eyinjuege:


Have you guys resolved it now?

I spoke with my in law yesday he tried manipulating me so I can leave my daughter with them , he said over his dead body he will release her to my friend because he don't want the world to tagged them wicked for abandoning her with a stranger while he and my sister are alive and able to take care of her better. I disagree with him he told me his battery was low and nepa took light ,we were supposed to talk again this afternoon because i wanted to do video with my daughter he refused to pick up my calls.

Chidiesta:


I spoke with my in law yesday he tried manipulating me so I can leave my daughter with them , he said over his dead body he will release her to my friend because he don't want the world to tagged them wicked for abandoning her with a stranger while he and my sister are alive and able to take care of her better. I disagree with him he told me his battery was low and nepa took light ,we were supposed to talk again this afternoon because i wanted to do video with my daughter he refused to pick up my calls.

Madam just do whatever it will take to have access to your own daughter. No allow any emotional talk.

peacefulhome:


Madam just do whatever it will take to have access to your own daughter. No allow any emotional talk.

Thank you I will contact human rights tommorow

Chidiesta:


Thank you I will contact human rights tommorow

Please do ..... I'm already scared for Ur baby girl
Or if u can take them to justice court that one will even be quicker...u can get their contact online or YouTube

Chidiesta:


I spoke with my in law yesday he tried manipulating me so I can leave my daughter with them , he said over his dead body he will release her to my friend because he don't want the world to tagged them wicked for abandoning her with a stranger while he and my sister are alive and able to take care of her better. I disagree with him he told me his battery was low and nepa took light ,we were supposed to talk again this afternoon because i wanted to do video with my daughter he refused to pick up my calls.

Something is wrong somewhere. I will have to link you with a social worker in Welfare Services in Lagos State. You need to speak with your daughter even if you decide to allow her stay with them.

Chidiesta:


Thank you I will contact human rights tomymorow

And as it stands, don't even send one naira this entire September.
She's ashamed of herself cos she's aware that the wool has fallen from your eyes and that if this matter is tabled anywhere,the whole blame will be on her.

If she's buying #120k food ,it means you are literally the one feeding them,paying school fees and also clothing them cos I'm sure the parcel on the way contain clothes and all.

She and her husband overdid it seriously.

Omobithousand:



Please do ..... I'm already scared for Ur baby girl
Or if u can take them to justice court that one will even be quicker...u can get their contact online or YouTube

Thanks for the suggestion. I watched the show on YouTube I will contact them

meetme01:


Something is wrong somewhere. I will have to link you with a social worker in Welfare Services in Lagos State. You need to speak with your daughter even if you decide to allow her stay with them.

Can you please dm me their contact details thanks

Ulunne777:


And as it stands, don't even send one naira this entire September.
She's ashamed of herself cos she's aware that the wool has fallen from your eyes and that if this matter is tabled anywhere,the whole blame will be on her.

If she's buying #120k food ,it means you are literally the one feeding them,paying school fees and also clothing them cos I'm sure the parcel on the way contain clothes and all.


She and her husband overdid it seriously.

They had use me as a pawn and i will not allow them to use me again the last money I sent them was the 300k and they will not recieve anything from me again. I will not rest until my daughter leave their house and I make sure I cut her off the same way she cut our brother off for 7 years now and I will do the same thing.

Chidiesta:


They had use me as a pawn and i will not allow them to use me again the last money I sent them was the 300k and they will not recieve anything from me again. I will not rest until my daughter leave their house and I make sure I cut her off the same way she cut our brother off for 7 years now and I will do the same thing.

I hope they don't take it out on the innocent child oh. And the story of paying the school fees of their own children may not be true as it's holiday period. I know some parents pay ahead though. They just wanted more money.

faithfull18:

I hope they don't take it out on the innocent child oh. And the story of paying the school fees of their own children may not be true as it's holiday period. I know some parents pay ahead though. They just wanted more money.

I hope so too right now I am so worried about my baby girl I don't know how is she coping with my sister I just hope she will not transfer her aggression to her. They are in secondary school she said the school ask them to pay early.

Chidiesta:


They had use me as a pawn and i will not allow them to use me again the last money I sent them was the 300k and they will not recieve anything from me again. I will not rest until my daughter leave their house and I make sure I cut her off the same way she cut our brother off for 7 years now and I will do the same thing.

I searched for this topic today seeking an update and read everything you posted about your sister refusing to pick her calls and her husband trying to manipulate you. I suspect they're refusing you to have a video call with your daughter because the want to fatten her up, so she looks plump by the time they allow you to video call or when other relatives show up.

At this juncture, you should stick to your guns and take your daughter out. This is not about you anymore. It is about your daughter and her future. You will never find out how much they maltreated her until she's off their grip. How a sister can do this to her only other sister still amazes me. Please do your best to get your daughter out of there.

Chidiesta:


I hope so too right now I am so worried about my baby girl I don't know how is she coping with my sister I just hope she will not transfer her aggression to her. They are in secondary school she said the school ask them to pay early.

She's lying. Schools are still on holiday. And no school will ask you to pay early, ever. It's summer lesson period.

Shoodboi:


I searched for this topic today seeking an update and read everything you posted about your sister refusing to pick her calls and her husband trying to manipulate you. I suspect they're refusing you to have a video call with your daughter because the want to fatten her up, so she looks plump by the time they allow you to video call or when other relatives show up.

At this juncture, you should stick to your guns and take your daughter out. This is not about you anymore. It is about your daughter and her future. You will never find out how much they maltreated her until she's off their grip. How a sister can do this to her only other sister still amazes me. Please do your best to get your daughter out of there.

Thank you, I am trying my best to take her out of their house as soon as possible. My friend and her brother are on the way to the police station to report them , I will give update later.

Chidiesta:


Thank you, I am trying my best to take her out of their house as soon as possible. My friend and her brother are on the way to the police station to report them , I will give update later.

Thanks for this.

It's actually true, some one who doesn't like you will definitely hate your daughter.i suggest you do all you can to relocate her to be with you in Germany.

I have an elder brother who is married with kids but I don't trust his wife with my child someone who doesn't liked me will never like my daughter [/quote]

Ofokajeremy:
It's actually true, some one who doesn't like you will definitely hate your daughter.i suggest you do all you can to relocate her to be with you in Germany.

I have an elder brother who is married with kids but I don't trust his wife with my child someone who doesn't liked me will never like my daughter

Thank you , me too I can never allow my daughter to go and stay with my brother because his wife may do worse than my sister

Do well to feed us back and not just to abandon the thread

Chidiesta:


Thank you , me too I can never allow my daughter to go and stay with my brother because his wife may do worse than my sister

How far na, so how have u bn able to resolve the issue??

Now I'm really scared for your daughter.
Why aren't they allowing you do video calls with her?
Something is really wrong somewhere

Thank you so much everyone for your advice and support , my baby is girl is now with my friend I felt so good to see her on video call and I cry at the same time when she said she missed me so much and she want me to come and pick her up. I couldn't hold my tears I miss her so much and I pray that I get my papers very soon so I can work hard for her to join me here. I can finally sleep with my eyes closed knowing that my daughter will not suffer again in my sister house. God bless you all

Chidiesta:
Thank you so much everyone for your advice and support , my baby is girl is now with my friend I felt so good to see her on video call and I cry at the same time when she said she missed me so much and she want me to come and pick her up. I couldn't hold my tears I miss her so much and I pray that I get my papers very soon so I can work hard for her to join me here. I can finally sleep with my eyes closed knowing that my daughter will not suffer again in my sister house. God bless you all

Nawa for ur sister ooh


Hope ur girl no lean sha??

Hope she no get scars for body??

Congrats to ur and ur girl

So how did he know you want her to stay with your friend?

Chidiesta:


I spoke with my in law yesday he tried manipulating me so I can leave my daughter with them , he said over his dead body he will release her to my friend because he don't want the world to tagged them wicked for abandoning her with a stranger while he and my sister are alive and able to take care of her better. I disagree with him he told me his battery was low and nepa took light ,we were supposed to talk again this afternoon because i wanted to do video with my daughter he refused to pick up my calls.

2Radii:
Nawa for ur sister ooh


Hope ur girl no lean sha??

Hope she no get scars for body??

Congrats to ur and ur girl

Thank you , she looks fine to me she is not chubby like she used to be before but she is OK ,no scars at all apart from an open wound on her forehead she said her brother caused it while they were playing.

Gloriagee:
So how did he know you want her to stay with your friend?

I have told him I wasn't happy with them they are not helping me to progress and I wanted my daughter to go and stay with my friend

Chidiesta:
Thank you so much everyone for your advice and support , my baby is girl is now with my friend I felt so good to see her on video call and I cry at the same time when she said she missed me so much and she want me to come and pick her up. I couldn't hold my tears I miss her so much and I pray that I get my papers very soon so I can work hard for her to join me here. I can finally sleep with my eyes closed knowing that my daughter will not suffer again in my sister house. God bless you all

Heiii! Thank God!
May God continue to strengthen you both, until you're united and even after.

.

mariahAngel:


Heiii! Thank God!
May God continue to strengthen you both, until you're united and even after.

Amen thank you so much

Oh ok. I can't imagine a sister being so harsh to her own blood. I think you've made the right call and hope your friend doesn't betray you....

Chidiesta:



I have told him I wasn't happy with them they are not helping me to progress and I wanted my daughter to go and stay with my friend

Chidiesta:
Thank you so much everyone for your advice and support , my baby is girl is now with my friend I felt so good to see her on video call and I cry at the same time when she said she missed me so much and she want me to come and pick her up. I couldn't hold my tears I miss her so much and I pray that I get my papers very soon so I can work hard for her to join me here. I can finally sleep with my eyes closed knowing that my daughter will not suffer again in my sister house. God bless you all

Congratulations dear...I am so happy for you..God Almighty will never leave you and I pray you will reap the fruit of your labour..Once again congratulations

Glad to know your daughter is well and doing fine
I pray you get your papers soon so she can be with you

Gloriagee:
Oh ok. I can't imagine a sister being so harsh to her own blood. I think you've made the right call and hope your friend doesn't betray you....

Even myself sometime I ask myself if they have changed her or what, before i left nigeria she wasnt wicked like she is now , I just don't understand her new attitudes anymore. I hope so too and I pray that she will take good care of her like she promised me.