ARareGem:

@ Atreides
Some girls get into trouble with lecturers without dressing indecently or looking for undue attention. Take for example, a student with good grades will definitely be noticed by lecturers. They just have bad luck, I believe.
But, there is no way I support sleeping with the lecturer. There's always a way around a difficult situation.

@ op

I guess the guys have answered.

sexkillz:

REALITY101:

The fact that she went ahead and slam the lecturer is a 101% reason to dump her slow asss because that situation could have prevented in so many ways. . I don't date slow girls. . . @ so you cheated on me with a mare lecture with a wrinkle pen1s?

sexkillz:

Kick her out of my life for GOOD! She could do it again to get a job and so on! I am ALLERGIC to BULLSHIT!!!  

IBEXY:
In future, such a woman will also sleep with her manager to get promotion. She will sleep with the jeweler to get the latest bling or lace wrapper.
Best option: show her the door Students are meant to study hard and pass their exams (or fail and repeat)
No sexually transmitted degrees please.

Sike:
Failure on diz earth is better than failure in heaven. I will never 'ni ile aye yi' support it. I'll neva risk my hereafter for anything.

lefulefu:

abeg make we no decieve ourselves.a university lecturer no fit force a female naija student to sleep with am because in the first place na the female students dey force the lecturers dem to sleep with them because dem want score high marks for their exams and tests.so who be the fool?

Patsey:

WELL SAID. I SUPPOSE THE GIRL CAN PRETEND TO BE HIV POSITIVE AND INSIST IF THE GUY MUST DO IT HE HAS TO DO SO unprotected.

If she can give it to u 4 pleasure y can't she do it to pass or graduate?

Ah! Yes! She can use it to PASS and GRADUATE! She could also use it to get a JOB, BUY STUFFS in the supermarket WITHOUT PAYING , COLLECT a LOAN from the bank, BUY a very nice CAR too without paying, give it also to her LANDLORD to waive her HOUSE RENT!!! SMH @ YOU! While I AGREE that he may not marry her afterward, but Is that really a Worthy excuse for cheating?. . . . . WAKE UP AND SMELL THA DAMN COFFEE! INFIDELITY IS INFIDELITY!!!

Atreides:

Reminds me of one experience i heard. It happened at Ekpoma

There was this lecturer that was so randy,and he had a girl in his class who was married and pregnant.
He started toasting her in final year,saying there is no way she will complete her course in Ekpoma without any lecturer "friending" her
That she cannot be in school for 4 years without any lecturer seeing her unclothedness

So she went home and reported to her husband
Who was so angry that someone would want to sleep with his PREGNANT wife
He told wifey to go ahead and sleep with him

Wifey slept with the lecturer

And then the lecturer's thingy got swollen
And kept swelling till he died


When we hear all these stories like OP's,we sometimes say,ohh,poor girl,some lecturers are useless blah blah blah
But i like going further
I always like asking-where did the lecturer see the girl?
There are hundreds of students in every dept.
How did the lecturer single her out?
Is she the type that dresses provocatively?
Is she the type that goes to SSQ or to lecturer's offices' to see them?
What will you be doing in a lecturer's office when you are not a class rep?


I know some people will say a girl is free to wear whatever she likes,but i don't agree.
If you dress/speak/behave in a manner that draws attention to yourself,you better be ready o face the music when oga lecturer starts playing it.

I feel sorry for girls who are genuinely trapped in such a terrible situation,but i also feel sorry for some of these lecturers.
Some of these girls practically attack them
They beg them to come and sleep with them so they can upgrade their results

I take all those "my lecturer" stories with a pinch of salt

At the end of the day,us girls in Nigerian Universities have a responsibility to behave in a manner that is wise and avoid bringing trouble to ourselves

jossy_1luv:

If she can give it to u 4 pleasure y can't she do it to pass or graduate? Sincerely speaking there s no guarantee dat u wil marry her. If u cant accept her 4 wat she has done go hug transformer.

sexkillz:


Ah! Yes! She can use it to PASS and GRADUATE! She could also use it to get a JOB, BUY STUFFS in the supermarket WITHOUT PAYING , COLLECT a LOAN from the bank, BUY a very nice CAR too without paying, give it also to her LANDLORD to waive her HOUSE RENT!!! SMH @ YOU! While I AGREE that he may not marry her afterward, but Is that really a Worthy excuse for cheating?. . . . . WAKE UP AND SMELL THA DAMN COFFEE! INFIDELITY IS INFIDELITY!!!