YommyOG:
I work in a commercial bank as a full-time employee. My gf used to live here in Ib where I live too. She has recently been posted to Lagos State for her Youth Service. Sometime ago, she's asked me to help her work on a reversal. A few days later, I checked her account to see if funds have been reversed but I saw an inflow of #8,000 from her ex. I confronted her about it and her excuse was she was stranded and she couldn't ask me cos we weren't talking at the moment. I let it go. A week after, I instinctively snooped through her account again and saw another inflow of #10,000 from the same ex. This time, I sarcastically asked if she was stranded again. Could this mean they are back? Should I just move on?. She has called me broke to my face a couple of times (I'm in some debt I'm trying to pay off and currently going through other quarter-life crises). We've been together well over two years and half and I love her a lot.

I'll appreciate your responses and advise.

Warm Regards.

- Yomi

Justkatty:
No he's not
Atleast he lives comfortable.

Buskynwa:

im very incapacitated, my phone went black
please i need you now than ever, mumsy don do wetinpain me

drop the last 5 digits of your number please

Mastakija:
Continue the relationship

HarunaWest:
Yomi. I was a banker like you in the past. Stop snooping through a customers account. If fraud were to occur in that account, I am very sure you are aware the auditors will check whoever logged into that account. Thats by the way. Well its obvious you lady friend still has an attachment with her ex. The fact that she still collects money from him means that they still talk alot. Sit her down and ask her what she wants in life? Cheers.

Justkatty:
I'm a lady and without being sentimental
If I should find out you still see your ex, I don't think I'll be able to continue that relationship.

My ex most times chat me up, and I make sure I keep reminding him we can't get back because I am now with someone.
Good and fine,I am meant to block him but I see no sense in doing that because to me it looks childish BUT that doesn't mean I should be foolish.

Fiscus105:



And you dnt see that, it's time you blocked him? That's big error that seems to be small that many ladies like you do commit, you will think you are capable of checkmating him until pressure from him overwhelms you.

No reason. I repeat, no reason why exes should be communicating on regular basis.

Samakus:
Broke girl wey..

1 him papa no fit cater for,

2. dey beg ex for money,

3. Still dey serve, never dey feed herself

4, never begin make her own money

5. Dey her whoring phase and whoring it ti the high heavens..

Dey broke shame man like you wey dey feed himself, dey pay rent, dey take care of him bills..

And you're feeling bad?


NO BE JUJU BE THAT

HarunaWest:
Yomi. I was a banker like you in the past. Stop snooping through a customers account. If fraud were to occur in that account, I am very sure you are aware the auditors will check whoever logged into that account. Thats by the way. Well its obvious you lady friend still has an attachment with her ex. The fact that she still collects money from him means that they still talk alot. Sit her down and ask her what she wants in life? Cheers.

YommyOG:
I work in a commercial bank as a full-time employee. My gf used to live here in Ib where I live too. She has recently been posted to Lagos State for her Youth Service. Sometime ago, she's asked me to help her work on a reversal. A few days later, I checked her account to see if funds have been reversed but I saw an inflow of #8,000 from her ex. I confronted her about it and her excuse was she was stranded and she couldn't ask me cos we weren't talking at the moment. I let it go. A week after, I instinctively snooped through her account again and saw another inflow of #10,000 from the same ex. This time, I sarcastically asked if she was stranded again. Could this mean they are back? Should I just move on?. She has called me broke to my face a couple of times (I'm in some debt I'm trying to pay off and currently going through other quarter-life crises). We've been together well over two years and half and I love her a lot.

I'll appreciate your responses and advise.

Warm Regards.

- Yomi

YommyOG:
I work in a commercial bank as a full-time employee. My gf used to live here in Ib where I live too. She has recently been posted to Lagos State for her Youth Service. Sometime ago, she's asked me to help her work on a reversal. A few days later, I checked her account to see if funds have been reversed but I saw an inflow of #8,000 from her ex. I confronted her about it and her excuse was she was stranded and she couldn't ask me cos we weren't talking at the moment. I let it go. A week after, I instinctively snooped through her account again and saw another inflow of #10,000 from the same ex. This time, I sarcastically asked if she was stranded again. Could this mean they are back? Should I just move on?. She has called me broke to my face a couple of times (I'm in some debt I'm trying to pay off and currently going through other quarter-life crises). We've been together well over two years and half and I love her a lot.

I'll appreciate your responses and advise.

Warm Regards.

- Yomi

Justkatty:
I'm a lady and without being sentimental
If I should find out you still see your ex, I don't think I'll be able to continue that relationship.

My ex most times chat me up, and I make sure I keep reminding him we can't get back because I am now with someone.
Good and fine,I am meant to block him but I see no sense in doing that because to me it looks childish BUT that doesn't mean I should be foolish.

Justkatty:
Like I said before blocking him is not the solution, I can do that and he still finds a way in coming to my house to know the reason why I did that.
So to avoid us meeting for any reason, it is better our conversation is been limited on social media alone.

Fiscus105:



Coming to ur house? Infact, I pity ur sorry ass.

One thing I know for sure is that, the space ladies give to man determine that kind of play such man will play with her.
....... madam stop kidding urself on the platform pls.......

zexy2030:

I understand that a lady will only block a guy with no prospect, because they have seen the end from the beginning. But when a lady blocks a guy with financial prospects, plan B and entitlement will never allow her right sense block the ex. But just wait till that guy marries and she is not..it is then you will realize the intent you really had for your ex. Women, can be manipulated especially with a guy with prospects.

And for you: blocking doesn't make you childish. Any guy you have sexual relationship with, if u can't block him? I give you 2yrs into your marriage, that guy will knack again even in the new state.

I have never seen someone holding a hot plate and smiling.

Or a goat keeping gates/ observing a lion.

I'm sorry, if I date you, and I found out u have had sex with these exes. If you can lists them.

Right before my eyes. Block them. Loose contacts forever.

Well, that's the extent of a man's control, but a woman who is a cheat will still cheat.

A woman with many body counts can't escape cheating even after marriage.

Sex for provision and security has always been a woman's tool to survive.

Tallesty1:
You and your girlfriend not talking at the moment?

How do you guys do this?

Omo, if I and my lady are having a misunderstanding, the highest I can give her to calm down is an hr and I will call to sort it out.

Makes no matter who is at fault.

Tallesty1:
You and your girlfriend not talking at the moment?

How do you guys do this?

Omo, if I and my lady are having a misunderstanding, the highest I can give her to calm down is an hr and I will call to sort it out.

Makes no matter who is at fault.

Samakus:


Stop indulging that girl you call yours. Apologise when you're wrong but when she is, let her put efforts in making this work.

Why will you always call her when you're having misunderstanding irrespective of who is at fault? You people don't learn. Well you're gonna learn sooner or later. Let people take responsibilities for their actions. What kind of men are we grooming these days?

Mark today. You will refer to it soon

SaiRuiMall:


So if your girlfriend cheats on you, after 1 hour, you will call her to sort it out.
SIMPle Man

Tallesty1:
I didn't say I always call her did I? Variety is the spice of life chief, do what works for you while I do mine.

No matter how much you claim to know, you have ex that dumped and you've ex that you dumped, tells you that no one is an expert in this thing.

If we have a misunderstanding, I call her to apologize if I am wrong or to let her know that she's wrong. She does the same and it works for us.

Do you and let me do me. Alright?

No relationship has happy ending, even if you marry, you may still divorce and if you don't divorce, one of you will die first and leave the other in pains.

No happy ending.

Do what works for you.

Nobody knows it best

You don't know me.

You don't know her.

So you don't know enough to have an opinion.

I resolve conflicts as fast as in can, even among friends. I tell you your fvck and let it slide instead of not being in talking terms because of something that can be resolved easily through communication.

Nah, I don't do that.

Justkatty:
With the few times you've been with a woman, I know you should be able to know what and what she's capable of.
And why are you just centered on sex alone?
Is it just sex that was sustaining their relationship when they were still dating?
My dear, except you don't have self control that's when you can still be fooling yourself around your ex.

Justkatty:
I'm a lady and without being sentimental
If I should find out you still see your ex, I don't think I'll be able to continue that relationship.

My ex most times chat me up, and I make sure I keep reminding him we can't get back because I am now with someone.
Good and fine,I am meant to block him but I see no sense in doing that because to me it looks childish BUT that doesn't mean I should be foolish.

Justkatty:
I'm a lady and without being sentimental
If I should find out you still see your ex, I don't think I'll be able to continue that relationship.

My ex most times chat me up, and I make sure I keep reminding him we can't get back because I am now with someone.
Good and fine,I am meant to block him but I see no sense in doing that because to me it looks childish BUT that doesn't mean I should be foolish.

Totomechanic:

nicely put sir... Bdw, how much do you charge per sketch? Plus do I send you a pishur or you need to see local man physically to be able to run it?

YommyOG:
I work in a commercial bank as a full-time employee. My gf used to live here in Ib where I live too. She has recently been posted to Lagos State for her Youth Service. Sometime ago, she's asked me to help her work on a reversal. A few days later, I checked her account to see if funds have been reversed but I saw an inflow of #8,000 from her ex. I confronted her about it and her excuse was she was stranded and she couldn't ask me cos we weren't talking at the moment. I let it go. A week after, I instinctively snooped through her account again and saw another inflow of #10,000 from the same ex. This time, I sarcastically asked if she was stranded again. Could this mean they are back? Should I just move on?. She has called me broke to my face a couple of times (I'm in some debt I'm trying to pay off and currently going through other quarter-life crises). We've been together well over two years and half and I love her a lot.

I'll appreciate your responses and advise.

Warm Regards.

- Yomi