Heathrow44:



oh wow at least for now!

Hedonini:
"A girl just wants to make money and live the soft life" - so says the stupid woman. On social media for that matter. Ndi wife material.

That explains everything.

Some men sabi marry nonsense sha. There's some kind of mentality in a woman that immediately renders her unmarriageable. In fact, any woman hooked on Instagram/Snapchat/twitter is unmarriageable. No ifs or buts. But foolish men would ignore these signals and go ahead to marry a damaged entity. Just leave them alone to do their runs and form wokeness on top until they grow old and fizzle out. Any attempt to domesticate these wild animals would end in tears.

ecolime:
No be last year or 2 years ago dem marry ni? Oga oo.. Now I see why many guys are scared of marriage these days?

At this junction, our ladies might clock age 50 and above before they finally get someone to settle down with.

Auspicious2018:


Above is the summary of 99.9% of men's marital woes but they lack wisdom. They will leave decent looking cool headed girls and run after slay queens.

Where on earth do men think a slay queen get the resources to slay?

If her dad isn't super rich and she doesn't have any tangible source of income but uses an iPhone, wears expensive clothes and hair and you are wowed, congratulations, you just got yourself a slaywife that will be back to the street once she encounters any little challenge in marriage.

Since there is no marriage without challenges, it simply means her days in your home are numbered and becoming a divorcee is inevitable.

justine14:
Marriages these days is terrible. After all the millions and noise yet the union can last. Simply because both couples seem to be civilized, and hence none wants to make sacrifice for another.

I think is time guys who are well to do and ready to settle down travel to village and pick a wife. Many will say the village girls are not saint either, but lemme ask are you a saint?

Since city girls find it hard to respect the african tradition that places alot of emphasis that � submission is expected from a married woman.

What am I even typing self.

HRHQueenPhil:
this is so painful
i pray the family can bear this
pls find out the secret to a heaven on earth marriage before entering unless na one chance be dat

Lightorder:
oga, good and peaceful marriages run in our lineage. My parents had it for 54 years and we didn’t even know anytime they had misunderstanding. Before marriage in my family, riot act would be read to your hearing and a long time would also be given to both parties to chew and chew on. Marriage no be by force. If you can’t make the sacrifices, just leave before it starts. Don’t come and start and later tell stories, you will be made to regret your existence. Expecting my marriage to crumble, you might need to just wait for next life and not this one. Thank God my in-laws have stricter rules . I am the most blessed and successful married man I have ever met in my life. Even older folks ask me how we are making it. My wife is everything I had ever wished for in a woman. In spirit and in flesh o

Lightorder:
oga, good and peaceful marriages run in our lineage. My parents had it for 54 years and we didn’t even know anytime they had misunderstanding. Before marriage in my family, riot act would be read to your hearing and a long time would also be given to both parties to chew and chew on. Marriage no be by force. If you can’t make the sacrifices, just leave before it starts. Don’t come and start and later tell stories, you will be made to regret your existence. Expecting my marriage to crumble, you might need to just wait for next life and not this one. Thank God my in-laws have stricter rules . I am the most blessed and successful married man I have ever met in my life. Even older folks ask me how we are making it. My wife is everything I had ever wished for in a woman. In spirit and in flesh o

luminouz:
Her comment

' a girl just wants to make money and enjoy the soft life'

Is suspect as fuq. Does marriage stop her from achievung all these desires of hers?

Or is there something we don't know?

ecolime:
No be last year or 2 years ago dem marry ni? Oga oo.. Now I see why many guys are scared of marriage these days?

At this junction, our ladies might clock age 50 and above before they finally get someone to settle down with.

Heathrow44:



come bk here after 4yrs and let's know howfar

SURElee:



God bless you. God to see somebody with a mentality that marriage is sacred and must be work at not let go easily.
God bless your home more and more

Lightorder:
You just love talking. That yours has crashed or that you are probably a product of a crashed one doesn’t mean every marriage on earth must crash. IT IS A TABOO TO HAVE A CRASHED MARRIAGE IN BOTH FAMILIES. We Went into it prepared for whatever . We had issues of understanding and conflicting views of life at the beginning but worked on it until we discovered ourselves. Reason was we dated only 6 months after we met for the first time as Chief bridesmaid and Bestman in a wedding. Marry a calm woman who would listen to you first before she talks and who would still respect you even if you are wrong as she corrects you. I am now living with my best friend.We keep improving by the day . It gets sweeter. She is not that jumping around type and has few casual female friends. I am not that playing type who have eyes for other women friends. It is already 11 years of heaven on earth. I feel for you

Heathrow44:



don't go open a thread here saying how your wife is a gold digger and an ungrateful woman

incandescentena:
Evil women everywhere. I don't need to hear from both sides

Holluwhakemmy:
you need to hear from both sides then judgement should follow.

Neddstark:
If your marriage is still standing after 3 years, do Thanksgiving every Sunday