Getting married to a good man is very good.
We share everything together happiness joy pain secrets etc. But things keep getting worse by day it's getting to the point where am breaking down myself I feel his pain I supported him that is why I share his problem I find solutions on my own I hide all my pains just to comfort him and stop him from losing his mind and doing something we will forever regret but I can't bear it anymore what do I do?
We are losing our home because of 20k.

We planned business like POS business for him.
And a hair saloon for me but we were unable to start the business because of money what else can we do?

No details on what happened, so how can we help you? Nevertheless, may your happiness be restored. Amen

The only solution to this is JESUS.
Is the prince of peace,both of you need to accept
jesus christ as your lord and your personal savour.

hussey1149:
Getting married to a good man is very good.
We share everything together happiness joy pain secrets etc. But things keep getting worse by day it's getting to the point where am breaking down myself I feel his pain I supported him that is why I share his problem I find solutions on my own I hide all my pains just to comfort him and stop him from losing his mind and doing something we will forever regret but I can't bear it anymore what do I do?

Either you speak plainly or come back when you are ready.

Marriage na ya mate?!

What is the matter?
Do you want to share?
“Things keep getting worse” in what aspect? Financial or what?

He is trying all his best but things are not working out.

We bearly eat, our baby looks malnourished.
Now we are getting to pack out things out because of 20k.
What else do we do again

For better for worse... Keep trying... Things may turn around for good...

Mariangeles:
What is the matter?
Do you want to share?

am losing my family because of money we are suffering and we are not lazy

hussey1149:
am losing my family because of money we are suffering and we are not lazy

What do you do for a living?

Mariangeles:
What is the matter?
Do you want to share?
“Things keep getting worse” in what aspect? Financial or what?

because of 20k now we are parking out.

We planned to start a hair salon for me and a POS business for him so that we can both support the family but we couldn't start because of money. We suffer too much why?

hussey1149:
because of 20k now we are parking out.

We planned to start a hair salon for me and a POS business for him so that we can both support the family but we couldn't start because of money. We suffer too much why?

Because that's life!

It's sh**... Look around, many people are miserable and unhappy...

Life doesn't owe us...

We can live and die poor... It doesn't give a fu**

Things will definitely get better. Don’t give up and don’t take loan o

hussey1149:
because of 20k now we are parking out.

We planned to start a hair salon for me and a POS business for him so that we can both support the family but we couldn't start because of money. We suffer too much why?

Why don’t you start a small business first at least?

Mariangeles:


What do you do for a living?

I finished learning hear dressing 5 months ago

Mariangeles:


Why don’t you start a small business first at least?

we tried but we don't have supports needed

YeyeGbami:
Things will definitely get better. Don’t give up and don’t take loan o

thank you very much, am not even eligible

Am in so much pain please don't watch us fall we need any possible assistant
Account number: 1476108621
Account name: husseina hussey Ibrahim
Bank name: Access bank Nigeria.
Help us world

hussey1149:
Getting married to a good man is very good.
We share everything together happiness joy pain secrets etc. But things keep getting worse by day it's getting to the point where am breaking down myself I feel his pain I supported him that is why I share his problem I find solutions on my own I hide all my pains just to comfort him and stop him from losing his mind and doing something we will forever regret but I can't bear it anymore what do I do?
We are losing our home because of 20k.

We planned business like POS business for him.
And a hair saloon for me but we were unable to start the business because of money what else can we do?

Wait a second... you are playing the role of mother in your marriage instead of wife though. Do you at least have a plan to resolving that?

nickyj19:
The only solution to this is JESUS.
Is the prince of peace,both of you need to accept
jesus christ as your lord and your personal savour.

Wrong! Matthew 11 vs 28 - 30 tells you why not.

Kobojunkie:
Wait a second... you are playing the role of mother in your marriage instead of wife though. Do you at least have a plan to resolving that?

yes I do but I lack support

hussey1149:
yes I do but I lack support

Support of what? What you need is make a decision to keep playing mother and start being a team member in your marriage instead, and follow it through no matter what.

If you want to help her help her, what is all these unnecessary questions?

Kobojunkie:
Support of what? What you need is make a decision to keep playing mother and start being a team member in your marriage instead, and follow it through no matter what.

you don't understand sir, his payment is very low he is a hard-working man and mine I recently accuired a skill to help make things better but things keep getting hard on us. I am been supportive you know I cannot just fold my arm and just not help because am a woman. I have to help too.

hussey1149:
Getting married to a good man is very good.
We share everything together happiness joy pain secrets etc. But things keep getting worse by day it's getting to the point where am breaking down myself I feel his pain I supported him that is why I share his problem I find solutions on my own I hide all my pains just to comfort him and stop him from losing his mind and doing something we will forever regret but I can't bear it anymore what do I do?
We are losing our home because of 20k.

We planned business like POS business for him.
And a hair saloon for me but we were unable to start the business because of money what else can we do?

NEVER HIDE YOUR PAIN IN MARRIAGE.
LET HIM KNOW.. BE OPEN TO HIM. LET HIM UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU ARE ALSO GOING THROUGH

DON'T MAKE HIM A BADMAN WITHOUT LETTING HIM KNOW WHAT'S GOING ON AND WHAT'S AT STAKE .



NL is a wrong place to bring martial affairs. Too many kids that are being fed and know nothing about reality of life. Don't let them destroy your marriage with nonsense and infuriating comments


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All you need is to communicate with him.

hussey1149:
you don't understand sir, his payment is very low he is a hard-working man and mine I recently accuired a skill to help make things better but things keep getting hard on us. I am been supportive you know I cannot just fold my arm and just not help because am a woman. I have to help too.

A better way to help is by getting out there to hustle and work towards the success of your marriage.

Playing mother is obviously not been working has it? You are all pained and tangled up inside regarding your marriage and for what? The problem didn't resolve itself and you are already thinking that bailing might be the answer.

You both need to start working as a team instead.

NeoWanZaeed:


NEVER HIDE YOUR PAIN IN MARRIAGE.
LET HIM KNOW.. BE OPEN TO HIM. LET HIM UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU ARE ALSO GOING THROUGH

DON'T MAKE HIM A BADMAN WITHOUT LETTING HIM KNOW WHAT'S GOING ON AND WHAT'S AT STAKE .



NL is a wrong place to bring martial affairs. Too many kids that are being fed and know nothing about reality of life. Don't let them destroy your marriage with nonsense and infuriating comments


.
All you need is to communicate with him.

ok sir thank you

hussey1149:
ok sir thank you

Please speak with him with respect and choose calming words to use when discussing with him.

It's not easy anywhere..

The man is trying as you have said.

You can give him idea on what more to do to bring in money for the family

NeoWanZaeed:


Please speak with him with respect and choose calming words to use when discussing with him.

It's not easy anywhere..

The man is trying as you have said.

You can give him idea on what more to do to bring in money for the family

ok sir. We have a good communication and understanding but he needs help that's the honest truth.

hussey1149:
ok sir. We have a good communication and understanding but he needs help that's the honest truth.

'help' as in

Datboredberry:
Because that's life!
It's sh**... Look around, many people are miserable and unhappy...
Life doesn't owe us...
We can live and die poor... It doesn't give a fu**

First time you said something pleasing to the ears...
Truly, Life doesn't give a fvvk

Datboredberry:
Because that's life!
It's sh**... Look around, many people are miserable and unhappy...
Life doesn't owe us...
We can live and die poor... It doesn't give a fu**

First time you said something pleasing to the ears...
Truly, Life doesn't give a fvvk

NeoWanZaeed:


'help' as in

financial help for his business