Eketem:






You have kuku unraveled as you didn't get the pity party you planned to get.

See the bike you are spewing at strangers,one can only imagine what that man goes through.

You think being a woman makes you an automatic victim.

Stay here and be cursing strangers and planning to kill your husband after calling his mother a winch while seeking spiritual solutions for your obvious laziness and entitlement

Kobojunkie:
You didn't answer the questions.. Again. You keep shifting blame to your husband instead of taking responsibility for what is your own mistake in this.

You claim you live with someone who doesn't want you to succeed but what have you done so far to show that you are even serious about succeeding as a person?

It is easy to blame someone else but what have you done for yourself to show you are serious and capable of success?

ellaV:
it's well...check the next topic uncle...you win in the dumb competition

Kobojunkie:
So in your newfound wisdom you remain unable to answer the questions?

ellaV:
I have a well to do husband and he will set up that business for me..whether you narcissist men like it or not..and you better establish your women else they will leave you at your lowest point in life....I came for advise I got the advise...build my morale and am back.. being broken for a while is human is your comeback it's what matters and am happy I brought it here...my ego is boosted...you know what I mean

Eketem:



I am a woman. You are the narcissist here, one who will blame everybody else for her inactions, declare her mother in law a winch and be planning to kill her husband whole declaring herself the victim.


I feel sorry for that man

ellaV:
go back on the thread uncle or sister..it will answer itself

ellaV:
feel sorry for yourself my dear...and pls marry a broke guy, build with him, let him block you from growing while not giving you cash then come back and let's talk..its easy to talk from the other side world people...no wonder women prefare to die in their pain than speak up..no be me una go kill, I will speak up,if it's not appealing to you, try be in my shoes and teach me better

Eketem:


We should support your entitlement, obvious narcissistic behavior, disrespect for a man and his family because you are a woman.

You have abused everybody who gave you practical advise here, shamed those who you conclude are single yet you are a victim because you are a woman.

I blame this silliness on social media, building sociopaths.

ellaV:
thank you God bless you...I got pregnant and my parents told him he must marry me besides he is my lover and first love so no biggie

rickleye:


So that answers that question - So if he loves the kids would he support them if you move out ?
Are you able to take care of them on your own once you get a job ?

Listen - Answers abound however we may not be prepared to do what it takes once we hear them. Good luck

Kobojunkie:
I am afraid the answers aren't to be found anywhere on this here thread, and I can't read your mind there.

Anyways, since you claim you which to pursue babalawo/spiritual resolutions, all I can do is wait to read an update from you or something. Goodluck!

ellaV:
all my effort , he crumbled them..the option is for me to have money and start a business or learn an IT skill and work remotely

Storyland, Storyland!
land of music fun and tales
Storyland, storyland, bring your friends along!

Kobojunkie:
Storyland, Storyland!
land of music fun and tales
Storyland, storyland, bring your friends along!

ellaV:
all my effort , he crumbled them..the option is for me to have money and start a business or learn an IT skill and work remotely

Eketem:


So you send CV according to you he will send a counter mail because you claim he bought you the phone and has your email pass words but you can't simply change the password or open a new email address?



Recap:
You are entitled to his money , you declare he has millions hidden

His mother is a marine spirit

He is gay

He doesn't want to give you the money

It is a spiritual problem

You are a strong woman who will collect the money by fire by force

You are a victim


All of us who saw through your bull are narcissists?

Have I left anything out

ellaV:
he told me , if I move out , I have no means to take care of the kids.so I will leave them n he will employ a nanny...he said this to me when when we were having an altercation..

Kobojunkie:
Storyland, Storyland!
land of music fun and tales
Storyland, storyland, bring your friends along!

rickleye:
Oga you wicked o. Madam dey pour her heart out, It becomes children tv show jingle !

Kobojunkie:
Her lopsided heart, you mean?

rickleye:


Okay - so are slowly getting some answers. I honestly don't know if I would trust the advice of an Internet person (me ) wholeheartedly.
You really want someone who has gone through this experience and can provide their personal touch.
That being said - You have to do what's good for you. You have to do what's good for you ( Repeated 2ce for effect)
What is wrong in getting Masters ? What is wrong in working ?
So - Does he love the kids. ? Does he love them enough that even when he gets a nanny , the kids will not be abused or mistreated.
How old are the kids ?
Listen people survive broken homes. ( It isn't ideal but the list of kids who have gone on to do wonders is as long as the 2nd Niger bridge)
Has he said, he won't support you or doesn't want you to work ?

Don't give up on your marriage - Fight !!!. But if it feels you're the only one carrying the weight... You do what's best for you.

ellaV:
thanks ..your one of the best advise I have read here...he love our kids 60% though

thesicilian:
Look for a way to set up an online business for yourself that you can operate from the comfort of your home. Do your research well before you start.

All I see is a man who is overly insecure, there's nothing spiritual about the issue that should make you be running from one pastor to the other.

Your husband thinks he's smart, find a way to outsmart him without being rebellious or disobedient.

Kobojunkie:
Spiritually? LOL....

So, you expect to be paid in cash for your contribution to building what is your own marriage/family as well?

I really hope you come back in maybe a year or two to give us an update on how far this journey of yours takes you as it seems you are dead-set on living as if a human leech in marriage.

Pierocash:
intensify your prayer. Seek counselling from your pastor.

anayolity:


Make I no slap you oooh

ehay:
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Nigerian men...this is why I no dey build anything with oga again oooo. Build yourself let me build myself. At the end of the day, after building together he will carry everything for himself and forget your sacrifices and contributions to his sucess.

ellaV:
I will get a job he will spoil it for me..I will send email he will counter it...what do u want me to do? When am living with someone who don't want me to succeed...ww will make it...I worked immediately I finished secondary school that was the time I met him...and that business is what I will go back to ..should I have capital to start

adeotiabdulaziz:
y is it so hard for you open another email address? ur man even gave yhu a car, yoy are still complaining. pple that are supporting you here, how many among dem don buy bike for their wife. Jus mention one thing you ve done for d man, nothing. Leave if yhu want to and let's see if d man won't replace you in a week and let's see who will marry a single mother of three who can't do anything for herself except to open legs. Some of yhu think because you were dere wen a man was broke, so yhu deserve everything wen he made it for jus being dere and still collecting you money den... Eti ya werey

ellaV:
Hello house gist day ooo