How can a guy propose to a lady that is 3years older than him?

just because YOU are an insecure person, doesnt mean that everyone else is.
that guy surely doesnt have the same childish values as you. if he is happy with this lady then who ARE YOU to look down on his act?

Dont misunderstand everything, what i mean is that how will a guy that is 3years younger than a lady achieve his aim of proposing to that lady and winning her love.

I think Poster meant to ask what is the best way to propose to a lady accordingly, knowing fully well she is older than you right?

If that is what poster meant to ask, then i suggest there is no unusual way of going about it, All you need to do is just propose like you are proposing to a girl you love and want to spend the rest of your life with, shikena!!

I think the important thing in family life is true love. If that exist between the two, then age is just a number.

I dont think the future is any big deal, how strong or weak a person gets as they age does not really much depend on the age, its sometimes mostly family gene.

Have this old family friend of my family whom i learnt the husband is about 8 years younger than his wife, if u see this couple now, you'll think the husband is a full 10 years older than his wife, so yes, i say age is nothing but a number

So how can i go about this. I met this lady not too long ago and i am interested in her. I want to marry her. But i have bn trying to proposing each time she will tell me she doesnt have time for that now

dammywale:

So how can i go about this. I met this lady not too long ago and i am interested in her. I want to marry her. But i have bn trying to proposing each time she will tell me she doesnt have time for that now

190:

I keep saying it

why would u marry a woman older than yourself

Dont think bout now but rather the future -


When you are 50 and shes 53

who would hold the walking stick

yourself or herself

very irrelevant.

@poster
my bad if i misunderstood your question, YOU are the one who wants to date that lady.
then just go for it the same way you would with any damsel and dont look at her age as anything that is an obstacle.

you said you met this lady not too long ago so i suggest you get to know her FIRST, then take it from there. if a STRANGER told me he wanted to marry me, i would react exactly the same as this lady did.

take your time and build a strong relationship based on strong values (Trust/Honesty/Respect/Care etc) before you can jump to marriage proposal.

"Mommy, wld u marry me?" 
@ 190,

yeah just popose just like you would to a younger babe. plus i don't think she wants to marry you.

@segzi. why do you think so?

yusuf_@:

"Mommy, wld u marry me?"

This guy you no serious

poster
get on one knee and pop the question.

What if she is complaining that everything is happening so fast.

^^

you said you met this lady not too long ago so i suggest you get to know her FIRST, then take it from there. if a STRANGER told me he wanted to marry me, i would react exactly the same as this lady did.

take your time and build a strong relationship based on strong values (Trust/Honesty/Respect/Care etc) before you can jump to marriage proposal.

Is there a format for girls younger by 3 years,just add 3 years to that format

By the way,if you love her,i don't think you would be thinking of her age,in the first place.
as for proposing to her, ''kneel on your left leg,and pop the question, WILL YOU MARRY ME?''
its that simple.

Goldieluks:





very irrelevant.

yusuf_@:

"Mommy, wld u marry me?" 
@ 190,

Ok. lets put it this way, she told me that the only relationship she want to enter now is the one that will lead to marriage. So she taking her time. but most of the time when i get to call her, she will always remind me that I should not be calling her as if we are dating already. I should only call her once in a while. in fact, she does the calling, any time i call her she will not pick but she will call back not too far from that time.

this is neva a big deal

@dammywale, hw much do u love dis person,are u willin to settle down with her,can u face/withstand d family challenges wen de kn of her age,do u tink u can control her even at ur age,is her source of income better than yours,hw determine are u and how ready are u?asnwer my questions then i can advise further

@Carnal
I love her so much and i am ready to settle down with her. My family is not a problem because they will always support what I want. I think I can control her and she want to venture into business while I am still working. I work with a reputable organization in Abuja.

dammywale:

@Carnal
I love her so much and i am ready to settle down with her. My family is not a problem because they will always support what I want. I think I can control her and she want to venture into business while I am still working. I work with a reputable organization in Abuja.

Good one,ok go ahead and marry her then,if you feel this way.

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Ok then, i think i will defend what I want anyday, anytime, and anywhere

Intresting.

Simple. Go on ur knees nd say Aunty pls b my wife! Nd d rest wil b history

3Years is the same age group.Not even 10 years gap should be a snag if she is what you really want.Are u sure u are up to it?