Baxilexi:

firstly, like someone said earlier on. . . house manager and not housewife.

i do not support idleness but people have to look beyond the stigma that defines a stayhome moms as a liability and see her as an all in one super-

assistant, who deserves to be paid a salary. simple house manager math. Driver(take kids to school, movies etc) + cook + laundry person + house keeper = stay home mother + wife.

Secondly, I'd like to correct some misconceptions. . . "African men don wise up" we have always been the wiser, that's why in Germany and some

other countries their governments are paying parents to raise kids, men especially.

Also the fundamentals of a child's life are as a result of the initial grooming received by the nurturing parent in most cases the mother. a brilliant

child is as a result of a mom that groomed the kid to be so + genetics (that is where your degree comes into play). i believe nature and nurture are as a result of maternal influence and not the school or daycare.

Researches on malbehaviour in kids and teens has proven that this is as a result of bad/lack of parenting.

ladies this is for you, the so called "mommies boy" title coined to most men was a result of women who took out/sacrifice their time to raise this

kids. (tertiary point, lol)

As for the certificates/degrees, its never wasted, i know alot of young ladies have been polarized by this issue, but believe me you, education is not seen in a job but the person., and the beauty of it is when it can be passed on. Africans are still not fully convalescent of slave trade times, you graduate with an impeccable performance, only to end up behind a desk working under someone. Every heard of entrepreneur??

men
quit being lazy and man up to your responsibilities, nature didnt make man and woman 50-50, so stop looking for a wife that would pay 6months

rent while you pay the other, or get the 3d television while you get the sound system and d shades.


and my grand standing. . . it is your reality everyone else is just an actor, so play it out well.

Baxilexi:

firstly, like someone said earlier on. . . house manager and not housewife.

i do not support idleness but people have to look beyond the stigma that defines a stayhome moms as a liability and see her as an all in one super-

assistant, who deserves to be paid a salary. simple house manager math. Driver(take kids to school, movies etc) + cook + laundry person + house keeper = stay home mother + wife.

Secondly, I'd like to correct some misconceptions. . . "African men don wise up" we have always been the wiser, that's why in Germany and some

other countries their governments are paying parents to raise kids, men especially.

Also the fundamentals of a child's life are as a result of the initial grooming received by the nurturing parent in most cases the mother. a brilliant

child is as a result of a mom that groomed the kid to be so + genetics (that is where your degree comes into play). i believe nature and nurture are as a result of maternal influence and not the school or daycare.

Researches on malbehaviour in kids and teens has proven that this is as a result of bad/lack of parenting.

ladies this is for you, the so called "mommies boy" title coined to most men was a result of women who took out/sacrifice their time to raise this

kids. (tertiary point, lol)

As for the certificates/degrees, its never wasted, i know alot of young ladies have been polarized by this issue, but believe me you, education is not seen in a job but the person., and the beauty of it is when it can be passed on. Africans are still not fully convalescent of slave trade times, you graduate with an impeccable performance, only to end up behind a desk working under someone. Every heard of entrepreneur??

men
quit being lazy and man up to your responsibilities, nature didnt make man and woman 50-50, so stop looking for a wife that would pay 6months

rent while you pay the other, or get the 3d television while you get the sound system and d shades.


and my grand standing. . . it is your reality everyone else is just an actor, so play it out well.

Da Doctor:

^^ ALL OF THE ABOVE IS BETTER EXPERIMENTED  FOR FACTUALITY^^^

Some are just here airing their prejudices/and mis/pre- conceptions

'Enter the place'.Ttaste and you would believe

And you are doing what exactly?

Sneering and airing your prejudice about how people view their life with themselves in it.
Are you living their life? Have you walked in anybody's shoes besides your own? Who is to say we can't air our conceptions of what we want or hope our lives to be?

If you want to make sense. . .try actually making the sense.

kemisuga:

Everybody to deir own opinion.

Some men actually tell deir wives to resign and become house mistress.
I hav a frend who always hav miscarriages cos of stress at work, her hubby told her to stop work and stay home.

Da Doctor:

^^^^  A few intelligent post have been noted ^^^^^

Da Doctor:

^^ ALL OF THE ABOVE IS BETTER EXPERIMENTED  FOR FACTUALITY^^^

Some are just here airing their prejudices/and mis/pre- conceptions

'Enter the place'.Ttaste and you would believe

dayokanu:



Those women that you see as executives and top career women, Dont they have children, Dont they have husband and family?

Diezani Alison Madueke, Margareth Thatcher, Kema Chikwe, Okonjo Iweala, Akunyili and top flying women, Did you think they dont have families?

Do they achieve what they did by tying wrappers to their chest every morning and watching African magic?

What message are such women passing to their daughters? That all you need to survive as a woman is to have a pucci and slave to another human being who has equal brains as you?

Baxilexi:

firstly, like someone said earlier on. . . house manager and not housewife.

i do not support idleness but people have to look beyond the stigma that defines a stayhome moms as a liability and see her as an all in one super-

assistant, who deserves to be paid a salary. simple house manager math. Driver(take kids to school, movies etc) + cook + laundry person + house keeper = stay home mother + wife.

Secondly, I'd like to correct some misconceptions. . . "African men don wise up" we have always been the wiser, that's why in Germany and some

other countries their governments are paying parents to raise kids, men especially.

Also the fundamentals of a child's life are as a result of the initial grooming received by the nurturing parent in most cases the mother. a brilliant

child is as a result of a mom that groomed the kid to be so + genetics (that is where your degree comes into play). i believe nature and nurture are as a result of maternal influence and not the school or daycare.

Researches on malbehaviour in kids and teens has proven that this is as a result of bad/lack of parenting.

ladies this is for you, the so called "mommies boy" title coined to most men was a result of women who took out/sacrifice their time to raise this

kids. (tertiary point, lol)

As for the certificates/degrees, its never wasted, i know alot of young ladies have been polarized by this issue, but believe me you, education is not seen in a job but the person., and the beauty of it is when it can be passed on. Africans are still not fully convalescent of slave trade times, you graduate with an impeccable performance, only to end up behind a desk working under someone. Every heard of entrepreneur??

men
quit being lazy and man up to your responsibilities, nature didnt make man and woman 50-50, so stop looking for a wife that would pay 6months

rent while you pay the other, or get the 3d television while you get the sound system and d shades.


and my grand standing. . . it is your reality everyone else is just an actor, so play it out well.

Deep Soul:

[font=Lucida Sans Unicode]Like some1 said earlier, any man that cannot live up to the responsibility of taking care of his family's needs is NOT worthy to be called a MAN.

It is the man's PRIMARY responsibility to ensure that his wife and children are taken care of. Only LAZY men will disagree with me.

That being said, I CANNOT be a housewife/manager/administrator. Whoever I end up getting married to will have to see that as a PLUS rather than a criteria for being with me.

I do not support the theory that says women shouldn't have a source of income. But then, to each his own. Whatever works for you!

Men, if you have a woman who has a job and a source of income, thank God and see that as an [b]ADDED BLESSING. It is not your RIGHT![/[/b]font]

dayokanu:

I can see that some women are born lazy.

Why bother getting an education when you want to be a housewife, To be a housewife you dont need more than Primary 3 education just read and write so you wont give the children drugs meant for cats.

What happened to what a man can do a woman can do also?

You have kids, Kids go to school from 7am to 4pm what would she be doing in that time?

Washing plates of how many ppl, Cleaning? Even cleaning oyingbo market doesnt take 10hrs

Siddon there dey form Housewife, When your husband divorce you or kick you out you end up as a church rat without any marketable skills to make money. Those are the kind of women that their husband can cheat on and treat anyhow because they are financially dependent on the guy and cant survive on their own.

My mom had a full time job, raised 4 children took care of the family, she is still working right now and she is not dead, For a large part of her life she didnt even have a car so she either trekked or took public transport and we never had Househelps

God gave you a brain and 2 hands to work yet you prefewr to be housewives, Lazy people,

Those women that you see as executives and top career women, Dont they have children, Dont they have husband and family?

Diezani Alison Madueke, Margareth Thatcher, Kema Chikwe, Okonjo Iweala, Akunyili and top flying women, Did you think they dont have families?

Do they achieve what they did by tying wrappers to their chest every morning and watching African magic?

What message are such women passing to their daughters? That all you need to survive as a woman is to have a pucci and slave to another human being who has equal brains as you?