No mosiate i ain't jealous.. i wasn't evenn referring to you guys wooing, i was refferring to the orignal post.

Na wa oo Mosiate, if you say i dont have self defense its ok by, i want you to know as pkrix had said earlier no man will say no to any lady wooing (proposing to) them. and more over i wasnt saying yes to u already, was only asking if you are wooing me of what.
Once again i like the way u put the story in ur post, u will be a good write(story)

let the women who want to woe them step foward, and see that playing in a mans world aint easy.

And who tells gina it doesn't happen.
Though I don't get interested in such cases.

If i were personally wooed by a lady i'd feel emasculated

if a lady woos me i think ama gonna give in and later try to know her reason like ama make one confession i gat a lady like dat at da moment but kip my distance from her though. so ama just let her in and catch ma fun at tymes. boiz ain't supposed to do da wooing alone. gurlz its a free world

@ topic

There isnt anythang wrong with a woman wooing a guy.Its all about expression and living in a sexually liberated era as ours,I dont particularly see it as being offensive!!

there is nothing wrong there.

I remember when I could not talk to girls, one lady 2 years older than me came up to me and said she wanted me to be her boyfriend. She did not know i was younger anyway and I never let her know. We just played along.

That was what helped me to know that there is nothing hard in talking to women.

My candid advice
Jojo

Woo by a lady? Thats no big deal. Its even better because she expressed her self instead of pretending and deing in silence.

I would rather die in silence than to woo a man. _{suffering and smiling}

@busygirl
that sound interesting

Bushgirl i guetsion you civility?

@ puker, i don't get you. It's not ladylike to woo a man. Even if i'm tripping like hell. . . .I would rather suffer the hurts inside than to say it out. My values are highly important to me.

busygirl, those who have values are down to earth and would not pretend. Poeple tend to respect those who do not pretend. And i think you are one of these pretenders. Telling a guy you like him is the same thing like walking to a store and picking up the best cloth you like. Learn to express ya self baby.

Actually, I don't pretend. . but in this case, I'll prefer to pretend. It's not just my kind of Thing!

if a lady woos me? Ill fall flat, pancakes wont even come near as flat
IM SOO CHEAP. HAHAHAHAHAH
But Most aint got the Gutts to

Gals dont hesitate to woo any guy u observed has some affirnity for u.
Many gals got their husband by proposing 1st.I kno at least 4 personally.
I ve been woo' by 4 girls recently but did not object 2 any rather indiectly allowed interaction at ordinary friendship level
No sex at all

Any guy that gets approached by a woman I believe has a duty as a gentleman to handle it delicately.Even if you are not interested,women are not used to receiving knocks as we are.

@Busygirl ,some education for you ladies who say they will not make moves on a guy.Women have been doing it for centuries,it takes skills and confidence.Some women can even turn it around so the guy starts chasing them.From looks, smiles ,giggles ,asking about how you are doing, complimenting your dressing etc.Some women know how to make a guys blood boil without saying anything.

The out right straight talking approach by girls is quite common even in Nigeria.
Whats the point of letting someone go and later wonder what may have been.

I am not saying this is wrong on the part of any lady but please bear in mind that any lady that does that can do anything (both good & evil)

Then i will marry her.

whats the big deal about that. After all what a man can do a woman can do-----------

i guess deres nothin wrong wit it

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who say's its wrong to woo a guy?Is there any law that says that a lady cant woo a guy?i've not experienced it yet but if a nice chick woos me, omo na gree o!As long as there is the right chemistry between us,i don't think there should be any problem.

I don't see anything wrong in it.
It's even better cuz the lady will be under your spell but firstly ,try and know y she opted for u.
Bye

Are you nut, why should i say no? i have been doing the wooing since the very first day i set my heart on them. at least let them woo me for a change. besides, i would feel honored for a girl to come up to me boldly and say, "i really do like you and want to date you."

kike,

since it alright. why don't you start the ball rolling?

cheers.

busygirl!





please go and D I E ! D I E !! D I E !!!







and D I E !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

What's your promblem. . . .my principles!
Have you got any problems with that?

IAH, easier said than done, I hate people who pretend so much. Why would U ask such a nasty question as if you've never in your whole life wooed a guy/liked somebody??

Grow up my lady the world is moving at a fast pace. Forget those cock & bull shit MAMA use to tell U happen in their days.

Back to the topic, I rather rebuff such advances from a lady than accept cos the relationship wouldn't last the taste of time quote me any where.

ermmmmm,

nice topic, funny too esp with the emotions running high in here

it depends, DO YOU THINK WOOING IS THE SAME AS MAKING THE FIRST MOVE?

I wouldn't woo a guy out right, but i'd let him know i'm interested, and the rest is upto him to 'persuade/woo' me to convince me he's the best for me

YES, I'VE DONE IT. i have seen a guy at a bar, he was cute, sexy confident, and alone, i went over and said hi, i think ur cute, he smiled (obviously shocked/embarassed) i already have the upper hand at this time, i asked the bar tender to replace his drink, now he was looking at me like he's trying to read my mind,, so i started making conversation on general issues, nothing personal (only get personal if ur ready to be labelled cheap straight away), after 10mins, i decided he wasn't for me, too little brain cells, more ego. by then he was into me, lol, i just excused myself paid the bill and left, he asked to return the favour of the drink another time, asking if that wasnt the reason y i had bought him the drink in the first place, i said no thanks, i bought u a drink for being cute, so u'd better thank ur mom!, lol, end of!

was that wooing?, or just that i made the first move?, glad i did though, least i had no regrets, cos i know what i missed