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Re: Don’t Cheat On Her by Kilotat: 9:48am On May 29, 2022 |
A man will always go to where he find peace 1 Like |
Re: Don’t Cheat On Her by Unshackled: 9:48am On May 29, 2022 |
Dorwadora:potential divorcee |
Re: Don’t Cheat On Her by Dorwadora(f): 9:50am On May 29, 2022 |
Unshackled:I respect the institution of marriage.... Very well.... But my happiness is more important.... If I'm not happy then how can I make the people around me happy? Don't share your thoughts with me tho.... |
Re: Don’t Cheat On Her by Neimar: 9:54am On May 29, 2022 |
Omo una dy waste time Cheat on her jare |
Re: Don’t Cheat On Her by Acehart: 9:55am On May 29, 2022 |
tiswell: Very true. Both should be faithful to each other |
Re: Don’t Cheat On Her by Acehart: 9:59am On May 29, 2022 |
Dorwadora: God hates unjustified divorce (You didn’t read those texts carefully. A woman would leave her husband if he has been terrible to her). We made vows to be faithful, caring and to protect. When ones breaks that vow, the spouse has valid ground to divorce. God hates abuse. |
Re: Don’t Cheat On Her by Acehart: 10:01am On May 29, 2022 |
Triangles1: Do you speak to yourself or you speak for all men as one with full knowledge of all men? 1 Like |
Re: Don’t Cheat On Her by NNTR: 10:02am On May 29, 2022 |
Acehart: SmartyPants:Malachi 2:16 'For I hate divorce!” says the LORD, the God of Israel. “To divorce your wife, is to overwhelm her with cruelty,” says the LORD of Heaven's Armies'. Personal text: Jesus is not a theologian. He is God who told stories. |
Re: Don’t Cheat On Her by Dorwadora(f): 10:04am On May 29, 2022 |
Acehart:I read the text sir.... I'm only contributing to the post sir.... I do not oppose or support anything. |
Re: Don’t Cheat On Her by Pimine: 10:08am On May 29, 2022 |
Dorwadora:Aswearugaaad Me, me, me. Look at me, it's all about me. I'm a princess so I must be happy at all times. Your sole purpose, the reason you live, is to keep me happy. If you can't do that, you're undeserving of me. Lemme burst your bubble, princess. Selfish people die alone. 1 Like |
Re: Don’t Cheat On Her by Acehart: 10:09am On May 29, 2022 |
Unshackled: No verse expressly shows where vows were exchanged. However, this verse is profound in showing two people had some form of agreement before they tied the knot- Amos 3:3 Can two walk together, except they be agreed? Another verse is this: If a man vows a vow to the Lord, or swears an oath to bind himself by a pledge, he shall not break his word. He shall do according to all that proceeds out of his mouth (Number 30:2). Whether a promise to a girl is made in secret or in the public, a man is bound by the words of his mouth. |
Re: Don’t Cheat On Her by Acehart: 10:12am On May 29, 2022 |
Neimar: Would you want that for your daughter or sisters? |
Re: Don’t Cheat On Her by Acehart: 10:13am On May 29, 2022 |
Dorwadora: Have a nice day, Ms. |
Re: Don’t Cheat On Her by Dorwadora(f): 10:13am On May 29, 2022 |
Pimine:If trying to pursue happiness makes me selfish.... Then I'll rather die selfish but believe me I'll always get people around me... Even the vilest of all men has companions. I can not give what I don't have.... Never. |
Re: Don’t Cheat On Her by Neimar: 10:16am On May 29, 2022 |
Acehart: I don't care |
Re: Don’t Cheat On Her by Pimine: 10:17am On May 29, 2022 |
Dorwadora:Aswearugaaad Please revisit this comment when you're in your 7th marriage in pursuit of that elusive happiness. |
Re: Don’t Cheat On Her by NNTR: 10:20am On May 29, 2022 |
Unshackled:Whatever relationship, whether between husband and wife, wife and wife, husband and husband, there's always whats called a gentleman's agreement or gentleman's promise, which essentially, is an arrangement or understanding which is based upon the trust of both or all parties, rather than being legally binding Acehart:Deuteronomy 22:23 'If a virgin is engaged to a man and another man meets her in the city and has sexual relations with her,' Matthew 1:19 'And Joseph her [promised] husband, being a just and righteous man (i.e. faithful to the law,) and not wanting to expose her publicly to shame, planned to send her away and divorce her quietly.' You're not entirely correct in your summation up there with Number 30:2, as can it be seen in Matthew 1:19 quoted above, that Joseph was planning not to keep his word of marrying Mary Personal text: Jesus is not a theologian. He is God who told stories. |
Re: Don’t Cheat On Her by Cutehector(m): 10:23am On May 29, 2022 |
Na only man dey cheat on wife? Iffa woze all of una slap now..... |
Re: Don’t Cheat On Her by Unshackled: 10:23am On May 29, 2022 |
Dorwadora:selfish carefree little tot. |
Re: Don’t Cheat On Her by emekachief: 10:27am On May 29, 2022 |
Trash, women cheat more than men. Acehart: |
Re: Don’t Cheat On Her by davien(m): 10:29am On May 29, 2022 |
I've started cheating to be honest, I can't trust ladies. |
Re: Don’t Cheat On Her by Unshackled: 10:30am On May 29, 2022 |
Acehart:stick to marriage vows ,please. Because there were none. Essential the opposite of a virgin is a wife by Jewish standards back then. And by that standard a man may marry more than one wife as all the prophets and Abraham and David did. But I admire your cut -and-join verses to support your position. |
Re: Don’t Cheat On Her by Dorwadora(f): 10:31am On May 29, 2022 |
Unshackled:Selfishness is when you think your opinion is better than mine..... Deal with the entitled mentality first then come talk later I'm entitled to my opinion, if you don't like it.... Then you do something bad to yourself. Ciai |
Re: Don’t Cheat On Her by AncientGuy: 10:34am On May 29, 2022 |
FERNANDEZISBACK:you think you have sense |
Re: Don’t Cheat On Her by Unshackled: 10:39am On May 29, 2022 |
Dorwadora:nope, selfishness is when one is so self-conceited that she thinks cheating in marriage amounts to when her partners tries to take her happiness. You're either alexythemic or one little 5 year old baby in an adult's body who thinks life evolve around her toys and cookies. You're just one little stiff-necked, greedy taker in marriage, never a giver. |
Re: Don’t Cheat On Her by stanliwise(m): 10:44am On May 29, 2022 |
Triangles1:There is no such thing as cheating by eyeing. It does not exist and please don’t bring the verse Mathew 5:28. If you do then you’re a baby Christian |
Re: Don’t Cheat On Her by stanliwise(m): 10:48am On May 29, 2022 |
FERNANDEZISBACK:Morality really has nothing to do with cheating. Morality is a relative concept and if does not appeal to my believe. I am not doing any harm to myself. Cheating is basically going against rule to amass gain. More like a selfish adventure for one own gains without considering what has been agreed upon in the past. It happens in games, social settings, office etc |
Re: Don’t Cheat On Her by FERNANDEZISBACK: 10:55am On May 29, 2022 |
stanliwise:I am talking about relationship here..Well let’s start with basic morality 101: It’s wrong to hurt someone.. If you are only concerned about yourself then you are a selfish individual.. They put their trust in you...you are cheating them on that... They gave themselves to you...ou are throwing that back in their face... They have hugely invested in the relationship with you..their time..effort..feelings etc..you are disrespecting all that and them... The golden rule for arguing about morals is the golden rule itself: One should treat others the way one would like others to treat oneself...so your point is borne out of cluelessness.. |
Re: Don’t Cheat On Her by Dorwadora(f): 10:57am On May 29, 2022 |
Unshackled:Okay But I'll still not sacrifice my happiness for anybody in the name of marriage. |
Re: Don’t Cheat On Her by stanliwise(m): 11:09am On May 29, 2022 |
FERNANDEZISBACK:I don’t know why you’re dragging this. Morality is a shared concept and if I don’t believe in it value. There are no reason I should feel remorseful or sad for going against one. Cheating is different, measurable, there is always an agreement before there can be cheating. As a Christian if you cheat through adultery and fornication. Irrespective of your moral angle. You have clearly disobeyed a clear cut commandment. And it is breaking the vow you made during marriage, which is all Christian must go through process of marriage before they could have sex or be intimate with someone. It has legal binding too if you are legally married . So morality is a small part of the cheating game |
Re: Don’t Cheat On Her by Ugaboy: 11:16am On May 29, 2022 |
SmartyPants:Matt 5:30 |
Re: Don’t Cheat On Her by Richy4(m): 11:27am On May 29, 2022 |
Cutehector: I wanted to say something regarding to the unbalanced nature of the write up... but I am not ready for an argument with anyone... All I see in the write up was how to use the old testament scriptures to cage married people. .. 1 Like |
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