Like say she never bang tire.
Make she go na.

Infact some men

If I speak. Hmmm.

As if you will know when the ex is facking her. Mumum

The Go-Back-And-Collect my stuff visits often lead to rough farewell sex.

I have done it many times to girlfriends of others. I hope it hasn't been done to me too, likely has.

That guy will take aphrodisiac and give her 8 rounds balls deep. What does "8" look like lying down? INFINITY sex.

Yu

Its a risk. She will do welfare service before coming back....abeg

Sonofgoodness:
My girlfriend and I have been dating for a few weeks now. Her ex has been begging and sometimes forcing her to come back but she refused. She fears the guy because he is an angry and sometimes do beat her while they were dating. Her ex has called severally in my presence and he usually shout and sound rude when trying to tell her to come back. My girlfriend is a girl that is easily afraid. Since we started dating,he has been luring to come. At first,he said the girl should come and collect her sim card, another time shoes and now clothes. She wants to go and collect those things but she ask for my permission to go and take her things. I gave her three conditions Which is 1. She must record all their conversation when she gets there 2. She must collect all her things that very day because I will never allow her go there again 3. She must go with someone. But you know these can't work. What should I do?
No insult ...

Follow am go there, abi you dey fear the guy?

why stress over someone “anyone can easily convince”? People like that will jump at the next sweet-mouthed guy na. Why set yourself up for heartbreak?

Sonofgoodness:
Thanks everyone. She sometimes talk about the guy asking her to come and take her things after making it clear he wants her back severally. She has been telling me she won't go and at the same time telling me about her things that is there. I have made it clear to her that if she goes that will be the end of our relationship. I know she is easily fickle minded. What if she goes,how will I find out? She is someone anyone can easily convince. I am scared she might go someday

gaby:
One for the road...

one for the road my brother... Bad guy.
She must collect sweet beating.

My brother they will dig your girlfriend wetin no good...
She go collect majorly

Sonofgoodness:
My girlfriend and I have been dating for a few weeks now. Her ex has been begging and sometimes forcing her to come back but she refused. She fears the guy because he is an angry and sometimes do beat her while they were dating. Her ex has called severally in my presence and he usually shout and sound rude when trying to tell her to come back. My girlfriend is a girl that is easily afraid. Since we started dating,he has been luring to come. At first,he said the girl should come and collect her sim card, another time shoes and now clothes. She wants to go and collect those things but she ask for my permission to go and take her things. I gave her three conditions Which is 1. She must record all their conversation when she gets there 2. She must collect all her things that very day because I will never allow her go there again 3. She must go with someone. But you know these can't work. What should I do?
No insult ...

Leave that girl, I repeat, leave that girl

Sonofgoodness:
My girlfriend and I have been dating for a few weeks now. Her ex has been begging and sometimes forcing her to come back but she refused. She fears the guy because he is an angry and sometimes do beat her while they were dating. Her ex has called severally in my presence and he usually shout and sound rude when trying to tell her to come back. My girlfriend is a girl that is easily afraid. Since we started dating,he has been luring to come. At first,he said the girl should come and collect her sim card, another time shoes and now clothes. She wants to go and collect those things but she ask for my permission to go and take her things. I gave her three conditions Which is 1. She must record all their conversation when she gets there 2. She must collect all her things that very day because I will never allow her go there again 3. She must go with someone. But you know these can't work. What should I do?
No insult ...

Go with her. If you can't go with her, let someone you trust go. Anything apart from that. Don't let her go at all.

ZIMDRILL:


if i was you i was going to show the girl that i am better man than the ex

1 get replacement sim card

2 buy her new cloths to replacement the one's at the ex's place

3 Test the ex if he is serious about returning the the things (an okada will come and pick up the things) chances that he would be mad are high

OP, here's the golden advice you asked for....take to these points and it won't likely end in tears for you....
Note:, if she goes there alone, she will likely return to you with either if these two gifts (1) Tatatata thinz that might likely settle their rift or (2) swollen eyes.

I don't even get how another guy would be calling your gf and shouting at her in your presence and you'd be okay with it.

It means,he doesn't respect you or her. And trust me,.if she goes back, the guy go fvk am ruthlessly and nothing you go do.

Clean up your sh*t man, if you can't deal with the situation,then move away from it. If the items with him isn't much,why can't he meet her up in her place or a open neutral place to drop it.

She can record conversation and it ends before she begins to get fvked brutally. If the guy wanted to give her stuff ,he could easily meet up with her somewhere . She can go with any idiot or her bestie and cook story up.

What does it matter if she takes everything same day, she can always go there behind your back.

The reason you are having this issue is because you've not been a man here. You stand your ground , call the dude and go pick that shit up yourself and ask him to not call her again, or you just tell her not to go pick anything up and let it go.

What day fvk is wrong with these weak ass men

Carcholce:
But you know she will likely collect some “other things” when She meets him.

When She comes back smiling from ear to ear, She indeed collected the “other things”

That’s if She ever comes back to you.

What if immediately She gets there, heavy rain starts falling till the next day!

Anyways I sell mileage detector device, incase you want to run a check on her when She returns.

Are you referring to car mileage or the other one?

Ex's sister.......... kept on calling after I Don do my vendetta finish....my Ex...God punish you o...

I've got two options for ya: 1) let one her relative go wit her or. 2) find okada wey u trust send am make e go collect am. extra advice, just allow her go collect one last knack

Sonofgoodness:
My girlfriend and I have been dating for a few weeks now. Her ex has been begging and sometimes forcing her to come back but she refused. She fears the guy because he is an angry and sometimes do beat her while they were dating. Her ex has called severally in my presence and he usually shout and sound rude when trying to tell her to come back. My girlfriend is a girl that is easily afraid. Since we started dating,he has been luring to come. At first,he said the girl should come and collect her sim card, another time shoes and now clothes. She wants to go and collect those things but she ask for my permission to go and take her things. I gave her three conditions Which is 1. She must record all their conversation when she gets there 2. She must collect all her things that very day because I will never allow her go there again 3. She must go with someone. But you know these can't work. What should I do?
No insult ...

This your story sounds familiar. This your girl, do u guys stay in Abuja? Is her mum married to her dad or someone else? If this matches her, reply lemme give u advice

Okeford law might come into play here, if you know, you know

Find the three ladies in the pix

I had a similar experience. While running my msc, there was this brilliant undergraduate girl who usually seek academic advice from me. She told me she break up from her violent bf and they are partially living couple's life. (Her things are there with him). At some point, he keeps threatening her to come and get her things or else he would destroy them. She showed me several text message and Whatsapp chats that span across several weeks.
One day I told her, let's go get your things.
Call him now.
I knew a district chairman of okada riders. I told him to arranged three fierceful looking (but gentle Sha not actually thugs) of his men for me and I only gave them 500 each (which she later returned) and a bottle of big Chelsea dry gin (they are very happy).
We accompanied the girl to the entrance of the house (making sure the guy sees us) and she packed all her things within three minutes without him (bf) uttering a single word.
The whole operation took less than 15 minutes and everyone is happy.
Since then, the guy wouldn't dare contact her again.

Sonofgoodness:
My girlfriend and I have been dating for a few weeks now. Her ex has been begging and sometimes forcing her to come back but she refused. She fears the guy because he is an angry and sometimes do beat her while they were dating. Her ex has called severally in my presence and he usually shout and sound rude when trying to tell her to come back. My girlfriend is a girl that is easily afraid. Since we started dating,he has been luring to come. At first,he said the girl should come and collect her sim card, another time shoes and now clothes. She wants to go and collect those things but she ask for my permission to go and take her things. I gave her three conditions Which is 1. She must record all their conversation when she gets there 2. She must collect all her things that very day because I will never allow her go there again 3. She must go with someone. But you know these can't work. What should I do?
No insult ...

Get one Police woman to accompany her. I hope you can pay "transport fare" for the police woman

Sonofgoodness:
My girlfriend and I have been dating for a few weeks now. Her ex has been begging and sometimes forcing her to come back but she refused. She fears the guy because he is an angry and sometimes do beat her while they were dating. Her ex has called severally in my presence and he usually shout and sound rude when trying to tell her to come back. My girlfriend is a girl that is easily afraid. Since we started dating,he has been luring to come. At first,he said the girl should come and collect her sim card, another time shoes and now clothes. She wants to go and collect those things but she ask for my permission to go and take her things. I gave her three conditions Which is 1. She must record all their conversation when she gets there 2. She must collect all her things that very day because I will never allow her go there again 3. She must go with someone. But you know these can't work. What should I do?
No insult ...

Remember, it's simply your turn .........

Sonofgoodness:
My girlfriend and I have been dating for a few weeks now. Her ex has been begging and sometimes forcing her to come back but she refused. She fears the guy because he is an angry and sometimes do beat her while they were dating. Her ex has called severally in my presence and he usually shout and sound rude when trying to tell her to come back. My girlfriend is a girl that is easily afraid. Since we started dating,he has been luring to come. At first,he said the girl should come and collect her sim card, another time shoes and now clothes. She wants to go and collect those things but she ask for my permission to go and take her things. I gave her three conditions Which is 1. She must record all their conversation when she gets there 2. She must collect all her things that very day because I will never allow her go there again 3. She must go with someone. But you know these can't work. What should I do?
No insult ...

Hmmmm

My brother no kill urself for 9ja girl matter. It is just ur turn now. Enjoy it while it last.

9ja girls don't love and dey will never love u.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...

Know this and know peace

Sonofgoodness:
My girlfriend and I have been dating for a few weeks now. Her ex has been begging and sometimes forcing her to come back but she refused. She fears the guy because he is an angry and sometimes do beat her while they were dating. Her ex has called severally in my presence and he usually shout and sound rude when trying to tell her to come back. My girlfriend is a girl that is easily afraid. Since we started dating,he has been luring to come. At first,he said the girl should come and collect her sim card, another time shoes and now clothes. She wants to go and collect those things but she ask for my permission to go and take her things. I gave her three conditions Which is 1. She must record all their conversation when she gets there 2. She must collect all her things that very day because I will never allow her go there again 3. She must go with someone. But you know these can't work. What should I do?
No insult ...

She is a 'girlfriend' for a reason.

Listen, don't commit your heart to this thing... it looks like she using you as a rebound.

"She wants to go and collect those things..."
There is nothing you can do about this...

But just know that if she goes, she is not coming back to you again.

gaby:
One for the road...

You get it my Nigga

Sonofgoodness:
My girlfriend and I have been dating for a few weeks now. Her ex has been begging and sometimes forcing her to come back but she refused. She fears the guy because he is an angry and sometimes do beat her while they were dating. Her ex has called severally in my presence and he usually shout and sound rude when trying to tell her to come back. My girlfriend is a girl that is easily afraid. Since we started dating,he has been luring to come. At first,he said the girl should come and collect her sim card, another time shoes and now clothes. She wants to go and collect those things but she ask for my permission to go and take her things. I gave her three conditions Which is 1. She must record all their conversation when she gets there 2. She must collect all her things that very day because I will never allow her go there again 3. She must go with someone. But you know these can't work. What should I do?
No insult ...

This issue may lead to serous one ( self defence) that both of you didn't expect because the ex is hurt and angry, it's better for her not to go, she can send her relation. Of he refused to release her belongings leave is for him and her run for her life. Not everybody in such condition can control their love emotions. Please tell her not to go.

The guy has something in mind o , if possible let her forget those things or you get her new ones , what if she misplaced those items by herself , will she not continue her life . I no one hear justice for somebody. This life is precious.

VeeVeeMyLuv:
My broda
To be a man o
To be man o
Na wah oh

Song by Amakye Dede

Broda Please escort her there to collect her personal effects

Best advice, but fraught with risk. The angry man may attack the competition.

EgwunsoDOTcom:

You're so dumb walai.. The kind of get-together sex they will have will shock you and afterwards, double-dating go set for ur head ..
From the look of things, your so called girlfriend is an overuse cargo to be leaving her clothes and shoes at the guys place, maybe they were living together, you go fear the kind of pornography them don use her do .

Guy you're right, any girl way don live with a guy, a rude guy for that matter, hmmm nigga don use her act all sorts of porn, anal, mouth Bleep etc. The guy is Missing the fetishes she had with the girl and nothing more.

The Nigga will bleep the hell out of her. She will not even come back that day. The ex will just lock up his house and bang her till mid night. Op sef na learner. Op ask your girl how many times she don abort for the guy

E get time when this kind of thing happened to one of my friends, me and go they guy house. If you see the way we were dressing, nigga knew we dey ready for war.

Sonofgoodness:
My girlfriend and I have been dating for a few weeks now. Her ex has been begging and sometimes forcing her to come back but she refused. She fears the guy because he is an angry and sometimes do beat her while they were dating. Her ex has called severally in my presence and he usually shout and sound rude when trying to tell her to come back. My girlfriend is a girl that is easily afraid. Since we started dating,he has been luring to come. At first,he said the girl should come and collect her sim card, another time shoes and now clothes. She wants to go and collect those things but she ask for my permission to go and take her things. I gave her three conditions Which is 1. She must record all their conversation when she gets there 2. She must collect all her things that very day because I will never allow her go there again 3. She must go with someone. But you know these can't work. What should I do?
No insult ...

Let her go for the gbola once again

Sonofgoodness
The answer is simple: she should go there with police or with people to collect her things.

If ever you feel scared of challenging someone you fear, simply go with one or more persons. The police would also be nice as it would be a very subtle warning to her ex not to attempt any retribution now or ever.

Bullies pick on vulnerable people.