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Re: What Advice Can You Give to Somebody About To Get Married? by Eraddray(m): 9:35pm On May 03, 2022
Please don't do it
Re: What Advice Can You Give to Somebody About To Get Married? by pongwa(m): 9:37pm On May 03, 2022
AishaDant:
Communication in relationships is very important. Talk to your partner about everything and carry her along always.

Be honest, be kind and be sensitive to your partner.
Also, be faithful!

Feel free to share these with your partner.
It must be 50:50 to work well.

Best of luck! smiley
50:50 in what aspects. Always make your dealings plain with your spouse to avoid stories that touch. Many homes don crash because of this thinking that 'he suppose understand na'

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Re: What Advice Can You Give to Somebody About To Get Married? by Aplaudez(m): 9:38pm On May 03, 2022
virginprincess:
For the guy, he should love, cherish and treat her like a queen she is moreover never shout and treat her badly especially in presence of the kids, finally spend on her,
for the lady, she should respect and obey her husband especially if his the responsible and caring type, finally, take good care of the home

Ladies and this spending mentality, wise up ma'am, majority don't depend on their hubby again so change this your mentality.

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Re: What Advice Can You Give to Somebody About To Get Married? by Vintiana: 9:38pm On May 03, 2022
Anything you can’t tolerate now, don’t think you can tolerate it during marriage.
Marriage doesn’t change character (just in case he/she is promising to change after marriage).

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Re: What Advice Can You Give to Somebody About To Get Married? by Toks2008(m): 9:38pm On May 03, 2022
FOR THE LADIES.

If you find it difficult to respect, honor or submit yourself to your husband please. Remain single.


FOR THE MEN

If you find it difficult to forgive recklessly and say sorry to your wife even when you have no reason to, please remain single.

Marriage is so easy but it is the arrogance and ego of the people involved that messes up the beautiful institution.

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Re: What Advice Can You Give to Somebody About To Get Married? by Maj196(m): 9:40pm On May 03, 2022
For guys only:

Abort Mission...


I Repeat!


Abort Mission...

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Re: What Advice Can You Give to Somebody About To Get Married? by Mom007(f): 9:41pm On May 03, 2022
Put God first. Pray together. Celebrate every win. Brace for the unexpected. Have pity for one another. Learn to empathize. Be modest. Keep your lifestyle simple. Ladies, go into marriage with busy hands. A time may come when you will be unable to work again. Your past records will speak for you. Men, be faithful. Again, God first. You can never be too prepared. Devil has been attacking marriages for millenniums.., right from the garden of eden. Only God can best him.
Good luck.

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Re: What Advice Can You Give to Somebody About To Get Married? by jclassiq(m): 9:41pm On May 03, 2022
Abort mission, NOW!!!!
Re: What Advice Can You Give to Somebody About To Get Married? by Mayeldah(m): 9:42pm On May 03, 2022
For the man, please note that it's a woman that decides most things in the marriage.

Eg., She decides when sex happens, if she is not in the mood, just go find how to sort your self out.

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Re: What Advice Can You Give to Somebody About To Get Married? by Quaddafi29: 9:44pm On May 03, 2022
You are finished!
Re: What Advice Can You Give to Somebody About To Get Married? by ikeseeholdings1(m): 9:45pm On May 03, 2022
My candid advise:
Always carry it at the back of your mind that your WIFE OR husband must surly cheat on you.
It will help you not to die before your time.
know this truth and know Peace

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Re: What Advice Can You Give to Somebody About To Get Married? by franchasofficia: 9:45pm On May 03, 2022
If you are the man getting married, work and pray to have good sustainable income flow. With this, every other thing can be sorted if you wish to.



Don't go into marriage today as a man if you have no sustainable means of income unless your lady is from a well to do family ready to offer you a good paying job or she is a citizen in a developed country ready to help you cross over, if not, wait and sort your finances first. Marriage dont bring financial fortune like people always presume, it works for only few fortunate people so don't live your life on luck.

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Re: What Advice Can You Give to Somebody About To Get Married? by seanwilliam(m): 9:46pm On May 03, 2022
1. Before getting married , pls You both should be working no matter how rich you are as a man
2. Don’t ignore RED FLAG, even if the wedding date is already set, and you deeply know you can’t cope with those flags pls and pls abort. It’s hurtful but it’s in the best interest of you both
3.have plan on the numbers of kids you both want. Pls don’t born more than you can take care of
4. As a man have bedroom skills and be ready to over look some petty things ( be careful so it doesn’t metamorphose into habit)
5. As a woman you have to be very very. Dey submissive. Learn how to massage your man’s ego. Funnily enough A submissive woman indirectly controls her the house
6. Don’t buy property with your partner’s name
7. As a man, you need to take very good care of your wife. Spend on her and give her all she wants if you can comfortably afford it ..
10. As a man, be open minded with your wife, don’t cheat ( cos it might goes out of hand ), wife you have to be faithful to him too.

11. Communication is very important .
12. Make sure you both settle differences before going to bed at night .
13. Spice up your sexual life. Explore new things.
14. Go out like boyfriend and girlfriend.
15. Avoid too much familiarity and interference from both family ..
16. Prayer is important . Pray pray ,cos you both will be tested in the battle of life
17. DONT TAKE LOAN FOR WEDDING OR ANYTHING that’s not business related
18. Have savings as a man and multiple source of income pls . Before you get married as a man, you must able to fend for three mouth atleast even if she’s going to support you . E get why
19. You both shouldn’t judge una relationship with someone’s else relationship.
20. PLS AND PLS DONT IGNORE NUMBER 2

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Re: What Advice Can You Give to Somebody About To Get Married? by KIDfurniture(m): 9:46pm On May 03, 2022
Have money oh!!!!

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Re: What Advice Can You Give to Somebody About To Get Married? by Enumerator(m): 9:47pm On May 03, 2022
cheesy
czarr:
Don't do it.

Unless she be dangote pikin
Re: What Advice Can You Give to Somebody About To Get Married? by womenareapez: 9:47pm On May 03, 2022
chatinent:
What advice can you give to sb about to walk down the aisle in a short time?
if you are marrying to a naija woman undecided

Your own has finished!
Either you start preparing for your early funeral or preparing to take care of another's man child under your own roof undecided

Those female baboons (naija women) ain't worth marrying!

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Re: What Advice Can You Give to Somebody About To Get Married? by EkoErrands: 9:49pm On May 03, 2022
chatinent:
What advice can you give to sb about to walk down the aisle in a short time?

If she dey resist sex...even once ...no marry o!

MODIFIED:
No matter the reason way she give you.

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Re: What Advice Can You Give to Somebody About To Get Married? by Nobody: 9:50pm On May 03, 2022
I go just Laugh grin grin grin
Thats my advice to him grin grin grin
Re: What Advice Can You Give to Somebody About To Get Married? by pimplucious: 9:50pm On May 03, 2022
Here

Re: What Advice Can You Give to Somebody About To Get Married? by Neoteny7: 9:50pm On May 03, 2022
Don't do it

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Re: What Advice Can You Give to Somebody About To Get Married? by Honestfrend: 9:51pm On May 03, 2022
Nairaland ladies sabi give dis kind advice.. This is their calling... grin
Re: What Advice Can You Give to Somebody About To Get Married? by Udemzy05: 9:53pm On May 03, 2022
Though I'm not her married,but the only advice I have is make sure you know yourself very well.

Know what you can tolerate and what you can't because it will be a bad idea if you marry someone you can't tolerate, especially if he or she does something you don't like.

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Re: What Advice Can You Give to Somebody About To Get Married? by womenareapez: 9:53pm On May 03, 2022
AishaDant:
Communication in relationships is very important. Talk to your partner about everything and carry her along always.

Be honest, be kind and be sensitive to your partner.
Also, be faithful!

Feel free to share these with your partner.
It must be 50:50 to work well.

Best of luck! smiley
if you followed all this garbage advise from that vagina gender, your life will be damage x2 undecided

Never you take advise from a woman especially a black woman!

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Re: What Advice Can You Give to Somebody About To Get Married? by virginprincess(f): 9:54pm On May 03, 2022
Aplaudez:


Ladies and this spending mentality, wise up ma'am, majority don't depend on their hubby again so change this your mentality.
No mentality has changed, men should learn to take responsibilities of their wives.
Re: What Advice Can You Give to Somebody About To Get Married? by Dreadlock69(m): 9:54pm On May 03, 2022
Just because it will not work for me know me say ee no go work for you
Re: What Advice Can You Give to Somebody About To Get Married? by TheMan3: 9:56pm On May 03, 2022
chatinent:
What advice can you give to sb about to walk down the aisle in a short time?
listen and listen good. It's better to marry a bad girl from a good home, than to marry a good girl from a bad home. It's even better not to Marry any of them at all.

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Re: What Advice Can You Give to Somebody About To Get Married? by kals4luv990(m): 10:00pm On May 03, 2022
Don't marry a girl born from 1993 till date..na olosho dem b
Don't marry a girl staying in Lag. E get why
Don't marry if yu are still a SIMP.na early grave yu dey go so
Don't marry a Feminist..Prevention is better than cure

He that has eyes let him read and get sense

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Re: What Advice Can You Give to Somebody About To Get Married? by Munzy14(m): 10:00pm On May 03, 2022
chatinent:
What advice can you give to sb about to walk down the aisle in a short time?
Chati are you about to pop the golden question... cheesy

Chatinent: Baby! Will you marry me?

Babe: yes yes yes cheesy

Next wuzi pre wedding ihe hu grin

Anyways, my advice is, marry who has something doing..Either working or doing a business..It comes with responsibility from both sides.

Secondly, it cannever be all rosy...keep this in mind, and pray for wsidom to overcome challenges...Especially when wify acts like a girl or hubby acts like a boy.

Lastly, love eachother and go all out for eachother..Be open and enjoy each other..
Unu tawa onwe unu ofuma..Very Importanter.. cheesy

I saw full body massage in a comment, extremely important..Purely naked body massage on a regular is chilling and exciting...Both front and back o cheesy

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Re: What Advice Can You Give to Somebody About To Get Married? by TheMan3: 10:01pm On May 03, 2022
iLegenddNoReply:
0. Set the rules and boundaries early (during courtship)

1. Have money (don't let your pastor deceive you that you need to marry early even if you're broke and God will provide after marriage)
2. Know how to Bleep without drugs (extremely important)
3. Invest less emotions but be caring
4. Know how to control your anger and don't be abusive, but...
5. If she f*cks up, tell her to f*ck off without saying a word (thank God you didn't invest more emotions than her)
6. Have access to her phone and chats and also let her have access to yours
7. Be cooperative, but don't let her be manipulative
8. Don't allow in-laws control your marriage or have too much access to your day-to-day family affairs
9. Maintain the principles you had at the dating stage, but amend a couple of them that aren't against your core value
10. Have only children you can take care of — don't born more than you can handle and end up increasing the rate of crime and prostitution through your numerous hungry children
11. Add humor and playfulness in your marriage
12. Communicate and discuss things
13. Be honest and trustworthy — same as her
14. Fear God, not her family or threat to leave
15. And finally, live in peace or walk away if you can't find peace of mind in the marriage anymore

Extra tip Learn to give each other full-body massage at least 4 time a month — it relieves stress, brings calmness, and gives peace to mind. :

If you haven't received a full-body massage, you're missing.

May I add.... With happy ending grin
Re: What Advice Can You Give to Somebody About To Get Married? by Babastrong(m): 10:01pm On May 03, 2022
Always be a SOLDIER and a TEACHER in that marriage.
Re: What Advice Can You Give to Somebody About To Get Married? by Emperorx: 10:01pm On May 03, 2022
If you are not ready to say am sorry ,if u are not ready to tolerate,if you are not ready to forgive please don't get married.

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