First of all my prayer for everyone here is God won't let us encounter problem wey go pass us ooo.......pls shout a big Amen.

So today I followed one of my childhood friend to go see one of his bros who have been in the hospital since November last year......he is in late 30's.
He has herpetasis B and what I noticed he is paralysed from is waist downward and one is leg is very slim compared to the other with a very bad bed sore on his back.

Now this the gist, as we were sitting oustside the ward a woman called my friend and told him is brother wife is having an affair with a particular guy infact we got to know this guy drives is senior bro car around with the wife.

My friend confronted his bro and he confirmed it......according to him the guy is helping them out financially and also since he can't service his wife the guy is helping him........I couldn't believe my ears.

HIs words are ....am bed ridden, what can I do ?? If I try to complain she will disappear for weeks...so I have accepted my faith ooo.

So please we need advise on how to approach this because my friend is really boiling here.

Should he inform the rest of the family what going on or he looks away...

Note: Everytime the husband family make money available for the treatment of this bros.....infact there two kids are with his mother.

Today alone we brought alot of things he needs.

Elders....

Nawao... May we not encounter such problem..
One thing I know is this "unable to satisfy woman" of a thing is so alarming considering the fact that women can't cope with it, having another man is the best option for em.. Divorce is the option for the man if he's okay with that, fine..
Sometimes I do think a lot about myself too because I don't even last one minute... For the the first round though

God abeg, take away any problem wey go pass my power. Amen

Ahmback:
God abeg, take away any problem wey go pass my power. Amen

Amen bro.........infact I didn't know when I started praying in my mind at the hospital.

The man is helpless.....imagining knowing another man is driving your car around, banging your wife and there absolutely nothing you can do about it .....I don't even wish my enemy that.

Real life?

Jack005:
Real life?

My brother is currently happening in one of the FMC in the south.

Godoverevery:

My brother is currently happening in one of the FMC in the south.

It is finished!!

Man's greatest achievement in life is marrying a good wife, is not even money! if your a man reading these even if you didn't make money please try and marry a good woman it get why.

That young man is already dead in spirit. he should just divorce the woman and make peace with his creator. Not divorcing her will bring shame and curses to the family beside the woman deserves no home

May God heal him �. For women matter I don't talk on those shits .

Godoverevery:


Amen bro.........infact I didn't know when I started praying in my mind at the hospital.

The man is helpless.....imagining knowing another man is driving your car around, banging your wife and there absolutely nothing you can do about it .....I don't even wish my enemy that.

Is it not better if the man was never married?

He would have recovered faster.

Tell your friend to stand down as the owner of the problem has accepted his fate and claims not to need help. He should also learn about women from this experience.