03pm On Jul 01, 2011
Ruq:


At least you might have dated some riffraffs? even if its for a week

Nope. never ever! When guys came near me that time, I made sure they keep a distance from me. I even filed many guys under sexual harrassment under the school law the minute I feel they were trying to touch me. I was known to be that evilwitch girl that harrasses boys during my school years. LOL! grin grin grin

Infact my first kiss or hug from a guy was at age 24 too. It all started at that age. Sex came a little later though cause I wanted to make sure that I was ready for it.

Now Im 28 and we are still together but I dont know. Alot of people tell me that we might be blindly in love cause after all its my 1st relationship and it will never work. So they say embarassed lipsrsealed

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