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Re: Marrying A Feminist by Kobojunkie: 10:24pm On Jun 24, 2022 |
Jashub:I don't listen to your Oprah or anyone on issues so please don't expect me to argue any of their claims. My question to you remains. You claim feminists all have hidden agendas that fall under the two categories you listed, yet I can pick about 10 random threads on romance section from this week alone that were created by guys who never used the word "feminist" to describe their womem/gal friend. Yet all 10 complaints have something to do with the women using them for at least one of the reasons stated in those two categories you claim apply mostly to feminists, how come? 4 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by blinking001(m): 10:25pm On Jun 24, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Women are to submit to men because they are women. Deal with it. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by Kobojunkie: 10:25pm On Jun 24, 2022 |
blinking001:By what law or ruling? 6 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by blinking001(m): 10:29pm On Jun 24, 2022 |
Novemberaura:How can you love a feminist? She's clearly manipulating you. Anyway, i hope you don't learn the hard way. For fu.cks sakes who considers a feminist a wifey material in the 21st century? Funny man 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by Jashub: 10:30pm On Jun 24, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:So you're using this low-IQ Nairaland as a metric for statistical analysis regarding feminism? Lol...please go to other public forums(like Twitter or Reddit) and come back and tell me otherwise 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by blinking001(m): 10:31pm On Jun 24, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Refer that question to your mother. Evidence of failed parenting. 11 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by blinking001(m): 10:32pm On Jun 24, 2022 |
Jashub:You're taking her seriously? You get time oh. Watch and see how she tries to rationalise her stupidity. 6 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by Kobojunkie: 10:33pm On Jun 24, 2022 |
Jashub:Low-IQ ke? Regardless, they make up the numbers as far as Nigeria is concerned. Given the complaints the average Nigerian boy/man out there has against their women fall under the same two categories you ascribe mostly to feminists, what I see is a problem with your assertion as far as feminists are concerned since your issues with them seem to mirror the issues your average boys have with even their non-feminist gals. 3 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by Kobojunkie: 10:35pm On Jun 24, 2022 |
blinking001:But where did your own mother get that idea from to teach it to you? 3 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by blinking001(m): 10:39pm On Jun 24, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:From my father. I watched her submit to my father as the man of the house. You watched your father submit to your mother? 23 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by Kobojunkie: 10:41pm On Jun 24, 2022 |
blinking001:You watched your mother submit to your father and you never once felt to ask her why she did what she did? Sorry, my father and mother were both educated partners in their relationship. 6 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by Jashub: 10:45pm On Jun 24, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:It seems your problem is based on comprehension. For the record ,I remember telling you the odds were "low " regarding regular women. Or have you forgotten? 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by Kobojunkie: 10:47pm On Jun 24, 2022 |
Jashub:I didn't forget your claim. However, it seems reality of regular women - the complaints average boys/men have of regular women - belie your claim is what I am pointing out to you here. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by Demigod22: 10:47pm On Jun 24, 2022 |
I don't have any problem with people fighting for the betterment of their gender but I don't appreciate people that do it aggressively and illogically. I will never and can never marry a feminist. She is too broken and unhealthy for a healthy relationship which I want to build with my wife. I don't expect my wife to be a slave but I want my wife to be a humanist, not retarded feminist. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by Freelane33(m): 10:48pm On Jun 24, 2022 |
Jashub:Bro stop arguing with him , he’ll never comprehend the point . You’re trying to educate him but he’s not trynna listen and if he even listens at the end ‘ a great knowledge in the hand of a fool will be self destruction “ 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by Jashub: 10:53pm On Jun 24, 2022 |
Freelane33:I don stop o. After all, she's using this low-IQ forum as a metric to debunk my claims on feminism and it's BS to men as a whole |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by blinking001(m): 10:55pm On Jun 24, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:I never had to ask because she was properly loved and cherished by my father. Being a nurse didn't stop her from submitting to my dads authority as the man of the house. For the records they are both highly educated too. So what stopped your mother from submitting to your father's authority? 12 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by Kobojunkie: 10:56pm On Jun 24, 2022 |
Jashub:Are you somehow of the mind that the average Nigerian man/boy has a high IQ or what? I ask this because you keep suggesting that this forum being of low-IQ somehow means it isn't to be used in Judging the Nigerian situation. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by frozen70(f): 10:58pm On Jun 24, 2022 |
Pierocash: What exactly do you want her to submit 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by Kobojunkie: 11:00pm On Jun 24, 2022 |
blinking001:So, you didn't care to ask her but did she at least teach you that women are meant to submit to you? Or you simply assumed this had to be the case? Submission made no sense in our case since my father and mother saw themselves as partners/equals in their marriage agreement - not a master/slave relationship. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by blinking001(m): 11:03pm On Jun 24, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:She taught me that women are suppose to submit to their men using her relationship with my father as a mirror. Your father and mother are equals? 9 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by Kobojunkie: 11:05pm On Jun 24, 2022 |
blinking001:Yes, their marriage was a partnership where they saw themselves equally contributing to the success and upkeep of the family in their agreed upon way. 5 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by blinking001(m): 11:07pm On Jun 24, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Who defends the family when the need arises and what were your mothers contributions exactly? 7 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by frozen70(f): 11:07pm On Jun 24, 2022 |
Novemberaura: There is nothing wrong with getting married to feminist No woman wants to be relegated or treated like a slave in her own world, marriage or relationship Women respects men who loves them If a man knows how to respect himself, he won't even get any challenges from his wife There are men full of pride, they just want women to be seen but not heard If Okonjo Iweala husband had silencend his wife, no one would have known that she was full of talent, look at the position she is holding that put the family in a top level Would the husband wants to remind her that she is just a woman and shouldn't be heard, No He gave her freedom to go to the field of men and struggle with them She is more famous than her husband yet, her husband is a neuro surgeon but they are examples of good marriage 5 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by Kobojunkie: 11:08pm On Jun 24, 2022 |
blinking001:Defends the family from what exactly? Her contributions were according to their marriage agreement ofcourse. 4 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by blinking001(m): 11:11pm On Jun 24, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Defend his family from external aggression. Oh i see. So your father normally does the dishes, cooks and washes your mothers clothes? 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by Kobojunkie: 11:13pm On Jun 24, 2022 |
blinking001:He had no problems doing chores, if that is what you are asking. He even taught me how to cook om several occasions.. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by Jashub: 11:14pm On Jun 24, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:You're the one making that assumption by using Nairaland as a metric for studying feminist 3 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by RightToReject(m): 11:16pm On Jun 24, 2022 |
There is nothing wrong in marrying a feminist, provided that she is not a misandrist and does not delight in cruelty in general. You will, however, have a problem having a healthy relationship with a woman of substance that is not a misandrist and does not delight in cruelty in general whether or not she is a feminist if your concept of the proverbial wife material/submissive wife is a woman who is servile to you. In summary, as a man, a sane and self-conquered man, your main concern when choosing a woman for something serious should be the kind of mentality she possesses and her ethical leanings in general rather than the ideological tag she wears. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by blinking001(m): 11:17pm On Jun 24, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:I guess your mother also paid your dads grooms price since it's a partnership? 15 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by Kobojunkie: 11:21pm On Jun 24, 2022 |
Jashub:I never did any of that. Instead, what I continue to do is point out to you the fact that a good portion of non-feminist complaints fall under the same two categories which you ascribe mainly to feminists, therefore invalidating your claim. Basically, since both feminists and non-feminist related complaints fall under those two categories, it is wrong to assume that feminism has anything to do with what you accuse the women of. 3 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by Kobojunkie: 11:21pm On Jun 24, 2022 |
blinking001:Such things carry with them no more than the symbolic meaning they were meant to have in a partnership. For instance, do you tell your business partner that because you paid the business registration fee when registering the business, you are not really equal partners? 5 Likes 1 Share |
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