siofra:


And the boy child?

Society fulfilled him

The boy na hero...

The girl is a disgrace

I only saw boys were on the 11th floor and girls on the 4th floors. It is better the school stop giving out stupid defence. How many teachers/supervisors went with them? Or did they get to Dubai and see it as an uncommon holiday and abandoned the children to stray around?
The school is lieing like typical Nigerian government.

obailala:
Parents alone cannot raise kids... Kids will always be exposed to the society; no matter how excellently perfect parents and teachers are in shielding children from society, children will inevitably be exposed to society. E Even if parents and teachers monitor children 99.9% of the time (which is impractical anyway), that 0.1% of the time the child is exposed to society can still destroy the child.

So yeah in this case, society failed the children too.

You guys are mention society fails the girl? How, I remember in the 90s when I fuckup one bros that's not related to me, treated my fuckup, fast forward to 2000 , once school or any body discipline a minor for the doing the wrong thing the parent of the ward will engage the school or the person on physical fight or verbal fight..

I don't know why blame the school. In this present generation where the teachers can't discipline the child. It's purely parental failure.

MrBrownJay1:


we are still talking about a 10yr old child, right?!?!? do you actually think that this child knew the consequences of what she was doing (at 10yr old)?!?!?



some children turn bad because of the school environment they get into. not all school environment are safe/sane for kids. some school turn children into demons, some children in these school have deviant mindset. many innocent children join cults and start acting recklessly because of the bad influences at school. a school is an environment where children discover good and bad.

Even at 7, many of us knew whenever a kissing scene comes on, we turn our eyes away, even at 7 many of us knew if we should see an unclad grown up we cover our eyes. That was back then in the late 80s and early 90s o wey innocence still reign supreme. Nowadays kids are exposed to the vices 50 times as much as back then. A good parent will teach his or her child the consequences of allowing someone to touch his or her privates, a good parent would use everything from religion to finances, making sure the child understands not only the consequences for bad behaviors but the reward for good behavior. the problem nowadays is that some parents themselves are still not mentally developed, some are still learning how to raise themselves not to talk of children.

Woleobi:
The school was careless, yes. But this was not the girl's first encounter or the fifth. She is a pro. Who groomed her sexually? These are questions to be answered. Others in the video are also sexually experienced. How come they are so exposed to sex at such a young age? What kind of upbringing do these kids have from home? Can the girl be placed on therapy to overcome this ordeal? These are questions to be answered. Not just closing down the schools and re-opening them after a month for the same thing to happen again!

She doesn't need any therapy.
Her brain needs to be formatted completely.
That girl has terabytes of bad contents in her head.

Really, 10years old?

It's a lie. It's not possible.

There's no evidence.

MrBrownJay1:
PARENTS failed that child!
SCHOOL failed that child!
SOCIETY failed that child!

Family is the microcosm of the society.

Family (parents) failed.

There is always an extent the school can go in grooming a child,if the right family values are not inculcalted in them from their respective homes.

If the mother watched that video and still has the guts to come out publicly, without shame to claim her daughter was raped. Then she has failed as a mother.

MrBrownJay1:
PARENTS failed that child!
SCHOOL failed that child!
SOCIETY failed that child!

the child also failed herself in engaging in such lewd act at a tender age,she has the power to say NO to that uncle or cousin that is pressing her breasts,she has the power to say NO to those classmates fingering her pvssy,it is sad from the video she is enjoying the sex at such a tender age,she will be a slave to sex all her life and will regret starting too early.

Dreamhighnow:
Nigeria has failed that girl child

You will blame your entire existence on Nigeria.

OGHENAOGIE:
so a minor like her raped her... Some of Ina toxic feminism go kee ina

So minors cannot rape? Some of you toxic misogyny will kill you.

BabaO2:
I only saw boys were on the 11th floor and girls on the 4th floors. It is better the school stop giving out stupid defence. How many teachers/supervisors went with them? Or did they get to Dubai and see it as an uncommon holiday and abandoned the children to stray around?
The school is lieing like typical Nigerian government.

Of course it may not be more than one teacher. They would want to cut cost even when they had milked the parents to the boney.

immortalcrown:
School management is hard oh! But this news left one stone unturned. How did the girl end up with boys in a room? The truth is not yet out. The earlier the school says the whole truth, the better for the school. The parents of the kids, the school management and the society contribute to the perversion.

However, the boy is lucky. The society would have buried him alive if there is no video to show he did not rape the girl. His own parents are quiet because they have shame. The girl's mother wants to play smart in a society that is smarter than her. The boy and the girl need to be disciplined according to their ages to avoid their future being ruined.

But wait oh! As una go the world school game finish, which trophy una win? Abi the video na una trophy? Abi na show off una wan go do and the video come spoil the show? E be like say village people follow una reach Dubai.

I can understand what the school is passing through, it's extremely difficult to monitor kids these days. They camped the students in a hotel, girls on the 4th floor and boys the 11th floor or thereabout cause they anticipated this kind of thing. Unfortunately, kids these days are always a step ahead. You need to be actively involved in the management of boarding schools to understand the level of depravity of most kids. Maybe the school should have attached staffs to each of the students rooms. Some people condemning the school will even be shocked to find out what their own kids are doing right under their noses in their homes. Just that we live in a society where people are always in a hurry to criticize without fact finding. I am quite certain, this is the kind of school where parents frown at handing disciplinary measures on students. It's high time we fall back to the basics. Corporal punishment or reasonable flogging corrected and shaped most of our present and past adults. However these days, most parents will prefer you don't flog or punish their kids in school. What a shame.

Piso1234:



You're among the people that Inspires that little girl, you're among the fools that she looks up to on social media with the captions, " do whatever makes you happy without minding what the society will say, people like you goes to this school to mentor them negatively on girl child in the name of motivational speaker #werey feminism#

You are among the fools who do not read and cannot comprehend. They sit on the sidelines looking for how to turn everything on the girl child and remain suspiciously silent where the boy child is concerned. The gang of boys who look up to your specie online, who chalk every indefensible act of males to "feminism" without looking at anything. Your specie is their mentor.

#MadMisogyny


The way you are all incensed by being called out for rape is quite informative. Out of those who are dying on my post, several of you have admitted to non consensual sex and instead claimed you were framed. Disgusting rape apologist rapists.

Bestman66:
I don't know why blame the school. In this present generation where the teachers can't discipline the child. It's purely parental failure.

The school has it's own fault. You are taking children on an international excursion and you cannot ensure all is well and perfect for a few days?

If they knew they could not vouch for the good conduct of the children, they should not have bothered going on the trip at least for the reputation of the school.

What is worth doing......

ppogba:


The school has it's own fault. You are taking children on an international excursion and you cannot ensure all is well and perfect for a few days?

If they knew they could not vouch for the good conduct of the children, they should not have bothered going on the trip at least for the reputation of the school.

What is worth doing......

No. Rather let's heap blame on the mother and the girl.

It's what many people want, no matter how stupid and senseless it is to do so.

Dreamhighnow:
Nigeria has failed that girl child

you be mumu. Why not say the kids? Na only girl child worth saving?

abbey621:


Exactly, the world we live in now is telling parents to relax, to allow schools/society to train their children. In fact in the USA na school and government dey dictate what is considered proper way of raising a child.

GBAM !!!

MrBrownJay1:
PARENTS failed that child!
SCHOOL failed that child!
SOCIETY failed that child!

Respectfully speaking, I really don't want to call you a f ool.

Girl that was very happy riding dick that's who hypocritical and sentimental Nigerians are saying was raped.

The only person who has failed herself is the girl and nobody else. Not the parents, not the school and not the society.

No matter how strict you are with a bad child, the very instant he/she gets the slightest taste of freedom, they will let out their true behavior. If you want to know a child's true behavior, give them freedom.
The same can be said for poor people. Forget about their good behavior when they're poor. Wait till they make money and see the beast in them rear its ugly head up from the depths of their wicked soul. Money and freedom do not change people, they only bring out who they really are. Know this and know peace.

BRATISLAVA:


These thoughts never cross their minds. They simply use their local ideas on what happened to judge. All they know is that a little girl had sex, so she must be punished and her mother should be ashamed of her. They can't reason how she came to be in that position.

To illiterate Nigerians, all sex is desired, even when they know there are times it is forced. But they don't want to accept that fact, because it will make them all rapists. Because almost all of them have forcefully had sex with someone else, and believe it is okay to. So they pretend and fight against reality.

Instead of looking for justice, they are looking for how to blame the female party as usual.

you dey talk rubbish. Why not mention the boy child? I guess he’s useless to you.

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Respectfully speaking, I really don't want to call you a f ool.

Girl that was very happy riding dick that's who hypocritical and sentimental Nigerians are saying was raped.

The only person who has failed herself is the girl and nobody else. Not the parents, not the school and not the society.

No matter how strict you are with a bad child, the very instant he/she gets the slightest taste of freedom, she will let out her true behavior. If you want to know a child's true behavior, give them freedom.
The same can be said for poor people. Forget about their good behavior when they're poor. Wait till they make money and see the beasts in them rear it ugly head up from the depths of their wicked souls. Money and freedom do not change people, it only brings out who they really are. Know this and know peace.

true. But when you train a child well and give them that freedom, they’ll make good decisions.

moneyissweet:
As a father of four,no one failed that little girl.she is just a little prostitute from hell.

You people should stop blaming parents and schools.

Children of these days are evil.

Before you quote me,My first daughter and first son are already in secondary school.

No sir. I don't agree. Again the age of your first kids does not influence the truth about this scenerio in any way. I married as a virgin at 34 and my wife was a virgin at 30. That was the background and times we lived in that benefitted us. Do you think the societal values of today does not influence the decisions kids will make? The movies, the bbnaija? The celebrities? The bobrisky? The phones and xrated videos? The unaccountable politicians and moral decay in a society? Put that same child in the north and see her have a different character altogether. The society affects the growth and characteristics of the children who live there.

immortalcrown:
School management is hard oh! But this news left one stone unturned. How did the girl end up with boys in a room? The truth is not yet out. The earlier the school says the whole truth, the better for the school. The parents of the kids, the school management and the society contribute to the perversion.

However, the boy is lucky. The society would have buried him alive if there is no video to show he did not rape the girl. His own parents are quiet because they have shame. The girl's mother wants to play smart in a society that is smarter than her. The boy and the girl need to be disciplined according to their ages to avoid their future being ruined.

But wait oh! As una go the world school game finish, which trophy una win? Abi the video na una trophy? Abi na show off una wan go do and the video come spoil the show? E be like say village people follow una reach Dubai.

rape ke?

Kids from comfortable homes problem..The way that 10year old girl was riding calls for more questioning..This probably isn't her first sex.

Some girls spoil on time..Some adult must have influenced her negatively.

Ebubu:
true. But when you train a child well and give them that freedom, they’ll make good decisions.

No bro. That is a total misconception. Have you not seen a family where the kids grew up having no parents but at the end of the day, they turned out to lead exemplary lives.

Where what you are saying mostly works is when you are blessed by fortune and fate. In such cases, you need not do the most because everything will just fall perfectly in place. Have you not heard of children who are old souls. Right from childhood, they already have things figured out like knowing what's best to do in almost any situation. Such kids are not impressionable. They are never moved by peer pressure. They exude wisdom right from birth. They are simply, the very blessing of fortune and fate.

emperor863:
This episode is a big scandal that the school should not be allowed to wriggle out of. How can a school of such calibre (or any school for that matter) allow such underage children to cohabit to the extent that they were able to engage in sexual activities and even recorded it on their phones. Is it normal for boarded students to have access to mobile phones? What a big shame.

The parents of all the children should bury their heads in shame because ordinarily, at that age (of ten years) the children should not even develop an urge for sex. Only God knows what type of moral and home training some people give to their children. That girl obviously was not having sex for the first time.

The parents should be brought to book on this because the law can do virtually nothing to these children on account of their respective ages.

Lastly, this should be a reflection of what the society really is. If this has happened, it means it can happen (or is also happening) in hundred of other cases in the country - especially among the upper crust of the society where a lot of scandals abound. Whether we like to believe or not, similar thing is happening in boarding schools all over the country.

May God heal our land and cleanse it of all satanic influence.

Did you bother to read the write up? Girls were on the 11th floor and boys on the 4th. With that much separation of the sexes what else could the school reasonably have done? Lock in each batch in their rooms? Put a chaperone to sleep in each room? The best thing the school could've done is separate them, which they claimed to have done, but there's no stopping kids hell bent on doing some thing bad, they'll always find a way.
Anyone who had the misfortune of encountering the video would see the girl was brazen having sex in a room filled with other boys, so obviously she came to their room, a child that's that confident is already near-pro, so this wouldn't be a first.
We can all react emotionally and point fingers at the school, but if all students were adequately separated we have to admit there wasn't much more they could realistically do.
The parents have a fair share of blame as well.
At the end of the day, like it's said in the hood, pikin wey go spoil, go spoil, Regardless of what everyone else does.

OriOko88:
The excesses of most of these rich kids is outta this world. They re over confident and always think they're intelligent...over pampered lots. The way their parents expose them to different sophisticated gadgets and tools,believing they re treating them nicely and exposing them to d modern world is ludicrous.

So when some of them misbehave like these ones I don't really get amused cos the parents have already damage their physce. Initially when I saw d video,I tot the students were black american teens with the mastery of d little girl in the sex scene..I was really stunned.
Most of those rich kids HV little respect and no fear whatsoever for their parents.. I always witness how those kids relate with their parents when I was staying in an estate.. So saucy kids.

Poor kids are even worse if you don't know.

MrBrownJay1:



true... but we rarely heard (let alone seen) these acts...sadly today, its all in our faces and there is even videos to back it up.

But does it really matter whether it was in our faces or not, the crux of the matter is majority of us did....

The only difference is, with mummy and Daddy there was no penetration involved but this had big time penetration.

abbey621:


It's not the job of society to raise your child!

but society has a huge influence on them.

BBN, "Freaky freaky", I Am Coming by Naira Marley ft. Bosiswa, morally decadent influencers on Instagram... Add yours!

Nemere2020:
Earlier thread:
https://www.nairaland.com/7083543/chrisland-school-accused-covering-up

https://www.nairaland.com/7084316/lagos-shuts-down-chrisland-school



https://dailytrust.com/breaking-five-pupils-misbehaved-in-dubai-chrisland-breaks-silence-on-sex-scandal

Those blaming the school here, should go and bury their heads in shame , that sextape is as a result of poor parental care and guidance on the part of the parent's of all the kids involved in that sextape to me that is no rape , you can see from the video that no body force anyone to do anything they both agree to do it even the girl look at the way she was riding the guy it means that girl is no longer a Virgin in the first place they kids have been doing it , when parents allow their kids access to smartphones what do you expect, kids now watch romantic movies, BB naija the ones they watch the the phones parents buy for them nko to they access to porn on smartphone, parents are to be blamed, leave the school alone they did the right thing by expelling those students

It's a boarding school. Those children spend more time in school than at home.

You will be surprised that some of those children involved in such act came from well-disciplined home.

egemibak:
don't know why blame the school. In this present generation where the teachers can't discipline the child. It's purely parental failure.