Mr man sincerely speaking she has been abused by raped so the trauma is too heavy for her to handle when she sees you want to cuddle her it's rings as if you want to RAPE her

OluwoR:
Good evening my brothers and sisters,

I sincerely needs urgent help/assistance for my Fiancee.

Met her in 2012, started dating in 2014, had our first sex in 2019, but since that 2019, anytime I make moves to have sex with Her, it's always through fight, to cut the story short, she find sex extremely painful that even anything that pass cuddling, she'll start crying, this might sound funny, but seriously it is not.
I talked to Her about it, booked an appointment with a gynecologist, my babe didn't show up, I tried to get her sexual supplements, she said they have side effects, and she disposed them.

Now, the problem is, we're planning our introduction, and we're yet to get any solution to the problem at hand,
please, who have any idea of what we can do about it.

OluwoR:
Good evening my brothers and sisters,

I sincerely needs urgent help/assistance for my Fiancee.

Met her in 2012, started dating in 2014, had our first sex in 2019, but since that 2019, anytime I make moves to have sex with Her, it's always through fight, to cut the story short, she find sex extremely painful that even anything that pass cuddling, she'll start crying, this might sound funny, but seriously it is not.
I talked to Her about it, booked an appointment with a gynecologist, my babe didn't show up, I tried to get her sexual supplements, she said they have side effects, and she disposed them.

Now, the problem is, we're planning our introduction, and we're yet to get any solution to the problem at hand,
please, who have any idea of what we can do about it.

Oga, na you sabi..
..
My wife is the one turning me on.
And you're here fighting to have sex.
And you're planning to marry her.

OluwoR:


I tried explaining to a Doctor friend, he referred me to a Gynecologist, paid 50K for appointment, my babe didn't go

It’s either she’s not attracted to you and is cheating OR it’s vaginismus

Don't u think she will improve when u both are married..... probably she is just the type that does not believe in pre- marital sex

OluwoR:
brother, see, I understand You, but you think it's easy to just cut off 8 years relationship just like that ?

So, your problem is 8 years of bumpy relationship??
Oya naa.
Marry her.
You've already made up your mind.
So, why are you here lamenting?

Mtcheeew, I only pity you

OluwoR:
brother, see, I understand You, but you think it's easy to just cut off 8 years relationship just like that ?

youngsahito:
you are planning introduction when u know that u have a fire on your roof, shey na love make u mumu like this or just want to create problem for yourself? Don't come here to cry like a baby ooo when everything burst.

Lmaoo baba the dude is a simp

OluwoR:


Sir, before I'd open a thread about this, you should know I must have tried all possible best
Sir, anything that has to do with sex, she just doesn't want to hear it
she had blocked me on SM on several occasions cos I tried to bring up sexual related matters

It still pains me that you lasted more than 3 months in a relationship with such a lady, not to talk of whooping 8 years.
A lady that wanted to trap me with the no-sex mantra, I told her straight-away that I am very good in sex, and that if she really want to enjoy the best of me, then she must allow things to flow naturally between us, and that means, sex should also come when the need for it arises., and that if she obstructs the natural flow of emotions due to the denial of sex, it may also affect the whole love, and that she shouldn't bother herself how I settled myself. That was how she relaxed and enjoyed every bit of the relationship, even without bothering whether I was going to marry her or not. She married before me though, and she continued thanking me for teaching her how to love and accept both good and bad while in love.

OluwoR:
Good evening my brothers and sisters,

I sincerely needs urgent help/assistance for my Fiancee.

Met her in 2012, started dating in 2014, had our first sex in 2019, but since that 2019, anytime I make moves to have sex with Her, it's always through fight, to cut the story short, she find sex extremely painful that even anything that pass cuddling, she'll start crying, this might sound funny, but seriously it is not.
I talked to Her about it, booked an appointment with a gynecologist, my babe didn't show up, I tried to get her sexual supplements, she said they have side effects, and she disposed them.

Now, the problem is, we're planning our introduction, and we're yet to get any solution to the problem at hand,
please, who have any idea of what we can do about it.

Why won't she go to the hospital. Does she know what is wrong but doesn't want to tell you?.

Soo many questions however a solution is needed and her rejection to everything won't solve the problem.

OluwoR:
Good evening my brothers and sisters,

I sincerely needs urgent help/assistance for my Fiancee.

Met her in 2012, started dating in 2014, had our first sex in 2019, but since that 2019, anytime I make moves to have sex with Her, it's always through fight, to cut the story short, she find sex extremely painful that even anything that pass cuddling, she'll start crying, this might sound funny, but seriously it is not.
I talked to Her about it, booked an appointment with a gynecologist, my babe didn't show up, I tried to get her sexual supplements, she said they have side effects, and she disposed them.

Now, the problem is, we're planning our introduction, and we're yet to get any solution to the problem at hand,
please, who have any idea of what we can do about it.

My simple advice, don't go a step further to any marital process with her, break up now before you regret.

Oga do the needful marriage no be go come once in its difficult to go out mist especially when u are a landlord.
The earlier the better.
If she had wanted a solution she should not have allowed you waste money by not showing up.

OluwoR:


I tried explaining to a Doctor friend, he referred me to a Gynecologist, paid 50K for appointment, my babe didn't go

OluwoR:
Good evening my brothers and sisters,

I sincerely needs urgent help/assistance for my Fiancee.

Met her in 2012, started dating in 2014, had our first sex in 2019, but since that 2019, anytime I make moves to have sex with Her, it's always through fight, to cut the story short, she find sex extremely painful that even anything that pass cuddling, she'll start crying, this might sound funny, but seriously it is not.
I talked to Her about it, booked an appointment with a gynecologist, my babe didn't show up, I tried to get her sexual supplements, she said they have side effects, and she disposed them.

Now, the problem is, we're planning our introduction, and we're yet to get any solution to the problem at hand,
please, who have any idea of what we can do about it.

Never ever try to marry her you will suffer untold hardship sexualy and others. DON'T TRY IT � OOO

This kind of relationship will only leads you into extra Martial affair bro...You better flee

I think you are the one that has the problem. BIG PROBLEM.
Why are you spending energy preparing for disaster that you can avoid?
End the relationship. For the sake of sanity and peace.
Meanwhile, I had a so called girlfriend in my university days. Exactly with same attributes.

OluwoR:
Good evening my brothers and sisters,

I sincerely needs urgent help/assistance for my Fiancee.

Met her in 2012, started dating in 2014, had our first sex in 2019, but since that 2019, anytime I make moves to have sex with Her, it's always through fight, to cut the story short, she find sex extremely painful that even anything that pass cuddling, she'll start crying, this might sound funny, but seriously it is not.
I talked to Her about it, booked an appointment with a gynecologist, my babe didn't show up, I tried to get her sexual supplements, she said they have side effects, and she disposed them.

Now, the problem is, we're planning our introduction, and we're yet to get any solution to the problem at hand,
please, who have any idea of what we can do about it.

OluwoR:
Good evening my brothers and sisters,

I sincerely needs urgent help/assistance for my Fiancee.

Met her in 2012, started dating in 2014, had our first sex in 2019, but since that 2019, anytime I make moves to have sex with Her, it's always through fight, to cut the story short, she find sex extremely painful that even anything that pass cuddling, she'll start crying, this might sound funny, but seriously it is not.
I talked to Her about it, booked an appointment with a gynecologist, my babe didn't show up, I tried to get her sexual supplements, she said they have side effects, and she disposed them.

Now, the problem is, we're planning our introduction, and we're yet to get any solution to the problem at hand,
please, who have any idea of what we can do about it.

Hope she’s not getting sexual pleasure elsewhere? And you…how have you managed your own side? What’s crazy about your situation is that there has been a serious problem in your relationship and you still went ahead with engagement. You already know what to expect. Period!

OluwoR:


I grab Sir, and yeah, we do things, but if the romance get intense to some level, she'll back off

Even she back during MouthAction may be you ain't good enough..you need to act like professional like us when it comes to romance a woman..

Have you tap the clit and bounce little on the p face before start romance the clit alone and sucking the breast gradually while you doing the same clit touch at the same time..do it for a while and change position come down little lick the clit I mean leak for 15-20min
Then go back to the starting again..and continue for a while..na she go begged u for sex..if come.worst get a vibrator to finish the job..all woman can squirt.just you never carried her trabaye..if u need more lesson PM me..and if worst come shes ain't succumb bro ..RUN oooo u no be first to crush relationship and you wknt be the last too neither..shalom

youngsahito:
you are planning introduction when u know that u have a fire on your roof, shey na love make u mumu like this or just want to create problem for yourself? Don't come here to cry like a baby ooo when everything burst.

I was once like her before , until I lost my 4years relationship to my ignorance about sex, I got to know it's important in my marriage, I decided to work on my self so as not to loose my marriage like my wasted relationship, I was able to do this tru rising romance book, watching romance films nd having full romance to my satisfaction before sex.

Op, if she's not ready to work on her self, try and give her space for a while for her to think deep and retrace herself, am very sure it will work.
she will come back begging wth promise to dance to your tune.

Jejely you saw problem and you want to enter it yourself. I'm an advocate of enjoy your babe well before marriage so you understand each other more. After introduction, the babe will be so powerful that she won't care about your feelings towards having sex anymore. Moreso, people will ask you whether you guys didn't court before marriage. Use your head ooo.

OluwoR:
Good evening my brothers and sisters,

I sincerely needs urgent help/assistance for my Fiancee.

Met her in 2012, started dating in 2014, had our first sex in 2019, but since that 2019, anytime I make moves to have sex with Her, it's always through fight, to cut the story short, she find sex extremely painful that even anything that pass cuddling, she'll start crying, this might sound funny, but seriously it is not.
I talked to Her about it, booked an appointment with a gynecologist, my babe didn't show up, I tried to get her sexual supplements, she said they have side effects, and she disposed them.

Now, the problem is, we're planning our introduction, and we're yet to get any solution to the problem at hand,
please, who have any idea of what we can do about it.

Is it introduction to sex that you guys are planning or introduction to a marriage with sex problems

Alright so how do you guys intend to make babies

How do you plan to have a sexless marriage at this your vibrant age

I mean how do you think this issue will be solve once you are married to her

Anyway solve this problem now before any introduction

[quote author=yinkeys post=112485293]
Maybe it’s vaginismus[/quote[I have never heard of this before

OluwoR:


I tried explaining to a Doctor friend, he referred me to a Gynecologist, paid 50K for appointment, my babe didn't go

Ur blinded by emotions. You need help. The earlier u end the relationship the better for you.
U've invested so much hence it's hard to back out now.
As difficult as it may sound to you, the best thing is to let go of her and look elsewhere.
Perhaps, she's having it with someone else and doesn't find u attractive sexually but u r like a good provider and a nice guy.

Go to YouTube search for "Darius M podcast" u will find answers to Ur many questions....cheers

If you like sex, she is not your partner.
Once had a girlfriend that was denying me sex for religious reasons. I kept quiet. When she started suspecting me of cheating, all I said is "I am sorry" without remorse. I initiated the conversation if we are really meant for each other.

Hey! Just pause this marriage For a sec and focus on finding solution to ya problem. See like me, had this girl as a gf Then that I met that often denied me of sex each time she comes over but would rather let us cuddle. At some point, I starts to rom.ance her And from there i Also used the fin.gerin method. And Each time i does All this, i normally used to pay attention to her body movement so as to spot the area where i could just press the button And she'll lay flat like a mu.mu dog �., LoL �� and that was How i got into her without her knowing self, and right now she's on me always craving for that $h.t LoL ��

Bro, s#% is so important in a relationship And a marriage. Abeg no let your emotions let you down for this moment rather take your time And fix it or you let that b#tch off ya way.


I'm New here tho but had been following up this forum since decades now.
#cheers

YOUR FIANCEE IS TRAUMATIZED BY SEX BECAUSE SOMETIME IN THE PAST SHE WAS RAPED.

I have a friend who is a Doctor and his wife is also a Doctor.
Before he married her, he knows she has phobia for sex and he still married her hoping she will change.
But nothing changed, they can spend a whole year without having sex even though they are not based in the same town cos of work(just an hour trip)
The guy sleeps with anything in skirt.
Atimes I don’t blame him (what do you expect)

My brother, a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage o,

the day you will lie in bed, with your dick on attention, and your wife not in the mood... remember you could have ended it before it got to this stage.

OluwoR:
Good evening my brothers and sisters,

I sincerely needs urgent help/assistance for my Fiancee.

Met her in 2012, started dating in 2014, had our first sex in 2019, but since that 2019, anytime I make moves to have sex with Her, it's always through fight, to cut the story short, she find sex extremely painful that even anything that pass cuddling, she'll start crying, this might sound funny, but seriously it is not.
I talked to Her about it, booked an appointment with a gynecologist, my babe didn't show up, I tried to get her sexual supplements, she said they have side effects, and she disposed them.

Now, the problem is, we're planning our introduction, and we're yet to get any solution to the problem at hand,
please, who have any idea of what we can do about it.

She not only pretty or wowo girl in town, relationship without sex is no go area 4 a man because it will continue like that after marriage ,then divorce will follow.
Go and get new girl 4 ur satisfaction

OluwoR:
brother, see, I understand You, but you think it's easy to just cut off 8 years relationship just like that ?

8 years relationship na shear abi bond

OluwoR:
Good evening my brothers and sisters,

I sincerely needs urgent help/assistance for my Fiancee.

Met her in 2012, started dating in 2014, had our first sex in 2019, but since that 2019, anytime I make moves to have sex with Her, it's always through fight, to cut the story short, she find sex extremely painful that even anything that pass cuddling, she'll start crying, this might sound funny, but seriously it is not.
I talked to Her about it, booked an appointment with a gynecologist, my babe didn't show up, I tried to get her sexual supplements, she said they have side effects, and she disposed them.

Now, the problem is, we're planning our introduction, and we're yet to get any solution to the problem at hand,
please, who have any idea of what we can do about it.

Bobo ur girlfriend no like u jor u better free and get someone that is serious.

Chyma231:
All this boys here on NL who thinks they are matured

while will you comment on boy's topic,while dont you find men's topics to comment.
shmm

OluwoR:


I tried explaining to a Doctor friend, he referred me to a Gynecologist, paid 50K for appointment, my babe didn't go

Bobo run for ur future she is not serious