Stereotypes:
Fake. Everyone Spanish citizen or immigrant is on their database.

If she goes to the embassy, they check and make new papers for them to be able to return.

If the man is illegal and she him back with her, all she has to do is give his name, address, work address, plus anyone he's affiliated with. Police will say hi the next day.

All this drama is rubbish over something that can be fixed.

figel:


It’s always good to carry out holistic evaluation before typing or commentating. Saves you from making embarrassing comments. How can someone who is illegal travel out of a country and be allowed the re-enter the country? If the woman is his dependant, she can never enter Spain unless the man consents to it. QED!!

madridguy:
Madam we are over dragging this mere issue. To cap it all, I challenge you to bring any story of any man that betrayed his wife after taking him abroad. I have more than enough story of " I regretted bringing her abroad " that grace the FP of this forum.

Mindlog:


Like in my first post, if she can prove she is legally resident in Spain before the travel to Nigeria, she and the children would get themselves back in Spain....It is no rocket science for a good lawyer to handle. Get her proof of employment there, proof of the children in the Spanish educational system etc

madridguy:
Crocodile tears. When a man hustle day and night to take you to a more conducive clime, only for you to reach and start growing wings, dragging power with your man.

If it is that easy, hustle on your own and return back there.

Brother Chinedu, I rejoice with you.

LordIsaac:
If she were a virteous woman, who married a reasonable man, brother Chinedu would rather die than dump her. He just got his freedom, if you asked me. Meanwhile, let me reiterate: the female gender needs constant supervision lest they hurt themselves and everyone else around by their nature.

Kobojunkiee:
Was Chinedu himsslf a virtuous man when he married her?.

LordIsaac:

I'll stay on the Biblical term, "virteous woman". Don't create something else.

figel:


It’s always good to carry out holistic evaluation before typing or commentating. Saves you from making embarrassing comments. How can someone who is illegal travel out of a country and be allowed the re-enter the country? If the woman is his dependant, she can never enter Spain unless the man consents to it. QED!!

baby124:

Those children are Spanish yea? If she can prove their citizenship and prove she’s been abused by her spouse. Plus that the Spanish children need to be in Spain, in fact see her see am Citizenship. Lol. All these drama Na for 1930’s mamas

And if they were born in Nigeria, what happened next?

Richy4:

And if they were born in Nigeria, what happened next?

baby124:

They can sue him for abandonment through the embassy my dia

Richy4:

Does things like that actually work in Nigeria soil?
Just curious, have you heard anyone that sued for abandonment in Nigeria that it worked for?...

Assuming she was in Spain and she was going to do that in Spain, then her petition might see the light of the day...
But if she is a Nigerian citizen and the man and their kids were also Nigerian citizens, do u think that the Spanish embassy will interfere in something that could be tagged domestic/ family dispute?...

Double0h7:
She obviously depends on his financial aid and she can't afford to renew their passports and travel back and support herself so she might have to chill and develop herself.

This is a lesson to those who depend on men for their survival. Women better take advantage of their brains and educate themselves and enjoy independence.

baby124:

Those children are Spanish yea? If she can prove their citizenship and prove she’s been abused by her spouse. Plus that the Spanish children need to be in Spain, in fact see her see am Citizenship. Lol. All these drama Na for 1930’s mamas

figel:


It’s always good to carry out holistic evaluation before typing or commentating. Saves you from making embarrassing comments. How can someone who is illegal travel out of a country and be allowed the re-enter the country? If the woman is his dependant, she can never enter Spain unless the man consents to it. QED!!

cococandy:




Without even knowing what happened, your first assumption is to believe that he must be right. When the truth is that y’all always rejoice whenever it seems that a woman is on the receiving end of an unfair deal.

Rabid woman haters.

So what did the children do to him? They grew wings too?

baby124:

It’s only in Nigeria that abandonment is a family dispute. It’s a big crime in these Western countries. Big one. She just needs to approach the Embassy to weigh her options. That guy is a fool, he was not born in Spain so he can be dealt with like an immigrant. Citizenship is also revokeable. People go to jail if they refuse to pay court mandated support.

Richy4:


Yes I understand what you were saying.. but the said abandonment happened in Nigeria.. The Nigerian law will supercede the Spanish law in this case if all members of the family were Nigerians...

They won't do much for the woman if all members of the family were Nigerians... As long as no court of law have mandated the man to pay anything yet... Nothing will happen... In the event that the court mandated him to pay for the kids upkeep and he did not, that is when the embassy may intervene..

I will definitely not call the man a fool because no one has a first hand information on what transpired between them..

He may have done what he did to regroup.,.to have his sanity back.. to cool off in that relationship and also allow the woman to cool off as well...

This is now the right time for the in-laws of both couple to mediate between them by asking both of them the right questions like what happened?.... What did both of u do or did not do?...

Emotional cards does not work for me... It's not who cried out first that is always in the right side of the law...

baby124:

You obviously don’t know how it works. Emotional cards indeed. Lol. The welfare of kids trumps their fathers feelings you know. The law does not care what he’s thinking and if he’s an Alfa male plus other cultural jargon.

I know how it works obviously... It is said that when two elephants fights, the grasses suffers the most....

The law you are talking about should be the Nigerian law right? because she is in Nigeria..if she will sue him,it will be heard in Nigeria.. and the abandonment/ Escape happened in Nigerian soil right?...

Maybe you have lost touch of how it works in Nigeria... Based on what I have been reading It's still the same..... nothing has changed...

If the woman is not a citizen or permanent resident and the children were not Spanish citizens, she cannot go back to join him...

What the embassy will do is to mandate the man to pay for the children's welfare anytime the case comes to their notice...

madridguy:
Madam we are over dragging this mere issue. To cap it all, I challenge you to bring any story of any man that betrayed his wife after taking him abroad. I have more than enough story of " I regretted bringing her abroad " that grace the FP of this forum.

baby124:

It’s only in Nigeria that abandonment is a family dispute. It’s a big crime in these Western countries. Big one. She just needs to approach the Embassy to weigh her options. [b]That guy is a fool, [/b]he was not born in Spain so he can be dealt with like an immigrant. Citizenship is also revokeable. People go to jail if they refuse to pay court mandated support.

baby124:

It’s only in Nigeria that abandonment is a family dispute. It’s a big crime in these Western countries. Big one. She just needs to approach the Embassy to weigh her options. That guy is a fool, he was not born in Spain so he can be dealt with like an immigrant. Citizenship is also revokeable. People go to jail if they refuse to pay court mandated support.

Stereotypes:


You people are funny. Quick Google of Spanish law about unlawful removal of a chikd/children would have at least given you some guidance, but you're here talking nonsense and making rude comments on top of it.

If the children are Spanish citizens,they have been forcefully dumped in Nigeria and they have a right to be returned to their country of birth. If their mother makes a complaint at the embassy, dependant or not, she will be heard.

The days of sitting by and shouting like goat are gone. If she wants to return the kids ie if citizens to Spain, she can make a case all things being equal.

Get a lawyer and file a petition.

Richy4:


I know how it works obviously... It is said that when two elephants fights, the grasses suffers the most....

The law you are talking about should be the Nigerian law right? because she is in Nigeria..if she will sue him,it will be a heard in Nigeria.. and the abandonment/ Escape happened in Nigerian soil right?...

Maybe you have lost touch of how it works in Nigeria... Based on what I have been reading It's still the same..... nothing has changed...

If the woman is not a citizen or permanent resident and the children were not Spanish citizens, she cannot go back to join him...

What the embassy will do is to mandate the man to pay for the children's welfare anytime the case comes to their notice...