Kobicove:
How did you arrive at the conclusion that the bartender is a babymama?

Bros I know, that wasnt my first time there.And I've interracted with her before. I'm an extrovert

Offpoint1:
Baby mama is the result of irresponsible men...

If your girlfriend gets pregnant, and you know you're responsible... Take responsibilities.

Abandoning them gives rooms to what you observed.

You're on point on this. Kudos.

RoyalBoutique:


Imagine your mentality.

When you grow in wisdom beyond your current state, you'll understand my comment.

Nonexisting:
Again, men get blamed for women's stupid actions. When they will start taking responsibilities for their actions is what I don't know.

She took responsibility by keeping the baby and also sacrificing her own body/ambition to raise the baby.

Mistakes do happens, let's learn how to take responsibilities.

Offpoint1:

When you grow in wisdom beyond your current state, you'll understand my comment.

I pray i don't grow that type of wisdom.

Imagine your mentality

Offpoint1:
Baby mama is the result of irresponsible men...

If your girlfriend gets pregnant, and you know you're responsible... Take responsibilities.

Abandoning them gives rooms to what you observed.

How can you take responsibility of a child whose mom have cheated on you several times...and the other guys knows she's cheating on them too.

Are the girls responsible that's the first question. No sane guy will leave a child born to him by a girl he knows 100 percent he is the only one bleeping her. If he leaves her, know for sure is because of financial instability, he will still come back for them.

One of the guys in my area, who is as broke as myself (yea am broke, have you seen Messi's pay slip? ) Have a son with a lady. The lady is staying in another state, doing good business and taking care of the boy. Every year, this guy, invites the lady on the boy's birthday, and will celebrate the little boy and the mother. He will invite friends, prepare birthday cake for the boy, etc. He's been doing that for 3 years now. And if you see the boy, na the guy carbon copy. Fair and fat like the papa.

Kuriosmynd:

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But the focus from the post is on a female child at least, who is exposed at a young age to shenanigans she shouldn't have idea about.
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I was about 17 before I knew of such shenanigans cos of the strict home I came from.
Though I can agree with you, to some extent

You've misused the word shenanigan

Kuriosmynd:
So I went to a bar to relax after church and from the crazy NIgerian heat of today.
...........

One of the bartender, cheerful, pretty and shinny ebony tone; tall, straight shape with very sexy size shape of an ass came with her baby girl. This little girl is about 7 years from my estimation...but frolicking about and taking in the bad expoure of such ambience.

The problem I could quickly deduce is that this bar is a very notorious one, infamous for immoral kind of gals and guys who many times have no inhibitions about public display of affection...smoking , kisses and all sort. It houses a bar too , where hornny sexual duos come to relieve their inordinate appetite.

I began to wonder the much influence such place could have on that innocent 7 year old kid. Look at the risk, look at the future and psychological implications, and in all of these this baby mama probably do not care or is blinded by the poverty that brought her there in the first place.

My advice is this: Young gals should try to empower themselves first, above personal pleasure, instead of having the dream of being a baby mama.
Many a times, the kids are the unfortunate and innocent recipient of such ills.

Really sad. I can only imagine what will become of those kind of children..Hmmmmm
Babymamaism is more problem for the future.

After church you went there, what are you doing there? Nigerians are bunch of hypocrites

They didn't impregnated themselves
Blame the Men

Yes as usual ,everything is caused by men, when are you women goong to take responsibility for once ?

Offpoint1:
Baby mama is the result of irresponsible men...

If your girlfriend gets pregnant, and you know you're responsible... Take responsibilities.

Abandoning them gives rooms to what you observed.

Offpoint1:
Baby mama is the result of irresponsible men...

If your girlfriend gets pregnant, and you know you're responsible... Take responsibilities.

Abandoning them gives rooms to what youbserved.

nomenclature:
Yes as usual ,everything is caused by men, when are you women goong to take responsibility for once ?

Did they impregnate themselves

Oga, leave her alone. If you have a better offer, render it to her

arthurwillia:


lol
What will you say about an 18 year old who got pregnant for a 19 year old in my street, is it because of the irresponsible guy or lady

Sex gone wrong

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She didn't have anyone to watch the child, and she still has to earn a living. I doubt her income will be sufficient to hire a nanny for the period she's at work.
She's doing the best she can.
If you want to help her, help her secure a job in a better environment, with better pay so she can afford childcare for her child.

Offpoint1:

That's why I clearly stated "irresponsible men" are the cause.

You're a responsible man, you saw the future and you averted disaster.

Women are like kids, they behave like them. You can easily sway them with words or materials.

You got that perfectly right.

Kuriosmynd:

Well, most of the times, Babymamaism is as a result of poor choice making and greed.
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For example, a lady just wanted to keep fvvcking me even when I was tired of it, even when I was not interested, but she was thinking I would change my mind, but then I can't imagine having kids with her which she obviously wanted...imagine I'm not that disciplined to use protection...not all guys have such self control. Today I've runaway from her cos I don't want to play into her game.
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So u see, gals make a lot of poor choices even though it's obvious they are erring.

Two things
Your dickmatised her or
You pocket is heavy

Ask the men that impregnate them

superCleanworks:
over 90% of single mothers i have seen usually give birth to girls. why?

Kobicove:
How did you arrive at the conclusion that the bartender is a babymama?

Don't mind him, but what else do you expect from someone who left church to a beer parlor.

Abeg recheck your statistics and the meaning of initiate.

Offpoint1:

It still falls back to the men, 95% of sex are initiated by men... The 5% are runs girls and ashawos.

Olam09:


You've misused the word shenanigan

Smh

Lol......where did you get your statistics from? You are so funny anyway.

superCleanworks:
over 90% of single mothers i have seen usually give birth to girls. why?

Offpoint1:
Baby mama is the result of irresponsible men...

If your girlfriend gets pregnant, and you know you're responsible... Take responsibilities.

Abandoning them gives rooms to what you observed.

If getting married and committing to one vagina all the days of my life in the guise of love is what qualifies one to be responsible then I rather remain irresponsible all my life.

A society can not be holier than the women in it.

czarr:
Stale

stale u mean 2000 BC?
no mind d ode
na fish brain dey dia skull.

Offpoint1:
Baby mama is the result of irresponsible men...

If your girlfriend gets pregnant, and you know you're responsible... Take responsibilities.

Abandoning them gives rooms to what you observed.

U are right and the same time very wrong .
Lemme give u an instance this lady only like the guy
for money and the moment he got broke ,she when to her parent house and lie that he beats her .All attempt to settle na bush cuz she doesn't want him again saying she can't be with a broke man.Now 2weeks later she found out she is pregnant, oya take tell him ,she said no and I say speak now the baby is over 4years

Atimes Single mother is as s result of women who wants to eat their cake and also have it

Offpoint1:
Baby mama is the result of irresponsible men...

If your girlfriend gets pregnant, and you know you're responsible... Take responsibilities.

Abandoning them gives rooms to what you observed.

Very true. As a man, I have observed that people would rather accuse women of being baby mamas that telling men to own up to their responsibilities... Growing up in the African setting, I realized our mothers were treated very harshly even while they were in their "husbands' house"... So sad.

Kuriosmynd:
So I went to a bar to relax after church and from the crazy NIgerian heat of today.
...........

One of the bartender, cheerful, pretty and shinny ebony tone; tall, straight shape with very sexy size shape of an ass came with her baby girl. This little girl is about 7 years from my estimation...but frolicking about and taking in the bad expoure of such ambience.

The problem I could quickly deduce is that this bar is a very notorious one, infamous for immoral kind of gals and guys who many times have no inhibitions about public display of affection...smoking , kisses and all sort. It houses a bar too , where hornny sexual duos come to relieve their inordinate appetite.

I began to wonder the much influence such place could have on that innocent 7 year old kid. Look at the risk, look at the future and psychological implications, and in all of these this baby mama probably do not care or is blinded by the poverty that brought her there in the first place.

My advice is this: Young gals should try to empower themselves first, above personal pleasure, instead of having the dream of being a baby mama.
Many a times, the kids are the unfortunate and innocent recipient of such ills.

Really sad. I can only imagine what will become of those kind of children..Hmmmmm
Babymamaism is more problem for the future.

... And how did you know she's a baby mama?

wallrichy:
Lol......where did you get your statistics from? You are so funny anyway.

Did you miss the part he said "I have seen"
It's his own statistics