crazykid:

[s]They are scared that the child's mother will come knocking on your door one day telling you she needs you back.
believe me it's so hard for them to face that particular problem.
that's why they run as fast as their legs can carry them once they learn you are a father.

it's also the other way round.
men also avoid women who already have children.[/s]

Big Shishi:

girls are the best players!, I was a real mack myself, was really bad, i'll literally let my girls speak to each other on the phone and i didn't care!
I learnt all my game from girls, girls are b**tches!!! Girls generally look harmless and innocent, your girl can be fucking right in your bedroom and you wouldn't know, she'll swear on the god of thunda and cry her eyes out to convince you. we guys give all away too easily. In my playing days, i had to play like a girl to be a good playa.
I can easily tell if a girl is trying t play me, best believe it playa!

Rhodalyn:
[i]LOVE[/i], love is the punishment, make him fall dangerously and madly in love with you and then
*dump* just dump him just like that! you know when playa's finally fall for one particular girl and they feel they're ready for a long-term relationship and you just *drop* him just like that it's like the most painful thing that's ever happened to him

anon101:
@Lotanna, i agree with you, girls are the worst players. I know a girl that sleeps with this guy **UNCLE**and the boyfriend thinks the guy is her uncle. The "uncle" comes to see the guy in his house and the guy is always like "yes sir" to the guy**uncle** this has been going on for years now , sleeping with your girl right under your nose. What can be worse than this??

Thats why it hurts us(girls) so much when we get played because we are the worst players. I have been a player too, a bad ass one for that matter but now i have changed i am growing up and i need to settle down. Its a phase everyone or most people must pass through. So leaving a man or a woman because she played you is not an excuse because you dont know if the next person you date will now play you and urs sis or bros or even your best friend. So when you get played just chill and relax, It's a phase and you will outgrow it.

Saying a man should change is rubbish no one can change for anybody until they have all the p****y they want and are satisifed. Not until after that you can have peace. Its not all guys that are players but i have done my research and i found out that the ones that aren't players are the ones we dont fall in love with and in my opinion i think they are the boring ones

kimba:
@blacknbold


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Players/Heartbreakers should not be blamed because it is natural for those who put their hand in fire to get burnt.