To get started we need to see how men and women are not just different but polar opposites, so here are a few examples of the polarity between men and women:

Men are order; women are chaos.

Men must grow to have value; women don't need to grow to have value (wonder why they hate men who have standards..)

To upset a man tell him a lie; to upset a woman tell her the truth.

Men marry hoping she'll stay the same; women marry hoping she'll change him.

Men bottle up their problems/emotions so women don't use it against them; women offload their problems/emotions to men to relieve themselves.

Men are overt; women are covert (Side Note: often will one see/hear a statement that conflates female nature with human nature. One should probably ask themselves.. if one had to choose between an overt affliction often seen from a mile away and covert affliction mostly seen when the damage is [being] done, which would one prefer to deal with?)

Men tend to attack physically (unlikely against women); women tend to attack verbally/emotionally (against men with reckless abandon).

Men aim to conquer worlds; women aim to conquer men.

A man's test in life is women; a woman's test in life is material things.

Man wants what he doesn't have; woman wants what she can't have (Eve - apple).

Men put their happiness after women; women put their happiness before men.

Men love women unconditionally; women "love" men opportunistically.

Men have strong sympathy and pity for women; women hardly have sympathy or pity for men.

It's very likely for a man to stand by a woman who has done good for him in the past (https://www.nairaland.com/7166252/wahala-chaos-female-nature#113575657); it's very unlikely for a woman to stand by a man who has done good for her in the past
("Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place.
Even though a woman has accrued past benefits from her relationship with a man, this is no guarantee of her continuing the relationship with him." [Translation: What have you done for me lately?]
- Robert Briffault, Briffault's Law)

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Heck, here's a few more:

For long-term relationships, men seek women for love; women seek men for benefits/survival.

Men can thrive in solitude; women fear loneliness.

Men are attracted to the ideal of purely peaceful and loving women; women are attracted to toxic/narcissistic and unloving men (Now one might be wondering.. "if one wants women why not give them what they want and be toxic?" Well, you see "You cannot sacrifice character for joyfulness without ultimately destroying happiness" - Book of Pook)

Men are likely to get emotionally detached after sex; women are likely to get emotionally attached after sex.

Men often require peace of mind to function properly; women require drama (because of this, if their man isn't a source of drama they themselves will become the source of drama. Drama must be present to avoid "boredom" )

Men do not need the attention of women to optimally function*; women need the attention of men to do so
("It has been said that if a female goes seventy-two (72) hours without any attention that she will become suicidal; that is how vital and important (male) attention is to females; attention is their lifeline." -Rosemund P. Cherubin)
*This might be an exception for codependent men.

Men are raised to be selfless and sacrificant (for the betterment of society); women are raised to be solipsistic and self-serving (for the betterment of others, lol)

Because of this polarity of men and women, there really isn't any common ground for both.
A lifelong union between two individuals with little to no common ground.. sounds like a nest for peace of mind and tranquillity. What could possibly go wrong?

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In the beginning, Genesis, everything took a left turn with Eve, the progenitor of chaos/disorder. Okay maybe it's just a coincidence, so let's forward to the end, Revelations, there will be a dragon with 7 heads and 10 horns whose goal is to destroy nations, but wait! What's that on the dragon? A woman adorned in pearls with scarlet and purple fabrics? What's her deal? Of course, her goal is specifically to destroy men: kings. Figures..

The Bible is littered with instances of female nature when said nature is not being suppressed, be it the vindictiveness and false accusations of Potiphar's wife (Zuleikha), woman's almost uncanny ability to weaken man's mind and masculinity the longer she's with him (King Solomon with his wives), shit tests and treachery (Delilah with Samson), rebellious/stubbornness (Eve/Lot's wife), preference for shamelessness & amorality over virtue, honor & integrity (Jezebel [in her last moment she literally belonged to the street] ) or several verses from Proverbs. One does not need to be a christian to see the message.

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If one were to ask what women would bring to a relationship besides sex, one would hear 'love and support'.

Well, it's already established that women love opportunistically, so what about support?

"When a man is supported by his wife, there is sure to be anger, arrogance, and humiliation."
- (Sirach) Ecclesiasticus 25:22

"A woman can never be in a relationship that doesn't benefit her" so if she's not being provided for then she's not benefitting, and if she's not benefitting then she has no use for him, hence the contempt she'll have for him.
A man can provide for his woman for years without much of a beep, but should the dynamics switch, perhaps due to an unfortunate financial situation, disrespect and disdain is not far behind even if she retains the position of breadwinner temporarily.

"When a woman earns more money than her man, she turns it into a knife to stab his ego."

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One might not agree with "All women are like that" but one should understand that a hive mind cannot work with individuals of (radically) different or opposing ways of thinking. A hive mind can only work with individuals of very similar or identical ways of reasoning. Independently, they're weak but together as a hive (or herd) they can attack with numbers and defend their own (even when doing so is deemed illogical).

Below is a 40 second video giving an example of the hive mind. Notice how the women projected themselves onto the offended female, became offended themselves and then "herded up".


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=imD1JXt-RtM

But probably the biggest difference between the herd mentality/hive mind of women from animals in the wild, is that the chaotic nature of human females inhibits them from achieving the productive harmony like that of bees for example.

"Women understand women and they hate each other."

Their symbiotic "harmony" solely comes from banding together to conquer or attack men. Shortly after achieving this, they'll return to their default states of innuendo, gossip and possibly envy/unhealthy competition with one another.

This post is excellent
In addition, I believe that every woman has a soft spot for her son, brother, dad, uncle & other close male relatives.
Her herd mentality in attacking a man deemed offensive by her fellow women doesn't come to play if the man is her son, dad, brother etc.
In this scenario, she will rather defend such a man against her fellow women no matter what.
So, women's herd mentality have limits.

Nice write-up

Uptheante:
This post is excellent
In addition, I believe that every woman has a soft spot for her son, brother, dad, uncle & other close male relatives.
Her herd mentality in attacking a man deemed offensive by her fellow women doesn't come to play if the man is her son, dad, brother etc.
In this scenario, she will rather defend such a man against her fellow women no matter what.
So, women's herd mentality have limits.

Yeah there are limits but even with close male relatives she may still instinctively stand with the herd in certain circumstances.

Wow, very impressed. Perfect write-up

Nice write-up

This is purely classic.


I think there are contraries that are contradictories, and also contraries that are complimentaries.

Men and women belong to the later

Well researched.

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An interesting comment thread:

Person 1:
I've seen more than a few legit 9's and 10's come to see prison bae while I worked visitation at a prison. The only ones who love inmate di(k more are a disturbing number of female COs/Nurses/Counselors and the OTHER INMATES. (I've seen superthug after superthug who have the a mouth is a mouth and worse level of thinking in that environment.)

Person 2:
What's the deal with these women & criminals? Someone that has raped, robbed or murdered is 'appealing'..boggles my mind!

Person 1:
They check so many boxes for women just off primal instinct alone. Someone they know is violent to others but tender to them, check. Unpredictability is never boring, check. The caged animal (sympathy) danger (fight or flight) element, these dudes have crazy testosterone from being in a proving ground, survival environment 24/7, which explains why they can build crazy muscle on crap diets. (visual appeal). Also, women can feel that aura (pheromones). Women who work with them get moist because they have a level of control (power fantasy). The women are in close proximity to these guys who have nothing but time to figure out the frequency to turn her on to his program by playing to her ego (attention). All this (and more) combined gives them a constant rush of feelings and gets them wetter than a boat. Hope that helped.

The creation of women ruined everything. If Adam was left alone in that garden over four hundred years to come devil won't near him .

Dizzyyish:
To get started we need to see how men and women are not just different but polar opposites, so here are a few examples of the polarity between men and women:

Men are order; women are chaos.

Men must grow to have value; women don't need to grow to have value (wonder why they hate men who have standards..)

To upset a man tell him a lie; to upset a woman tell her the truth.

Men marry hoping she'll stay the same; women marry hoping she'll change him.

Men bottle up their problems/emotions so women don't use it against them; women offload their problems/emotions to men to relieve themselves.

Men are overt; women are covert (Side Note: often will one see/hear a statement that conflates female nature with human nature. One should probably ask themselves.. if one had to choose between an overt evil often seen from a mile away and covert evil mostly seen when the damage is [being] done, which would one prefer to deal with?)

Men tend to attack physically (unlikely against women); women tend to attack verbally/emotionally (against men with reckless abandon).

Men aim to conquer worlds; women aim to conquer men.

A man's test in life is women; a woman's test in life is material things.

Man wants what he doesn't have; woman wants what she can't have (Eve - apple).

Men put their happiness after women; women put their happiness before men.

Men love women unconditionally; women "love" men opportunistically.

Men have strong sympathy and pity for women; women hardly have sympathy or pity for men.

It's very likely for a man to stand by a woman who has done good for him in the past (https://www.nairaland.com/7166252/wahala-chaos-female-nature#113575657); it's very unlikely for a woman to stand by a man who has done good for her in the past
("Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place.
Even though a woman has accrued past benefits from her relationship with a man, this is no guarantee of her continuing the relationship with him." [Translation: What have you done for me lately?]
- Robert Briffault, Briffault's Law)

Nice article with its subsequents. Kudos.

1. I don't concur with your take that men and women are "polar opposites".

2. Men and women are different and unequal but still have similarities.

3. You explicitly stated the differences as polar opposites without considering that this species is yin yang.

4. Polar opposites can never find a common ground. The north pole and South pole never meet, and I guess this is what you mean, and a succinct example of "polar opposites".

5. If the species, male and female are polar opposites, they would have branched off as per evolution is concerned. And that's not the case presently, they still co-exist despite their differences as a result of their similarities.

6. Their differences are rooted in their nature. Man's nature is for their survival. Ditto for women's nature. Their features are geared towards survival then, reproduction.

Ruthless their natures may be, but both struggle for eternal reign in the genetic pool. It is just like money: to get it some play moral, immoral, amoral, or blend of each as the situation demands. Different businesses, yet the same money in pursuit.

7. The yin always has a touch of yang and the yang also has a touch of yin. Lower animals understand this from time immemorial, they live peacefully among their species and reproduction continues except in cases where they are being threatened by some natural causes or human activities.

8. As humans, our high intellect is gradually tilting us away from an actual understanding and expression of our nature and character. Speedy technology is a major contributing factor and it is not doing us any good in this aspect.
This is where your article solidly hinge on because all that you see are stark differences, no grey area.

9. If you go deeper there's a breeding ground. This is where they mate. This is where romance and protection are quid pro quo even though it is for a while. Their interaction mixes their similarities and differences thereby making them ONE FLESH.

10. When they go out they express themselves differently, yet are anchored to one flesh which comes into full manifestation again when they find themselves under one roof or on the same bed.

11. When both cannot express themselves again or have become corrupted, there can be no interaction. Even if there is, collision will become rampant. When this happens, it is an indication that their differences is on full display.

12. This breeding ground ensures their survival. Polar pposites don't breed!

The interconnection between males and females ensures the continued existence of the human species. If there is a chasm between them, another species will arise, maybe from cloning or they go extinct.

13. Men and women are unequal. Both of them are like oranges: one is big and the other is small. Same species, but different sizes, colors, taste, and several seeds. Possibly, same or different trees. Yet are oranges, or humans.

Male and female. Yin and Yang.

Thanks.

Another interesting thread:
Person 1:
I've fathered 2 daughters and am part of an extended family with over a dozen solid women. All from homes with fathers.

Person 2:
You didnt disprove anything.

Women are naturally attracted to strong, dominant, selfish, ruthless men. The kind of men that society nowadays would call evil. The kind of men that are most likely to be criminals. You think women survived for all of human history by being with nice guys? You think the men who kept those women alive played by the rules?

You have muh good women in your family? Congratulations. They (and you in case of your daughters) managed to suppress their animalistic desires enough for them to act in a way that produces better long term results in the context of our civilized society. That doesnt change the fact that its in their nature to be attracted to the bad boys. It doesnt necessarily mean they will always act on that attraction, but its there.

Civilization in general is a relatively new phenomenon. You dont erase millions of years of evolution in just thousands of years.

Person 1:
so all the women and men that are in successful, faithful, monogamous relationships are "suppressing their animalistic desires"?
Wow.

Person 2:
Every time your wife sees a guy shes attracted to and she doesnt act on it, she is suppressing her animalistic desires. I dont get whats so hard to understand about that. If monogamy and faithfulness were natural for women, marriage wouldnt exist. It wouldnt be required.

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Faber:
This is purely classic.


I think there are contraries that are contradictories, and also contraries that are complimentaries.

Men and women belong to the later

Yeah, the stated contraries are just to highlight the dichotomy of men and women in certain aspects.

Friendly reminder that women aren't selfish because they're evil (at least most of them) but because they evolved that way for their survival.
Whereas it's good to be cautious, it's also good to be compassionate to those truly in need.

Dizzyyish:
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why bother typing,a wise man knows that women a complex beings with an intricate web of interconnected emotions,desires,behaviors and characteristics that defy total understanding by men,I don't even try to understand their wacky behavior sometimes but what I know is that God created them for a purpose,if you look carefully at the overall physique of woman from the extra soft buttock to the breasts you will understand that God is truly wise..

Nice research.

Keep it coming, Dizzyyish.

I've always loved your deep, insightful knowledge on the Red Pill. They are refreshing and helps one to remain "focused".

Much respect!

Love this thread ..... Nice write-up op

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