Self-acclaimed relationship therapist and a social media influencer, Blessing Okoro Nkiruka has made another controversial statement about sexual gratification bothering on masturbation. The popular vlogger once argued that masturbation is not a sin but a habit.

In her latest post on Instagram, Blessing posited that the ugly practice has nothing to do with lack of sex, as those who have sex everyday are the major addict.

According to her, “Telling someone not to masturbate is like telling a man not to have an erection when he sees a beautiful sexy woman, or telling a woman not to get wet when she sees a cute man.”

To her, masturbation is the act of understanding your body is natural, and such that cannot be stopped with prayer.

She wrote: “Prayer doesn’t stop masturbation. Masturbation is not lack of sex, people who have sex everyday are the major addict. Masturbation is not spiritual, if you can conveniently fornicate with different people and not feel guilty, so why pray when you masturbate.

Masturbation is very natural, it’s the act of understanding your body. All you need to do is control. Anybody that tells you that masturbation is spiritual is just telling you a myth.”
Source: https://abujabuzz.com.ng/masturbation-isnt-lack-of-sex-and-cant-be-stopped-with-prayers-blessing-ceo/5226/

I've said this at least half a thousand times.
Some people like to smoke cigarettes, I like to masturbate.
Some people watch horror movies, I stick to porn.

Some people prefer using their hands to beat up their wives, but I'd rather use the hands God gave me to masturbate.

It is all about preference; a preference that has become an addiction for some of us.

A chronic smoker will smoke even under the scorching heat, likewise, I masturbated during the night vigil of my grandfather's funeral.

Whether you masturbate or not is your choice.
It doesn't make you better or worse than the other person but it sure makes you a happier person.

Just realizing that you have the power to cum in your own hands is the greatest eye-opener.
I discovered this gift at the age of 9 and I've never stopped since then.

On the average, I masturbate at least 8 times daily with a three-hour break after every four ejaculations so my body can build up more semen.

Sometimes, your body runs out of semen and you still climax without ejaculating a drop, a phenomenon I call 'dry-bliss'.
Only the veterans in masturbation can relate to this.

For the newbies, don't give up neither should you despise your days of little beginnings.

In my early days, I was using two hands to masturbate, then I asked myself what will become of me if one of my hands gets amputated, so I learnt how to operate it with one hand. I further asked myself what will become of me if I had a sore on my palms.
Today, I'm proud to say that I can get the job done with just two fingers and no lubricants.

Always persevere and improve on yourself.

Masturbation is not a sin, it is the best form of self-mastery.
Our God is all-knowing. If masturbation was a sin, he won't have created us with hands long enough to touch our genitals.

Think about this before you go to bed.

By the way, which of the two do you think God will consider a sin?

1). Using your thumb to vote for a Tinubu who will mortgage your future and further put Nigeria in ruins

Or

2). Using your fingers to bring pleasure to your own self through masturbation?

"Self acclaimed relationship therapist" lols

Just cut off that hand you use to masturbate and everything will be settled

NwaAmaikpe:

Blow it hot this time since it's your topic

Everyone is now a sex therapist even those finding it hard to manage a simple 'indomie and egg' relationship...

It's an intelligent submission

NwaAmaikpe:




God bless you Blessing.
Some people like to smoke cigarettes, I like to masturbate.

Some people watch horror movies, I stick to porn.

Some people prefer using their hands to beat up their wives, but I'd rather use the hands God gave me to masturbate.

It is all about preference; a preference that has become an addiction for some of us.

A chronic smoker will smoke even under the scorching heat, likewise, I masturbated during my grandfather's funeral.

Whether you masturbate or not is your choice.
It doesn't make you better or worse than the other person but it sure makes you a happier person.

Just realizing that you have the power to cum in your own hands is the greatest eye-opener.
I discovered this gift at the age of 9 and I've never stopped since then.
On the average, I masturbate at least 8 times daily with a three hour break after every four ejaculations so my body can build up more semen.

Sometimes your body runs out of semen and you still climax without ejaculating a drop, a phenomenon I've termed as dry-bliss.
Only the veterans in masturbation can relate to this.

For the newbies, don't give up.
Masturbation is not a sin, it is the best form of self-mastery.

Spit it out Nwa................this is your area of specialty......

I have already bolted my bedroom entrance door.

Fressia vaseline right beside me as I type this in Blessing's Mini skirt.......Now it is time to get my left palm greased up with Fressia.
What is Life without Masturbation?
ThankGod for the creation and existence of Masturbation for If not for Masturbation, I would have been moving around with ripe and Unripe Pimples all over my face.

Goodnight guys.....because I'm about to go and Cum and go and sleep.

Goodnight NwaAmaikpe and my Co debators Masturbators!!

NwaAmaikpe:




I've said this at least half a thousand times.
Some people like to smoke cigarettes, I like to masturbate.
Some people watch horror movies, I stick to porn.

Some people prefer using their hands to beat up their wives, but I'd rather use the hands God gave me to masturbate.

It is all about preference; a preference that has become an addiction for some of us.

A chronic smoker will smoke even under the scorching heat, likewise, I masturbated during the night vigil of my grandfather's funeral.

Whether you masturbate or not is your choice.
It doesn't make you better or worse than the other person but it sure makes you a happier person.

Just realizing that you have the power to cum in your own hands is the greatest eye-opener.
I discovered this gift at the age of 9 and I've never stopped since then.

On the average, I masturbate at least 8 times daily with a three-hour break after every four ejaculations so my body can build up more semen.

Sometimes, your body runs out of semen and you still climax without ejaculating a drop, a phenomenon I call 'dry-bliss'.
Only the veterans in masturbation can relate to this.

For the newbies, don't give up neither should you despise your days of little beginnings.

In my early days, I was using two hands to masturbate, then I asked myself what will become of me if one of my hands gets amputated, so I learnt how to operate it with one hand. I further asked myself what will become of me if I had a sore on my palms.
Today, I'm proud to say that I can get the job done with just two fingers and no lubricants.

Always persevere and improve on yourself.

Masturbation is not a sin, it is the best form of self-mastery.
Our God is all-knowing. If masturbation was a sin, he won't have created us with hands long enough to touch our genitals.

Think about this before you go to bed.

By the way, which of the two do you think God will consider a sin?

1). Using your thumb to vote for a Tinubu who will mortgage your future and further put Nigeria in ruins

Or

2). Using your fingers to bring pleasure to your own self through masturbation?

Premarital sex is better than masturbation. At least that's the energy most christains give off.

Ebiragirl:
According to her, “Telling someone not to masturbate is like telling a man not to have an erection when he sees a beautiful sexy woman, or telling a woman not to get wet when she sees a cute man.”

To her, masturbation is the act of understanding your body is natural, and such that cannot be stopped with prayer.

She wrote: “Prayer doesn’t stop masturbation. Masturbation is not lack of sex, people who have sex everyday are the major addict. Masturbation is not spiritual, if you can conveniently fornicate with different people and not feel guilty, so why pray when you masturbate.

Masturbation is very natural, it’s the act of understanding your body. All you need to do is control. Anybody that tells you that masturbation is spiritual is just telling you a myth.”

Well, she is right. It is a habit and the only way to break such a habit is self-discipline.

DroppingLiquid:
Premarital sex is better than masturbation. At least that's the energy most christains give off.

That makes no sense of any Christian kind this since According to Jesus Christ, the lust in your heart is instead what is sin - Matthew 5 vs 27 - 28

As a lady too, I'm gonna counter her for what she said. I study alot and I will proof to you that Masturbation is a spiritual covenant and it's only prayers that can deliver you. Don't let anyone deceive you.

1. Masturbation makes you weak, it spends more energy and burns your calorie

2. Masturbation creates nervousness and neurological problems

3. Masturbation is a main cause for erectile dysfunction.

4. Masturbation addicts you even if you taste it for one time. Controlling it is a very big menace.

5. Masturbation creates drowsiness; you will be sleeping most of the time after ejaculation of your sperm. You will experience a damn tired.

6. Masturbation causes stress and strain in your mind and soul.

7. Masturbation also affects us psychologically; it creates depression after ejaculation and makes one to feel bad on his own.

8. Getting red hot while masturbating will give a bad name in your surroundings and it is indecent too.

9. Masturbation cannot be done simply, it needs to see, touch, indulge or at least think of a sexual practice/ sex organs of the opposite sex. This is more harmful that the image in your memory that you see could not be erased easily. This will lead you to a noxious problem that you cannot see any girl/ lady/ women without a single thought i.e., sex.

10. Masturbation creates an urge to do indefinitely; it doesn’t see the place, people and culture. It makes you to fell in a worse sexual problem if chance knocks the door.

11. Masturbation leads you to illegal contacts because the urge increases day by day and finally will lead to the search of a source for sexual pleasure.

12. Masturbation is the main reason for speedy sperm release during sexual intercourse. It will create dissatisfaction to you and to your wife.

13. Over masturbation reduces your sperm count. Couples who desire to get pregnant should not masturbate.

14. Seminal fluid that gets released on masturbation contains proteins that are needed for many metabolic activities and cell formations. Proteins are the building blocks of our body; ejaculation often will create you to be lean and distracts your metabolism of muscle building.

15. Ethically masturbation is wrong; you think of X/Y and do sex of your own. This hinders your values and respect on others. May be you are good in all other regard but will end up in a great problem if not concerned to stop this habit.

16. Masturbation wastes your time and makes you useless.

17. The pleasure of masturbation never lasts for a long time.

18. Masturbation creates more problems as you lose your memory and thought provoking ability.

19. Masturbation is not the end for your desire; you may be fooled by your own practice. It will never give you a solution or a satisfaction but seems that it gives.

20. It is not needed in any way to your sexual life that it has to be practiced without fail.

21. Guys who masturbate will lose interest in sex with their wife very soon. They can’t feel pleasurable for a long time.

22. Masturbation induces homosexuals in schools, colleges and hostels. Many times the latter creates sexually transmitted diseases like VD, syphilis, AIDS etc.,

Cyntie55:
As a lady too, I'm gonna counter her for what she said. I study alot and I will proof to you that Masturbation is a spiritual covenant and it's only prayers that can deliver you. Don't let anyone deceive you.

While proofreading your comment, I noticed you must have bagged Doctorate in English & Assumptions.

Cyntie55:
As a lady too, I'm gonna counter her for what she said. I study alot and I will proof to you that Masturbation is a spiritual covenant and it's only prayers that can deliver you. Don't let anyone deceive you.

Um... none of your assertions serve as proof of your claim though. All you have done is reveal that a previously broken mind that depends greatly on masturbation as a stress release exercise is a fragile one that can cause even deeper harm to itself in so doing nothing more.

Your attempts at linking masturbation to neurological damage and hence disorders was a bit of a leap on your part.

Also masturbation does not itself cause mental illness, instead those already predisposed to mental illness who then resort to masturbating as way of relieving stress compare to those who try to use alcohol in accomplishing the same.

Contrary to popular opinion, people who masturbate are more likely to commit sexual vices or assault... Example rape

Wahala

ImoleNaija:


While proofreading your comment, I noticed you must have bagged Doctorate in English & Assumptions.

Kobojunkie:
Um... none of your assertions serve as proof of your claim though. All you have done is reveal that a previously broken mind that depends greatly on masturbation as a stress release exercise is a fragile one that can cause even deeper harm to itself in so doing nothing more.

Your attempts at linking masturbation to neurological damage and hence disorders was a bit of a leap on your part.

Also masturbation does not itself cause mental illness, instead those already predisposed to mental illness who then resort to masturbating as way of relieving stress compare to those who try to use alcohol in accomplishing the same.

What I wrote up there is not just an assumption, it is something I discovered when I did my findings and research.

What I wrote up there can never be seen on internet, Infact I challenge you to proof me wrong if you ever come across such write up on the internet. I don't just open my mouth and speak in public.

Like I said, I study more, I work with time and calendar, I'm so occupied this year, but by the grace of God before the end of next year, I will be writing a book about masturbation. I really need to enlighten people.

You and I know that this lady is trying to paint masturbation like it's not a big deal. That is why she said it can't be stopped through prayers or lack of sex just to manipulate people. Honestly it's misleading... I mean it's absurd.

Cyntie55:
What I wrote up there is not just an assumption, it is something I discovered when I did my findings and research.

What I wrote up there can never be seen on internet, Infact I challenge you to proof me wrong if you ever come across such write up on the internet. I don't just open my mouth and speak in public.

Like I said, I study more, I work with time and calendar, I'm so occupied this year, but by the grace of God before the end of next year, I will be writing a book about masturbation. I really need to enlighten people.

You and I know that this lady is trying to paint masturbation like it's not a big deal. That is why she said it can't be stopped through prayers or lack of sex just to manipulate people. Honestly it's misleading... I mean it's absurd.

Then you shouldn't have any problems pointing me in the direction of the reports that claim masturbation causes mental disorders, and also neurological disorders.

I didn't read what she said, but masturbation isn't lack of sex to everyone — only to some. Even if you do it, have control over it. Don't get to the stage where you can't sleep until you do it. Even if you get to that stage, reprogram yourself. Control is key in everything.

Unfortunately, most humans lack control.

Every body masturbates once in a while

I think people that are very against masturbation are those that engage in the act. Because what concern you with masturbation if you don’t do it? How does it affect you? If someone is masturbating far away, how does it impact your life? It doesn’t.

But it is because of the guilt you feel after masturbation that cause you to write against it. You need to advice yourself

Cyntie55:
As a lady too, I'm gonna counter her for what she said. I study alot and I will proof to you that Masturbation is a spiritual covenant and it's only prayers that can deliver you. Don't let anyone deceive you.

1. Masturbation makes you weak, it spends more energy and burns your calorie

2. Masturbation creates nervousness and neurological problems

3. Masturbation is a main cause for erectile dysfunction.

4. Masturbation addicts you even if you taste it for one time. Controlling it is a very big menace.

5. Masturbation creates drowsiness; you will be sleeping most of the time after ejaculation of your sperm. You will experience a damn tired.

6. Masturbation causes stress and strain in your mind and soul.

7. Masturbation also affects us psychologically; it creates depression after ejaculation and makes one to feel bad on his own.

8. Getting red hot while masturbating will give a bad name in your surroundings and it is indecent too.

9. Masturbation cannot be done simply, it needs to see, touch, indulge or at least think of a sexual practice/ sex organs of the opposite sex. This is more harmful that the image in your memory that you see could not be erased easily. This will lead you to a noxious problem that you cannot see any girl/ lady/ women without a single thought i.e., sex.

10. Masturbation creates an urge to do indefinitely; it doesn’t see the place, people and culture. It makes you to fell in a worse sexual problem if chance knocks the door.

11. Masturbation leads you to illegal contacts because the urge increases day by day and finally will lead to the search of a source for sexual pleasure.

12. Masturbation is the main reason for speedy sperm release during sexual intercourse. It will create dissatisfaction to you and to your wife.

13. Over masturbation reduces your sperm count. Couples who desire to get pregnant should not masturbate.

14. Seminal fluid that gets released on masturbation contains proteins that are needed for many metabolic activities and cell formations. Proteins are the building blocks of our body; ejaculation often will create you to be lean and distracts your metabolism of muscle building.

15. Ethically masturbation is wrong; you think of X/Y and do sex of your own. This hinders your values and respect on others. May be you are good in all other regard but will end up in a great problem if not concerned to stop this habit.

16. Masturbation wastes your time and makes you useless.

17. The pleasure of masturbation never lasts for a long time.

18. Masturbation creates more problems as you lose your memory and thought provoking ability.

19. Masturbation is not the end for your desire; you may be fooled by your own practice. It will never give you a solution or a satisfaction but seems that it gives.

20. It is not needed in any way to your sexual life that it has to be practiced without fail.

21. Guys who masturbate will lose interest in sex with their wife very soon. They can’t feel pleasurable for a long time.

22. Masturbation induces homosexuals in schools, colleges and hostels. Many times the latter creates sexually transmitted diseases like VD, syphilis, AIDS etc.,

Are these all the things you experienced while you were engaged in the act?

Cyntie55:
As a lady too, I'm gonna counter her for what she said. I study alot and I will proof to you that Masturbation is a spiritual covenant and it's only prayers that can deliver you. Don't let anyone deceive you.

1. Masturbation makes you weak, it spends more energy and burns your calorie

2. Masturbation creates nervousness and neurological problems

3. Masturbation is a main cause for erectile dysfunction.

4. Masturbation addicts you even if you taste it for one time. Controlling it is a very big menace.

5. Masturbation creates drowsiness; you will be sleeping most of the time after ejaculation of your sperm. You will experience a damn tired.

6. Masturbation causes stress and strain in your mind and soul.

7. Masturbation also affects us psychologically; it creates depression after ejaculation and makes one to feel bad on his own.

8. Getting red hot while masturbating will give a bad name in your surroundings and it is indecent too.

9. Masturbation cannot be done simply, it needs to see, touch, indulge or at least think of a sexual practice/ sex organs of the opposite sex. This is more harmful that the image in your memory that you see could not be erased easily. This will lead you to a noxious problem that you cannot see any girl/ lady/ women without a single thought i.e., sex.

10. Masturbation creates an urge to do indefinitely; it doesn’t see the place, people and culture. It makes you to fell in a worse sexual problem if chance knocks the door.

11. Masturbation leads you to illegal contacts because the urge increases day by day and finally will lead to the search of a source for sexual pleasure.

12. Masturbation is the main reason for speedy sperm release during sexual intercourse. It will create dissatisfaction to you and to your wife.

13. Over masturbation reduces your sperm count. Couples who desire to get pregnant should not masturbate.

14. Seminal fluid that gets released on masturbation contains proteins that are needed for many metabolic activities and cell formations. Proteins are the building blocks of our body; ejaculation often will create you to be lean and distracts your metabolism of muscle building.

15. Ethically masturbation is wrong; you think of X/Y and do sex of your own. This hinders your values and respect on others. May be you are good in all other regard but will end up in a great problem if not concerned to stop this habit.

16. Masturbation wastes your time and makes you useless.

17. The pleasure of masturbation never lasts for a long time.

18. Masturbation creates more problems as you lose your memory and thought provoking ability.

19. Masturbation is not the end for your desire; you may be fooled by your own practice. It will never give you a solution or a satisfaction but seems that it gives.

20. It is not needed in any way to your sexual life that it has to be practiced without fail.

21. Guys who masturbate will lose interest in sex with their wife very soon. They can’t feel pleasurable for a long time.

22. Masturbation induces homosexuals in schools, colleges and hostels. Many times the latter creates sexually transmitted diseases like VD, syphilis, AIDS etc.,

it seems your just talking about the problem for men where is the long list for women ?

internationalman:
Contrary to popular opinion, people who masturbate are more likely to commit sexual vices or assault... Example rape

NwaAmaikpe disagrees with this your opinion

BeeBeeOoh:
Just cut off that hand you use to masturbate and everything will be settled

God bless u

Preek dey hungry dis wan

Meanwhile I get mad log for hand, who get better US local bank and Canada bank make we share funds

Lights up my kpoli in peace

NwaAmaikpe:




I've said this at least half a thousand times.
Some people like to smoke cigarettes, I like to masturbate.
Some people watch horror movies, I stick to porn.

Some people prefer using their hands to beat up their wives, but I'd rather use the hands God gave me to masturbate.

It is all about preference; a preference that has become an addiction for some of us.

A chronic smoker will smoke even under the scorching heat, likewise, I masturbated during the night vigil of my grandfather's funeral.

Whether you masturbate or not is your choice.
It doesn't make you better or worse than the other person but it sure makes you a happier person.

Just realizing that you have the power to cum in your own hands is the greatest eye-opener.
I discovered this gift at the age of 9 and I've never stopped since then.

On the average, I masturbate at least 8 times daily with a three-hour break after every four ejaculations so my body can build up more semen.

Sometimes, your body runs out of semen and you still climax without ejaculating a drop, a phenomenon I call 'dry-bliss'.
Only the veterans in masturbation can relate to this.

For the newbies, don't give up neither should you despise your days of little beginnings.

In my early days, I was using two hands to masturbate, then I asked myself what will become of me if one of my hands gets amputated, so I learnt how to operate it with one hand. I further asked myself what will become of me if I had a sore on my palms.
Today, I'm proud to say that I can get the job done with just two fingers and no lubricants.

Always persevere and improve on yourself.

Masturbation is not a sin, it is the best form of self-mastery.
Our God is all-knowing. If masturbation was a sin, he won't have created us with hands long enough to touch our genitals.

Think about this before you go to bed.

By the way, which of the two do you think God will consider a sin?

1). Using your thumb to vote for a Tinubu who will mortgage your future and further put Nigeria in ruins

Or

2). Using your fingers to bring pleasure to your own self through masturbation?

the say it brings bad luck and pimples

It is called wanking in another word

Cyntie55:
As a lady too, I'm gonna counter her for what she said. I study alot and I will proof to you that Masturbation is a spiritual covenant and it's only prayers that can deliver you. Don't let anyone deceive you.

1. [s]Masturbation makes you weak, it spends more energy[/s] and burns your calorie

2. [s]Masturbation creates nervousness and neurological problems[/s]

3. [s]Masturbation is a main cause for erectile dysfunction.
[/s]

4. [s]Masturbation addicts you even if you taste it for one time. Controlling it is a very big menace.
[/s]

5. [s]Masturbation creates drowsiness; you will be sleeping most of the time after ejaculation of your sperm. You will experience a damn tired.
[/s]

6. [s]Masturbation causes stress and strain in your mind and soul.
[/s]

7. Masturbation also affects us psychologically; [s]it creates depression after ejaculation and makes one to feel bad on his own.
[/s]

8. Getting red hot while masturbating will give a bad name in your surroundings and it is indecent too.

9. Masturbation cannot be done simply, it needs to see, touch, indulge or at least think of a sexual practice/ sex organs of the opposite sex. This is more harmful that the image in your memory that you see could not be erased easily. This will lead you to a noxious problem that you cannot see any girl/ lady/ women without a single thought i.e., sex.

10. [s]Masturbation creates an urge to do indefinitely; it doesn’t see the place, people and culture. It makes you to fell in a worse sexual problem if chance knocks the door.
[/s]

11. [s]Masturbation leads you to illegal contacts because the urge increases day by day and finally will lead to the search of a source for sexual pleasure.[/s]

12. [s]Masturbation is the main reason for speedy sperm release during sexual intercourse. It will create dissatisfaction to you and to your wife.
[/s]

13. Over masturbation reduces your sperm count. [s]Couples who desire to get pregnant should not masturbate.[/s]

14. Seminal fluid that gets released on masturbation contains proteins that are needed for many metabolic activities and cell formations. Proteins are the building blocks of our body; ejaculation often will create you to be lean and distracts your metabolism of muscle building.

15. [s]Ethically masturbation is wrong; you think of X/Y and do sex of your own. This hinders your values and respect on others. May be you are good in all other regard but will end up in a great problem if not concerned to stop this habit.
[/s]

16. Masturbation wastes your time and makes you useless.

17. [s]The pleasure of masturbation never lasts for a long time.[/s]

18. Masturbation creates more problems as you lose your memory and thought provoking ability.

19. [s]Masturbation is not the end for your desire; you may be fooled by your own practice. It will never give you a solution or a satisfaction but seems that it gives.[/s]

20. [s]It is not needed in any way to your sexual life that it has to be practiced without fail.[s]

21. [s]Guys who masturbate will lose interest in sex with their wife very soon. They can’t feel pleasurable for a long time.
[/s]

22. [s]Masturbation induces homosexuals in schools, colleges and hostels. Many times the latter creates sexually transmitted diseases like VD, syphilis, AIDS etc.,[/s]

Well, you should go back and do your research again.
you can continue with the ones i left uncancelled.

It's all about societal programming.

For example, a terrorist sees nothing wrong in blowing up his fellow human being, so he has been programmed to see it from a different view point than you.

So it's very clear that you have been programmed by the society to see masturbation as a SIN, meanwhile the real problem lies in porn, people are addicted to porn which in turn leads them to masturbate and when they engage in the activity they have the tendency to get hooked to it and it becomes a quick fix like a hard drug that they get addicted to it

Masturbation is a human activity but my problem with it is that most people are not in control of the activity, and they say too much of everything is bad.

How can someone masturbate four times in a day?

I masturbate only when am hot and I don't need porn to ejaculate and I masturbate two to three times in a week, yet i am not experiencing any erectile dysfunction nor any of the things you listed there and my sec life is still topnotch

Cc... Cyntie55