AncientGuy:
Let me just quickly summarise,

There is this girl where I work, she is 17 while I'm 24,I like her, don't know if I should go and ask her out.. she looks way matured than her age.

Hope i won't commit any crime doing that?

If yes how should I go about it guys?

Wait till she is legally an adult.

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AncientGuy:
Well, she doesn't look like a child nor act as one

Age 17 18 19 20 has so much trouble

AncientGuy:
Let me just quickly summarise,

There is this girl where I work, she is 17 while I'm 24,I like her, don't know if I should go and ask her out.. she looks way matured than her age.

Hope i won't commit any crime doing that?

If yes how should I go about it guys?

kennethfranc:

I no blame u....If not for nairaland u for know wetin be simp??

U fit no know the meaning sef. Just dey shout up and down.

na nairaland make no simp dat one sure,but very happy to be free!

dadavivo:
Shoot your shot by buying her JAMB form. And encourage her to stay away from Hot bastards like you

OGA talk beta talk.
Which jamb form ?
On to say na woman wey op wan marry ?

Ishilove:

While it is true that this generation of young ladies are quite a handful and many of them have the wrong priorities, but that doesn't mean there aren't good ones. The problem is the bad ones are everywhere. Even in church. You just hope not to fall into the hands of the bad ones

Well, you are kinda right but with this generation, if you want happiness, find love in your work. Because they have made it so obvious that money can buy sex. Love is now so overrated.. So for the main things in life, find a passion, a reason for your existence..

One thing life has taught me is to learn how to practice detachment.

Na under age,her parent fit get you arrested and the law go take it course cos she never reach 18years.

No let your d1ck put you for trouble ooo.

I don’t want to call u stupid but please let her be please!! Face your education work hard! Biko

Joezinho:


Well, you are kinda right but with this generation, if you want happiness, find love in your work. Because they have made it so obvious that money can buy sex. Love is now so overrated.. So for the main things in life, find a passion, a reason for your existence..

One thing life has taught me is to learn how to practice detachment.

Your work can only bring you so much happiness. Human beings are wired to need companionship, which is why we marry/cohabit, acquire pets, make friends etc etc

Love is not overrated because humanity is the product of love, so it is an integral part of us. When you love the wrong person, it will lose meaning and value, but loving the right person is one of the most wonderful experiences on earth

uthlaw:
na nairaland make no simp dat one sure,but very happy to be free!

Ogbeni double you hustle...it will change your mindset

EmzyT:



You don't shit where you eat, do your job and face front.

Rest.. Alot of people have met their spouse at their work place.

liabilities n entitlement loading

Leave her alone and mind the business that pays you. At 17, she is still below the age of consent.
Face your job

AncientGuy:
Let me just quickly summarise,

There is this girl where I work, she is 17 while I'm 24,I like her, don't know if I should go and ask her out.. she looks way matured than her age.

Hope i won't commit any crime doing that?

If yes how should I go about it guys?

Shoot ur Shot.

Take her out, Ladies likes to feel special. Take her out to a fancy restaurant. Don't go and impress her o. And waste your money for nothing. Take her to a peaceful and outdoor restaurant or even chicken republic depending on her class. Ensure you look way too swet, neat and well dressed. Casual dress i mean then you tell her you like her. But if it's mean. I don't tell girls i like them. The way i would be touching you most atimes and while we hug, how i will even press your body very close to mine, is enough to tell you, if she doesn't complain, omo she likes me too o, then i will take her out, we would chill, gist, laugh and vibe. Our next is in my house o, in my bedroom . Body no be firewood, Aunty. Relationship has started like this

Ishilove:

Your work can only bring you so much happiness. Human beings are wired to need companionship, which is why we marry/cohabit, acquire pets, make friends etc etc

Love is not overrated because humanity is the product of love, so it is an integral part of us. When you love the wrong person, it will lose meaning and value, but loving the right person is one of the most wonderful experiences on earth

I limited my thoughts only to 'romantic' love.. Of course, love is an integral part of us..

Sadly Ishi, Romantic love to me is overrated because we think one person coming in our lives will solve everything. Which is not just wrong but so unfair to think of. Love is not the solution of anything. People considering it as a magic bullet makes it overrated..

A mother's love is immeasurable. That, to me is the greatest love of all.

opalu:
At 17 years, she is UNDERAGED therefore a MINOR

Because I live in the US, I will correct you on this. I feel you asked google the wrong question. Ask google what is the age of consent? This is the age anyone is free to date and have sexual relationship with agemate or older person. Only about 11 states out of 50 states have consent as 18.

In UK, the consent age is 16.

kennethfranc:


Ogbeni double you hustle...it will change your mindset

shey u get update!

AncientGuy:
Well, she doesn't look like a child nor act as one

So that's excuse for your lust?

What are your intentions? If you don't have any good one, just leave her and focus on your life.

kennethfranc:

This is totally wrong. You need to change your circle if u truly wish to meet good ladies.


As for OP, you're lusting after her.

Every time, change your circle, change it circle, where did new circle dey where person go see something different from what he've been used to

Joezinho:


I limited my thoughts only to 'romantic' love.. Of course, love is an integral part of us..

Sadly Ishi, Romantic love to me is overrated because we think one person coming in our lives will solve everything. Which is not just wrong but so unfair to think of. Love is not the solution of anything. People considering it as a magic bullet makes it overrated..

A mother's love is immeasurable. That, to me is the greatest love of all.

Thinking one person's presence in our lives will solve all our problems is naivete on all fours. Is he Jesus? Even Jesus did not come to the world to solve all our problems but came to show us the way to the One who can. It doesn't make romantic love overrated, though. It us humans that taint it with all sorts of unrealistic expectations.

If you are sure of "your feeling", wait for a year until she is 18 years

Mayflowa:


Because I live in the US, I will correct you on this. I feel you asked google the wrong question. Ask google what is the age of consent? This is the age anyone is free to date and have sexual relationship with agemate or older person. Only about 11 states out of 50 states have consent as 18.

In UK, the consent age is 16.

Oga, leave all this one you dey yarn. This is Nigeria and the age of consent is 18. Shikena

You are 24 she is 17. That's a six year gap. Shoot your shot but don't have anything sextusl with her till she turns eighteen. For christ sake 75 year olds in the not are getting married to 12 year olds

Ishilove:

Thinking one person's presence in our lives will solve all our problems is naivete on all fours. Is he Jesus? Even Jesus did not come to the world to solve all our problems but came to show us the way to the One who can. It doesn't make romantic love overrated, though. It us humans that taint it with all sorts of unrealistic expectations.

So what is your definition of romantic love? Because to me, it is a purely chemical reaction. It is inherently based on physical characteristics... It’s no coincidence that straight people can only love the opposite sex romantically and homosexuals can only love their own sex romantically. Romantic love is tied with biology. It’s like diet sexuality.

Joezinho:


So what is your definition of romantic love? Because to me, it is a purely chemical reaction. It is inherently based on physical characteristics... It’s no coincidence that straight people can only love the opposite sex romantically and homosexuals can only love their own sex romantically. Romantic love is tied with biology. It’s like diet sexuality.

Jack and Rose

AncientGuy:
Let me just quickly summarise,

There is this girl where I work, she is 17 while I'm 24,I like her, don't know if I should go and ask her out.. she looks way matured than her age.

Hope i won't commit any crime doing that?

If yes how should I go about it guys?

Just let her be man,even your relf respect deserves some self respect.

Ishilove:

Jack and Rose

. Maybe our parents experienced real love but with this generation? Lucky are those who get to experience it..

Joezinho:


. Maybe our parents experienced real love but with this generation? Lucky are those who get to experience it..

Oh, I'm experiencing it. Plenty thorns in it, though

No go let them sack you because of small teenage underage girl o, face ya work

EmzyT:



You don't shit where you eat, do your job and face front.

This got me into a deep shit last week