Re: Help My Fiancée Caught Me Masturbating by BRATISLAVA: 5:09pm On May 05, 2022 |
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Re: Help My Fiancée Caught Me Masturbating by asoebi(m): 5:11pm On May 05, 2022 |
Streetmovement: Wotoporiously speaking
“Lies and secrets, Op, they are like a cancer in the soul. They eat away what is good and leave only destruction behind.”
You was caught in the act, now man up and own your shit, this is not the time to start acting smart because as long as she don facebook you for the act it's a wrap bro, I suggest you have a deep one on one with her about your situation.
Wetin she know she don know and she no fit un-know am weda you choose to accept it or not.
Man up bro, las las what will be will be. Thank you sir. |
Re: Help My Fiancée Caught Me Masturbating by jerry227: 5:13pm On May 05, 2022 |
asoebi: Hello everyone, please I need urgent advise cos my relationship might be crumbling and it will be entirely my fault.
My fiancée spent the night at my place and caught me maturating. I was so engrossed in the act that I didn't know she's been watching until she made some sounds as if turning on the bed. I quickly stopped and put on my boxers properly hoping she didn't see it, and just continued pressing my phone as if I was surfing the net while she was just staring at me like a ghost. I even kept pointing my phone's screen to her face for like 3 intervals to see if she has gone back to sleep but in all the times her eyes were wide opened staring at me. I finally dropped the phone and went to sleep till the next morning.
We woke up normally the next day and acted all cool with each other throughout the day until she confronted me last night asking me what I was doing and why, cos according to her she would have gladly obliged me if I wanted sex. She even alleged that she noticed I always don't want to be intimate with her at night but instead prefer to sleep alone. I tried denying with a silly excuse (I know it sounds stupid but that was the only thing my brain could conjure at that moment) that I wasn't maturating, rather I was doing a routine penis enlargement procedure I was watching online, but she insisted saying she has been noticing it some other nights but she's was not always sure if it's real or just her mind playing pranks with her. However this time, she has caught me red handed.
I finally resorted to shouting at her angrily, it was at that point she stopped talking and started crying. Later on she started muttering something to herself as if praying and she kept doing that while I slept on in silence. I didn't even know how or when I finally slept off.
My challenge now is how I should handle the issue, cos she has still been acting all cool as if nothing happened even when I left home without saying a word to her, or even letting her know I when I was leaving, but she has called me twice today and spoken normal as if she is not angry or bothered about what transpired last night.
Please I need just your advice, no insults.
Thank you. WhatsApp me let me give you best advice on what to do +2348164604874 |
Re: Help My Fiancée Caught Me Masturbating by myami: 5:13pm On May 05, 2022 |
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Re: Help My Fiancée Caught Me Masturbating by asoebi(m): 5:14pm On May 05, 2022 |
Ballzproblemm: see me see problem o,is it affecting your sexual performance?, is it affecting your productivity?, are you addicted to itif no ,then why you come they stress person ,I don't know the advice you seek ,but if it bothers you that much then stop. to me is not a big issue if your partner ain't cool with it is either you be more careful or you stop entirely I think it's somehow affecting my sexual performance, cos the no o times we have sex has greatly reduced and funny enough even with the constant sex without any pills or protection all these years, she hasn't even missed her period once. She even once joked about this. |
Re: Help My Fiancée Caught Me Masturbating by asoebi(m): 5:17pm On May 05, 2022 |
liftedud: The problem is you admitting that you have issue, that's number one
If you accept you have issue with yourself and constant masturbation then the solution starts coming, this is a ft you do frequently that you even do it when you have a good sexy lady laying with you.
Secondly, you don't have to shout or try to be a yeye man when you are caught, nothing wrong in saying sorry, men do say sorry.
Thirdly, do have conversation with your lady in all aspect.
Thank you Thank you, I'll take your suggestions. |
Re: Help My Fiancée Caught Me Masturbating by Magnoliaa(f): 5:21pm On May 05, 2022 |
BRATISLAVA: LOL! My dear, it's true talk. Men will destroy their youth and now be looking for a good woman to put up with their left-overs. What sort of a silly breed of madness is that? 1 Like |
Re: Help My Fiancée Caught Me Masturbating by BRATISLAVA: 5:21pm On May 05, 2022 |
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Re: Help My Fiancée Caught Me Masturbating by Ballzproblemm: 5:22pm On May 05, 2022 |
asoebi:
I think it's somehow affecting my sexual performance, cos the no o times we have sex has greatly reduced and funny enough even with the constant sex without any pills or protection all these years, she hasn't even missed her period once. She even once joked about this. then stop bro , change before it gets worst |
Re: Help My Fiancée Caught Me Masturbating by Gambit1(f): 5:22pm On May 05, 2022 |
Ballzproblemm: enya go rest , ya p man fit dey soapy, almost all guys touch themselves , you better come in terms with this reality. My dad is not a pervert like all the men in your family. |
Re: Help My Fiancée Caught Me Masturbating by asoebi(m): 5:23pm On May 05, 2022 |
jerry227: WhatsApp me let me give you best advice on what to do +2348164604874 ok |
Re: Help My Fiancée Caught Me Masturbating by Magnoliaa(f): 5:24pm On May 05, 2022 |
BRATISLAVA:
Preach to your gender. Let's hope they listen. No worries, love. The mantel is on me. I love our fellow sisters dearly and anything to save them, I'll simp 'till death for their sake. Kingpin1000: "You advice young ladies of your gender" Are you a transgender or just confused? Your moniker indicates male. Your statement indicates male but you added ladies.
May Vishnu open your eyes to the truth of my person beyond mere words and symbols.
Namaste. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help My Fiancée Caught Me Masturbating by Kingpin1000: 5:25pm On May 05, 2022 |
Magnoliaa: You're clearly not ready for marriage yet. In all ramifications. And I'm not surprised it's how it is with y'all young men of nowadays.
You are going to be sexually insatiable, definitely because you've had your fair share of copious pussíes to the point of being sexually addicted and daresay say I, abnormal.
This is why I advise young ladies of my gender. See the kind of wahala this son of Adam wants to bring into an innocent lady's life. Pornography and masturbation palava. I won't be surprised if you've been doing an*m*ls, too, because no normal man will not get aroused by the body of a woman. But because you've seen and done everything, penetrative sex is not satisfying to you men again and you're instead making use of your hands. Also endangering your health by rubbing all manners of nonsense on your priiks that in turn affect your fertility and sperm quality. If using hand no do you, you go definitely graduate to other sèx tòys. And subject an innocent, real babe to a life of competition with inanimate objects. You better leave her and go and nurse a lonely life like your fellow redpillers.
I spit on your gender as all y'all be doing is bringing troubles to womankind. "You advice young ladies of your gender" Are you a transgender or just confused? Your moniker indicates male. Your statement indicates male but you added ladies. |
Re: Help My Fiancée Caught Me Masturbating by KingMack(m): 5:26pm On May 05, 2022 |
Make the legends for this forum drink this so that Dem go get third sight to give you answer 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Fiancée Caught Me Masturbating by Kingpin1000: 5:46pm On May 05, 2022 |
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Re: Help My Fiancée Caught Me Masturbating by ChoCho54(f): 5:58pm On May 05, 2022 |
asoebi:
You're saying this isn't a "me alone issue" and can anyone, I mean a lady who intends to marry you be cool with this? Most men self service. The only problem I see here is she complaining you don't get intimate with her regularly. If you up your game on that, that should make her feel loved and erase her doubt, if any. But don't bring up the issue of that night again and if she does, you laugh over it, saying, baby c'mon, are we still on that issue? 1 Like |
Re: Help My Fiancée Caught Me Masturbating by ChoCho54(f): 6:03pm On May 05, 2022 |
asoebi:
Thanks. I fully admit it's a problem, my shouting then was just an involuntary defense so as not to appear weak. I'll try and discuss it with her and see how to get help. Infact how to face her or go about it is why I brought it here. Oh puleeeeese! Let it slide abeg. She didn't catch you cheating with another woman. 1 Like |
Re: Help My Fiancée Caught Me Masturbating by ChoCho54(f): 6:06pm On May 05, 2022 |
asoebi:
Thanks so much. I have also come to realize that lying was so silly of me, I hope I get a chance to right my wrong.
I know deep down that she's a lovely woman and sure does not deserve this, I also cannot afford to lose her. What she doesn't deserve is you not satisfying her sexually since she's complaining. Up your romance. Spend more time on pre-intimacy. Give a proper head always. Now she knows you are crazy about cum, play the part and Carry her along too. 1 Like |
Re: Help My Fiancée Caught Me Masturbating by ChoCho54(f): 6:11pm On May 05, 2022 |
liftedud: The problem is you admitting that you have issue, that's number one
If you accept you have issue with yourself and constant masturbation then the solution starts coming, this is a ft you do frequently that you even do it when you have a good sexy lady laying with you.
Secondly, you don't have to shout or try to be a yeye man when you are caught, nothing wrong in saying sorry, men do say sorry.
Thirdly, do have conversation with your lady in all aspect.
Thank you You mean he should say sorry for masturbating? Why? He should have admitted it in the first place. Make a joke of it and let it be. What about the lady? Do you know if she masturbates? Every woman have tried sucking her own boobs at one time or the other. 1 Like |
Re: Help My Fiancée Caught Me Masturbating by zexy2030(m): 6:12pm On May 05, 2022 |
Magnoliaa: You're clearly not ready for marriage yet. In all ramifications. And I'm not surprised it's how it is with y'all young men of nowadays.
You are going to be sexually insatiable, definitely because you've had your fair share of copious pussíes to the point of being sexually addicted and daresay I, abnormal.
This is why I advise young ladies of my gender. See the kind of wahala this son of Adam wants to bring into an innocent lady's life. Pornography and masturbation palava. I won't be surprised if you've been doing an*m*ls, too, because no normal man will not get aroused by the body of a woman. But because you've seen and done everything, penetrative sex is not satisfying to you men again and you're instead making use of your hands. Also endangering your health by rubbing all manners of nonsense on your priiks that in turn affect your fertility and sperm quality. If using hand no do you, you go definitely graduate to other sèx tòys. And subject an innocent, real babe to a life of competition with inanimate objects. You better leave her and go and nurse a lonely life like your fellow redpillers.
I spit on your gender as all y'all be doing is bringing troubles to womankind. How about your gender with all kinds of intimacy gadgets in their possession. According to statistics, in Nigeria women about 73% are intimacy gadget owners or desires owning one. Your gender is manipulative. She agreed to sex when she caught him, but what of days she denied him. 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Fiancée Caught Me Masturbating by ChoCho54(f): 6:16pm On May 05, 2022 |
asoebi:
I think it's somehow affecting my sexual performance, cos the no o times we have sex has greatly reduced and funny enough even with the constant sex without any pills or protection all these years, she hasn't even missed her period once. She even once joked about this. She hasn't missed her period once and so you admit it's your fault because you self-service? Bros, you seem not too sure of your own self in this relationship. Babe have the upper hand. Kukuma try and stop masturbating totally so that your mind would be at rest. 4 Likes |
Re: Help My Fiancée Caught Me Masturbating by Demonicus: 6:31pm On May 05, 2022 |
Op you gave her a lame excuse,you should have just told her the truth, Now she'll think she has a borehole for a pVssy that's why you're doing that Dick enlargement routine. 1 Like |
Re: Help My Fiancée Caught Me Masturbating by minasu190: 6:39pm On May 05, 2022 |
Wow wow wow just wow!,even in the presence of your fiancee you still masturbate?boss you ar chronic masturbator. No advice for you cuz you wont listen! 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Fiancée Caught Me Masturbating by Gee64: 6:48pm On May 05, 2022 |
Even when you have sex with a lady using condom, you are indirectly masturbating.
All men masturbate. Having wet dreams is masturbation while in slumber.
Just be open, let her know you are masturbating to her unclothedness which is her physical attraction.
She could help you masturbate using her hand or closed legs and you can help her masturbate and get her to orgasm. My friend, it's a matter of understanding.
Sex is fun and helping a woman reach orgasm attracts you more to her! 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Fiancée Caught Me Masturbating by JoyousFurnitire(m): 7:25pm On May 05, 2022 |
asoebi:
my shouting then was just an involuntary defense so as not to appear weak. A certain moniker mentioned that you're not ready for marriage and you acted surprise in your reply. Like, don't you know? 1 _Pleasure (esp. sexual) is not meant to be enjoyed alone in marriage/when marriage is in view. If you want it alone, why marry or invite her over? 2 _The quoted, not to appear weak? Again why do you want to get married? Isn't two supposed to become one? Aren't two heads better than one? |
Re: Help My Fiancée Caught Me Masturbating by sajmark(m): 7:27pm On May 05, 2022 |
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Re: Help My Fiancée Caught Me Masturbating by JoyousFurnitire(m): 7:31pm On May 05, 2022 |
Magnoliaa:
My dear, it's true talk. Men will destroy their youth and now be looking for a good woman to put up with their left-overs. What sort of a silly breed of madness is that? Channel that your energy to f people 1 Like |
Re: Help My Fiancée Caught Me Masturbating by Fcmb2022(f): 7:40pm On May 05, 2022 |
Adejo1: Just give her what she wants
Really Adejo ,you think he should give her what she wants,?
you know medically, masturbation is not bad, it helps calm the nerves dear. |
Re: Help My Fiancée Caught Me Masturbating by Videour(m): 7:41pm On May 05, 2022 |
asoebi: Hello everyone, please I need urgent advise cos my relationship might be crumbling and it will be entirely my fault.
My fiancée spent the night at my place and caught me maturating. I was so engrossed in the act that I didn't know she's been watching until she made some sounds as if turning on the bed. I quickly stopped and put on my boxers properly hoping she didn't see it, and just continued pressing my phone as if I was surfing the net while she was just staring at me like a ghost. I even kept pointing my phone's screen to her face for like 3 intervals to see if she has gone back to sleep but in all the times her eyes were wide opened staring at me. I finally dropped the phone and went to sleep till the next morning.
We woke up normally the next day and acted all cool with each other throughout the day until she confronted me last night asking me what I was doing and why, cos according to her she would have gladly obliged me if I wanted sex. She even alleged that she noticed I always don't want to be intimate with her at night but instead prefer to sleep alone. I tried denying with a silly excuse (I know it sounds stupid but that was the only thing my brain could conjure at that moment) that I wasn't maturating, rather I was doing a routine penis enlargement procedure I was watching online, but she insisted saying she has been noticing it some other nights but she's was not always sure if it's real or just her mind playing pranks with her. However this time, she has caught me red handed.
I finally resorted to shouting at her angrily, it was at that point she stopped talking and started crying. Later on she started muttering something to herself as if praying and she kept doing that while I slept on in silence. I didn't even know how or when I finally slept off.
My challenge now is how I should handle the issue, cos she has still been acting all cool as if nothing happened even when I left home without saying a word to her, or even letting her know I when I was leaving, but she has called me twice today and spoken normal as if she is not angry or bothered about what transpired last night.
Please I need just your advice, no insults.
Thank you. it better than caughting you cheating men |
Re: Help My Fiancée Caught Me Masturbating by Fcmb2022(f): 7:42pm On May 05, 2022 |
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Re: Help My Fiancée Caught Me Masturbating by Nobody: 8:31pm On May 05, 2022 |
Gambit1: If your fiance is like me, then it's over between us. You have someone willing beside you and you opted for masturbation, definitely there's something wrong and you need help. Òmó, see fresh laps.. dayummn |
Re: Help My Fiancée Caught Me Masturbating by Britishpea: 8:32pm On May 05, 2022 |
Lol she masturbates also
Well you can’t stop it with the help of anyone. You can only help yourself to stop it. |