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Re: Guys, To A Woman, Your Past Sacrifices Do Not Matter by IamRegal: 8:26pm On Mar 16, 2022
dollynnn:

cheesy
you really did a great job with your extract.
Thanks, also
credit to the source
For the smooth words
It takes two to work
Re: Guys, To A Woman, Your Past Sacrifices Do Not Matter by NOwazobia: 8:38pm On Mar 16, 2022
Banbanna:


I applaud this your deduction though....But then, despite the fact she was after her personal security in her encounters with these 2 men, the first one could have been her first love. This reminds me of a certain song, "the first cut is the deepest". First love tends to make a lasting impression on pple, especially women. All the same, that lady should approach her future plans with the first one with cautious optimism, becoz there's no guarantee he might not abandon her again. And leaving the second one, just makes her an unconscionable man user.
Well, I will agree to your opinion of the first guy being her first love but it is obvious that the love was driven by her material desire, considering the status of the first guy. It is obvious his families are wealthy and the guy is doing fine for himself (his family even have to flew him oversea because of the lady). Judging from the report, this must have been what triggered her love lust for the guy, which also applies to most ladies, if not all.

The second guy whose family may not be rich, is obviously doing fine for himself, reason he was able to accommodate the lady and all her woes. But analysing the report, the second guy is obviously not up to the first guy standard. The lady knew this, as she must have been receiving less of what the first guy use to give her while around, hence, she is not really into the second guy, except for the absence of no other option.

The second guy coming back from overseas, obviously looking better now than he left, but interest still on the lady she left back home (this could even be because of the baby), and madam who have also been dreaming of visiting oversea all these years, decided to seize the opportunity as it was presented on a platter gold, thereby, claiming love that was never there in the first place.

It is all about what she could achieve, nothing more than that. Her allege speech is clear on that. If there is anything love in the relationship, either of the guys holds that, not the slow belly of a lady.

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Re: Guys, To A Woman, Your Past Sacrifices Do Not Matter by semmyk(m): 8:45pm On Mar 16, 2022
It is well. Love but don't forget to love urself as well; prepare for your 'future'

Pascopele:

Learn, {most[color=#990000][/color]} women's modus operandi is WHAT HAVE YOU DONE FOR ME LATELY. You could literally save her from a burning house & tommorow she'll have an issue with you for not saving her burning house.
Your sacrifices mean nothing to a lotta woman !!!

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Re: Guys, To A Woman, Your Past Sacrifices Do Not Matter by topoftheworld(m): 8:48pm On Mar 16, 2022
Lordedifice1:

Knack her before she marry no mercy for her

No knack am after she don marry
Ladies can be cruel
If a man leaves a lady he can come back to her
But if a lady leaves you she will never come back because she has found someone 100% better than you.
So enjoy

grin cheesy cheesy
Boss I understand ur point, but I don't want to reason her side again.
Re: Guys, To A Woman, Your Past Sacrifices Do Not Matter by Aaay: 9:03pm On Mar 16, 2022
Oh
Re: Guys, To A Woman, Your Past Sacrifices Do Not Matter by Made619(m): 9:07pm On Mar 16, 2022
uuzba:


Leave women that got pregnant out of wedlock
Leave them alone. So far the original man is still alive.
No matter how fine they look, Leave them alone OOOOO!!!!!
you're right bro...the father of the baby always has the key to her hear and kpekus
Re: Guys, To A Woman, Your Past Sacrifices Do Not Matter by HomoDroid(m): 9:25pm On Mar 16, 2022
I want to approach this issue from another perspective: Has anyone considered why the Lady said the second Guy is not her type? Why would a man waste five years of a Lady's life and expect her to rely on him? What was he doing helping her for five years without helping himself with her - i mean marrying her or getting her pregnant? The Lady must have seen through him as a scavenger or scumbag, without ambition or clear objective in life, hence her decision to jump ship.

The first guy who baby-mamaed her must have travelled out due to his ambition to make a success of his life as a priority! So, she see him as her type of man and the helper-man as an unambitious fellow!
Re: Guys, To A Woman, Your Past Sacrifices Do Not Matter by Shancca: 10:31pm On Mar 16, 2022
odinson1:
If you don't listen and open your eyes to the Real world around you,you will have no one but yourself to Blame. Continue Sacrificing your Resources,energy and time on Women who don't and will never LOVE you. Keep on being The Good man who will come like a Knight and sweep them off their feet. No one's stopping you really.

We'll just wait here,when you make a thread about how "my wife is denying me sex" "i took my wife abroad and she chased me out of our home" "my girlfriend who I'm paying her school fees is cheating on me" , we will be ever ready to give you some Advice.

The Photo below is the Summary of Many things We Guys have been saying in this forum over and over. Women Will never Appreciate your sacrifices for her,she will leave you for the man her Privates Beats for. They lack the Ability to Grasp the concept of Gratitude,honour and Sacrifice.
A word is enough for the wise

Lalasticl.ala please take this to the Frontpage so more men can see and Avoid Making sacrifices for women who Can't love them.

This gender! God! I don off my cloth for women

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Re: Guys, To A Woman, Your Past Sacrifices Do Not Matter by God1000(m): 11:36pm On Mar 16, 2022
Pocohantis will not comment on something like this oo, the feminist in chief

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Re: Guys, To A Woman, Your Past Sacrifices Do Not Matter by jimcaddy(m): 12:00am On Mar 17, 2022
Nigerian women don't date or marry for love. They marry for either money, iPhone, car, apartment or travel abroad. They see relationship as a form of poverty alleviation program. I won't blame them. Nigeria has reprogrammed everyone's brain to see every situation as an opportunity to benefit something from. It's sad, really.

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Re: Guys, To A Woman, Your Past Sacrifices Do Not Matter by Lordedifice1: 5:10am On Mar 17, 2022
topoftheworld:


grin cheesy cheesy
Boss I understand ur point, but I don't want to reason her side again.
Ok boss
Let past be past
Don't go to your vomit

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Re: Guys, To A Woman, Your Past Sacrifices Do Not Matter by razzydoo(m): 7:11am On Mar 17, 2022
We had this movie at home in the early 90s when video cassette was still in Vogue along with others such as endless Love.
gannod:
The story reminds me of the movie 'The last American virgin'

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Re: Guys, To A Woman, Your Past Sacrifices Do Not Matter by virginchaser(m): 7:30am On Mar 17, 2022
alphaconde:
i have asked my self this question severally

how easy they say

what have u done for me

i am like

...and the situation will become worse when you start listing what you feel you have done.
Re: Guys, To A Woman, Your Past Sacrifices Do Not Matter by alphaconde(m): 8:03am On Mar 17, 2022
virginchaser:


...and the situation will become worse when you start listing what you feel you have done.

man go cry
Re: Guys, To A Woman, Your Past Sacrifices Do Not Matter by FaithBrain1994(m): 10:33am On Mar 17, 2022
batb:

Your parents are your real lover in this side of the divide!
I agree with you. Friends can disappoint. Siblings can disappoint but parents won't. Although some parents brain dey shift o
Re: Guys, To A Woman, Your Past Sacrifices Do Not Matter by Rughus: 11:25am On Mar 17, 2022
No sensible man can go back to a woman that rejected them.God forbid
Re: Guys, To A Woman, Your Past Sacrifices Do Not Matter by EndRape2(f): 6:52am On Mar 18, 2022
Your post is senseless,

You do not generalise because of one woman, how will you feel if a woman comes here to generalise because of one man, I know of, women that has done more than this, sacrifice more than eight years of their life , and spend more than eight years of their life with a guy and still get dumped ,because the guy feels she is not his type, this life there are terrible men, same way we have some terrible women, only a fool will use one person to generalise.



guys have done worse things than this, if all women should use what guys are doing to generalise,than what the lady is, doing is nothing compare to what most guys have done.

You write like a fool, by generalising, that even if a man sacrifice for a woman, she will still not appreciate, you can not be stupid in real life and be stupid on media . It was on this media a woman went on her knee to appreciate her husband and openly , it was on this media a woman built a house for her husband ,

The fact that you have a bad head that is making you meet bad women breaking your heart, is still not enough reason to come here ,and write like a frustrated fool.

Rather go pray on.your head so it will attract the right woman.
Re: Guys, To A Woman, Your Past Sacrifices Do Not Matter by EndRape2(f): 12:23pm On Mar 18, 2022
You are ranting ,like men are not doing worse.
I have seen ladies spent more than 10years with a guy ,and the next thing is my parents do not like her, or another lady is pregnant for me.



















uote author=odinson1 post=111084381]If you don't listen and open your eyes to the Real world around you,you will have no one but yourself to Blame. Continue Sacrificing your Resources,energy and time on Women who don't and will never LOVE you. Keep on being The Good man who will come like a Knight and sweep them off their feet. No one's stopping you really.

We'll just wait here,when you make a thread about how "my wife is denying me sex" "i took my wife abroad and she chased me out of our home" "my girlfriend who I'm paying her school fees is cheating on me" , we will be ever ready to give you some Advice.

The Photo below is the Summary of Many things We Guys have been saying in this forum over and over. Women Will never Appreciate your sacrifices for her,she will leave you for the man her Privates Beats for. They lack the Ability to Grasp the concept of Gratitude,honour and Sacrifice.
A word is enough for the wise

Lalasticl.ala please take this to the Frontpage so more men can see and Avoid Making sacrifices for women who Can't love them.[/quote]
Re: Guys, To A Woman, Your Past Sacrifices Do Not Matter by odinson1(m): 12:57pm On Mar 18, 2022
EndRape2:
You are ranting ,like men are not doing worse.
I have seen ladies spent more than 10years with a guy ,and the next thing is my parents do not like her, or another lady is pregnant for me.


What sacrifices did she make for the guy?

She was with him for that 10 years,eating his money and making him stagnant. The only thing she offered him all those years was sex.
And you want to compare the two? You don't have a case here















uote author=odinson1 post=111084381]If you don't listen and open your eyes to the Real world around you,you will have no one but yourself to Blame. Continue Sacrificing your Resources,energy and time on Women who don't and will never LOVE you. Keep on being The Good man who will come like a Knight and sweep them off their feet. No one's stopping you really.

We'll just wait here,when you make a thread about how "my wife is denying me sex" "i took my wife abroad and she chased me out of our home" "my girlfriend who I'm paying her school fees is cheating on me" , we will be ever ready to give you some Advice.

The Photo below is the Summary of Many things We Guys have been saying in this forum over and over. Women Will never Appreciate your sacrifices for her,she will leave you for the man her Privates Beats for. They lack the Ability to Grasp the concept of Gratitude,honour and Sacrifice.
A word is enough for the wise

Lalasticl.ala please take this to the Frontpage so more men can see and Avoid Making sacrifices for women who Can't love them.
Re: Guys, To A Woman, Your Past Sacrifices Do Not Matter by EndRape2(f): 4:44pm On Mar 18, 2022
You see how myopic you are, and what sacrifice did this guy made for her? Putting her in the house, is not a sign he treated her well, how sure are you he was not suffering her, only knacking her morning and night, how sure are you she has not been the bread winner,

At least for the five years ,she has been cooking for him, cleaning his house, washing his cloths , only God knows if the guy was not busy cheating and maltreating her, can anybody leave a good thing , if he has been good the girl will not leave

Go and employ a cook nah.



author=odinson1 post=111144134][/quote]
Re: Guys, To A Woman, Your Past Sacrifices Do Not Matter by vince96w2(m): 6:03pm On Mar 18, 2022
odinson1:
If you don't listen and open your eyes to the Real world around you,you will have no one but yourself to Blame. Continue Sacrificing your Resources,energy and time on Women who don't and will never LOVE you. Keep on being The Good man who will come like a Knight and sweep them off their feet. No one's stopping you really.

We'll just wait here,when you make a thread about how "my wife is denying me sex" "i took my wife abroad and she chased me out of our home" "my girlfriend who I'm paying her school fees is cheating on me" , we will be ever ready to give you some Advice.

The Photo below is the Summary of Many things We Guys have been saying in this forum over and over. Women Will never Appreciate your sacrifices for her,she will leave you for the man her Privates Beats for. They lack the Ability to Grasp the concept of Gratitude,honour and Sacrifice.
A word is enough for the wise

Lalasticl.ala please take this to the Frontpage so more men can see and Avoid Making sacrifices for women who Can't love them.
it's not just women..it's human nature. Make sure you please yourself and be happy first.
Re: Guys, To A Woman, Your Past Sacrifices Do Not Matter by OvertheTop(m): 6:25pm On Mar 18, 2022
AFONJAPIG:
Exactly same happening to me now but I will never support evil, I got this girl pregnant 8yrs ago we lost contact , she kept the child, she got married same year I travelled out.. we started talking recently and she's want to leave the poor guy because of me, I only told her I want to take responsibility of my boy after DNA and I will compensate her as well but even if she wants, the boy will still be in her custody, but she's planning erupting with me and the boy and leave the kids he had for the poor guy ... God knows am not going to give her that

She will Show u (Revenge) in that US
Re: Guys, To A Woman, Your Past Sacrifices Do Not Matter by odinson1(m): 6:33pm On Mar 18, 2022
EndRape2:
You see how myopic you are, and what sacrifice did this guy made for her? Putting her in the house, is not a sign he treated her well, how sure are you he was not suffering her, only knacking her morning and night, how sure are you she has not been the bread winner,

At least for the five years ,she has been cooking for him, cleaning his house, washing his cloths , only God knows if the guy was not busy cheating and maltreating her, can anybody leave a good thing , if he has been good the girl will not leave

Go and employ a cook nah.



author=odinson1 post=111144134]

The woman herself said he enrolled her in school and has sacrificed a lot for her.

You have a brain,use it.
Re: Guys, To A Woman, Your Past Sacrifices Do Not Matter by AFONJAPIG(m): 11:09pm On Mar 18, 2022
OvertheTop:


She will Show u (Revenge) in that US
and who will take her I will only settle her with a shop that's all
Re: Guys, To A Woman, Your Past Sacrifices Do Not Matter by Hassanmaye(m): 8:54pm On Mar 22, 2022
omooba969:
" They lack the Ability to Grasp the concept of Gratitude, honour and Sacrifice. "

Nawa o!
Once you know this you understand that gender
Re: Guys, To A Woman, Your Past Sacrifices Do Not Matter by Hassanmaye(m): 8:54pm On Mar 22, 2022
luminouz:
They still won't hear.

I think some men are born to be damn stewpid
That gender..
Re: Guys, To A Woman, Your Past Sacrifices Do Not Matter by Hassanmaye(m): 8:55pm On Mar 22, 2022
jojo1415:
I can never give any woman am dating a reasonable gifts because most of them r not worth it.....act as if uvr broke for one or two months....they wil all be gone...shittty gender
grin grin
Re: Guys, To A Woman, Your Past Sacrifices Do Not Matter by Hassanmaye(m): 8:56pm On Mar 22, 2022
Lordedifice1:
When a lady start loving another guy that mean she no longer loves you.
When a woman finds a replacement just forget it she ll never listen to for life
Fear women
Women are complicated confused beings
A woman can be with you and still love another guy
I am talking from experience
That stupid gender ehh
Re: Guys, To A Woman, Your Past Sacrifices Do Not Matter by Hassanmaye(m): 9:03pm On Mar 22, 2022
Iglesia02:

Help a woman at your own peril. Even the ones you think they love you,All na waste of time and effort. They will not remember at last. Am a living witness .
Help
Thank God you learn the hard way
Re: Guys, To A Woman, Your Past Sacrifices Do Not Matter by Hassanmaye(m): 9:03pm On Mar 22, 2022
topoftheworld:


@bolded, U are right boss, my ex wanto to do introduction next week Saturday, yesterday I jokingly asked her if she can visit me in abuja b4 the intro and she said YES, I was like some. Will not make heaven grin grin grin
Hahahahhahah
Re: Guys, To A Woman, Your Past Sacrifices Do Not Matter by Hassanmaye(m): 9:07pm On Mar 22, 2022
FahBuLous:
See the way all this thwarted feminists are avoiding this thread...

Indeed, women are wh0res and hypocrites angry angry
God forbid...
That gender eh..
Re: Guys, To A Woman, Your Past Sacrifices Do Not Matter by Adultswim(m): 9:29pm On Mar 22, 2022
After reading through I would say that the woman is greedy and cruel for saying someone who has been with you through thick and thin is not your kind because she feel say she fit go yankee! I can never make a hoe a housewife.

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