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Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by ikotunblog: 1:04am On Jun 24, 2022 |
Thats not true, because in 2013 there was a Russian scientist named Povandolakoviviscov Kitayionshikov. Why did you skip the name I will not finish the story |
Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by 1Sharon(f): 1:44am On Jun 24, 2022 |
The 17 year old girl is stupid. You are also stupid. Have you heard about the honey trap? 2 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by ApexTrends: 2:26am On Jun 24, 2022 |
Stupid op with stupid lies Thunder |
Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by Nobody: 6:51am On Jun 24, 2022 |
I hope the OP have his pvc tell him to vote peter obi
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Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by Mrkcee(m): 7:00am On Jun 24, 2022 |
OP @ceaseruso, I totally understand this situation. It happens. Our once beautiful society has turned to something else. For the 17 years old senior adult girl (yes senior adult, because she certainly started the format since 13), that's one of her MOs. They get their Mum or Aunt involved to give you this sense of "good little family girl" vibe, but she is a prostitute and her mother, the love-vendor. I once fell for this scheme in a similar manner, after a little episode with her & her mother, I realized she was already a mother of a 6 year old boy (she was 19 then) fathered by an uncle... Lol. It took the grace of God to deliver me from their spiritual manipulation. Yes, they go spiritual too to cage their catch, once you sleep with her u'll understand this scenario, I'm telling u. Now, for the kids running their mouths, commenting without reasoning,... Why did u give business card blah blah blah, forgive them. Majority of comments in this forum are from immature minds. U were right in giving out ur card and all (I would do same & even sleep with her when I didn't know better). I'm happy you realized urself and severed the whole thing. Congrats! 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:30am On Jun 24, 2022 |
ceaseruso: i would 1st ask myself why this teenage child is after ME and not other people, and will therefore be suspicious of her actions.... but,if she is asking help from everyone, then i will DEFINITELY not give her a ride and instead would just help her with tranport fare. I gave her mom my card because we discussed business as I mentioned above, I hoped for referrals not this! then as you acted as captain "save a lost soul", you should understand the mindset of Nigerians and that they will turn around and try to get as much free handouts as they can, since you already gave them unwarranted handouts. Lastly, of course I can block and forget but it’s also imperative to share stories like this, for others to learn and contemplate. Same reason you read books, to learn/understand perspectives/concepts/events from the author’s view. I’m also an int’l published author so pardon my compulsion to pen down everything. as much as you can share the story with us all, you did your "good heart human being" part with these people and basta... so the important question IS: did you block these parasites or not?!?!? and if you didnt, then care to tell us why not?! But on a more serious note, we must ask ourselves questions; how we got here and where we’re going with this level of social decadence. i believe Nigerians are lazy/greedy by nature, thus the minute they see an opening where they can get free money/handouts from a good samaritan, they will pounce on it and try to get as much as they possibly can from him. what surprise me the most in your story is NOT the begging, its the way that (in this day and age of kidnappings and money rituals) a teenager can enter the car of a total stranger, with no fear whatsoever AND/OR a man can let a 17yr old teenage child enter his motor with no fear whatsoever of fake rape/kidnapping accusations etc. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by Richy4(m): 8:11am On Jun 24, 2022 |
I believed the story totally but what l don't really know was what the intense conversation was while in the car, taking her home.. I cannot pick a 17yr old, have a civil conversation with her like how is your studies, do u go to church, what is your favourite bible verse and she starts demanding for creams... Where in the world can that happen?... It can't even happen in Gomorrah 5 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by luminouz(m): 8:32am On Jun 24, 2022 |
I have no issues with the story but seeing OP lose his frame by arguing and cussing with those insulting his story is funny. It's your story, your card, your phone...why dafuq would you lower yourself down to the level of letting NLanders leech you of your emotions too. A nice fat 'K' or silence saves the day. Some mature replies from the thread gladden my heart. 4 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by luminouz(m): 8:34am On Jun 24, 2022 |
Richy4:You know nothing,Snow!!! Some 17 year olds are bigger, fatter and look matured. Young in age but old in sinful experience. OP was being nice but on these streets, being nice equals PREY 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by Oizee(f): 8:35am On Jun 24, 2022 |
ceaseruso:nawao, u are really pained but I'm not the cause, who gives out a complimentary card to a minor after offering her a free ride? U had an ulterior motive to take advantage of that girl right? ATEME |
Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by Richy4(m): 8:46am On Jun 24, 2022 |
luminouz:As a matured man surrounded with kids and nieces, there's no way I can't figure out a teenager... Even with their utterances u will know...Yes there are some that looks and talk a little way older than their age but a kid is still a kid... One behaviour.. just only one will give it away.. His line of conversation with her must have triggered the whole thing.. Whatever they were saying in the car was the determining factor here.. there's no two ways about it... Being nice is different from kids enjoying senior jokes.. teenagers can also pick sexual innuendos..be it jokes or ordinary conversation.. |
Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by NoToPile: 9:25am On Jun 24, 2022 |
OP the society is very terrible nowadays, just block them. At least you have conscience, if it was some of the boys on NL, they wouldn't mind sleeping with her. Ohh and you did nothing wrong with giving the mum your business card. Referrals can come from anywhere, I am of the opinion that the small cash you gave them, the car not necessarily the business card might have enabled them to think you can be their financial savior, not that it was wrong but possibly they felt they could offer something (sex) for more. One thing I noted though is the statement by the girl she boldly said that most men want sex and if that’s what I want no problem as long as I help them sadly it's true, sex seems to be some sort of currency these days. Anyway the mother is shameless sha. 17 year old girl already a prostitute. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by Nobody: 10:29am On Jun 24, 2022 |
1Sharon: Your mum and dad are very stupid. You cursed fool. Why can’t people air their view without insulting, can’t you make a short sentence void of repulsive words? I’m not the kind you tramp and pass. 2 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by Nobody: 10:30am On Jun 24, 2022 |
Oizee:Next time read very well before commenting, nobody gave a card to a minor. Ulterior motive and still turned down her sex offer? Use your sense small nau 2 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by Nobody: 10:32am On Jun 24, 2022 |
Richy4: See I never mentioned having any intense convo with her in the car. I said I had an intense convo with her after the demands. The convo was more of me interrogating her about her behaviour and that was days after I gave her the ride. Richy4: You simply have little understanding of these things and have never been in that situation ok, so I would be a magician to know her age if not that I asked. And you think she looked or spoke like a child? Imagine you! You would ask her what her fav. bible verse is? which planet do you live in? Teenage girls that have seen more of life than you have, more exposed and met more people than you have, probably slept with your father or your boss or men old enough to be your grandfather. I think you don’t go out much, if you’re married take your wife to a nightclub and know what’s up. 2 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by Nobody: 10:50am On Jun 24, 2022 |
ceaseruso:you sound hopeless in life i will pray 4 u 1 Like |
Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by Oizee(f): 11:02am On Jun 24, 2022 |
ceaseruso:oga no vex, I have seen that u love to be praised and not condemned or criticised, u posted it here for views and opinions, people will comment on it either positively or negatively. I expected that as an adult u shouldn't take the comments personally, where is ur level of maturity? U are busy attacking and defending. My take still stand bcuz u posted it here for us. U shouldn't have given them ur contact cuz I didn't see d need from ur narrations. Pls no vex.....I'm truly sorry that u felt offended, just accept the apologies and don't quote me again. 2 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by Nobody: 11:16am On Jun 24, 2022 |
Oizee: You’re a clown! I’ve seen your level of maturity by calling the op stupid. Did you read your first comment? That’s barely a criticism, it’s outright insult. This may be a faceless platform but I know for sure that I’m more mature and exceedingly more educated than you are, so talk to me again about criticism when you understand the concept of “constructive criticism”. I’ve had interviews with channels tv criticising some FG policies myself, there’s big difference btw criticising and insulting/cursing, so don’t tell me rubbish. Next time you think twice before dishing out insults, you can’t even insult or stand before me in person. I had business convo with her mom which necessitated the giving of biz card, I hoped for referrals, that’s how I’ve always prospered as a business owner. I don’t how many times I’ve to explain this on one story but if your mind is too weak to understand it, then keep your Godforsaken positive/negative contribution to yourself, I don’t know you nor do I care about you, I’m here for fun, so read and pass, you must not comment unless you’re a troublemaker, then when you see trouble you’ll take to your heels or start calling God. Anyways apologies accepted. 1 Like |
Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by Pootle: 11:18am On Jun 24, 2022 |
ABANGWABOI: righteousness need to read this 1 Like |
Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by Richy4(m): 1:01pm On Jun 24, 2022 |
ceaseruso: You came off like a randy daddy to her.. present all the vibe that they do, and when the kid, being the kid that she is flashed back the green light that you were indicating, U became righteous, created a thread for people to applaud you right?... I still maintained that the Sexual innuendos you were exhibiting as an adult in the car while driving her home was what triggered her reactions... and you implied it here by saying teenagers have seen life..hence the need to speak to her like an adult.. No one will have a neutral conversation with a kid and that kid turns 360 degrees and starts demanding for cream and money... It doesn't work that way.. How you managed to use a blanket approach towards all teenage girls sleeping with people is beyond me... Clear your mindset, learn to have decent conversations with kids devoid of anything that will lead to sexual stuffs.. Do not always assume that they have all seen life it's wrong ...Being street smart does not take away the fact that one can't have a meaningful conversation.. 1 Like |
Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by MrOkenwa(m): 1:45pm On Jun 24, 2022 |
OORE NIWON 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by indodon(m): 1:56pm On Jun 24, 2022 |
Op we know when you notice the curvy body so don't give the responsible man cowshit |
Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by Nobody: 2:16pm On Jun 24, 2022 |
indodon:Smh |
Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by Joeyfizzo: 3:27pm On Jun 24, 2022 |
ceaseruso:pls inbox me her number... I'm willing to help her with asking for sex. 1 Like |
Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by NastiLord: 3:53pm On Jun 24, 2022 |
Why did you give out your biz card. Help them if you want to. Thunder fire that her useless mama sef. At 20, dem no born me, my bros and sisters to carry boy or girl friend go show our mama. You go collect excess beatings |
Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by Saintmary(f): 8:53pm On Jun 24, 2022 |
ceaseruso: What kind of business are you into? At least Nairalanders can patronize you. |
Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by kingthreat(m): 4:17pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
17 years old is very legal. Their puss dey tight and oil dey there well. I am no charity organization, but if we can have an agreement, I become her sugar daddy and screw whenever I want, fine. |
Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by faithfull18(f): 5:16pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
Hmmn, God help this generation.. |
Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by Nobody: 6:31pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
ApexTrends:I can understand your frustration, you’ve posted only twice btw 1st Jan to 31st March 2022, and not a single person responded to you once; even with the reality of your posts. Now, rejection, isolation and being ignored somehow leads to depression, frustration, confusion, destitution and debility, which triggers something called Epinephrine and that’s when you attack random ppl without aim or counter-knowledge. Your mind is completely blank, no complexity or ongoing rigorous thought process, just the urge to fight! I totally understand that even though you don’t know me, but insulting me without provocation will calm that stimulus ephemerally, so I’m not going to retaliate, I just pity you. You’ve a remediable medical condition and need psychological help, unfortunately, there’s little to no availability of that in this country filled with sick ppl. |
Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by ABANGWABOI(m): 11:38am On Aug 20, 2022 |
kelechi50: It is almost two decades of me fcvking around and the experience has been awesome.. |
Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by Originalsly: 2:37pm On Aug 20, 2022 |
Let me chew on this .... you gave a 17 year old a lift.... why would you be getting into conversations that you don't like the subject? Wasn't all this because the girl is beautiful?.... and has a curvy body? You saw and noted all this from the beginning .... not from the phone conversation as you want us to believe. Is it not the truth you left business card to maintain contact? .... and draft her as a side chick? As I see it... the wahala is a bit too much .... and the last straw was the girl saying she is willing to have sex .... which is a turn off because you will realize she is pretty much a prostitute and very sexually active... the reason for her fully developed and curvy body at age 17. I'm almost sure her being a minor wouldn't have been the topic if she was an innocent untouched minor. |
Re: My Experience With A 17yr Old Girl And Her Mother. Where Do We Go From Here? by Hafizah(f): 7:47pm On Aug 20, 2022 |
You asked for it by giving out your business card and all, but pls for the sake of kindness and humanity. Pls you can help the said lady with a job, probably she is done with secondary school. She needs a little job to offset bills. All the same help in the little way u can. Times are hard, u can never imagine. |
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