Richy4:



I wanted to say something regarding to the unbalanced nature of the write up... but I am not ready for an argument with anyone...

All I see in the write up was how to use the old testament scriptures to cage married people. ..

Ugaboy:

Matt 5:30

Antoeni:
Ok , Noted

SwissMass:
What is this one saying

Jeromejnr:
Ehen, since when did atheists start to believe in Morals. That is, being concerned with the difference between right and wrong?

How does the concept of the meaning of right from wrong even exist in their vocabulary?

I think I know, "oh it hurts me therefore it is wrong". "Oh, it's pleasurable therefore it is right".

But then because of the nuances that could be present in the examples above, you have fallen into a false dilemma, naturalistic fallacy and anecdotal evidence. (Google it)

How does one have Morals without a framework or source to measure what true morality is?

What is the source of this "morality"? Are we not just a blob floating through space with no meaning?

Is morality subjective or objective?

Why should one be judged wrong for cheating on another when he believes it is the right choice for him?

Questions, questions.

Acehart:
God hates unjustified divorce (You didn’t read those texts carefully. A woman would leave her husband if he has been terrible to her). We made vows to be faithful, caring and to protect. When ones breaks that vow, the spouse has valid ground to divorce.

God hates abuse.

tiswell:
it's vice versa





...don't cheat on him

halaqasa:
What If My Wife Can't Bang Up To My Expectations

Pimine:

Aswearugaaad

Me, me, me. Look at me, it's all about me. I'm a princess so I must be happy at all times. Your sole purpose, the reason you live, is to keep me happy. If you can't do that, you're undeserving of me.

Lemme burst your bubble, princess. Selfish people die alone.

stanliwise:

There is no such thing as cheating by eyeing. It does not exist and please don’t bring the verse Mathew 5:28. If you do then you’re a baby Christian

Acehart:


No verse expressly shows where vows were exchanged. However, this verse is profound in showing two people had some form of agreement before they tied the knot- Amos 3:3 Can two walk together, except they be agreed?

Another verse is this: If a man vows a vow to the Lord, or swears an oath to bind himself by a pledge, he shall not break his word. He shall do according to all that proceeds out of his mouth (Number 30:2).

Whether a promise to a girl is made in secret or in the public, a man is bound by the words of his mouth.

Antoeni:
Ok , Noted

Kobojunkie:
Let me help you from another angle. They say, "Love thy neighbor as you love your own self". If you don't love your own self, can you love others?

Kobojunkie:
Let me help you from another angle. They say, "Love thy neighbor as you love your own self". If you don't love your own self, can you love others?

Pimine:
Aswearugaaad

And what does love have to do with happiness?

Kobojunkie:
Stop deluding yourself. !

Morality is of the standard of this here world. God instead calls His followers to a standard that is higher than that, and He will never bring His standard low to please morale men.

Pimine:

Aswearugaaad

And what does love have to do with happiness?

Jeromejnr:
Like the crap you wrote at the beginning of the thread. Misapplying and misrepresenting scriptures as usual.

I wanted to school you on the source and root word for "Moral"...but I will just be wasting my time.

Only the meek will He teach His ways.

Parisian:
Open your own thread and write your own.

Kobojunkie:
Everything, apparently!

Don't get me wrong, love isn't selfishness but to really love another, you have to love yourself first.

Acehart:
Truly, God hates unjustified divorce. There are even several grounds to which a contract can be nullified amongst which are: There was a lack of consideration, and fraud (namely false representation of facts) has been committed. The latter is the one the Christ made mention of in the Divorce discourse. In this text, it’s the lack of consideration of one’s vow. The penalties or consequences rather are immense.

Pimine:

Aswearugaaad

And I agree. Just go back and read the comment I responded to initially and tell me if Dorwadora wasn't talking from a place of extreme selfishness.

What she seeks doesn't exist and I hope she doesn't learn the hard way.

Dorwadora:
I don't think God will look favourably upon an abusive marriage.

This teaching is the reason Osinachi died. Cheating to me is not only bleeping another woman or man outside the marriage. The day you try to rob your partner's happiness then you've cheated.
If the marriage does not worth staying, then kindly get da guck.

Unshackled:
can you point us to any place in the bible where it was recorded that marriage vows were exchanged between husband and wife?