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Re: Why Do Narcissist Get Angry When You Decide To Resign From Their Company by irunoko(m): 5:59am On Mar 10, 2022 |
Nuttella:hmnnn life happens to people in different ways and that's why Yorubas say a prayer that God should not allow our source of income or feeding be from a difficult and uncomfortable place |
Re: Why Do Narcissist Get Angry When You Decide To Resign From Their Company by irunoko(m): 6:01am On Mar 10, 2022 |
Farfalla:I wan go another place o.i need my sanity and peace of mind.all this tolerating covert aggression, harassment and intrusive behaviour don Taya me abeg.everyone deserves some level of peace and respect.thanks ma |
Re: Why Do Narcissist Get Angry When You Decide To Resign From Their Company by irunoko(m): 6:06am On Mar 10, 2022 |
COOL10:true.i understand where you're coming from.i had this experience too If anyone shouts around me I hear his voice as if he's the one shouting.honestly being with a narcissist either as a boss or partner is one of the worst experience ever Because everyone will think he's the nice guy and it's you who complains too much or has the issue because they know how to pretend outside and act sweet but inside they are demonic.its traumatic being with such people.you loose yourself everyday, value, purpose and potentials.infact youre being killed without a gun |
Re: Why Do Narcissist Get Angry When You Decide To Resign From Their Company by COOL10(m): 8:29am On Mar 10, 2022 |
irunoko: The funny thing is his supporters aka flying monkeys don't know all the evil things he says behind their backs. If only they knew. Yet he managed to convince them that I'm some sort of arrogant prick who doesn't respect his elders. I'm more of an introvert, so I don't talk much but my mere presence alone intimidated him. It's almost like he sensed something in me that wasn't in other people that he could control. Darkness hates Light. He felt threatened. I don't feel narcissists get as much punishment as they deserve. These people need to receive as much evil as they dish out. |
Re: Why Do Narcissist Get Angry When You Decide To Resign From Their Company by Klass99(f): 1:26pm On Mar 10, 2022 |
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Re: Why Do Narcissist Get Angry When You Decide To Resign From Their Company by irunoko(m): 2:30pm On Mar 10, 2022 |
COOL10:funny thing is I don't know or what they say and do but narcissist are always lucky to find a good woman or man who can love them.na them dey get better wife or husband who happens to be an empath and with good character and Even dedicated and committed surbodinates but Na them go still use their character pursue them comot except the partner has no choice on how to exit the marriage |
Re: Why Do Narcissist Get Angry When You Decide To Resign From Their Company by COOL10(m): 3:28pm On Mar 10, 2022 |
irunoko: Women are sexually attracted to bad boys and narcissists are known for their bad boy/ self serving characteristics. But don't forget that narcissists can be very friendly in public. They love to keep a saintly reputation. Only their employees or close relatives know how terrible they are. From my experience, more women fit this dynamic than men as they are the true narcissists. The only thing is that society has accepted female behaviour as normal but judging from all the things I've learnt about narcissism over the years, women are pretty narcissistic 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Narcissist Get Angry When You Decide To Resign From Their Company by irunoko(m): 5:21pm On Mar 10, 2022 |
COOL10:I agree.they tend to have obsessive controlling disorder.it shows in the way they treat their househelps and people lower than them. 1 Share
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Re: Why Do Narcissist Get Angry When You Decide To Resign From Their Company by GloriousGbola: 5:32pm On Mar 10, 2022 |
Farfalla: Hmm. All things considered, sometimes what you do is you hunker down and survive the boss. I lived through three or four horrible bosses. In the end they will always overdo and you will see them exited. This only applies to structured working environment though. If you are in a one man business, better run. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Narcissist Get Angry When You Decide To Resign From Their Company by COOL10(m): 6:20pm On Mar 10, 2022 |
irunoko: Exactly 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Narcissist Get Angry When You Decide To Resign From Their Company by Farfalla(f): 12:39pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
GloriousGbola: Hehehe. You remind me of my father. He's never perturbed by anyone. You know that last man standing in action movies? That's him. I think relatively horrible bosses can be tolerated to some degree. But what about those who affect your ability to function effectively? I assume you've watched the movie Horrible Bosses? 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Narcissist Get Angry When You Decide To Resign From Their Company by Farfalla(f): 12:43pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Klass99: Hehe. No Klass, Miss M.O wasn't Nigerian. She was from my country. We're not all docile and homely. It's a fallacy. We do have our nutties. LOL. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Narcissist Get Angry When You Decide To Resign From Their Company by Farfalla(f): 1:10pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Klass99: You too like story. She did that to a colleague of mine. Some members of the management were to take a trip to Ebène. His position was crucial, so it didn't come as a surprise that he was casually informed that he was to be at the work retreat to represent his department. I don't know whether she sensed his enthusiasm or something, but when she released the official email to the staff members (4 or 5 days later), his name was missing and was instead replaced by some other person from his department. Her reason was that, she felt that this other party "required more exposure". Indeed! On another occasion, when the organisation was in the process of diversifying its services, it was suggested from HQs that a new department would be created. Now, because some of us had prior experience in that particular sector it was unanimously agreed that we would take the rest of the staff through training on this new service, and even come up with a concept plan for that new department. I had been involved in that very same service with some of our partners in other countries. We were 3 of us. We started from scratch and came up with an almost detailed document. She'd see the 3 of us discuss in the boardroom for many hours, and when I finally sent her our final draft for review, she casually acknowledged receipt but mentioned nothing about when we would be conducting the training. When I inquired from her she casually dismissed me and said that she's identified a team of experts who would take us through the whole process. She saw us go through all the blood, sweat, and tears in coming up with a concept plan and training content. I'm not talking about a 5-page document here. She saw us working on that task like our lives depended on it, all this while she had her own "team of experts", yet she said nothing! Never in my life have I ever resisted the urge to slap somebody (and I've never even tolerated the idea of violence in my entire life). She was an expert in dishing out disappointments and she'd ensure that she'd do it right after you had put your all into something. She loved watching people feeling crushed. There's a condition in psychology to describe people like her - Sadistic Personality Disorder. There's another UAE story, but I cant get into details for now. This post is already too long. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Narcissist Get Angry When You Decide To Resign From Their Company by Klass99(f): 4:34pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
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Re: Why Do Narcissist Get Angry When You Decide To Resign From Their Company by Klass99(f): 4:48pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Re: Why Do Narcissist Get Angry When You Decide To Resign From Their Company by GloriousGbola: 4:56pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Farfalla: Sounds like the notorious Mrs E. My One time head of engineering. Incompetent engineer, masterful administrator and all around b***h. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Narcissist Get Angry When You Decide To Resign From Their Company by GloriousGbola: 4:58pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Klass99: It's the Chinese curse. May you live in interesting times. Horrible to live in but makes for great stories for the survivors 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Narcissist Get Angry When You Decide To Resign From Their Company by Farfalla(f): 11:11pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Klass99: No, I'm not. I must have mentioned it on some thread. My country? Hmm. Should I keep you guessing?
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Re: Why Do Narcissist Get Angry When You Decide To Resign From Their Company by Farfalla(f): 11:32pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Klass99: Being named alongside J.K. Rowling. My head go swell well well. Thanks for the compliment. So, you are a Harry Potter fan? Never been keen on it, but it has always elicited extreme emotions from its fans. Klass99: I encourage the notion of sending less experienced staff on more challenging missions. I did that myself with the ones I had to supervise (including interns), but like you've noted she was only doing it to prove a certain point. Picking P to spite L. |
Re: Why Do Narcissist Get Angry When You Decide To Resign From Their Company by irunoko(m): 4:53am On Mar 14, 2022 |
GloriousGbola:
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Re: Why Do Narcissist Get Angry When You Decide To Resign From Their Company by sinator(m): 6:51am On Apr 02, 2022 |
irunoko:It's possible but it's more likely in marriages 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Narcissist Get Angry When You Decide To Resign From Their Company by Ilekokonit: 1:54pm On May 26, 2022 |
irunoko: They get offended because they are control freaks and the number of people they can bully and push around just reduced by one and they are also sad that others will see that they have been demystified and may want to try to leave as well. They can't stand the fact that you managed to break away from Corporate Stockholm Syndrome which is why most employees stay in bad jobs just to get the regular paycheck. Such bosses / people derive their sense of being from putting others down and under their feet and your resigning just burst their balloon of self importance. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Narcissist Get Angry When You Decide To Resign From Their Company by irunoko(m): 6:04pm On May 26, 2022 |
Ilekokonit:so why then do they refer to their surbodinate colleagues as "family" when in the true sense they d not act like one.meanwhile saying that you quit should be something that ends with a happy ending not drama, confrontations,anger and provocation as if you don't have any right to resign.infact the back and forth explaining why I needed to resign was so stressful, toxic and mentally draining. |
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