masmnd8:
1. But please I dey beg you, set realistic expectations that are reasonable. some are having some out of the world expectations and they are wondering why they are single when they have everything to get married, setting down and start a family.

2. After reaching the age of 40 , one wonder why a success man or successful woman cannot find somebody. I understand that people get married in their 40s , 50s and so forth I also get that some are enjoying a playboy lifestyle even in their 40s and 50s but some people are chronically single even while they are successful. For example, a babe who only wants to date very wealthy man because she is successful, she does not want date men who are at the same level with her or below her or a guy who only want to date models when he does not even have Dangote money.

Sweetplum:
My take. Being to picky is not good for both male and female.
Let me sit here and observe those one boxer for 3days redpillers.

Kobojunkie:
1. What makes you think there expectations are unrealistic and yours is?

You talk as if the primary goal of everyone out there is settling down to have family when reality had revealed several millions of times over that it isn't the most important goal for everyone out there to begin with and for good reason. We are all of us unique in our very makeup.

2. Not everyone considers it a priority like you do. Why not live with that reality instead?

Chronically single? What is wrong with this babe you describe choosing this chronically single life for herself? Why is it a headache for you?

Let me give you advice for you...learn to live and ley live. You don't get to get to decide for others how they live their own lives.... their life, their choice. You focus on yours!

Mryacks:
I can't lie...one of my major problem....but now my head don dey calm down

PerfectStranger:

Red pillers Dey give this one nightmare. No fear, simps still dey for you

masmnd8:
You sound angry bro. Some are actively looking for date but are single. Some did not choose the chronic single life but this is their life for now. They can learn a thing or 2.

Kobojunkie:
1. What makes you think there expectations are unrealistic and yours is?

You talk as if the primary goal of everyone out there is settling down to have family when reality had revealed several millions of times over that it isn't the most important goal for everyone out there to begin with and for good reason. We are all of us unique in our very makeup.

2. Not everyone considers it a priority like you do. Why not live with that reality instead?

Chronically single? What is wrong with this babe you describe choosing this chronically single life for herself? Why is it a headache for you?

Let me give you advice for you...learn to live and ley live. You don't get to get to decide for others how they live their own lives.... their life, their choice. You focus on yours!

NeckingNgulping:
1. And how do you know those people are genuinely happy for being single and unmarried?

2. The op aptly called it as it is.. A lot of people are so choosy and selective, waiting for Mr perfect or Mrs perfect before they can start a serious relationship, hence the reason why they stay single for a very long time.

3. You always find a way to jump on people's threads and argue against facts.

4. Life is too fvckin short to keep waiting for the one that has it all. What if you finally meet the one you want and they don't want you?

Kobojunkie:
1. The vast majority of those in marriage aren't happy let alone genuinely happy about even their lives so who are you to judge those single and unmarried by such measures?

2. Rubbish! All the OP attempted to do is impose his limited reasoning on others, much like many other ignorant folks before him have done and continue to. Individuals are allowed to wait for whatever it is they desire to - their life, their choice. Simple as that!

If you don't like it, waka pass!

3. And you lot typically to confuse the nonsense you pursue in ignorance facts, why?

4. The life dem they take wait na your own?

You finally meet the one you want and the one don't want you? What sort of silly question is that? Learn mind your own life and allow others live as they desire abeg, especially if dem no install you as relationship police for dem life.

PerfectStranger:

Red pillers Dey give this one nightmare. No fear, simps still dey for you

NeckingNgulping:
1. Listen man, i was just trying to let you know that the op has his points. You could have yours as well. Why try to counter his post?

2. There are people who can relate with his post. I mean people who are still painfully waiting for that unrealistic person before sparks will fly. He isn't talking about the ones that have chosen to stay alone for life.

Have a great day mr know-it-all!.

Sweetplum:

Are you the simp? Come here babyboy

PerfectStranger:

Baby boy kill you there . I don reach to be you sugar daddy o.

Sweetplum:

Zaddy can you pay my bills?

PerfectStranger:

Your hair is scary