Fellas be honest if given the choice, would you rather have your man/women physically unfaithfully than emotionally unfaithfully?
Or the other way round?

For me, I may forgive my bf if he have just one careless night of sex with someone.

Emotional is far worse as effect of such tends to be permanent

Worse if its emotional. Me I like to park in a man's heart and use wheel clamp, cos I aint goin no where.

I cant stand either

I don't care. Life goes on. There is nothing you can do about it. You can kill yourself if it is a big deal to you.

Mrs.Chima:

I don't care. Life goes on. There is nothing you can do about it. You can kill yourself if it is a big deal to you.

Wifey, are you ok or is this Mr Chima?

rokiatu:

Wifey, are you ok or is this Mr Chima?

Hissssss

I am okay I think wifey. How are you?

I am fine thanks.

So what do you think of the topic?

Cuz I just don't understand what you said earlier.

Let me say it this way,

It doesn't matter which type of cheating have been attempted or performed it won't change what has been done. Either we can live on or kill ourselves.

Better wifey?

Mrs.Chima:

Let me say it this way,

It doesn't matter which type of cheating have been attempted or performed it won't change what has been done. Either we can live on or kill ourselves.

Better wifey?

Nawao Rokiatu which one be emotional cheating? If your partner is out of love, that one na serious case ooo. Its not cheating, its called break up on the way.

what's the difference between the two?

rokiatu:

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-713382.32.html#msg8723805

Emotional is better.

What is emotional infedelity?

pleep:

What is emotional infedelity?

Same thing as the physical infidelity, minus the action. Thinking about another woman/man even while your partner is in your presence, which would diminish the amount of attention your partner receives from you.

It's worst than physical infidelity, because your mind, spirit and soul is not aligned with your partner's anymore. Often you feel depressed, emotionally withdrawn from her, and might even easy feel irritation towards him/her for no reason. Atleast physical infidelity still has 10% chance of being stopped.

It's like living with a soulless body.

^Oh like those ppl who say accidentaly another womans name when they are getting married. Or prentend their wife is someone else.
I don't know which is worse.

Pleep! Pleep! Oh I mean Mr. Chima! Mr. Chima!

I guess this is a dicey one. However, if the physical cheating is a one night stand and probably done on the spur of the moment, I think it will be easier to deal with than the emotional cheating.
The problem with emotional cheating is that you see the signs and may not be able to prove anything till it goes GBAM right before your eyes. This can be devastating cause it can keep u wondering where you went wrong.Especially when you know the third party involved.
Both are bad and are better kept off any serious relationship.Never underestimate the power of imagination when these kind of things are involved. Have you seen the movie ' Eyes wide shut'? Just to drive home my points.

dhappyking:

I guess this is a dicey one. However, if the physical cheating is a one night stand and probably done on the spur of the moment, I think it will be easier to deal with than the emotional cheating.
The problem with emotional cheating is that you see the signs and may not be able to prove anything till it goes GBAM right before your eyes. This can be devastating cause it can keep u wondering where you went wrong.Especially when you know the third party involved.
Both are bad and are better kept off any serious relationship.Never underestimate the power of imagination when these kind of things are involved. Have you seen the movie ' Eyes wide shut'? Just to drive home my points.

Gbam!!! Very well said.

Pls do frequent the romance section lol.

For me, I may forgive my bf if he have just one careless night of sex with someone

be sure to let us know how things went later.

is he allowed only one night of careless sex outside, or a few more.

@ Rokiatu; I would if I could my Dear. I enjoy discussing matters of the heart. But I hardly have the time to indulge my self.

LOL.

pleep:

^Oh like those ppl who say accidentaly another womans name when they are getting married. Or prentend their wife is someone else.
I don't know which is worse.

This totally reminds me of that one friends episode where Ross marries Emily, but he says Rachel's name instead.
Ps I am really hoping you know wat I am talking about, other wise it won't make sense, but its cool cuz almost everyone in America knows abour friends.

Op: I would have to say emotionally, both are hard, but I think its easier to deal with something if there isn't any feelings involved.

Man no fit kill himself jor, wot r u gonna do? You wuld be lucky to catch her cheat emotionally cuz dey tend to hide that alot. By the time you notice that they av been cheating emotionally, ? My dear its time for break-up

Mrs.Chima:

Let me say it this way,

It doesn't matter which type of cheating have been attempted or performed it won't change what has been done. Either we can live on or kill ourselves.

Better wifey?

You are very funny, i want to sleep jor, man no fit kill himself, For me cheating na cheating oooo be it physically or emotionally, i will take prompt action.

I don't care

emotional is definitely the worse coz it will have a very bad effect on u.
the hate u will have in your heart toward that person will be endless.

african1:

This totally reminds me of that one friends episode where Ross marries Emily, but he says Rachel's name instead.
Ps I am really hoping you know wat I am talking about, other wise it won't make sense, but its cool cuz almost everyone in America knows abour friends.

Op: I would have to say emotionally, both are hard, but I think its easier to deal with something if there isn't any feelings involved.

lol yes I do actually. If you can belive it that's what was in my mind when I made the post.

Emotionally feeling seem worst but since it can be seen i would prefer it to the physical.Cos if ma partner walkup to me and say am having feelings for another and "nothing" has taken place, she might be forgiven but if the "real thing" has taken place then ----she get the boot.

Mejeeji naa ni. .

pleep:

lol yes I do actually. If you can belive it that's what was in my mind when I made the post.

Yay ! you know Ross and Rachel are my favorite tv couple. Are you a fellow fan?