pansophist:


It is about picking your poison. To either live in a sweet lie, or a painful truth. Well for me, I pick the latter, a painful truth. As the bible said, the truth shall set you free.

I will rather be at the bottom of the right mountain, than the zenith of the wrong one. Its heartbreaking I know, but I want the truth.

The problem still boils down to men. Trust should be earned and not just given outrightly. I can't really bring myself to trust anyone and I rarely get disappointed or heartbroken with regards to anything.

JovialJune:



The bolded is gold, and what makes it more spectacularly gold is that this comment is coming from a man, meaning all the rants about women attaching emotions to sex is actually very false, meaning women can cheat and still love their husband, so now we can all agree that not only men are polygamous in nature, women are also polyandrous in nature, so it is actually a full circle and running over, really nice.

@Op AB pele ehn....life gives us gbas gbos when we least expected, be AWALT in peace or you can go full blown MONK MODE, your problem, humans will continue to move on and exist as usual.

That only men are polygamous in nature should never be a debate in the first place as the so called men sleeping with different women know that those women are not sleeping with them alone, so it should be humans like other animals are capable of having multiple sex partners, but discipline makes the ones with single partners remain loyal.

WOMEN.. CHAI

you are to be blame to some extent sha... you didnt take the role of her man seriously. you trusted too much on her what you should check up by yourself...you neglect your responsibilties.

NEVER FORGIVE A CHEATING GIRLFRIEND/WIFE... she cant help herself

a past is never a past for a cheating woman. evict her...

Mad o

Johnycastro18:
Some years back I would have normally took such stories written here as been fictitious and a make believe story....

But with my experience in the hand's of one of this daughter's of eve recently, I must admit that they is nothing more evil that this daughters of eve can't do and even worse.

If I begin to narrate my story on how I was betrayed, and what I went through in the hands of this female gender ehnnn....

MODIFIED; for those asking about what happened......

is a rather sad experience, but I would narrate it for the seek of other simp like me in the house...

I was dating this lady Annabel( not real name, *for obvious reason won't use the real name) as far back as 2015 I had plans on marrying her, she was the girl of my dream( or so I taught) she was beautiful and hardworking and what more.. she was from the same place with me, same tribe, whenever she comes over to my side and see the whole room messed up or dirty she would not hesitate to start cleaning,mopping and tidying up the room and surroundings, as well as packing the clothes to the laundry even without mentioning....hmmmm I taught I have finally seen a wife material, alas I never knew what was about to hit me

Trouble however started in 2017 when I began to notice some little changes in her attitude, I asked her what the problem was but she never disclosed anything to me......as time goes on a friend of mine narrated to me how he normally saw my woman Annabel with a strange guy who she normally come with to particular restaurant to eat....but I never believed him, at best I taught it might be a colleague. However I reluctantly confronted her about what my friend said but she denied it. Well I never believed my friend either so I just let her be (foolish me)

we were already talking about marriage making plans for our marriage as of 2017,

however on a certain saturday evening, I received a call from her(Annabel) that she would like to see me, so that we could talk....from the tone of her voice while on call i could sense all was not well, I hurriedly wore my clothes, stop a ride and arrived at her home, she brought two seats which we both sat on.....with both eyes set on her I now asked her What the matter was?, without any warning she gave me a reply that she was PREGNANT,

Well I am not someone who is a proportionist or advocate of abortion, beside it is a taboo in my tradition to carry out abortion.( except you wan die as a man then you are free 2 try it) cheesy,... I told her all this stuff and she agreed to keep it ( first mistake)

Her pregnancy which she claim was mine was barely 3-4weeks or so, when we were togther one certain evening at her house when a call enter into her phone which she refused to pick, I urge her too pick, before she reluctantly pick the call and went outside the room to answer it , I was wondering within me, when did picking her phone and moving outside to answer it began?

Anyway after about 4 or 5 minutes or so....she returned back to the room feeling uncomfortable and she told me that someone was outside the house, that he want to see me , I asked her who is it, but she was feeling uneasy and uncomfortable, well I stood up and followed her outside all thesame

When we came out, there sat a scary looking guy,dark in complexion with Cigarettes at hand and two of his guys( or friend I don't know), when he saw me, he asked me to come seat by his side(my brain was thinking fast at this point) not really knowing what was happening or going on.....I reluctantly went to seat, immediately I sat at his side what first caught my attention was my woman's picture was what he used as his phone profile picture (hmmm)

Nasoh this guy take turn look me, come the ask me say "i know say annabel nah him babe bah?, I answered "No, I don't know"..... he said OK, he now told me that he is her boyfriend her guy and the father of her unborn baby,( immediately i turn and look at her, and she bend her head shamefully ......hmmmm) that he has been receiving information of me coming to her house frequently and he has asked her who I am to her and she told him that I am her colleague at work sad, and that, that was the reason he never took me serious....but of recent he has been suspecting us of dating, he now asked me if I have anything to do with her, if it is true that we are dating and there is something between us,? i was about answering the question when she (Annabel ) tried to interrupt and stop me....without warning this guy just landed her a dirty slap and ask her to keep quiet, that she is a fucki*ng cheat, she have been cheating on him, after all he had done for her, spend all his money on her and so on and so forth, that she don't know who he is, that if she think she can be pregnant with his child and be sleeping around, that he would deal with her and report her to her parents and so n and so forth...........

I ONLY SAT THERE AND BEND MY HEAD TO THE GROUND, LISTENING TO THE TWO OF THEM ARGUE AND TALK, SHE NIETHER DENIED ALL WHAT HE WAS SAYING, SO IT WAS TRUE AFTER ALL .....AT THAT POINT I KNEW IT WAS ALL OVER, I HAVE BEEN USED BY THIS DEVIL INCARNATE THAT CLAIM TO LOVE ME, SHE HAVE BEEN Bleep*ING AROUND, AND THE PREGNANCY WAS NOT MINE EITHER,.... I WAS JUST WONDERING SO ANNABEL OF ALL PEOPLE COULD DO THIS TO ME! I FELT WEAK, COLD AND SICK AT THAT MOMENT, I WISHED IT WAS ALL A DREAM, BUT ALAS IT WAS NOT......

the guy turn and ask me again if It is true that i am dating Annabel?, well having dawn on me that i have been betrayed by this daughter of eve, and looking accross to behold the fierce looking and two scary group of guys he came along with, fearing for my life I looked at him and told him we( I and Annabel ) ARE NOT DATING, we are just office colleague just as she had told him.

Even though he was not satisfied with my response, he warned me sternly to stay away from annabel if I want to live long, with grief in my heart and pains of betrayal, I arose from my seat,trembling greatly,my two legs were shaky and i could barely hold my body frame upright, that was how I left that house for good with the pains of been humiliated, betrayed and stab in the back by this female gender i claim to love.

When I arrived home and lay down on my bed with tears in my eyes, with the feeling of humiliation and grief,I noticed a text message entered my phone.......

i opened the message, and it was from annabel, this daughter of eve again....... In the message ; " She claim to be dissapointed in me for allowing that guy slap and hit her in my presence without defending her, that yes she had an affair with the guy...but she can swear that the pregnancy belongs to me not him, and that she never loved the guy, she only lied to him that the pregnancy is his, so she could eat(chop) his money, since his dad is rich, and when she wanted calling off there friendship with him, he threathened to kill her, she later find out that he is a cul**st that was why she was scared of leaving..... that I should please forgive her and forget about the guy,

WELL I CANNOT BE FOOLED TWICE, I SIMPLY TOLD HER TO Bleep OFF AND LEAVE ME ALONE

Damn!!!

Wow! What a story.

Johnycastro18:
Some years back I would have normally took such stories written here as been fictitious and a make believe story....

But with my experience in the hand's of one of this daughter's of eve recently, I must admit that they is nothing more evil that this daughters of eve can't do and even worse.

If I begin to narrate my story on how I was betrayed, and what I went through in the hands of this female gender ehnnn....

MODIFIED; for those asking about what happened......

is a rather sad experience, but I would narrate it for the seek of other simp like me in the house...

I was dating this lady Annabel( not real name, *for obvious reason won't use the real name) as far back as 2015 I had plans on marrying her, she was the girl of my dream( or so I taught) she was beautiful and hardworking and what more.. she was from the same place with me, same tribe, whenever she comes over to my side and see the whole room messed up or dirty she would not hesitate to start cleaning,mopping and tidying up the room and surroundings, as well as packing the clothes to the laundry even without mentioning....hmmmm I taught I have finally seen a wife material, alas I never knew what was about to hit me

Trouble however started in 2017 when I began to notice some little changes in her attitude, I asked her what the problem was but she never disclosed anything to me......as time goes on a friend of mine narrated to me how he normally saw my woman Annabel with a strange guy who she normally come with to particular restaurant to eat....but I never believed him, at best I taught it might be a colleague. However I reluctantly confronted her about what my friend said but she denied it. Well I never believed my friend either so I just let her be (foolish me)

we were already talking about marriage making plans for our marriage as of 2017,

however on a certain saturday evening, I received a call from her(Annabel) that she would like to see me, so that we could talk....from the tone of her voice while on call i could sense all was not well, I hurriedly wore my clothes, stop a ride and arrived at her home, she brought two seats which we both sat on.....with both eyes set on her I now asked her What the matter was?, without any warning she gave me a reply that she was PREGNANT,

Well I am not someone who is a proportionist or advocate of abortion, beside it is a taboo in my tradition to carry out abortion.( except you wan die as a man then you are free 2 try it) cheesy,... I told her all this stuff and she agreed to keep it ( first mistake)

Her pregnancy which she claim was mine was barely 3-4weeks or so, when we were togther one certain evening at her house when a call enter into her phone which she refused to pick, I urge her too pick, before she reluctantly pick the call and went outside the room to answer it , I was wondering within me, when did picking her phone and moving outside to answer it began?

Anyway after about 4 or 5 minutes or so....she returned back to the room feeling uncomfortable and she told me that someone was outside the house, that he want to see me , I asked her who is it, but she was feeling uneasy and uncomfortable, well I stood up and followed her outside all thesame

When we came out, there sat a scary looking guy,dark in complexion with Cigarettes at hand and two of his guys( or friend I don't know), when he saw me, he asked me to come seat by his side(my brain was thinking fast at this point) not really knowing what was happening or going on.....I reluctantly went to seat, immediately I sat at his side what first caught my attention was my woman's picture was what he used as his phone profile picture (hmmm)

Nasoh this guy take turn look me, come the ask me say "i know say annabel nah him babe bah?, I answered "No, I don't know"..... he said OK, he now told me that he is her boyfriend her guy and the father of her unborn baby,( immediately i turn and look at her, and she bend her head shamefully ......hmmmm) that he has been receiving information of me coming to her house frequently and he has asked her who I am to her and she told him that I am her colleague at work sad, and that, that was the reason he never took me serious....but of recent he has been suspecting us of dating, he now asked me if I have anything to do with her, if it is true that we are dating and there is something between us,? i was about answering the question when she (Annabel ) tried to interrupt and stop me....without warning this guy just landed her a dirty slap and ask her to keep quiet, that she is a fucki*ng cheat, she have been cheating on him, after all he had done for her, spend all his money on her and so on and so forth, that she don't know who he is, that if she think she can be pregnant with his child and be sleeping around, that he would deal with her and report her to her parents and so n and so forth...........

I ONLY SAT THERE AND BEND MY HEAD TO THE GROUND, LISTENING TO THE TWO OF THEM ARGUE AND TALK, SHE NIETHER DENIED ALL WHAT HE WAS SAYING, SO IT WAS TRUE AFTER ALL .....AT THAT POINT I KNEW IT WAS ALL OVER, I HAVE BEEN USED BY THIS DEVIL INCARNATE THAT CLAIM TO LOVE ME, SHE HAVE BEEN Bleep*ING AROUND, AND THE PREGNANCY WAS NOT MINE EITHER,.... I WAS JUST WONDERING SO ANNABEL OF ALL PEOPLE COULD DO THIS TO ME! I FELT WEAK, COLD AND SICK AT THAT MOMENT, I WISHED IT WAS ALL A DREAM, BUT ALAS IT WAS NOT......

the guy turn and ask me again if It is true that i am dating Annabel?, well having dawn on me that i have been betrayed by this daughter of eve, and looking accross to behold the fierce looking and two scary group of guys he came along with, fearing for my life I looked at him and told him we( I and Annabel ) ARE NOT DATING, we are just office colleague just as she had told him.

Even though he was not satisfied with my response, he warned me sternly to stay away from annabel if I want to live long, with grief in my heart and pains of betrayal, I arose from my seat,trembling greatly,my two legs were shaky and i could barely hold my body frame upright, that was how I left that house for good with the pains of been humiliated, betrayed and stab in the back by this female gender i claim to love.

When I arrived home and lay down on my bed with tears in my eyes, with the feeling of humiliation and grief,I noticed a text message entered my phone.......

i opened the message, and it was from annabel, this daughter of eve again....... In the message ; " She claim to be dissapointed in me for allowing that guy slap and hit her in my presence without defending her, that yes she had an affair with the guy...but she can swear that the pregnancy belongs to me not him, and that she never loved the guy, she only lied to him that the pregnancy is his, so she could eat(chop) his money, since his dad is rich, and when she wanted calling off there friendship with him, he threathened to kill her, she later find out that he is a cul**st that was why she was scared of leaving..... that I should please forgive her and forget about the guy,

WELL I CANNOT BE FOOLED TWICE, I SIMPLY TOLD HER TO Bleep OFF AND LEAVE ME ALONE

Whoa! You could have been deleted on the spot. I want you to still take a
DNA test. That child could really be yours.


Cheers.

odinson1:


The guy is emotionally strong and intelligent. That is how all men should be,calm down and think,not rush into action

The guy is another world for calmness and patient.