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Re: My Uncle Wife Is Insensitive by Ashirioluwa: 2:00pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
This is a family matter therefore he should seek advice through family members and friends. |
Re: My Uncle Wife Is Insensitive by Ishilove: 2:00pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
cayorday89:Hahahahaha! My mum is the opposite. Any time my dad tries to exercise the so-called iron hand, my mum goes marlian on him. Baba will now cam dan and start reporting her to me. complaining that my mum no get chill |
Re: My Uncle Wife Is Insensitive by Mattwillz: 2:00pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
Raalsalghul:Dey try to read ehn..e go beta |
Re: My Uncle Wife Is Insensitive by peggywebbs(f): 2:02pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
Is it with 70k he wants to pay lawyer? Your uncle is a lazy man. My advise is you shouldn't follow in his steps. A lazy man with no busy schedule and has enough time to hear gossip about his wife's activities. Please advise your uncle to find rent, if not he should get ready to pack out. In 2022, and people still reason like this. Mtchew ReneJay: |
Re: My Uncle Wife Is Insensitive by Kobojunkie: 2:03pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
Godoverevery:Like I have said umpteen times now, we don't have enough of the background information on the actual couple to decide who the Saint or demon is in this case. |
Re: My Uncle Wife Is Insensitive by advanceDNA: 2:04pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: U are abroad where it is normal to split bills..thats why your mouth dey always be like okro Ask the average nigerian woman...and she will own it with her full chest...that her money is for her but her husband's money is for the home and she can only support with little if she desires.... the average nigerian woman is never happy to help her husband with bills....even if shes doing it....its like a burden....only few of them are amazing that support their husband lovingly from the heart as duty..... A woman paying bills like rent and school fees is enough reason for peace to fly out the window 1 Like |
Re: My Uncle Wife Is Insensitive by alizma: 2:05pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
amazingspiderma:That is practical lie. No woman who truly lover her husband will leave him to be jumping from one house to another in search of money to pay rent yet hide her money in the name of trying to make the man a landlord. That woman will eventually divorce that man or frustrate him out of this life some day. Women in love truly step in for their husbands in term of needs. If the man is earning 70k and solely taken responsibility for the family's need, he is clearly not the wasteful, drinking or womanizing kind of man. He deserves love and respect. |
Re: My Uncle Wife Is Insensitive by Ekugbeh(m): 2:05pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
ReneJay:how kids do they have |
Re: My Uncle Wife Is Insensitive by cayorday89(m): 2:07pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
Ishilove:My mum is once in a blue moon and they will not gist for a while, then we the children can now do anyhow because nobody to report you to the other. No specific solutions to marital issues, even same case/issues of two different families have different causes peculiar to each family. |
Re: My Uncle Wife Is Insensitive by LadyRosa(f): 2:07pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
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Re: My Uncle Wife Is Insensitive by bigtt76(f): 2:08pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
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Re: My Uncle Wife Is Insensitive by pocohantas(f): 2:09pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
I can’t even blame her. On the other thread a man went to his sidechick’s house to eat pepper soup. After toiling with a man for years, he would remember he now has choices and the woman would be left high and dry. Even packer she no go see collect. Make them dey manage themselves dey go abeg. I no fit put mouth. My own be say, nature should try pair selfless people together. 6 Likes |
Re: My Uncle Wife Is Insensitive by advanceDNA: 2:10pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
aribisala0: Dont be surprised...most women have the mentality of their money is theirs alone but the husband's money should be for the house... so theres nothing wromg in what the wife is doing to most women...once every man knows this...u have peace |
Re: My Uncle Wife Is Insensitive by Kobojunkie: 2:10pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
advanceDNA:1. It is not normal to split bills abroad. Stop confusing your delusion with reality. It is a segment that have accepted the culture of splitting bills while others remain with old way of the man carrying the load because he is a man. Wherever you find yourself, you go for those that are like minded. Not those who are not all so you can whine as if it is all about you at the end of the day. 2. Then you should stop dealing with the average Nigerian woman and look for those who would instead share bills with you. 3. This is really commonsense abeg! Leave the average Nigerian woman, the same way you don't let the alata women come near you, and she will leave you alone. |
Re: My Uncle Wife Is Insensitive by Jdbrasco2: 2:12pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
faithfull18:Who takes this ur adivise if not ur fellow no accountability females? In ur world women are never wrong. Nawa for ur gender |
Re: My Uncle Wife Is Insensitive by advanceDNA: 2:12pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: U no dey dissapoint....sufayo |
Re: My Uncle Wife Is Insensitive by Kobojunkie: 2:13pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
advanceDNA:Look whose talking abeg! 1 Like |
Re: My Uncle Wife Is Insensitive by Emma2Seconds: 2:13pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
What is special in marrying Daughters Of EVE[quote author=Ishilove post=113370483] Marry first[/quote] |
Re: My Uncle Wife Is Insensitive by Florasilver: 2:14pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
Hmmmm Nairaland. Nothing person will not read. |
Re: My Uncle Wife Is Insensitive by 2tiny: 2:15pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
I like your perception. amazingspiderma: |
Re: My Uncle Wife Is Insensitive by advanceDNA: 2:17pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: U respond like an attack...calling me delusional But no worries.....i'm used to you ways. Im sorry i mentioned you.. |
Re: My Uncle Wife Is Insensitive by Nobody: 2:20pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
mscheew Nigeria and their yeye culture ... If the man die now won't you all come for their collective property like she didn't contribute anything but bedmatic ...Anyway incase you have not hear the Nigeria formula , his money is our money , her money is her money alone... |
Re: My Uncle Wife Is Insensitive by harmony75: 2:22pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
Why are you so quick to suggest divorce? You think that's how easy it is abi if he remarries the problem will just fly away? abeg leave them to settle their differences na you wan marry the man abi na your sugar daddy he has come to complain to you? If not so where's the divorce coming from do you know what this woman have been facing? She's a woman like you please get out in between them to settle. |
Re: My Uncle Wife Is Insensitive by Ishilove: 2:22pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
Emma2Seconds:You are blowing hot na. "I will do this, I will do that, she dare not" yada yada yada. Ogbeni, marry first na so that you can now boldly and authoritatively speak from a vantage point of experience. You think marriage is black and white? Oga, marry first let's see how you will handle situations. |
Re: My Uncle Wife Is Insensitive by 2tiny: 2:22pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
True talk MrMcJay: |
Re: My Uncle Wife Is Insensitive by frozen70(f): 2:23pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
ReneJay: What's the essence of the meeting he will be calling for She has said that it's a man's duty to provide for the family, what else do you want her to say Am glad the first five years was fantastic So now the wickedness in her has started manifesting Some thing brewing between both of them and both of them knows exactly where and when that water turned brown Until that is sorted out, she will keep giving valid excuses that will make others to keep quiet and not ask her the next question In summary you uncle provoked her and that particular issue have never been resolved Then I think your uncle should look for a mini falt |
Re: My Uncle Wife Is Insensitive by Emma2Seconds: 2:24pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
Doings Get Levels Ok!!! U Think that It's All Men That Takes Una( Women) Shit I pity Some Real Niggas That That Handles Una With Soft Hand . We Don't Tolerate SHITS Ok. Try It With Me And See Your Life Changer With Immediate Effects. [s] Bobmarie:[/s] |
Re: My Uncle Wife Is Insensitive by Kobojunkie: 2:24pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
advanceDNA:I don't attack..I am instead straight to the point. It is indeed delusional to consider that all those who live in the west believe in sharing bills. There are way too many cultures from all different parts of the world for anyone to accept such reasoning as valid. Also, right there in Nigeria, there are many men married to women who Share bills with them. Not because it magically happened to them but because they both agreed to such an arrangement. Marriage is after all an agreement between a man and a woman .so commonsense is if you want your wife to share bills with you, you do not go out and marry a woman who does not agree with such. 2 Likes |
Re: My Uncle Wife Is Insensitive by betshopagent(m): 2:25pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:u amaze me |
Re: My Uncle Wife Is Insensitive by alizma: 2:25pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
MrBrownJay1:Are you married with kids? If you are not, be mindful of the kind of advise you give so that you don't end up being tested by nature. It's very easy to say but tell me how to correct a wife with kids who refused to contribute to the family financially. The man just has a valid case to build on now, that is if he has good evidence that while he is looking around for money to pay their rent, the wife is looking for a plot of land to buy. Prior to this time, he has no concrete evidence to do anything. If the man had press charges on account of her non contributory attitude, the woman would have defend herself by saying the her salary is not even enough for her to take good care of herself. Somehow somewhat, those in charge of the matter would have advised the man to consider her statement and temper justice with mercy, some will even come out telling the man to hustle more to be able to feed his family and at the end, the man will look stupid and weak before his children and the society for admitting that he can't take care of his family without his wife's money. Yet the woman will remain in his house. Pray for a good wife. |
Re: My Uncle Wife Is Insensitive by Emma2Seconds: 2:26pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
Doings Get Levels Ok.!!! Ishilove: |
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