Hello Nairalanders,

I greet you all from the Red pillars, feminist, Bisexuals, SImPs down to the Good Advisers

Please help a comrade, I used to be a guy with big dreams, less friend who's always focused on positive things that'd add value to my life.

My problem now is that the part of me that stayed focused seems to have left me, i feel empty and can't focus anymore Some people here may say realising this the solution to my problem but damn is not I used to be a music addict but lately i've been able to reduce the way i listen to music.

My question now is what should i do to return back to my normal self Is no longer funny

My own pr9blem is money
I'm just perpetually broke.
Will be turning 19 this year, and I need some small small source of income

Change is inevitable...
Just remain focused

Any advice I am about to give you now, forget it if you don't have money.

First of all, have a deep reflection about your life, think about your strength, what you want, how you want it, when you want and how you are going to get it.

Create time for yourself, alone time, that period you can revive your music listening pastime.

Give positive attitude to life, you just want to know that life is in stages, you have to pass every phase diligently. With time what you are going through now will be history as you will get more responsibility, tasks and challenge to deal with. Life don't always give us what we want, we only try to get what we want from it.

If you don't have money, then you should try and make some money before you do certain things, because without money, confidence and zeal to live life won't be there.

I have my own challenges too, I can't say I am winning because I am wise or intelligent, I believe destiny which I understand to be time in this context is giving me victory.

Uzomacharles:
Change is inevitable...
Just remain focused

Thanks man