Truvelisback:
It's because u ladies take us for a fool. U tend to take our Simplicity for Stupidity.

Lol... Speechless

Roycemadeit:


Society has assigned roles to genders, unfortunately those days are far gone, now men aren't the only ones fighting wars. The idea that the woman is the weaker vessel and woman should be at the receiving end is ancient.
Now whatever the man can do, the woman can also do, it is not easy for her living in this reality and shedding off the information that raised her.
And even when she becomes "man" enough the uneducated man will take off, for he will find her a challenge and label her a feminist.

Best. That's true

Natbrowny:



I dont think its about mentality. Most of these girls are the type that wont even check on u once a while, no good morning, no hello, no howz work and family,

U even say hello to them, they use 3 days to reply, Booooom from no where these creatures just pops out to ask for money.

Judge am. If na u, u go give am.

Lol... I agree with you
That kinda happened to me also... A friend that we ain't even talking, Boom she just enter my dm asking for money bcoz of the new ride i just got. Omo I didn't even reply

Heathrow44:



come this "They" cos ur gender is completely unknown, Y do girls beg people they barely know for money, once u do like u like dem then they suddenly remember they can't pay rent, they re handicapped, They can't buy data or airtime, Their phone screen has spoilt, their father can't pay for school fees comfortably again.....

My friend
So girls have bad reputation everywhere like this . M just speechless

Sweetvie:
Lol... I agree with you
That kinda happened to me also... A friend that we ain't even talking, Boom she just enter my dm asking for money bcoz of the new ride i just got. Omo I didn't even reply

My nigg*. U do well

Its criminal when u only check on some1 coz of billing.

Haba.

It's because Jesus paid for Sins not bills

Sweetvie:
Have been reading alot of post about girls begging for money from guys and their reply have not been kind especially if the girl is not in a relationship with them. I mean y do guys have that kind of mentality that u can only give girls ur money if you're sexually involved with them.

Becouse these same girls will broke shame guys when they can't afford to provide.

Girls don't want to have anything to do with broke guys.

So why should I give you my money when i have in large quantity ?

Only my mom, sister, aunties and famale family members can get my money without stress. Any other girl is bullshit.

If it's a dude with a penis they can help, but if it's someone with a vagina, they want to taste that vagina first. Life of a woman.

Haynnie:
I’ve had my own share of experience too.


Well if you have give, if you don’t tell them you don’t have and let them move on to the next no let guilty conscience or wetin I no know kill you. You own your pride. But as for me no matter how her story dey emoshunal reach if I no wan give and e no come from my mind, sorry I can’t. Before giving I make sure I see good reason to give out not just because is part of being human.

Seems you've seen the female's inclination for ingratitude and reason for why they befriend men firsthand. It's good to be generous but with women, more often than not, they feel entitled to said generosity. I sure say that your guy happy die

Haynnie:
I’ve had my own share of experience too.

I use to give girls money without asking for anything in return and it got to a point it turned to an habit that every conversation would lead to giving her money but I turned the tables cus it was a new scheme to milk guys off their money.
They don’t appreciate the little you manage to do for them because there are other guys that might have promised them a huge sum of cash even to an extent they will sleep with them to get that huge bag.

There was one girl I sent 2k cus she said she’s hungry and I had enough to give that period. I sent her the money this girl texted me “thank you for sending me money for shawarma” I didn’t reply the text cus she didn’t come out clean to say she wants to eat shawarma. she said she was hungry and wanted to cook something for the evening.
After that day I moved on and we continued talking but whenever she comes up with a new strategy to beg I wave it off or I give excuses till an extent she stopped talking to me.

Another one, we’ve been friend for a long time tho and we rapport on a daily. One day she called she was hungry and had nothing in her house to eat and her hostel mate is has traveled, she’s the only one in the hostel. I told her I had network issues and there’s no way I can run transfer and I don’t have cash to send her with POS. So I told her if she can meet with her neighbor and explain to him/her to help her then she should manage maybe by tomorrow I’ll send her money to prepare something to eat. She grumbled a bit and said okay before ending the call.
The next day I was able to make transfer and I did her 1,500 but I didn’t called her that I sent her money cus she must have received the alert and would know it’s me. Later in the evening she called me again and I asked her if she had eaten she gave an unsettled response and said she is managing that she saw the money I sent and it wasn’t enough to take her to this evening thinking the money she expected me to send was 4K. I was like ehnn why can’t u manage it cus I don’t have enough on me so I’m managing myself for now till I get a better cashflow. She kept quiet for sometime before her airtime ran out. Three days after I wasn’t online so she called me and was like “if naso e be naso hunger for kill me abi?” I was confused and was actually thinking why she said that. I was like what do u mean? She said that since two days she hasn’t eaten and I didn’t bother to call to know if she’s still alive. Omo imagine the entitlement as I be her guy or I no get my own personal issues wey I dey take care of to come reason her matter?
I told her I was busy and I don’t have time to be online . She was like what about the money that I couldn’t send her the complete amount. Like wtf?? Money wey I no promise her na she dey ask of and I only said I no get money for now cus na hustle I been dey to get better cash oh, na she turn to her own reason say I dey owe her. I was felt annoyed that instant and told her that I don’t have and I can’t send money to anybody cus I have things to take care of and she should try call her parents to explain how it is at her joint. Before I could finish my statement she cut in telling me that is okay that she’s feeling headache and want to rest her head. The call ended. I began to wonder the audacity she had to call me to ask for money like I owe her or something.
That evening my spirit no gree rest cus I was annoyed at the way she said it. I had the money on me but instead I called one of my gee and asked him howfar and told him to send his account let me credit him. I sent him 1k first,then sent 2,500 to him again so he could use it to chow the following day. If you can imagine the way the guy thank me ehnn I wa alike bro chill na small token but baba was so happy cus he most of his guy don credit am say make e use am chop (Sometimes guys dey do their fellow guys shit sha)
Could u guys believe he use that 3,500 I gave him for 4days?
The following week he called me and told me let’s hangout and chill and he will send me tfare. Baba credited me 4K for tfare to come join am chop life.

Not all girls will appreciate the little u do and that’s why u will see them post on their status lowkey begging for people to take them out or credit them for being pretty whereas they have nothing to give in return other than sex or “thank you” that doesn’t come from their heart.

Well if you have give, if you don’t tell them you don’t have and let them move on to the next no let guilty conscience or wetin I no know kill you. You own your pride. But as for me no matter how her story dey emoshunal reach if I no wan give and e no come from my mind, sorry I can’t. Before giving I make sure I see good reason to give out not just because is part of being human.

I read it and I like, na man u be.

Na so one girl dey beg me money for transport go camping for nysc, I zone her go chibok way

Savedday:
Give a 9ja girl money once and she will ensure she milk u dry off all ur money.

I call them " beggy - beggy" and they are never satisfy till u are ashamed to see or hear from them.

They don't love and dey will never love u.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...

Know this and know peace

When you give them chance they take chances.

guys that can afford can pay, put them in vocation or put them in work

Jeon:


Answer the question.
You said woman can't make up the top ladder because it's a Man's World..

But Serena Williams did that and she's still climbing.

I never said they can't climb up, I said it is hard... And easier when she doesn't check her actions by moral instructions.
Not too long ago, women weren't allowed to be a barrister, dress how she wanted, they had to fight through the rules.



Here is something off Wikipedia:

Women's tennis has been marked by several cases, including cases of sexual abuse by trainers. The world of women's tennis is sometimes described as "homophobic" and "sexist".

Sweetvie:
Lol... Just a question bruh... Funny enough I didn't say I need money from anyone and since I know myself I have never ask for money from a guy b4 and it will never happen. Mind u m not poor. And my son can use his money the way he like it none of my business

Since its none of your business the way you son spends his money kindly say amen to this prayer:

I pray that your son will be a foolish simp that spends all his money on foolish girls and won't have any tangible thing he achieve in life.

Sweetvie:

But what of a girl u know that really need d assistance

yeah you're gonna assist her

but what if a guy need a bedmatic assistance from the girl will she help him too?

the essence of asking you this question is that you will see a guy helping a girl without wanting something in return but the girl will start seeing the guy as a potential "mugu"
if later on the guy demands sex from her she will say is it because of that ordinary 5k you gave to me that you want to sleep with me? Even if she want to give the sex to you she will still demand for money
why is it that ladies always do things that will be of benefits to them alone not minding how the guy feels or even considering the guy's emotion.

Sweetvie:
Lol... You be bahd guy

lol
the guy just talk him mind na
if she want the help make she find am go house if guy man aggresively and brutally bang the demons from her p**sy next time she go look for job to do instead of begging or asking strangers for money

FREDCLSSICO7:

lol
the guy just talk him mind na
if she want the help make she find am go house if guy man aggresively and brutally bang the demons from her p**sy next time she go look for job to do instead of begging or asking strangers for money

Lol... You know there's some kind of situation that even your salary won't be enough. Alot is happening to some people.

FREDCLSSICO7:


yeah you're gonna assist her

but what if a guy need a bedmatic assistance from the girl will she help him too?

the essence of asking you this question is that you will see a guy helping a girl without wanting something in return but the girl will start seeing the guy as a potential "mugu"
if later on the guy demands sex from her she will say is it because of that ordinary 5k you gave to me that you want to sleep with me? Even if she want to give the sex to you she will still demand for money
why is it that ladies always do things that will be of benefits to them alone not minding how the guy feels or even considering the guy's emotion.

Seriously I don't know for girls. I alws type with my own knowledge so I can't know for other girls. If you need bedmatic assistance it doesn't have to be same girl. Apart, there's other way she can repay you than sex. How will you help a person and she will think of you as a mumu? That's stupidity

Sweetvie:
Lol... You know there's some kind of situation that even your salary won't be enough. Alot is happening to some people.

Yeah you're right
but one should as well learn to be contended with what they have.

FREDCLSSICO7:


Yeah you're right
but one should as well learn to be contended with what they have.

Lol... Yeah, you're right but it all still depends on the situation

Sweetvie:
Seriously I don't know for girls. I alws type with my own knowledge so I can't know for other girls. If you need bedmatic assistance it doesn't have to be same girl.Apart, there's other way she can repay you than sex. How will you help a person and she will think of you as a mumu? That's stupidity

@Bolded
haven't you heard of some situations where a guy will help a lady out of his own generosity at the end the lady will start calling the guy mumu or even discussing it with her friends how she catch this maga...

@Colored
What if the lady in question has all what the guy desired in a woman and he don't have any option aside from her? you know some guys are introverts they don't like asking a lady out because of fear of been rejected.

secondly you know most ladies would want to pay back in kinds rather than in cash.

I once helped a lady in my department then to do her project I was the group leader so most of the financial issues was on my neck after finishing the project this lady called me that I should be expecting her in my house that she is coming to pay me in kinds. this babe na very hot and classic chick for campus that year but I just decline the offer from her cus cultist dey always disturb her and me I no like wahala

Hmm, I heard about it but I can't keep those kind of dumb friend like that.
Lol... Introvert but can ask for sex? that got me laughing. Well, I must agree with you some girls are just so so disappointing

FREDCLSSICO7:



@Bolded
haven't you heard of some situations where a guy will help a lady out of his own generosity at the end the lady will start calling the guy mumu or even discussing it with her friends how she catch this maga...

@Colored
What if the lady in question has all what the guy desired in a woman and he don't have any option aside from her? you know some guys are introverts they don't like asking a lady out because of fear of been rejected.

secondly you know most ladies would want to pay back in kinds rather than in cash.

I once helped a lady in my department then to do her project I was the group leader so most of the financial issues was on my neck after finishing the project this lady called me that I should be expecting her in my house that she is coming to pay me in kinds. this babe na very hot and classic chick for campus that year but I just decline the offer from her cus cultist dey always disturb her and me I no like wahala

Sweetvie:
Hmm, I heard about it but I can't keep those kind of dumb friend like that.
Lol... Introvert but can ask for sex?
that got me laughing Well, I must agree with you some girls are just so so disappointing

lol. introvert no suppose ask for sex?
body no be firewood na

FREDCLSSICO7:



lol. introvert no suppose ask for sex?
body no be firewood na

Lol... Well, that is what I expected from an introvert unless the girl is his girlfriend

Una dey wey be women dey help man?

Sweetvie:
Have been reading alot of post about girls begging for money from guys and their reply have not been kind especially if the girl is not in a relationship with them. I mean y do guys have that kind of mentality that u can only give girls ur money if you're sexually involved with them.

Nonam:
Una dey wey be women dey help man?

Lol... E dey nau
I don see woman wey help man b4 but e no too common sha

Why do women avoid their fellow women and run to men when they need help?

Sweetvie:
Lol... E dey nau
I don see woman wey help man b4 but e no too common sha

Wotoporiously speaking

Oya come and take money I will not Bleep you, since you are the one that gave me to keep it for you.

Women always want to take but not give after them go cap their friends as the guy dey mumu dey remit for them without touching them....no be so una dey do?

So what are you saying? Which sane guy go wan give without getting something in return...

Why not go and ask your father or brother for money instead of ranting on nairaland.

I can only give money to my mum, sister and wife, any other woman it's either you have a very important and pressing issue that relates to either your health or family, then if I have I will willingly give and if I don't I won't kill myself but you see all this swthrt send money for me I wan to buy this and that, make my hair, fix my nails etc you ain't getting shit from me for free.

Go Bleep yourselves.

Nonam:
Why do women avoid their fellow women and run to men when they need help?

one thing u should know abt girls is that they really don't like themselves as they make it seem like. Imagine u went to ur girls for help a person u call friend, she didn't even borrow u the money but start telling others behind ur back... Or she borrow u but Still saying it around as if she save u from death. That's y girls doesn't borrow money from each other, they do come to guys bcoz u guys can keep secret n you're not like girls

Sweetvie:
one thing u should know abt girls is that they really don't like themselves as they make it seem like. Imagine u went to ur girls for help a person u call friend, she didn't even borrow u the money but start telling others behind ur back... Or she borrow u but Still saying it around as if she save u from death. That's y girls doesn't borrow money from each other, they do come to guys bcoz u guys can keep secret n you're not like girls

Hmm. Why is it so?

One has already messaged me on whatsapp calling me darling,I know she wants to beg.i just know.

I was a very cheerful giver to ladies before,even to women I dated.I almost sold my first car to assist on of my ex with house rent in Abuja.i was helping her out with money and when I travel down to Abuja I will load foodstuffs of garri,rice even cooked stew and stuffs.Any income I get I assist her with it.despite she knows I assist her to my detriment and it depletes my Finance she made a statement one day...she said if na she dey see this kind money wey I dey see..she for don travel out.Na dat time my brain reset,I started being very stingy and sending only 2k.Alot of ladies are very ungrateful seriously.