My dear, i don't think the number of guys you date matter, be it the first and only, or many, the most important thing is if you both are destined to be together as husband and wife, Just watch your boyfriend and figure out if he is a husband material, and if you think he is the 'settling type', if he is and he trully loves you and wants to be with you, you don't have anything to worry about.

i hav this babe that hovers around me, she wants commitment but i am not ready to, and its her first time. may be the formular is true

First Love is usually consumated in mumurity and by the time you laju ye, you would find out that it was actually crapy while it lasted. Anyway, what do I know? Its just my 10 Cents.

maybe its a kinda true cus i was in ma first relationship last 2 years and just ended like that, all
her idea and moves, am too much attending to ma jab she said. for goodness sake am a programmer, and whenever i was coding
even ma moms call i would ignore, now i ve lost her and learnt from it, always vowed to ma self that i will never have an ex, now i have
and even afraid of starting a new relationship.

i disagree with that theory it only happen in rare cases where the parties involve, starts at tender age, and with naive minds and intentions. am still with my first girl friend and i hope to end up with her.

Lord_Reed:


Who dem be?!  

Not yet darling. Wanna get home first.

Who dem be? U know u have too many toasters around sha.  

Ok, do let me know how did it went. Thanks  

M M M:

op
i thought 190 played dat role 4 your BF (disvirgin u)

Since when  

Long One:

Nonexistent, just broke up with my gf of 9 months

Im sorry to hear that my dear  

Sike:

Na wao! Topic changed to funny post,

Which part be funny post sef?

Djoluwahdicy:

*ohho*now am jealous!

Why are u jelous?

ronkebp:

My dear, i don't think the number of guys you date matter, be it the first and only, or many, the most important thing is if you both are destined to be together as husband and wife, Just watch your boyfriend and figure out if he is a husband material, and if you think he is the 'settling type', if he is and he trully loves you and wants to be with you, you don't have anything to worry about.

I guess u are right. Let me do some thinking about it

sizzlers:

i hav this babe that hovers around me, she wants commitment but i am not ready to,  and its her first time. may be the formular is true

How old are u and how old is she? If you are not ready for a commitment you should not date in the first place or let her know in the start that this date is for joking matta and not a serious one.

Flyboy Zee:

First Love is usually consumated in mumurity and by the time you laju ye, you would find out that it was actually crapy while it lasted. Anyway, what do I know? Its just my 10 Cents.

::Andrew:::

maybe its a kinda true cus i was in ma first relationship last 2 years and just ended like that, all
her idea and moves, am too much attending to ma jab she said. for goodness sake am a programmer, and whenever i was coding
even ma moms call i would ignore, now i ve lost her and learnt from it, always vowed to ma self that i will never have an ex, now i have
and even afraid of starting a new relationship.

If one is in a relationship or having a family, career must be toned down a little as there must be a balancy in life. Most men fail to realize this which had caused the relationship to be in jeopardy

Kpusmokuti:

i disagree with that theory it only happen in rare cases where the parties involve, starts at tender age, and with naive minds and intentions. am still with my first girl friend and i hope to end up with her.

You'll be surprise. Some 30 year old or 40 year old men would still want to play around with a girl's fragile heart

ms.potato
since when

is not d answer 2 my question.

^^^ Im surprise really? Like what does 190 have to do with anything here? I dont even know the guy in reality!

ms.potato
re u sure,
ok let me ask him.

Ok ask him a way but I doubt he would give u a serious answer.

Its a lie, I have had 45 gf's and I married all of them

See this yeye fowl above me ^^^

in most cases 1st relationship dont always wok out well, never theless dont relent be careful nd pray over it

Married my first love after 6 years, waxing stronger everyday ! It is all about what you do in the relationship and not the number.

@ potato, you want to know how old i am, well am old enough to give a woman belle. does that ans ur first question? and who tell u that every relationship must involve commitment.

This is my first (serious) relationship and it's about 4 years old now and i know it's going to lead to the alter in a short while to come except otherwise stated!

Ms. Potato:

Ok ask him a way but I doubt he would give u a serious answer.

i just asked 190 and guess what  he answered,
 yes.

my dear don't mind thm. Anyway,1st or nt it al depends on hw u take ur rlatnshp. Mine is d 1st til nw and it gonna end in mariage. Jus click 2 urs okay it wil wrk out wel.

10 boyfriends before marraige, wetin the last man standing aka the husband go come chop

I think first sex is not first love, so people might confuse that

How old are u?
Ms Potato, i dont know if u belief in God; if u do u take d issue to God he is d one that knows d end from d beginning, i belief he'll speak to u if u can discern his voice. I wish u best of luck.

they will outgrow each other. I am a living testimony. Either one of the couple finds its better half at NYSC camp or went for a masters degree in jand the duo will split. but i belive first love is a testing process, each time my relationship fails I learn and act better on the next until i'm perfect, which I am but my oga is blind to see that now

I dont really know. But mine never did.

azyaq:

in most cases 1st relationship dont always wok out well, never theless dont relent be careful nd pray over it

Totai:

How old are u?
Ms Potato, i dont know if u belief in God; if u do u take d issue to God he is d one that knows d end from d beginning, i belief he'll speak to u if u can discern his voice. I wish u best of luck.

God ke Ok

Akuviv:

Married my first love after 6 years, waxing stronger everyday ! It is all about what you do in the relationship and not the number.

honeric01:

This is my first (serious) relationship and it's about 4 years old now and i know it's going to lead to the alter in a short while to come except otherwise stated!

mem88:

my dear don't mind thm. Anyway,1st or nt it al depends on hw u take your rlatnshp. Mine is d 1st til nw and it gonna end in mariage. Jus click 2 urs okay it wil wrk out wel.

Good to hear this guys and when u are married come post here and prove some people wrong sha.

sizzlers:

@ potato, you want to know how old i am, well am old enough to give a woman belle. does that ans your first question? and who tell u that every relationship must involve commitment.

Than the question is did u even told her u are not into serious relatinships?

M M M:

i just asked 190 and guess what  he answered,
 yes.

Please dont se;f proclaim for hia ooo. Whias the evidence saying he said it?

MeGaStReEt:

10 boyfriends before marraige, wetin the last man standing aka the husband go come chop

If you guys can sleep with a ashewo many million times and still pay money I dont see why a girl can have 10 bf's and than marry the 11!

High_Chief:

I think first sex is not first love, so people might confuse that

But we are not talking about sex here. We are talking about 1st relationships

whiteroses:

they will outgrow each other. I am a living testimony. Either one of the couple finds its better half at NYSC camp or went for a masters degree in jand the duo will split. but i belive first love is a testing process, each time my relationship fails I learn and act better on the next until i'm perfect, which I am but my oga is blind to see that now

We will see sha. Some people here said they are about to get marrid with their first lover.

Emmafrancis:

I dont really know. But mine never did.

Im sorry to hear that my dear. I hope your present one works in the end

Like someone said relationships have no guarantee. All you need to do is enjoy the moment and just let things flow naturally. You can never be too sure about any guy unless he has placed a ring on your finger, so don't get too attached.

dear ms potato,
itz very rare to see a lady marry her first love and even more rare to see a guy marry his first love. but out of every disciple there is alwayz a judas, you've seen it, you've heard it that means itz really happening and you can as well add to the few numbers of those who got married to their first love.

I think it's somewhat true, but I also think that many people regret not working it out with that person. So don't walk away without sound resson. (It doesn't seem like you plan to anyway.)

[quote author=Ms. Potato link=topic=700777.msg8609828#msg8609828 date=130


Why are u jelous?


[quote][/quote]coz am hr in nl coz of u.nd i ain't gönna watch any1 claim u! *sobs*.wil ya b mine?*wink wink*

Not in all cases.
My first relationship led to marriage after 5yrs of dating. i was also her first boyfriend. Our marriage has been blissful so far.

agent zakky:

dear ms potato,
itz very rare to see a lady marry her first love and even more rare to see a guy marry his first love. but out of every disciple there is alwayz a judas, you've seen it, you've heard it that means itz really happening and you can as well add to the few numbers of those who got married to their first love.

Yes it is. I thought my mom told me before her only bf is my father now when I ask her again she said no. My father is her 5th bf. Im like U LIED!!!

Nekai:

I think it's somewhat true, but I also think that many people regret not working it out with that person. So don't walk away without sound resson. (It doesn't seem like you plan to anyway.)

Nekai, u are right my dear. How about u? Hows it going in your relationship?

Djoluwahdicy:

coz am hr in nl coz of u.nd i ain't gönna watch any1 claim u! *sobs*.wil ya b mine?*wink wink*

Thats not true. We have not spoken before ooo And is that you in your profile pic?

Demdem:

Not in all cases.
My first relationship led to marriage after 5yrs of dating. i was also her first boyfriend. Our marriage has been blissful so far.

U ARE MARRIED U NEVER TOLD ME OOO!!!

Ms. Potato:

Yes it is. I thought my mom told me before her only bf is my father now when I ask her again she said no. My father is her 5th bf. Im like U LIED!!! 


Nekai, u are right my dear. How about u? Hows it going in your relationship?


Thats not true. We have not spoken before ooo  And is that you in your profile pic? 


U ARE MARRIED U NEVER TOLD ME OOO!!! 

Gab, of cos i am. my profile on facebook speaks volume nah and u are a frequent user