Amza07:
I was part of NPOWER 2017 set that's batch B enroll in under Nteach before our program terminated

Since then I used the savings I had to buy a fairly used daylong machine.

So after the program I used that to feed the family 3 months back we both discussed about how we will be able to upgrade or our lives Abit to earn more cash to sustain the family
so we both agreed to sell the bike then borrowed money and buy Keke napep.
Since npower stop paying I was not really enable to borrow from the bank but before I sold my bike.

Her friend promised to borrow us 200k so that at least we can get fairly used Keke for 320 since the new one is costly but after selling my bike her friend refused to assist us saying that the money she could have borrow us was used for another purpose.

Although I was a bit disappointed but didn't complain now my wife feels guilty because my life totally changed my things spoiled and I could afford the Keke since our plan didn't work out and the money on saved from the bike I sold wasn't enough anymore to get me another bike.

How do I get her to stop blaming herself? I believe God has reasons for such thing happening to me. How do I feed them till I buy one?

Major problem is family and friends see her as a woman that brought me down but I clearly understood that her intention was to support but it failed so I myself consider it as a blessing from God.

Dabronze:
I will blame you 100% for this your wife can give you advice but its your duty as man to know what to do carry-out how to go about it that's the reason why as a married man if you failed it you and your family that will pay the price for your failure.

Amza07:
you are correct especially who in the family, relatives respect an okada rider with very low income like me? Now they are all happy some even laugh me.

Amza07:
I have no other option now, am just looking for who has it or who can buy it so that I can be riding and bringing agreement till I can fully pay for it.

Amza07:
I was palook for where they are building tell them you need a job, a day they pay 3k, a month that is 90k

You can save little , no money anywhere do not blame people that are not ready to help.



You wife can start ,bean car business ,with 5k she can start that , sell it with pap , or sell cook food.








rt of NPOWER 2017 set that's batch B enroll in under Nteach before our program terminated

Since then I used the savings I had to buy a fairly used daylong machine.

So after the program I used that to feed the family 3 months back we both discussed about how we will be able to upgrade or our lives Abit to earn more cash to sustain the family
so we both agreed to sell the bike then borrowed money and buy Keke napep.
Since npower stop paying I was not really enable to borrow from the bank but before I sold my bike.

Her friend promised to borrow us 200k so that at least we can get fairly used Keke for 320 since the new one is costly but after selling my bike her friend refused to assist us saying that the money she could have borrow us was used for another purpose.

Although I was a bit disappointed but didn't complain now my wife feels guilty because my life totally changed my things spoiled and I could afford the Keke since our plan didn't work out and the money on saved from the bike I sold wasn't enough anymore to get me another bike.

How do I get her to stop blaming herself? I believe God has reasons for such thing happening to me. How do I feed them till I buy one?

Major problem is family and friends see her as a woman that brought me down but I clearly understood that her intention was to support but it failed so I myself consider it as a blessing from God.

OscarJaden:
it impossible for all your fortunes to vanish a day except if you acquired them through Rituals or unclean ways

2kurupt:

This life we live is deep bro, am not referring to ill-gotten money. Even billionaires in dollars with reputable source of income & listed on Forbes lose their fortunes and go broke. Google Anil Ambani for example.

This is why they say no condition is permanent. Just pray grace continues to smile on you.

Dumte:
I said it from the onset that this npower work is not a work for somebody to rely on. That kind of a temporary work and go into marriage I think that is very wrong it was the first step for mistakes you made

oilmane:



Why do your family and friends see her as a woman who brought you down? Were you a millionaire b4 she came into your life? What type of car were you driving b4 you met her? Did you tongue lash her over her friends inability to give her the loan? Her you black mailing her emotionally? Won't don't you meet those family and friends to assist you or is it that the only thing they are good at is fault finding? I'll advice you go look for who to give you a bike/keke on hire purchase terms instead of you to sit at home and making your wife depressed, there are lots of organizations and MFBs that does that. It is not the responsibility of your wife to go get you a loan, so stop discussing her issues with your family and friends.

bigpicture001:
Wish I had big money..would have bought you tghe keke..

My heart if full of trying to assist people who are in real need for survival...but God know s best sha

abobote:

Some people are looking for people to ride Keke on hire purchase for them, but still afraid coz trust. Imagined how you sounded calm and nice, but someone entrust you with one and the money start coming you still change.
Where do you stay, where are you from?

Yomit71:

can't you ride keke for deliver and save some money till you're able to get yours?

Freelane33:
Where do you stay ?

usagee36:
So what do you want? New bike, New Keke, old Keke? How much do you have now?

Amza07:
I tried no one help all on promise because they don't really like her but I
Love her and friends are now happy am jobless see this life is something else.

Amza07:
kogi state

bigpicture001:
Wish I had big money..would have bought you tghe keke..

My heart if full of trying to assist people who are in real need for survival...but God know s best sha

Amza07:
it's very painful and I love her you know we need to respect women especially their feelings.

dlordy100:
Which state are you?

Amza07:
I was part of NPOWER 2017 set that's batch B enroll in under Nteach before our program terminated

Since then I used the savings I had to buy a fairly used daylong machine.

So after the program I used that to feed the family 3 months back we both discussed about how we will be able to upgrade or our lives Abit to earn more cash to sustain the family
so we both agreed to sell the bike then borrowed money and buy Keke napep.
Since npower stop paying I was not really enable to borrow from the bank but before I sold my bike.

Her friend promised to borrow us 200k so that at least we can get fairly used Keke for 320 since the new one is costly but after selling my bike her friend refused to assist us saying that the money she could have borrow us was used for another purpose.

Although I was a bit disappointed but didn't complain now my wife feels guilty because my life totally changed my things spoiled and I could afford the Keke since our plan didn't work out and the money on saved from the bike I sold wasn't enough anymore to get me another bike.

How do I get her to stop blaming herself? I believe God has reasons for such thing happening to me. How do I feed them till I buy one?

Major problem is family and friends see her as a woman that brought me down but I clearly understood that her intention was to support but it failed so I myself consider it as a blessing from God.

Suspect1:
which side pls?