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Niaralanders please what do ladies really want? Please read my story by Comradegist: 1:23pm On May 07, 2022
Happy weekend guys.
Sorry to bother you with my own issue. Please i just need reasonable advice. I was in a relationship with a girl I met through her elder sister friend. We got Introduced to each other last year November 2021. I chatted her up and we started from there, we kind of clicked and we decided to meet. We stay inter city just two hours traveling from each other. We met and she seems to be so much into me. She showed me everything a man needs to believe that a woman loves you. After like 3 months of being together. This lady that always tell me her self willingly that she loves me, she cant wait to have a family with me, she cant do without me suddenly told me she dont love me again. I thought I was dreaming at first, but indeed she was serious and she said she doesnt know maybe she's the problem but she has tried her best that she doesnt love me. We talked about why she's not feeling every efforts I made, she mentioned she doesnt feel romantically connected to me, mind you I disvirgined this girl after many guys have made attempt and she didnt allow them. She allowed me to dis virgin her withing two weeks of meeting her. She said I'm good on bed but she doesnt feel me in the romantic part, this is her main reason as she said. We continued the relationship. We fought again after the 5th month of the relationship. Her sister came into this issue. She settled it for us but she mentioned same thing to me that she's not interested in me anymore and she's not saying this because she has anyone or anything but she just doesn't feel me. I've been seeing this red flags as a guy but I didnt leave because I love her I choose to stay. We still continued. It finally ended the 7th month. This is how it ended, on Eid mubarak day, she had told me before that she was going out and she even asked me for money for Eid cloth. But I told her I didnt have much on me right now. And truly I didnt, mind you I always give this girl money even tho it's small but I do try my best but I think she wants more. She went out this faithful day on Eid mubarak day because she posted pictures on what's app. I now asked her that who was with her? She didnt reply. She continued to use me to post pictures, ignored me and I called her several times she didnt pick. She later responded in the night that she just doesn't want to reply my question and she doesn't want my wahala I should leave her alone. She didnt talk to me for two days and she looks very happy in everything she posts. I was wondering why asking a simple question like who is with you cause what she's doing to us. I called her sister and explained,even tho she has told me to stop calling her sister anytime we have issue. But because of I was so confused and didnt know wath to do, I told her sister what happened and i told her she once told me she dont like me telling her anything we have issue in the bid she'll not tell her everything I told her and maybe use style to talk to her without her knowing I called her sister, but her sister got so annoyed hearing it that her younger sister could say that. She advised me that I should man up and move on and never beg for love. I didnt know her sister later confronted her, abused her of playing with my heart and not being serious. I didn't know all this happened until she suddenly text me that I called her sister and told her, she said she's not interested in me anymore and she never loved me and she will never love me, this Is coming out somone that has told me she love me several times willingly without forcing her. She blocked me in every mean I could reach her. I'm so heartbroken broken and pained

Please what should I do OPs in the house?
Re: Niaralanders please what do ladies really want? Please read my story by MONEY247: 1:30pm On May 07, 2022
grin grin

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Re: Niaralanders please what do ladies really want? Please read my story by Comradegist: 1:33pm On May 07, 2022
Why are you smiling? Please I need advice. I'm emotionally down. This girl is beautiful and I'm also handsome. But I'm not too rich like I used to be. I really dont understand why she did all that, or acted like that, I'm so confused.
MONEY247:
grin grin
Re: Niaralanders please what do ladies really want? Please read my story by idari: 1:34pm On May 07, 2022
Just like the sister said," don't beg for love" , man up and move on it's not gone be easy but dats the only option.

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Re: Niaralanders please what do ladies really want? Please read my story by God1000(m): 1:35pm On May 07, 2022
Detach yourself from her as well, I know it's not gonna be easy because you've become infatuated with her.

She appears to be enigma
Re: Niaralanders please what do ladies really want? Please read my story by Nobody: 1:35pm On May 07, 2022
Arrrrrrrh

Even though I'm not an advocate for RED PILLERS, but bro you 'f' up big time. Despite seeing all this red flags you still continue the relationship. It was you that was fostering the relationship till the 7th month, she left since the day she told you that.

Well like the sis said be a man and move on. Forget about her.

Know this and know peace that, most girls don't know what exactly they need. They might tell you they love you today and say the otherwise the next day.

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Re: Niaralanders please what do ladies really want? Please read my story by LusciousLouis: 1:36pm On May 07, 2022
Money! Money!! Money!!
Do you have enough money
Do you have future
These are few things ladies consider before settling down properly undecided

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Re: Niaralanders please what do ladies really want? Please read my story by Comradegist: 1:37pm On May 07, 2022
Thank you �. I dont think I'll ever love again.
gaius01:
Arrrrrrrh

Even though I'm not an advocate of RED PILLERS, but bro you 'f' up big time. Despite seeing all this red flags you still continue the relationship. It was you that was fostering the relationship till the 7th month, she left since the day she told you that.

Well like the sis said be a man and move on. Forget about her.

Know this and know peace that, most girls don't know what exactly they need. They might tell you they love you today and say the otherwise the next day.
Re: Niaralanders please what do ladies really want? Please read my story by Medianna(f): 1:43pm On May 07, 2022
*yawns*
Story that touches the heart.
Continue begging for her love maybe she will reconsider.
People like you are already confused if we say leave her, you will think we are enemies of love

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Re: Niaralanders please what do ladies really want? Please read my story by Uniquetani1(f): 1:45pm On May 07, 2022
Comradegist:
Happy weekend guys.
Sorry to bother you with my own issue. Please i just need reasonable advice. I was in a relationship with a girl I met through her elder sister friend. We got Introduced to each other last year November 2021. I chatted her up and we started from there, we kind of clicked and we decided to meet. We stay inter city just two hours traveling from each other. We met and she seems to be so much into me. She showed me everything a man needs to believe that a woman loves you. After like 3 months of being together. This lady that always tell me her self willingly that she loves me, she cant wait to have a family with me, she cant do without me suddenly told me she dont love me again. I thought I was dreaming at first, but indeed she was serious and she said she doesnt know maybe she's the problem but she has tried her best that she doesnt love me. We talked about why she's not feeling every efforts I made, she mentioned she doesnt feel romantically connected to me, mind you I disvirgined this girl after many guys have made attempt and she didnt allow them. She allowed me to dis virgin her withing two weeks of meeting her. She said I'm good on bed but she doesnt feel me in the romantic part, this is her main reason as she said. We continued the relationship. We fought again after the 5th month of the relationship. Her sister came into this issue. She settled it for us but she mentioned same thing to me that she's not interested in me anymore and she's not saying this because she has anyone or anything but she just doesn't feel me. I've been seeing this red flags as a guy but I didnt leave because I love her I choose to stay. We still continued. It finally ended the 7th month. This is how it ended, on Eid mubarak day, she had told me before that she was going out and she even asked me for money for Eid cloth. But I told her I didnt have much on me right now. And truly I didnt, mind you I always give this girl money even tho it's small but I do try my best but I think she wants more. She went out this faithful day on Eid mubarak day because she posted pictures on what's app. I now asked her that who was with her? She didnt reply. She continued to use me to post pictures, ignored me and I called her several times she didnt pick. She later responded in the night that she just doesn't want to reply my question and she doesn't want my wahala I should leave her alone. She didnt talk to me for two days and she looks very happy in everything she posts. I was wondering why asking a simple question like who is with you cause what she's doing to us. I called her sister and explained,even tho she has told me to stop calling her sister anytime we have issue. But because of I was so confused and didnt know wath to do, I told her sister what happened and i told her she once told me she dont like me telling her anything we have issue in the bid she'll not tell her everything I told her and maybe use style to talk to her without her knowing I called her sister, but her sister got so annoyed hearing it that her younger sister could say that. She advised me that I should man up and move on and never beg for love. I didnt know her sister later confronted her, abused her of playing with my heart and not being serious. I didn't know all this happened until she suddenly text me that I called her sister and told her, she said she's not interested in me anymore and she never loved me and she will never love me, this Is coming out somone that has told me she love me several times willingly without forcing her. She blocked me in every mean I could reach her. I'm so heartbroken broken and pained

Please what should I do OPs in the house?


Almost everyone have relationship problem angry
She already advice you to man up and move on.

I wonder where this kind of guys are staying. Na shakushaku dey here

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Re: Niaralanders please what do ladies really want? Please read my story by Jmichael1(m): 1:46pm On May 07, 2022
Be a man and stop begging for love dat never exist.....
Re: Niaralanders please what do ladies really want? Please read my story by MAGG0T(m): 1:50pm On May 07, 2022
cheesy


A woman advising you to not beg for love and move on...


Shows you're a Foolish boy.....till you start loving with your dick instead of your heart the better for you....

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Re: Niaralanders please what do ladies really want? Please read my story by Comradegist: 1:50pm On May 07, 2022
I'm 25. I just graduated university early this year. This is not my first heart break, but this is the second time in the in a relationship where I love the girl so much and she ended up doing this. The first girl we dated 5 years. On a off a couple time. She left saying she doesn't want me anymore. She messaged back her self and said she's sorry and she become extremely serious and showing love.. after a year she still bleeped up. I'm so confused why it every girl I give my heart. I hardly love. The other girls I've had, they're the only one that used to love. But if I dont love you my self I'll leave you with time. I'll not say this is what also happened to me because I dont fake my feelings. I'll never tell you I love you and act like I love you if I dont. But this girl acted like she loves me so much and she said she loves me so much countless times only to end up saying this. Why are ladies this confused?
Soltix:


Lol.. How old are you sir? Is this your first heartbreak ever?
Re: Niaralanders please what do ladies really want? Please read my story by Tadwears2050(m): 1:50pm On May 07, 2022
My guy, so sorry about what happened to you. This happened to me too few years ago. I never knew she went back to her ex. I later found out that she was back with her ex after 1year being a relationship. She just sent me a text that she is not interested in me again and bla bla. I could not eat for three days.

My intuition says,
She has someone else already richer than you
She doesn’t see future with you
She see that you can’t afford her lifestyle

Recommendation
Please man up
Cry and move on
Go out with friends both male and female
Start eating your best meals


God would bless us all. Now my ex is now begging me. Thank God for Growth and God’s blessing.

Sorry man

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Re: Niaralanders please what do ladies really want? Please read my story by Bahamas95(m): 1:57pm On May 07, 2022
I stopped reading half way because I was getting angry. You can't force someone to love you, fvck her beauty. She isn't the only beautiful girl in the world.......I have never dated any ugly girl in my life, not even in my dream.

I hate it when a guy is trying to impress a girl or make her feel special. You better move on and stop behaving like a baby!

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Re: Niaralanders please what do ladies really want? Please read my story by kodded(m): 1:59pm On May 07, 2022
Focus on your hustle and watch her run back to you



The problem with weak men like op is that they put their woman first in their priority list instead of their hustle.

They invest their time and attention on women and get heartbroken when their investment leave them for another man just like MMM.


Op let me tell you the truth, the day you decide to give 100% total focus on your hustle is the day that girl or any other girl will give you the love you crave for.


That's the bitter truth about life. Women loves men that value their hustle more than women.


I hope you take heart and be brave, double your hustle and make the millions so that you will destroy all the kpekus that will come your way because those kpekus that will be chasing you after you have blown will do the same thing to their present broke boyfriend.

Goodluck smiley

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Re: Niaralanders please what do ladies really want? Please read my story by Comradegist: 1:59pm On May 07, 2022
I guess so, I must have been foolish. This is why i dont like falling in love. I guess i dont know how to love or it's not just my thing. I never satisfied anyone I loved so much, with everything I did, all the loyalty and care, they still switched on me. Girls do ask me out and. I'll tell this girl and show her everything, we will both laugh about it and I'll ignore or block that girl. Just to show her how much I love her, I never knew I was wasting my time for the wrong person and ignoring people that likes me.
MAGG0T:
cheesy


A woman advising you to not beg for love and move on...


Shows you're a Foolish boy.....till you start loving with your dick instead of your heart the better for you....
Re: Niaralanders please what do ladies really want? Please read my story by boxer022(m): 2:26pm On May 07, 2022
My brother this is a very straight forward thing. She has told you already as it is not hiding anything from you, she made it known to you that she doesn't want the relationship anymore and that the love you both share (if true) is no longer there. There is no need forcing it, love is natural and can't be forced. Her sister has told you what to do already so take her advice and stop putting yourself through more emotional trauma.
Re: Niaralanders please what do ladies really want? Please read my story by MONEY247: 2:52pm On May 07, 2022
Do you have aspirations and goals!!!
Don't get into relationship for relationship sakes, unless you want to spend money!!!

A lady who likes or love you would stick with you no matter your present situation,!!
Don't love anyhow bro!! Getting attached to people should be something you should put into importance, To avoid heart breaks..!!!

Let there be a connection, not just the emotional flings, something worthwhile should be involved it makes your bound more strong!

If she has left you move on sir!!!


Good luck to you bro!!

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Re: Niaralanders please what do ladies really want? Please read my story by GooodHardDick: 2:57pm On May 07, 2022
OP, haven't you heard you don't date Nigeria girls? You only bang their pussy, dump them and move.

I don't advice Simps. You can either swallow the RED PILL or continue SIMPING. The choice is yours!!!

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Re: Niaralanders please what do ladies really want? Please read my story by jey4all(m): 5:30pm On May 07, 2022
Your mumu nor too much?

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Re: Niaralanders please what do ladies really want? Please read my story by obinna58(m): 5:42pm On May 07, 2022
Lol you better leave relationship matters and start making money, once you're rich you'll fvck a whole lot of them without even wanting relationship.
Na them go dey beg you for love.
Re: Niaralanders please what do ladies really want? Please read my story by Justkatty(f): 5:50pm On May 07, 2022
Someone's heart is broken ����

Sorry dear just move on.

I hate it when someone's emotion is tortured.


Please try and forget about her you'll meet a better person
But stop trading your happiness for humans.

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Re: Niaralanders please what do ladies really want? Please read my story by Nobody: 6:18pm On May 07, 2022
Someborri shuu please summarize what this nigga typed up there... It's too long and I have headache.
Re: Niaralanders please what do ladies really want? Please read my story by telim: 6:27pm On May 07, 2022
Pls go and make money and experience 100% loyalty from Nigerian girls. She is into you bec you are broke. Chase money and girls will you.
Re: Niaralanders please what do ladies really want? Please read my story by Qatar2022: 7:07pm On May 07, 2022
Comradegist:
Happy weekend guys.
Sorry to bother you with my own issue. Please i just need reasonable advice. I was in a relationship with a girl I met through her elder sister friend. We got Introduced to each other last year November 2021. I chatted her up and we started from there, we kind of clicked and we decided to meet. We stay inter city just two hours traveling from each other. We met and she seems to be so much into me. She showed me everything a man needs to believe that a woman loves you. After like 3 months of being together. This lady that always tell me her self willingly that she loves me, she cant wait to have a family with me, she cant do without me suddenly told me she dont love me again. I thought I was dreaming at first, but indeed she was serious and she said she doesnt know maybe she's the problem but she has tried her best that she doesnt love me. We talked about why she's not feeling every efforts I made, she mentioned she doesnt feel romantically connected to me, mind you I disvirgined this girl after many guys have made attempt and she didnt allow them. She allowed me to dis virgin her withing two weeks of meeting her. She said I'm good on bed but she doesnt feel me in the romantic part, this is her main reason as she said. We continued the relationship. We fought again after the 5th month of the relationship. Her sister came into this issue. She settled it for us but she mentioned same thing to me that she's not interested in me anymore and she's not saying this because she has anyone or anything but she just doesn't feel me. I've been seeing this red flags as a guy but I didnt leave because I love her I choose to stay. We still continued. It finally ended the 7th month. This is how it ended, on Eid mubarak day, she had told me before that she was going out and she even asked me for money for Eid cloth. But I told her I didnt have much on me right now. And truly I didnt, mind you I always give this girl money even tho it's small but I do try my best but I think she wants more. She went out this faithful day on Eid mubarak day because she posted pictures on what's app. I now asked her that who was with her? She didnt reply. She continued to use me to post pictures, ignored me and I called her several times she didnt pick. She later responded in the night that she just doesn't want to reply my question and she doesn't want my wahala I should leave her alone. She didnt talk to me for two days and she looks very happy in everything she posts. I was wondering why asking a simple question like who is with you cause what she's doing to us. I called her sister and explained,even tho she has told me to stop calling her sister anytime we have issue. But because of I was so confused and didnt know wath to do, I told her sister what happened and i told her she once told me she dont like me telling her anything we have issue in the bid she'll not tell her everything I told her and maybe use style to talk to her without her knowing I called her sister, but her sister got so annoyed hearing it that her younger sister could say that. She advised me that I should man up and move on and never beg for love. I didnt know her sister later confronted her, abused her of playing with my heart and not being serious. I didn't know all this happened until she suddenly text me that I called her sister and told her, she said she's not interested in me anymore and she never loved me and she will never love me, this Is coming out somone that has told me she love me several times willingly without forcing her. She blocked me in every mean I could reach her. I'm so heartbroken broken and pained

Please what should I do OPs in the house?
You don't have anything to say or do just move on
Re: Niaralanders please what do ladies really want? Please read my story by Aklee4994(m): 7:46pm On May 07, 2022
Never love a woman than she loves you that is your problem and also a problem have face in my pen ultimate year so man up and love with your dick and brain.


Brutality brutality Na man make man brutal


Sorry bruh I feel for you but she is coming to say some sweet words to you again and make sure you bleep her without sympathy
Re: Niaralanders please what do ladies really want? Please read my story by JoeRizzla(m): 7:56pm On May 07, 2022
You have opened her hole,

Now it's time for the hœ stage to begin ....

I will advise you to always break your heart before you fall in love with any girl it will help you a lot..
Re: Niaralanders please what do ladies really want? Please read my story by okoroemeka(m): 8:00pm On May 07, 2022
Comradegist:
Why are you smiling? Please I need advice. I'm emotionally down. This girl is beautiful and I'm also handsome. But I'm not too rich like I used to be. I really dont understand why she did all that, or acted like that, I'm so confused.
you can have sex with a woman but you can't have the love,thank your stars she told you the truth,move on and don't look back

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