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| Can You Go Into An Open Relationship With Your Current Boy Friend by Lizan(op): 11:52am On Jul 28, 2011 |
This is what am passing through right now am into a relationship that sudden without having mis-understanding my boy friend made a decision that we should go into an open relationship as he believe that with our religion we cant marry but rather he still want me. I look at him as a self centre person and so i work out of the relationship but i still love him so much and cant stop call him but have tried as much to avoid going to his place. Please want would you do in such a situation? |
| Re: Can You Go Into An Open Relationship With Your Current Boy Friend by jaybee3(m): 11:55am On Jul 28, 2011 |
He wants to start exploring other avenue and here you are thinking about what to do. He obviously doesn't value you as much as he used to so do the right thing. Hurt now and save yourself a major heartache going forward |
| Re: Can You Go Into An Open Relationship With Your Current Boy Friend by Lizan(op): 12:04pm On Jul 28, 2011 |
Thanks i appreciated. Now he will only call me when he want me to do something for him and i found myself doing it for him. |
| Re: Can You Go Into An Open Relationship With Your Current Boy Friend by jaybee3(m): 12:06pm On Jul 28, 2011 |
Tell him you are not happy with the arrangement. It's either he stays committed to you or he can kiss you goodbye. Love yourself and believe u deserve more instead of staying and further degrading yaself |
| Re: Can You Go Into An Open Relationship With Your Current Boy Friend by Nobody: 12:10pm On Jul 28, 2011 |
jay bee:I so AGREE with this statement! Just to add: He's an A.S.S!  |
| Re: Can You Go Into An Open Relationship With Your Current Boy Friend by Goldieluks: 12:11pm On Jul 28, 2011 |
jay bee:end of! |
| Re: Can You Go Into An Open Relationship With Your Current Boy Friend by claremont(m): 12:16pm On Jul 28, 2011 |
Lizan:Nothing wrong with being in an open relationship mate. Your boyfriend is being honest and realistic with you by telling you straight off that there is no future between you both. Open relationship is bliss! |
| Re: Can You Go Into An Open Relationship With Your Current Boy Friend by sistajay(f): 1:51pm On Jul 28, 2011 |
@. . . . Poster: An open relationship works for loveless couples, both wantin a relationship without the commitment. You can either continue down a dead-end road and waste yet another precious day, or make TODAY the turnin point when you follow your path to findin [b]"The One" [/b]a man who will love you, cherish you, be honored to call you his girlfriend and, someday, his wife!But he can't find you if you're with the wrong guy. The choice is up to you! |
| Re: Can You Go Into An Open Relationship With Your Current Boy Friend by allure1(f): 2:55pm On Jul 28, 2011 |
this is not easy but somehow i find it simple. you want an open r'ship? Yep: u stay. Nope: you walk out. stop being all vulnerable n think wt ur brain instead of ur heart. thank God that this came out earlier. the a.s.s obviously wants out. |
| Re: Can You Go Into An Open Relationship With Your Current Boy Friend by iice(f): 4:24pm On Jul 28, 2011 |
[color=#9900ff]You want different things. If the end result is not desired by both, what in Odin's name is the confusion?  [/color] |
| Re: Can You Go Into An Open Relationship With Your Current Boy Friend by livedit(f): 4:48pm On Jul 28, 2011 |
iice:Exactly iice! You and jaybee said it all. You two want different things in this relationship. Quite obvious, that you two are not on the same page. You headed one way and he headed in a whole another direction. This guy sounds selfish. It's time you start thinking and DOING what makes YOU happy! If he isn't down for making you happy, then I think you should walk. What's wrong with open-relationships you say?? EVERYTHING! Don't settle, especially when you don't have to. There are plenty of men out there who will be committed to you and only you. |
| Re: Can You Go Into An Open Relationship With Your Current Boy Friend by MrsChima(f): 1:36am On Jul 29, 2011 |
Sure. I wouldn't mind going into an open relationship with Mr. Chima. There are some FIOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOONE MEN at my job! Oooh lawd!!!!!!!!!!! |
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