Have you study this person in and out to be sure he/she is the one?Can you cope with their character? Do you know their family beliefs? Etc plenty questions because no going back after marriage it is forever ni o!

Quote: 'Honest men marry soon, but wise men never at all!'

Take the oath that you will never get divorced no matter what for the sake the children you will bear and never break it.

virginprincess:
Yes, 90% of the spending should be on you, that why God made you a head over her, manup and takes responsibilities, stop for a woman that will share duties with you, when you act and behave like the man God has created you to be, your woman will surely love and respect you.

God made us heads doesn't mean we should go to an early grave. My dear, this is a contemporary world.

If Okonjo Iweala bought this your idea, who knows, she would have been a house wife by now with absolutely nothing to offer in a home.

chatinent:
What advice can you give to sb about to walk down the aisle in a short time?

Too late

You can’t advise a Man or a woman In LOVE

chatinent:
What advice can you give to sb about to walk down the aisle in a short time?

Don't marry, Is overrated and evil.

AishaDant:
Communication in relationships is very important. Talk to your partner about everything and carry her along always.

Be honest, be kind and be sensitive to your partner.
Also, be faithful!

Feel free to share these with your partner.
It must be 50:50 to work well.

Best of luck!

Honestly ❗ you have said it all, transperency is the key

Nice description of your mother

Savedday:
9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...

Don't cheat... for better for worse ok.

HAVE MONEY


Peace ✌️

Dont do it

Strategic use of "sorry dear" and "thank you dear". since there's no general template to happy marriage, study each other very well and adjust appropriately. Dont waste your time on excuses, if its turning war zone, seek sanity.

You gave a condition to respect the man as if he is the responsible type but you did not give a condition to love and cherish the woman. Why the double standards?

You still brought your gender bias to bear. Women sef!

virginprincess:
For the guy, he should love, cherish and treat her like a queen she is moreover never shout and treat her badly especially in presence of the kids, finally spend on her,
for the lady, she should respect and obey her husband especially if his the responsible and caring type, finally, take good care of the home

Make sure you marry your best friend, someone who understand you and your flaws. And more especially marry God-fearing spouse. Marriage is for better for worse. Be committed to your spouse. There must be fights, and arguments cos there’s no perfect relationship, but how we handle these fights matters a lot. Love your spouse unconditionally cos love covers all things. For the men don’t marry if you don’t have nothing to provide and take care of the family. For the women please be submissive, take care of your home, be good in the kitchen.

The butter on the flies will melt. The butterflies in your belly will be reduced to flies. What matters eventually is your commitments to the vows you made and how you can take and handle and tolerate your partner's strengths and weaknesses

iLegenddNoReply:
0. Set the rules and boundaries early (during courtship)

1. Have money (don't let your pastor deceive you that you need to marry early even if you're broke and God will provide after marriage)
2. Know how to Bleep without drugs (extremely important)
3. Invest less emotions but be caring
4. Know how to control your anger and don't be abusive, but...
5. If she f*cks up, tell her to f*ck off without saying a word (thank God you didn't invest more emotions than her)
6. Have access to her phone and chats and also let her have access to yours
7. Be cooperative, but don't let her be manipulative
8. Don't allow in-laws control your marriage or have too much access to your day-to-day family affairs
9. Maintain the principles you had at the dating stage, but amend a couple of them that aren't against your core value
10. Have only children you can take care of — don't born more than you can handle and end up increasing the rate of crime and prostitution through your numerous hungry children
11. Add humor and playfulness in your marriage
12. Communicate and discuss things
13. Be honest and trustworthy — same as her
14. Fear God, not her family or threat to leave
15. And finally, live in peace or walk away if you can't find peace of mind in the marriage anymore

Extra tip: Learn to give each other full-body massage at least 4 time a month — it relieves stress, brings calmness, and gives peace to mind.

If you haven't received a full-body massage, you're missing.

I need to save this somewhere safe , sounds more like a father's advice to his son on his wedding day.

my little piece. You both should Make Gods' word the standard for your lives. Shalom

Respect him/her opinions even when you know you're not going to use them or they matter less, make her see/him see reason why it cannot be used now with humility and love
Work serious on your anger
Self control very important don't ever attempt cheating it may lead to disaster, after marriage the devil may want to show you beautiful women and rich guys
proper communication please carry each other along
pray together and enjoy time together

Be tolerance with each other, that's the fact

Never forget to Read the book "The Secret of Family Happiness"

A lot of good advice here.

I thought your advice should be for both, but you are looking out for your gender alone

AishaDant:
Communication in relationships is very important. Talk to your partner about everything and carry her along always.

Be honest, be kind and be sensitive to your partner.
Also, be faithful!

Feel free to share these with your partner.
It must be 50:50 to work well.

Best of luck!

AishaDant:
Communication in relationships is very important. Talk to your partner about everything and carry her along always.

Be honest, be kind and be sensitive to your partner.
Also, be faithful!

Feel free to share these with your partner.
It must be 50:50 to work well.

Best of luck!

No, it must be 100:100 to work well. Give it your all.

Marriage no be for small boys.
Marriage na your mate??

ALWAYS Bleep HER KPEKUS FOR CONSTABT BONDING

Sorry bros I have a honest question if it's ok by you, Ignore if you think it's a stupid question
maybe I don't understand number 2 but Why will someone need drug before he bleep?
Or just explain the number 2 sentence (it appears I don't understand the whole sentence).
It's a honest question bro

iLegenddNoReply:
0. Set the rules and boundaries early (during courtship)
1. Have money (don't let your pastor deceive you that you need to marry early even if you're broke and God will provide after marriage)
2. Know how to Bleep without drugs (extremely important)
3. Invest less emotions but be caring
4. Know how to control your anger and don't be abusive, but...
5. If she f*cks up, tell her to f*ck off without saying a word (thank God you didn't invest more emotions than her)
6. Have access to her phone and chats and also let her have access to yours
7. Be cooperative, but don't let her be manipulative
8. Don't allow in-laws control your marriage or have too much access to your day-to-day family affairs
9. Maintain the principles you had at the dating stage, but amend a couple of them that aren't against your core value
10. Have only children you can take care of — don't born more than you can handle and end up increasing the rate of crime and prostitution through your numerous hungry children
11. Add humor and playfulness in your marriage
12. Communicate and discuss things
13. Be honest and trustworthy — same as her
14. Fear God, not her family or her threat to leave you
15. And finally, live in peace or walk away if you can't find peace of mind in the marriage anymore
Extra tip: Learn to give each other full-body massage at least 4 times a month — it relieves stress, brings calmness, and gives peace of mind.

Double confirm if the person is not a cheat, cos if he/she’s cheating now b4 the marriage, he/she will continue in the marriage .

Be respectful to one another.
Openness should be he key.
Love & care should be above all.


Talk to your spouse respectfully always.

Don't do it!

chatinent:


Lol. Thanks chief

Waiting for Invitation..

1. [/b]Make sure you pray together daily.
[b]2. Don't expect too much from each other, do your duty [/b]very well as a man / woman regardless of what your partner does. And don't focus too much about your [b]right [/b]as man / woman, both party should face their duty and they will be happy...

[b]...her right is your duty, your right is her duty...