Time and time again the cycle repeats, typical man/woman totally shattered because a supposed better half ruined an untold fallacy about sticking together.

I struggle to understand how difficult it is for two opposite sex out of millions to copulate devoid of hurt,drama, cheating and what have you. A conscious and intentional process led to an agreement to date, which technically means there was an acceptance out of probable options to be together.

Recent happenings always connotes safe pattern of early stage mushiness and lovey dovey until a party drifts or meets a perceived better person. So it is somewhat subconsciously established that the average human cannot be with a particular person for long.

Why is there still the need to date instead of having a mutual friendship which could be sexual depending on the scenario?

The trauma, hurt that an heartbroken person exhibit is baffling, sentiment wise maybe I have never truly been broken to exhibit pains, tears in extreme case suicide. Not to downplay how a broken person should express hurt, I find it very disgusting seeing someone wail n lose themselves over a particular person when it was semi obvious relationships do not last.

Permit my curiosity, I am totally lost as to how one human has enough power over another person to leave them broken.