victooman:
l swear bro,,in my previous compound their guys dey come knack them even for the compound,, when they finish go,na me go come be sabinus or apkororo wey go come dey entertain them,, l dont want to live that kind of life again,l am more mature and wiser now,,is just that this ones in my presentcompound are trying to get at my nerves for starving them of my attention.

ford101:
let me advice you as an alpha male.you don't have it is that you don't have it.that manly composure that makes you stand out on ur own level.you don't no who u really are.or were you are from.iv had such experience as an under graduate.even till tomorrow I keep to my self.i relate to only people like you who would go out of there way to be funny to attract my attention.i love clowns like you cos u are friends to everyone.your type would definitely update me on the happenings so I don't have to go out of my way to talk to anybody in the compound.

PerfectJUSTICE:



When big brother show start now na people like you go forget say election dey near

NnaNna4:
I wise saying once said

DON'T BE TOO SWEET� OR ELSE THE WORLD WILL LICK U UP AND DON'T BE TOO BITTER OR ELSE THEY WILL SPIT U OUT...



Just do the needful.. Find a common place in between

victooman:
So the previous compound l lived in, l was literally the clown of the house, I try to make every one happy especially the females. l was jovial, friendly and accomodating. I realized that the attitude wasn't in any way paying me. l was disrespected and it looked as if most of the girls were just using me to pass time and nothing more.

The one that broke the camel's back was when a girl barely 20yrs in my compound threatened to give me a hot slap if l ever touch her, this is a person we do play and gist a lot o. Since that day l borrowed sense.

Now l am in a new compound. Unfortunately the house has a lot of female occupants, with guys, but based on my past experience l no just send the girls and l am already in a serious relationship so even their friendship doesn't trick me. l no just want compound wahala...

So now the way those girls look at me and try to get in between my nerves is something else, all guys play and relate with them so why me? The hostility is getting out of hand and l dont want to slap sense into any girl head.

Please how do l handle this issue.

victooman:
that was before,, how this ones know my flaws when l barely talk or relate with them?

coputa:
It's the same thing,in your first compound you were "carefool" and now you are being"carefull".both are extreme behaviours that attracts human curiosity.Learn how to balance your life.relate with them but set boundaries and limits in whatever you do,let moderation be your guide.

Ikeja1985:
Relocate to another compound.

victooman:
So the previous compound l lived in, l was literally the clown of the house, I try to make every one happy especially the females. l was jovial, friendly and accomodating. I realized that the attitude wasn't in any way paying me. l was disrespected and it looked as if most of the girls were just using me to pass time and nothing more.

The one that broke the camel's back was when a girl barely 20yrs in my compound threatened to give me a hot slap if l ever touch her, this is a person we do play and gist a lot o. Since that day l borrowed sense.

Now l am in a new compound. Unfortunately the house has a lot of female occupants, with guys, but based on my past experience l no just send the girls and l am already in a serious relationship so even their friendship doesn't trick me. l no just want compound wahala...

So now the way those girls look at me and try to get in between my nerves is something else, all guys play and relate with them so why me? The hostility is getting out of hand and l dont want to slap sense into any girl head.

Please how do l handle this issue.

SPAMBOX7:
Swallow the redpill.

One thing about the redpill is it does not have to do with girls alone but how to live your life to please no one hence living your life to the best

PrinceofAgoAre:
Wait till they tag u proud..

justmondris:
The girls in your former lodge did not disrespect you because you were jovial but because you did not respect yourself and you did not know your boundary. Respecting yourself does not mean you should not talk to others.

victooman:
na so e dey start bro,, that was how l started in the first compound,,,,let them just be on their own and let me be,, the other day l was at the bathroom and within 5 minutes of been in the bathroom one of the girls came and start blabbing how the person in the bathroom is wasting her time,, saying all manners of rubbish outside to purposely irritate me,,l just came out and hold my peace ,,l didn't reply to the barking dog,,but honestly one day l am afraid they will push me to the wall.

GVTAsiwaju:


You live in a face me I face you... May God step you up to atleast a self contained room where you don't need to share bathroom and kitchen with anyone

victooman:
God forbid bro,, the previous compound taught me a lot of lessons,, this ones are just pushing me to see my limit and they will definitely get it,, is like women feel insulted when been ignored,is annoying bro

fashionale:
This is what you see when you live in a (face-me-I-face-you) house. Just maintain normal decorum as a mature person. Greet your neighbors and get on with your daily activities.

victooman:
na so e dey start bro,, that was how l started in the first compound,,,,let them just be on their own and let me be,, the other day l was at the bathroom and within 5 minutes of been in the bathroom one of the girls came and start blabbing how the person in the bathroom is wasting her time,, saying all manners of rubbish outside to purposely irritate me,,l just came out and hold my peace ,,l didn't reply to the barking dog,,but honestly one day l am afraid they will push me to the wall.

lendahand:
you can just greet and move on if you like oo. If anybody talks disrespectfully to you in an unwarranted manner, report it to caretaker or take it up with the police