I have being chasing one girl for some months but to no avail ( though, it's off and on something). So I gave up the chase. I called her and told her that I wish her all the best and "goodbye"
Four months later, she called me and sounded all sweet and loving on the phone. I knew within me that she has started to fall for me because she was using the words I used, avoiding things that offend me, told her only close friend about me etc. Everyone knows she's not a bad girl. She hasn't even dated before (even as shes already an adult).
The problem now is that I am scared. Scared I might not love her or I might stop loving her or I might break her heart or I might hurt her somehow. I'm scared that shes falling in love with me.
Is this normally what you feel when you're truly in love?

Dear op avoid her

That's all I can say for now.

Why chasing her? She thief your charger?

Haynnie:
Dear op avoid her

That's all I can say for now.

Why. Please give reason(s)

Tajbol4splend:
Why chasing her? She thief your charger?

Romance and she's a good girl.

I bn wan call you simp shaa.

Nyascobar1414:
I bn wan call you simp shaa.

Hahaha. U don already call am na.

Let her be your casual friend only, if you are scared to chop her under cake and move on....what is your intent in the first place, to marry her, then do the needful, shebi you said she is decent, ....Love ke, falling in love ni...

Oga stop confusing yourself.....

Haynnie:
Dear op avoid her

That's all I can say for now.

U dey mind Op Him dey believe the girl wey reject am don finally fall in love with him lol .

Believe women at ur on destruction.

Magnoliaa:
Alfa don fall in love.

Real alfa

Magnoliaa:
Alfa don fall in love.

My sweetie.

Lonestar124:
Let her be your casual friend only, if you are scared to chop her under cake and move on....what is your intent in the first place, to marry her, then do the needful, shebi you said she is decent, ....Love ke, falling in love ni...

Oga stop confusing yourself.....

I will do the needful

e don happened

Hmmmmmm....., Wahala 4 we wey neva love

nickyj19:
e don happened

Waitin happen?

EmiDon11:
Hmmmmmm.....,
Wahala 4 we wey neva love

E go reach una soon.

nijaomegacode:
E go reach una soon.

we no dey love oo., Proudly chop&clean mouth team!!!

EmiDon11:
we no dey love oo.,
Proudly chop&clean mouth team!!!

For how long will you keep doing that?

nijaomegacode:

Why. Please give reason(s)

I've had an experience with a friend I was so in love with but she drew the line and would not reciprocate how I feel deeply about her. At some point I had to give up and focus on myself after the whole wooing process. Yes, she had one particular guy she always post on her WhatsApp status and would recalling him sweet names although I didn't mind but understood how it works. It took her months before she started giving me attention. When I mean attention, she would call 24/7, text me even when I'm busy. I noticed she no longer posted the guy and it was my pics she started posting. The way things turned out I knew it was my turn for this girl but guess what?

nijaomegacode:

For how long will you keep doing that?

until i find my own virgin wife

EmiDon11:
until i find my own virgin wife

Yeah yeah! U b correct gee wey want happy home.

Haynnie:


I've had an experience with a friend I was so in love with but she drew the line and would not reciprocate how I feel deeply about her. At some point I had to give up and focus on myself after the whole wooing process. Yes, she had one particular guy she always post on her WhatsApp status and would recalling him sweet names although I didn't mind but understood how it works. It took her months before she started giving me attention. When I mean attention, she would call 24/7, text me even when I'm busy. I noticed she no longer posted the guy and it was my pics she started posting. The way things turned out I knew it was my turn for this girl but guess what?

You chop her and dump her for the next available guy?

nijaomegacode:
I have being chasing one girl for some months but to no avail ( though, it's off and on something). So I gave up the chase. I called her and told her that I wish her all the best and "goodbye"
Four months later, she called me and sounded all sweet and loving on the phone. I knew within me that she has started to fall for me because she was using the words I used, avoiding things that offend me, told her only close friend about me etc. Everyone knows she's not a bad girl. She hasn't even dated before (even as shes already an adult).
The problem now is that I am scared. Scared I might not love her or I might stop loving her or I might break her heart or I might hurt her somehow. I'm scared that shes falling in love with me.
Is this normally what you feel when you're truly in love?

Is her name Rose?

SenecaTheYonger:


Is her name Rose?

Rose ko, chrysanthemum ni.
(She's not...)

nijaomegacode:

Rose ko, chrysanthemum ni.
(She's not...)

Okay. You’re probably in love

SenecaTheYonger:


Okay. You’re probably in love

Hahaha, Dem no dey love Rose ba?

nijaomegacode:

Hahaha, Dem no dey love Rose ba?

Oh, nah. You Just sounded like someone a girl was telling me about

SenecaTheYonger:


Oh, nah. You Just sounded like someone a girl was telling me about

Small world isn't it. Let s talk. What did she tell you about the guy?

nijaomegacode:

Small world isn't it. Let s talk. What did she tell you about the guy?

You said that’s not her name, so it’s likely not the girl you have in mind

SenecaTheYonger:


You said that’s not her name, so it’s likely not the girl you have in mind

Others can learn from her narration.

nijaomegacode:

You chop her and dump her for the next available guy?

I simply told her I’m not interested. I can’t waste my nut for an nserious girl