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Lol.
Relationship wahala na your mate. Your "gf" want to go on a date with another man, and you are here asking if your worry is insecurity.

You have to give it up for women,they are better in this game of relationship, guy man is doubtful himself because he doesn't want to be insecure...lol

Go get other girlfriend

Tunesco1:
Just trying to transfer a file from her phone when a message came in on whatsapp, I didn't bother at first but the content flashed again in my head, it's about going to see a movie..

She is actually planning to go and see a movie with this guy..

I have been overthinking, cos my instinct kept telling me, if a girl doesn't fancy a guy, she wouldn't accept to go on a movie date with him .. or can this be called insecurity too?

We are cool, no fight or issues of any kind oo, in short she just finished calling me now and our communication has not changed in any way..

I just want opinions concerning this , cos I'm having a feeling of betrayal here

Wait don't ask her. Monitor her and see if she goes. Then you can casually ask her how she spent her day. If she lies about it let her know you are aware. Then tell her how you feel about it.


P.S if you know you do the same don't demand her being exclusive when you are not. Just enjoy each other you are a perfect match

Blunttruth:


Wait don't ask her. Monitor her and see if she goes. Then you can casually ask her how she spent her day. If she lies about it let her know you are aware. Then tell her how you feel about it.


P.S if you know you do the same don't demand her being exclusive when you are not. Just enjoy each other you are a perfect match

but what if she meet up for the movie date and I tell her about it and she denies, do u feel later on, that guy would definitely get down with her ?

Tunesco1:
but what if she meet up for the movie date and I tell her about it and she denies, do u feel later on, that guy would definitely get down with her ?

If you know the exact time of the movie date you can call her then to see if she went. Then you ou can casually ask her if she denies it and you tell her you are aware and you just wanted to see if she will go. Hear what she has to say. If she opens up . Then you two can have the conversation. You can define the relationship ,what you want, and what she wants. if what you both want are different then it's better it dies a natural death.

Movie date abi she wan go collect preeq

Blunttruth:

If you know the exact time of the movie date you can call her then to see if she went. Then you ou can casually ask her if she denies it and you tell her you are aware and you just wanted to see if she will go. Hear what she has to say. If she opens up . Then you two can have the conversation. You can define the relationship ,what you want, and what she wants. if what you both want are different then it's better it dies a natural death.

No be small inspector general u wan turn person pikin to. U think u can study women and graduate?

Tunesco1:
but what if she meet up for the movie date and I tell her about it and she denies, do u feel later on, that guy would definitely get down with her ?

I can't say, if he will . You know your girl better. It depends on how solid your relationship is. A lot of things could have influenced her going on a date with the guy. It could be her friends pressuriiher to give tiguy s chance. It could be that she isn't sure there's a future with you, it could be she just wants to go on a date because you hardly ever take her out. It could be anything, you won't know until you both talk.

SmellySperm:

No be small inspector general u wan turn person pikin to. U think u can study women and graduate?

Don't you think getting to know the kind of woman you want to get married to is completely worth it?
I have never dated for dating sake. I am old fashioned. I dated only persons I saw a future with.

SmellySperm:
Movie date abi she wan go collect preeq

it's a movie date, I saw their chat and they were actually trying to select a movie

While not ask her, how she will feel if she sees you with another girl going to see a movie? Please let's know her answer.

Tunesco1:
it's a movie date, I saw their chat and they were actually trying to select a movie

It's always a movie date. Before u know,pant don shift. Na movie date format that guy wan use bang ur babe.

Blunttruth:

I can't say, if he will . You know your girl better. It depends on how solid your relationship is. A lot of things could have influenced her going on a date with the guy. It could be her friends pressuriiher to give tiguy s chance. It could be that she isn't sure there's a future with you, it could be she just wants to go on a date because you hardly ever take her out. It could be anything, you won't know until you both talk.

True talk shaa.. but this is a girl who always talk about our plans towards raising a home together, most of our conversations is always deep about our tomorrow and all.. I always take her out bro ..

I feel even if we talk about it if eventually she goes, u know women will always be women, she can agree not to do it again and still codedly meet up with the guy or even another guy another day.

Thanks for ur time

Psady:
While not ask her, how she will feel if she sees you with another girl going to see a movie? Please let's know her answer.

Should I ask her now or after she might have went for the movie date

Don't try to investigate. If ur hrt is not strong

Blunttruth:


Don't you think getting to know the kind of woman you want to get married to is completely worth it?
I have never dated for dating sake. I am old fashioned. I dated only persons I saw a future with.

Studying a woman can't stop her from cheating bruh! She can still cheat without your knowledge so calm down. Better woman na by luck.

Baba trust me the changes will only start after the date... find a way to block that date and you take her in the date before their planned date without showing sign that you know her plans ... if she go my guy e fit be say n una last bus stop be that except the guy she’s going with is a dullard

SmellySperm:

It's always a movie date. Before u know,pant don shift. Na movie date format that guy wan use bang ur babe.

so are u saying that , after the movies, he would take her home or somewhere to doke her

SmellySperm:

Studying a woman can't stop her from cheating bruh! She can still cheat without your knowledge so calm down. Better woman na by luck.

studying is not only to kntif she cheats. Courtship is same as studying. You study for compatibility bro. It's not luck per say.

jonahhh:
Baba trust me the changes will only start after the date... find a way to block that date and you take her in the date before their planned date without showing sign that you know her plans ... if she go my guy e fit be say n una last bus stop be that except the guy she’s going with is a dullard

U have a valid point here, but the thing is, for her to make up her mind to go on a date with the guy, don't u feel , she personally is already interested in seeing how things would go between them..

If i block the date on that day, there would definitely be another day I won't even know ..

Just wondering if this is how girls in serious relationship still goes out on dates with another man.

Shadysen:
Don't try to investigate. If ur hrt is not strong

how pls bro. U don't mind sharing?

Tunesco1:
how pls bro. U don't mind sharing?

trust me u will surely get a hrt break at the end base on what you are going to see.

Your breakfast is in the microwave.

Tunesco1:
U have a valid point here, but the thing is, for her to make up her mind to go on a date with the guy, don't u feel , she personally is already interested in seeing how things would go between them..

If i block the date on that day, there would definitely be another day I won't even know ..

Just wondering if this is how girls in serious relationship still goes out on dates with another




man.

Women are like that... if she’s into the guy she’ll go with him, but try to keep her busy with fun activities tho that might cost you some cash but depends on your bond with her... women like a provider and a listener start doing the things you did before you got her to be yours... if that doesn’t work then she belongs to the streets, I’m sure you know what to do

Carcholce:
Your breakfast is in the microwave.

Lolz,is warming up ma guye,op never see shuntin..... hahaha

jonahhh:


Women are like that... if she’s into the guy she’ll go with him, but try to keep her busy with fun activities tho that might cost you some cash but depends on your bond with her... women like a provider and a listener start doing the things you did before you got her to be yours... if that doesn’t work then she belongs to the streets, I’m sure you know what to do

sure I just got her a very big gift worth a lot of money , the attention has always been the same from day one till now ..

Tunesco1:
so are u saying that , after the movies, he would take her home or somewhere to doke her

You didn't hear that from my mouth bruh

Lol , you see these days ehn, just fhuck your own and comot eyes , it’s just your turn bro. It’s the bitter truth

seanwilliam:
Lol , you see ruse days ehn, just fhuck your own and comot eyes , it’s just your turn bro. It’s the bitter truth

Well said bro but do u know, no matter how hard a guy can be, u will have that one girl u really cherish and still give ur full attention to..

When it comes to this dating game bro, I get enough girls , some are even more prettier than her but this very one ehnn, she don dey with me even when things no fine, and I have done a lot for her to repay her kindness.. so I genuinely want this one

Tunesco1:
Well said bro but do u know, no matter how hard a guy can be, u will have that one girl u really cherish and still give ur full attention to..

When it comes to this dating game bro, I get enough girls , some are even more prettier than her but this very one ehnn, she don dey with me even when things no fine, and I have done a lot for her to repay her kindness.. so I genuinely want this one

you’ve failed the moment you start showing her ’true’ love. You need to have it at the back of your mind that sooner or later, she can fhuck you up . To have an edge, always show her how lucky she is to have you and you won’t hesitate to cut her off if she messes up , that way, she will be obsessed with you ... it’s hard but trust me that’s how you handle women generally..





If you Comfirm she’s cheating , drop her like a hot yam , but if she has sweet cochie and other benefits attached, continue fhucking her with protection and with zero emotions till you find Better offer.

Dem no Dey pity women bro